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Nigeria is deeply divided along ethnic and religious lines, we don't like each other, we insult ourselves everyday, we dehumanise and degrade each other for nefarious reasons.

But outside the shores of Nigeria, we are all treated the same way, nobody wants to know your tribe, we all carry the same image and identity out there.

This is why we should refrain from playing ethnic card every now and then, because it's not healthy.

I still remember when I posted about my tribe (igede) on this platform and how some unscrupulous Nigerians lambasted me severely.
Meanwhile I've defended Nigeria on different social media platforms from south Africans, Ghanians, Kenyans etc whenever they attack us more than any other person in Nigeria, yet some persons don't even want to hear about my tribe.

We are all responsible for our woes, be the change you want to see.

Myn44

Everybody is talking about the prospect of tinubu or Osinbajo becoming the next president of Nigeria, both men are from south west.
What about south east, the most marginalized region in Nigeria, do you think northern Nigeria will support any candidate from south east considering the animosity between them?

Our fingers are crossed for now, I'm still waiting to see where PDP will zone their ticket to, as for APC we don't need a soothsayer to tell us at this point.

This is commendable, the local government administration in so many States across Nigeria today aren't functioning

Why such Draconian law in the first place?
As a puritan I don't support premarital sexual affairs among teenagers but adults should be able to have anything consensual

Nigeria is the only country that retrogresses every year

Good, safety is paramount in everything we do, our loved ones are waiting for us at home.

This shouldn't be news

seunmsg:
Well meaning Nigerians will vote for Tinubu ahead of clowns like Atiku and Tambuwal. Only an enemy of Nigeria will want another Northerner in 2023.

did I say I want another northerner? Tinubu doesn't have democratic credentials.

Bring Osinbajo forward and I will vote for him

Nigeria under buhari led APC government is hell

And he will be rejected by well meaning Nigerians that care about the growth of this country

cherishmichael:
Ehee na, how would they be able to clean inside the deep path of their fingers after every every ??

a agree with you, there will be dirts hiding inside which isn't healthy because they will still use those nails to put food into mouth

Nonsense, all of them should resign

TemmyT002:
Her fellow ladies will say, It's her body. Nshe can do whatever she wants with it.
Why are some ladies always giving their fellow ladies terrible advice?

they are already attacking me

Pataricatering:
lol , fvcking around isn't good either but men say they are polygamous in nature. Its only when its women that you suddenly realise immorality is bad.
Go and talk to your fellow men - their immorality is what is spoiling society .

you will certainly defend her.

Happy birthday to her, on a serious note our society has changed from bad to worse, abnormal things are gradually becoming normal and it makes me sick, exposing your body to the public isn't good

Magnoliaa:
you're turning this into a gender stereotypes topic, so uncool.

Magnoliaa:
what if wife works in a corporate environment (see SocialJustice's response) and the husband is always around with kids?

you are turning this into a gender fight, not cool

Magnoliaa:
Everything I said still stands and in addition: their husbands aren't paralysed too. It's nobody's sole duty to teach children how to do chores or survive as an adult in the society.

what if husband is a busy type with work and the wife is always around with kids?

cherishmichael:
Let me not talk sha!
Is maids they must be using at their various homes, because there's no how cooking with such fingers, will even be hygienic, there's just no how, after using the toilet alone has killed everything self.
Debate finished!!

good talk.

Mercychen:
You're welcome.


Maybe you should add antibiotics to it. Go to a pharmacy and ask them to give you antibiotics for cough. Then use it with the syrup. Also make sure you're using the right syrup for the type of cough you have.

Is it dry cough?
Chesty cough or phlegmy cough. There are different syrups for all this types of cough and if you don't use the right one that tackles the particular one you're having, you'll just be wasting money.

Get well before Xmas.
Pele.

thanks so much, I will do as you said.
Do have a fruitful day

Magnoliaa:
You asked a generic question about women and assumed ALL those women are mothers.

Which one or two things? You specified cooking. Does nails make one handicapped or paralysed or brain dead? If she has a child (note I didn't even mention marriage), and she's a mature adult, how would NAILS, nitori oloun, affect the socio-bio-psychological development of her child?

Nawa ooo.

You don't know they can't cook or run everyday activities. Let such women talk and don't jump to conclusions (which is different from curiosity). Only Hintona, Palema and one other guy has shared relevant opinions here.

okay magnoliaa, I've edited the post to make it more clearer, I'm not jumping into any conclusion here either, please don't crucify me oo

Magnoliaa:
And how does a lady fixing her nails relate to teaching kids how to cook?? ?? ?? I don't get it. Where did the jump come from? From a generic question to landing about offspring

lol, my concern is that if she can't cook and wash due to long nails, how can kids learn one thing or the other from her, please don't misconstrue my story.

Mercychen:
ah.. sorry o. Hope it's not "Omicron" or what is it called?.

Just try and treat the cough. You know the weather is dry. So you won't be eating chicken legs and be coughing. .

You are healed in Jesus name.

lol, Omicron ke, back to sender oo
Thanks for your prayers dear.

I've taken some syrup already but it's just too stubborn, like you said this weather is bad

Mercychen:
My brother, Jesus loves you. Please accept him now as your personal Lord and savior..it won't cost you anything.


It's not enough. You need Jesus personally. Biko.

I too was from a very good Christian background but it got to a point I knew I needed to know Him more for myself. That was when I gave my life to him and since then, the journey has been worth the while.

