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sirjamesjnr:
If you are trying to reason your way into pressuring her into it, you are being more than invasive, you are being more than disrespectful, you are claiming her body as your own and disregarding her right to her own comfort and privacy and choice surrounding it. Back the hell off.

Don't dare emotionally blackmail anyone into anything like this against their will. What the hell does that say about you? It isn't her obligation to make sure you get less stressed about her sexuality. That's yours. I'm sure every woman has her own stresses and sadnesses that she has ways of dealing with without completely invading another person's right to themselves.

You honestly don't have an idea how st^pid and ignorant you sound.

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

I can't believe the loads of BS I just read !

They,the haters and the MIDGETONIANS are going to party all night .
Enjoy your little victory while it last.

siofra:
My father when he was young.

Post another picture.

Wetin dey sweet right now be say the guy fine pass your papa too !
If e sure for you say your papa fine reach the guy,drop him picture make we rate both of them .

siofra:
Banana island

Na plantain island,no be only banana island .

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

E sure me die say your papa no get money past most of the guys way you dey call broke guys for nairaland.
If e sure for you,drop your papa house location make we do our findings .

obembet:
May your phone fall inside water

Dextre:
How the mighty has fallen. A whole ronaldo is now being compared with salah. Can never be my GOAT

You should be more concerned that your midget is not even in the conversation,to start with.
On current form,Mo Salah is the best player in world football right now,and CR7 still giving him a run for his money at this age speaks volumes of CR7 form and longevity at the peak of world football .

Mexico09:
Cr7 fan spotted, only those who are above 30yrs will understand better...

Take that gimmick and mind games somewhere else !
They don born you when Pele they knock the round leather game ?
But then,history still remember him as a genuine football greats.
YouTube videos are all there for you to watch his greatness.
Those are the real great.
I have been watching football and engaging in football banter for a long time,and have never seen anyone claim Cassano is "one of the best during his playing days",except you.
Antonio cassano was just a football professional,nothing special.
Funny enough,you didn't even remember that there was a football player called Antonio cassano,not until he said something about CR7 .

And I ask you again,who is Antonio cassano ?

hollah123:
To all those ipob miscreants fuming in the mouth,one question they should ask themselves is

Did nnamdi kanu incited people to so those things?
If yes,is there any evidence the fg can use to nail kanu?
How will kanu defend himself beyond reasonable doubt that he wasn't d one?


It's so funny that many of nnamdi kanu supporters don't even understand what he has done n charges against him,they just keep shouting fulani.

It's crystal clear that fg has many incriminating evidence against nnamdi kanu and I learnt he wants his case to b done outside Nigeria for fair trial,even USA, UN n any international body will never b in support of arming civilians to kill security operatives n even going live on air to say it

"How will kanu defend himself beyond reasonable doubt that he wasn't d one? "

So,MNK will have to defend himself against those allegations that he's not the one ?
You're dull,no offense.
The FG will be the one to prove, beyond reasonable doubt, that MNK actually instigated those attacks because they are the one that brought the case the the law court.
The FG will have to provide substantial evidence that proves beyond reasonable doubt that MNK is guilty of those allegations.
Goodluck to them doing that.

Aufbauh:
Kai, Nnamdi Kanu is in for a long incarceration.
Even if any court free him the FG won't let him off cus he's a high profile terrorist.

This is why political and state actors from the SE don't want to meddle in even the loud mouthed Abaribe has distance himself.

The allegations against Kanu is weighty and unassailable, it's only uninformed and misguided ipobians that don't see the enormity of kanu's offence.

Is there any other charges against him we don't know about ?

hollah123:
d question u should ask yourself is tgat

Are the allegations true?

It's not actually if it's true or false ,in a law court.
It's rather if you can prove what ever charges you bring forward against the defendant is backed up with substantial evidence .
Now,the question should be,do the FG have substantial evidence to prove beyond reasonable doubt that MNK is guilty of those allegations ?

Pumpumking:
tank [b]God....charges at last....Jail the terrrrorist midget scumm & let him rot in jail please.....stand by boy friends wait on him in prison!!!!(no ofeinse)[/b]

You read the 7 count charges against me brought forward by the FG,and was disappointed,right ?
Now, you're claiming these are charges that can make one go to jail when FG got substantial evidence to prove he instigated the acclaimed attacks ? My friend,You're dull ,no offense.

Mexico09:
Antonio cassano Former Italian striker and one of the best during his days believes that Cristiano Ronaldo is not among top five footballer's who have grace the game...
Do you agree with him?
Me? I totally agree with him

Who is Antonio cassano ?

I had to Google the "one of the best during his playing days",only to be disappointed with the feedback I got.
Antonio cassano retired in 2018,and there's nothing special about him during playing career.
I know you're a midgetonian,and you intentionally added that "one of the best during his playing days" to give credibility to the news,which goes to show how low you could stoop just to discredit CR7 greatness.

Google Antonio cassano's football records ,trust me,you will very embarrassed and disappointed in yourself for putting that "one of the best during his playing days" narrative.

