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I don get work o 😁

After so much applications, a few interviews , a lot of rejection mails( even the ones I did not solicit for)

I finally got an employment offer after, less than 2 weeks here in the uk.

I am happy because I have been given an opportunity to start working in a line that I prefer to the others and close to my past work experience.

The applications, rejections and interviews, made it seem like I’ve been job hunting for almost 3 months here in the uk.

To God be the glory

Na wa 😁

Ay33swaga:
Thanks for your reply boss. I have gotten more of the info I need.
But there's something I would like to ask please, i have enough wedding pictures and only one other photo of me and my spouse. Will that be enough evidence for picture requirements?

Senior Man

Ask any related question for this thread wey I post.

Any questions at all, people go give you experienced answers

https://www.nairaland.com/7695199/living-uk-life-immigrant-part-3

Ay33swaga:
Bro I'm honestly happy for you. I have been reading post anonymously on Nairaland for years. But after going through your composition, I had to read from first to this very last page. I must say you made my reading pleasure able.
But, tbh I'm currently applying through a dependent route, I just did my tb test, I need guidelines, wish I could add you up.
The IHS fees is a bit confusing. A friend told me that the IHS is calculated and different From what was written on the UK dot org site depending on your spouse visa validations.
Please, I would love to know more. I have a few more questions but I wouldn't want to bug you right now. Thanks

whatever you find on uk dot gov is valid. That’s where I got all the info needed to apply and make payments.

The IHS is as it is on the uk dot gov. There’s a section by that even calculates your payment for you, based on your details. Use google to check “calculate ihs depenant uk visa”

Thanks for the comment. I am glad you enjoyed reading

Jlaw1:
Dear Godaloneisable,

From your writeup, I can confidently reach the conclusion that the issue you have tabled here is simply one symptom of much deeper problems in your marriage.

Your marriage appears to be suffering from a chronic lack of the following;

•trust
•love
•understanding/communication
•mutual respect
•unity
•empathy (not the same as sympathy)

Until both of you resolve these issues between yourselves, standoffs such as the one you have highlighted will remain unresolved, & may even get worse. This may in turn put your matrimony in jeopardy.

The fact that you didn't know (or she didn't tell you) how she financed this expensive relocation to the UK in the first place is another indication of previous troubles.

Because I don't want to write an epistle, I will advise you to act like a LEADER by honestly LOOKING INWARDS FIRST in admitting, acknowledging, addressing and correcting the role that you personally have played, that has led to the current state of things in the relationship. Then you can SUBSEQUENTLY reach out to your wife in good faith. Own up like a leader & apologize to her for your long-term and short-term faults/wrongs, BEFORE pointing out her own shortcomings as well (again in good faith). Also, let her know that you truly appreciate her sacrifices. Then patiently allow her explain things from her own perspective, & make sure that you genuinely LISTEN to her (so as to understand her point of view). This approach may help both of you reach a WIN/WIN solution to the issue at hand (and to other deep-rooted ones as well).

This may not be an overnight cure (because the problems are not "overnight problems" either), so a holistic, patient, effective & continuous medication/communication is what is needed for resolving these deep-seated troubles. I'm afraid to tell you that there are no short-cuts at this stage.

Your post seems to suggest that you may have already logged out of the marriage, but only bidding your time. I hope I'm wrong.

I'm sorry if I haven't been able to give you a magical & fast-track solution that you may have been expecting.

PS: Find time to take your wife out on a date. If you still truly love her, let her know by your words and actions on a regular basis. Rediscover her love language.

Cheers.

👌🏻👊🏻

nnamdiosu:
Your positivity in the midst of negative bitter people is amazing. Just ignore, you don't need to respond to them.

Or just reply them with ..

E pain you

Asin eh? I surprise sef. E come be like say village people sef Dey NL

lollybizzu:
I like the way you finish am.

Awon agbaya.

If we can survive naija, west, na child's play with God.

If you don settle, try enter Canada. I believe it's more family friendly than the UK.

I wish you all the best brother. God bless you.

Thanks for wishing me the best. Amen to the prayer

Microwhy:
I swear this part funny me die.

na as e happen

Microwhy:
I swear this part funny me die.

I am glad it did

Yoighaman:
So you voted for "Emilokan" with the plans to japa? Why are you this wicked?

No I did not

RhodaNelly:

This is so so funny. I love what you're doing, atleast it's fun reading from your adventure. Those people that aren't happy with this your story are the real problem we have with village people.