The best thing to ever happen to anyone is Christ. Please taste and see that the Lord is good.



Oh, twas great! The hammattan though.
Hope you had a blissful nights rest too.

I will try mercychen, it is among my 2022 new year resolutions, I will serve God next year, but that won't change my believe in humanism though.

Your story is going to motivate me more.

Hammattan is really strong oo, sleeping alone isn't easy this time, the nature is at work.

My night was great mercy, thanks, na only cough dey disturb me.

tiger28:
One answer ...................Inferiority Complex! and pls dont mind those fake jews from the other side who held a vigil for trump on election day JUST because trump moved the US embassy to Jerusalem.......Meanwhile, the Jews in Jerusalem have SEVERALLY denied SE Jews as being bonafide Jews, funny!

they are so gullible bro

Hintona:
They do. I remember my catering boss used to fix very long, vampire style nails and she cooks expertly with them. It didn't make her food and cakes less delicious.

wow, she try sha

Mercychen:
Huh?
So you're not even a bornagain?

It is well.

born again ke

I'm from a very good Christian home, but if I tell you my story ehh you will laugh tire.

How was your night?

Frestuffng:
You are so unscrupulous. Trump is not a pussy ass nigga like biden. Biden is very weak, the weakest of all American presidents. Face your buhari here, trump isn't any president mate. Besides, buhari is a stupid cow.

you are definitely a trump minion

VaselineCrew:
Rubbish!

Trump still remains one of the best American presidents ever, that led a booming economy until the COVID collapse.

So is it Biden that is better? Someone that worsened the border crisis? Did you see how children were dropped over the border fence?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWC3LdS5Qto



Nigerians would be lucky to have a Trump as president, a “Talk and Do President”!

Meanwhile, how far with the lie about “Russian interference”, that you guys used almost throughout his administration? Now that the lie has been debunked, how silly does it make you guys feel?

I remember back then, everyday it was Russia, Russia, Russia...

keep deceiving yourself, you are irredeemable

American female rapper Cardi B comes to mind with her long nails, some people will argue that with money you can get folks that offer such services out there, but as a woman are you happy to just sit at home ignoring your duties?

As for married women, Who will teach your kids how to cook?

Former US president Donald trump made America a laughingstock and mockery among nations of the world with his unpresidential behaviour.

He fanned the flames of violence and hatred in America, US was seriously polarized under him with racial division at the peak, he excluded blacks and other minorities from his government, he refused to accept election defeat and came up with wild conspiracy theories about rigging, my first time of hearing such in America.

He orchestrated numerous crisis with his incendiary rhetoric, banned people from poor Muslim countries from entering US.
Donald trump can be likened to Adolf Hitler in all honesty and sincerity.

some credulous Nigerians worship this obnoxious and repulsive man, they hate democrats with passion, particularly Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton.

Obama was in office for eight years without a single scandal unlike trump that was impeached twice due to his nefarious behaviour, he became the first president to be impeached twice in office.
I remember during black lives protest after the killing of George Floyd and how he mishandled the situation, he ordered security agents to teargas protesters that gathered at the white house to express their displeasure and dissatisfaction about police brutality in America.
He thereafter insulted all the governors, calling them fools for allowing protest in their state and for not being forceful enough.

And when protesters drew closer to the white house, he ran to the basement, why would any good leader run away from his people? He took shelter underground

US Capitol was invaded by his supporters during the joint session of the Congress to certify biden's victory, he asked them to interrupt the lawful process that brought him to office, Thank God his vice Mike pence was there and he stood by the constitution.

Obama did some wrong things, he authorized US led NATO operation in Libya that killed Gaddafi, but he brought America out of 2008 great economic recession, and did so many great things.


Africans should stop supporting republicans because their policies and programs are very discriminatory, all they want is white America where other minorities will not be involved in government.
America missed the opportunity of having the first female president in 2016 in person of Hilary Clinton due to trump campaign of calumny and character assassination, though they have female vice President now but it wasn't easy.

All the court cases Donald trump filled after the election were either dismissed or lost, US judiciary eventually saved America from Donald trump who was hell bent on destabilising the country.

Hilary Clinton did not fill a single court case against him after 2016 election, and president Obama followed the tradition by attending his inauguration.

For the first time, America now has the first female vice President who has Asian and African background, the first defence secretary as well in person of llyod àustin

Racism and tribalism is bad, it is the reason why there's so much chaos all over the world today because some delusional people see others as subhumans and small fry.

Stop supporting racists and white supremacists because they don't care about blacks.
Democratic party has a wider vision of inclusive democracy, they don't discriminate.
We don't hear of shootings and police brutality again under this administration because Joe biden body language doesn't support such thing

In 2023 we need a cosmopolitan and detribalised leader in Nigeria that will unite the country as well, so far buhari's body language has emboldened and empowered Fulani herdsmen, they kill with impunity.
This government is treating bandits with kids gloves and at the same time using the military in South East against IPOB and other groups.

Don't support bad leader because of his race, tribe and religion because history and posterity will remember us all for our deeds.
Thanks for reading my post, I hope it changes you.

Mercychen:
No need to be scared. Just make sure you court whoever it is with serious prayers, telling the holy Spirit to guide you that anyone that will not give you peace, let him scatter it.

Marriage ehn.. it takes the grace of God to find what you really want.

exactly mercy, but I don't know if God will hear/answer my prayers because I hardly go to church.