A player not even inthe 100000 best players to ever play the round leather game,nah him this deluded midgetonian they hype as "one of the best during his playing days".

NomzyJust:
Since yesterday I've been asking myself, "what does this person mean by midgetonians?". I just realised you're talking about the Argentine.

Yea,you got it.
That's a special word I use to describe them ( Messi's fan).

..but buhari is more concerned of being called an idiot by MNK,and unfortunately for the protesters, that's the government priority right now,and no issue of national concern will be discussed until MNK is treated inthe language he understands by the bloodsucking government.
and to some online miscreants ,MNK is their problem,as well.
MNK is the reason for the ruthless killing, kidnapping and bloodshed in North.

Good one ,by the way,keep dragging this useless government by the balls,but the painful part of it is that the government of today got no value for human life.

The guy above is about to spew another rubbish !
Just wait for it .

Modified ;

He didn't disappoint

If you think he broke Atlanta's heart alone ,then you got it wrong.
The actual people he broke their hearts is those of the midgetonians .
Those loud mouths were already dragging him by the balls before he shut them up ,really hard,with the winning goal.
They were more heartbroken that he actually scored the winning goal,not that man united won.
They,the haters and midgetonians are going to have a very looooooong night ,with gnashing of teeth.
They are hating on the wrong guy !

500000 thousand midgetonians left that man united vs Atalanta nairaland live thread after Ronaldo scored .
They were all disappointed and left with shame after spewing loads of BS in that thread after man united went 2:0 down.

The haters and the MIDGETONIANS are going to weep and gnash their teeth tonight .
The midgetonians were already planning how to attack in full force,with all the venoms you could imagine ,only for their dreams to come crashing like a pack of cards ,inthe eleventh hour.
That man u later won,is not even the reason for their severe pains, it's that Ronaldo actually scored the winning goal .
Suuuuu to all the haters and midgetonians .
You can't hate this guy!

ravensckar:
The way some of you sound sometimes, it's like one who reasons from his anus. So, because your mama na Ashawo you go break ties with her. Later in life, somebody like you go open mouth say blood is thicker than water. Tufia!

As for Janemeena's husband, he's the real niggar here; living with the reality of his choice rather than living in self-denial. After 2 weeks of this una media trial, all of una go rest and life will go on...

PS- I'm not in any way in support of her action though, but make everybody dey mind their business sometimes.

If my mum sleeps around,I will disown her !
You can go to hell,for all I care !

loliapoopy2013:
Is the woman in question, old enough to be your mum or a friend to your mum? Why compare your mother to such a character? If my child comes up and makes such stupid comparison with me and a street girl, I will disown you. It shows all the home training I gave you were in vain

What exactly are you saying ?

A generation of f ls and clout chasers !
No respect for anything whatsoever,from marriage to religion,and you keep wondering why everything gets more broken as the day goes by.
I can't even believe a man can comfortably take such a woman as wife,and the fool of a husband seems not to be bothered by this embarrassing news.
If it were my mum caught up in this whole brouhaha,I will lose every single atom of love and respect I got for her.
I will never call her "mum" ever ,again,and I will intentionally start calling her by her maiden name.

Lordofalmajiri:
Winners don't quit, quitters don't win... Good luck comrade

Person say him no do again ,you dey give am motivational quote
For football betting nah you dey drop this kinda motivational quote ?
Nah the same motivational quote make some people dey village now o,and some are on the verge of selling their papa land to stake another bet.
They no they tell person,bro .

paulolee:
na cr7 fan boys get d blog

When will you all midgetonians stop dragging CR7 into a discuss when he's not even mentioned in the conversation ?

paulolee:
cry for Wetin na?? leo de win ballon d or dis year n dts 7-5....who supposed de cry?

More tears !

paulolee:
u mean Portugal goat?? all ur goat goals dis season are all inside d box n penalties...na d new plan b dt?

Cry more !
Literally,more of your tears bro .

I actually don't rate bitter leaf soup.

BRATISLAVA:
According to you, it's only money that men are judged for. Oh, and being responsible, something men don't like, apparently.

Did you actually read what they posted on their bodies or is this the usual trivialization work of the male gender?

Sorry,I didn't get you.
Highlight whatever you're going to type ,this time around.

The funny thing about this thread is that when they are done listing whatever qualities they want in a man,men won't pick offence in whatever absurd qualities they list,even when they got no reasonable qualities about themselves.
But when men list theirs,maybe Virginity and she should be a good cook,they will all get angry and start attacking the guy,calling him all unprintable names.

Crazy world !

What negativity are they talking about ?
These gender are always playing the victim cards.
If there is any gender that's most abused,underated and undervalued , it's male.
You're not recognise as a human being ,if as a male you're not providing .
You're deem useless,if as a man, you're not living up to the societal standard of a responsible man.
A woman is not judge on such.
You're all appreciated and loved for just existing ,but you still claim victims.
You all wanted feminism, feminism you got,you still play the victim card.
This is so unreasonable.
You all claiming victims and magnalize by the men and society should be a man for a week,and have a taste of how really tough life is for an average man out there.
You will all want to remain female!
You all are bunch of spoilt brats !