Village people no do pass like that. Thanks for the comment

Aremu01:
Almost every one experiences this shock when they travel. Mine was how smooth the road is when we journeyed the night we arrived.
I doubt if Nigeria CN ever get there. It's not a day or a years job

Asin eh? One would almost doubt Nigeria can get to this level

caandi:
im so happy for you
God keep and preserve you and your beautiful family
Remain blessed

Thank you very much

Amen to the prayers ☺️

zoedew:
Na bush boy you be!😊😇😄😃🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️Shebi na broccoli be that on top starch swallow! Just put am for mouth close eye swallow am reach London go
Vomit am!🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️

I local o. The thing no just compatible with me at all

Ladymillion:
you are just a comedian , walahi, even my kids cant stop laughing

awwww 🤗. My regards to them

Ladymillion:
hahahahah LWKMD

I am glad it made you laugh

Lexusgs430:
Bring your nairalander wife here, make she officially introduce herself to us...... 😭🤣

As home office wey you be abi? Agbaya 😁😁😁

Lexusgs430:
Enjoy this moment, whilst your Madam is paying the bills + buying food..... Your turn go soon reach......... 😜😂😁

I paid uk bills from Nigeria.

Dey play.

Even if she pays, and yes she does. She’s my wife, my friend and my helper . We support each other

65 years old Agbaya.

Go rest

Lexusgs430:
If he fails, it would not be my doing........ I no be senior man, but a humble man..... 😂

You be agbaya. It’s because I told you a hard truth that nobody was telling you, hence your pain

Agbaya, I don already succeed 😁

Rest

Lexusgs430:
Remain youtube/tiktok..... We know say you go soon begin vlog...... '' My life in the UK '' or '' Best way to japa ''......Emdee Tiamiyu own go be child's play...... 🤣😝

Agbaya 😁😁

omoyeni37:
I celebrate you op, congratulations.

thanks for celebrating

Lexusgs430:
How are we really sure, that Justwise is not a British Embassy grass ..........🤣😛

Agbaya. Make sure you go and sleep in my thread o

😁

Mr. Uk

Lexusgs430:
We would see how long, this your steam of energy would sustain you....... We have seen/watched them, come and go........

You would not be the first, nor the last....... Enjoy your one minute of perceived fame/joblessness.......

UK go humble you........ 🤣😂

Go rest. I shine bright and enjoy God’s help.

UK humble you no apply to me. My background and pursuit don already humble me. uk na soft 😁

Agbaya, oya go rest.

oloriooko:
OP you be seasoned comedian walahi
You crack me up good, BAT, Arsenal, chop rice for morning, village people etc all combined in your comedic well articulated piece
enjoy your stay, doors will open for you, the sky is wide enough for all


U never talk about right hand drive vehicles, crossing roads looking right contrary to 9ja way of croosing road

I am happy my thread has put smiles on people, including you.

Lots of cultural shocking moments. But the thread is complete 😁

zhirkovrado:
Enjoy Bro!
We are coming too.

Amen

Thank you

Lexusgs430:
You seem to love to divert or misconstrue....... Your trolling, was attributed to joblessness....... Don't twist the narrative.........

Now the truth is slowly unveiling itself........

agbaya 😁

Go rest

yommitte007:
You don't have to post all this to the world sir. I have been in the UK since a long time and the world doesn't know. Be prepared for the roughness. Warehouses jobs and stupid care jobs. Be prepared for 3 months of regret sir. You will wish u hadn't come.

For person wey do kaya for mile 12? 😁

All of us no be the same. I respect that you do not post, but we are all not same. If not, social media for quiet.

I am sure you enjoyed reading through, hence the comment.

Cheers

Kinqmaker:
9pm na everywhere still briqht like say na Afternoon dem dey

I nor understand

I miss 8pm match because I no quick notice say time don go

Emilokan1:
gmacnoms bro, I'm sincerely happy for you. I've been waiting for a day like this that I'll eventually get to write my own story too like yours. It's like you're living a dream right now. I want to live that dream too. And I speak it to reality today. God bless your beautiful family. May you succeed in leaps and bounds and may the relationship blossom above temptations and tribulations. Congratulations bro. Keep the flag flying over there. We dey come soon.

Amen, Amen, Amen.

God will do your own for you. E no hard am. I so sha you success and Goodluck in your quest