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Mumin247:
Pls help guys n girls, i dont know what
to do. There's this my female
colleague at work. I like her so much.
I think she likes me too. She touches
me, play with me, starts
conversations wit me most tym, tell me things about herself, stares and
hold her gaze at me. Smiles at me.
We've kissed and hug before. Then i
told her how i feel. That i like her and
wana date her. She didnt say
anything. Then i kissed her. But then again she told me she has a bf and
she hates me. But each time i decide
to stay away from her she will started
coming to me. She wil want to talk to
me. She even calls me to keep her
company. Am confused. What can i do?

If you value your job and have a strong work ethic, don't date a co-worker. As soon as you start, you lose focus at work and your productivity will be abysmal which will eventually put you in a black book.

My piece of advice

Amarabae:
What exactly is difficult in being a man?
So being a woman is easy?
Are you serious?
How can being a man not easy in a man's world?
Maybe there is something I don't know about in that statemen
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"TO BE A MAN IS NOT EASY!
what does that statement mean?
Let's discuss and learn .
this is not a gender war thread, we are here to learn

Amara you are sounding more feminist these days.
To be a man isn't really easy.

Can a lady go hungry for complete whole day knowing nobody is ready to lend you a thousand naira? Not possible except the lady has no male friend who has a 1000 naira.

That's a simple example above

sty1es:
Thanks so much for this. I got alerted when I read somewhere that the whiter the semen, the more sperm it contains. And that if it's clear(evidence of excessive masturbation or sex), it means low sperm count so I got scared oh. I appreciate.

You are good to go.

Maintain your celibacy before you brain gets rewired to seek for erotic pleasure like most of us.

One thing most peeps failed to realize is that human brain is naturally conditioned to yearn for three things: Safety, Food and Sex.

Safety: I you are passing a scene of accident, your brain would automatically or involuntarily look towards there to ensure it is safe. Same reason we become so agitated whenever we sense danger ahead.

Food: This needs no explanation.

Sex: The night emission explains it well. Your brain unconsciously brings up image of beautiful woman's unclothedness and sometimes make you feel thrusting sensation so that you release the sexual tension.

These are purely natural and can't be helped.

Bro, you are normal. I have heard night emission several times, masturbated thousand times and had sex hundred times.

During night emission, the sperm is not semen but translucent fluid. What you released at that moment is very healthy if it's gummy thereafter.

The difference I have noticed between sperm (emitted involuntary while sleeping) and sperm emitted voluntarily is in the texture and colour.

Yoshy:
It's called wasting your seed, as much as I hate to tell you this, masturbation is more dangerous than fornicating with a trusted partner (why not marry her though)

Same reason the second child of Judah was killed in Genesis (wasting your seed).

So it's dangerous, physically, phycologically and emotionally.

Jeez your analogy is so dumb.

So are you saying sex is better than masturbation?

@OP, i will have a good rethink after I must have given the guy feigning to be a woman a strong punch that he becomes smeared in his own blood.

I will definitely have a rethink.

Tajbol4splend:
Naso you hate woman reach

I dont hate women cuz I have sisters and mother. Those are the only special women in my life.

When it comes to a gf, they are as worthy as two sticks of cigarettes cuz they are very ungrateful. Even my dog is more valuable

Career - first
Car- second
Dog- third
Gf- last.

These priorities being in alphabetical order also show its authenticity. If not for reproductivity, gf wouldn't make the list.

You are only seeking traffic to your blog. Not going. Nobody should waste his data on this nonsense

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ModestGal:
And to the guys always saying no good female anymore, my mother is 100% selfless and non greedy,I am as well. My point is that,what determine greediness or selflessness is not gender but upbringing,its as well genetic but it can be treated. All these problems are simple mental health problems. Its not normal for someone to be selfish or greedy.
Selfish people hardly recognize they are,so it takes someone to always do self examination to detect whether one has these or not. And also the ability to wish to change for the better, once in a while let's do self check, examination, ask people about our behaviour to be able to know where we need to amend in our doings

Babe are you saying you have never cheated on ur bf before?

mibrims:
ur whatsapp number pls

Send SMS to this number anytime you are with her. I'll reply you on what to do.

mibrims:
gamed! I’m highly interested pls

Next time you meet with her, gain access to her phone and I will till you code to dial.

mibrims:
Well said!! My problems ar not even this little monies I mentioned.. but it pains to cross an ocean for pple hu can’t cross a gutter for you. Well I av got the msg she passed across... do i go baq to my Bleep boi life style?? I’m 27 and planning to settle down after service with her then travel out together.. she’s faithful I think buh very selfish. Must a woman have a problem?

Let's place a bet of 20k. If your gf is faithful, I will gladly send you 20k and if she is not, you will give me 20k.

All it takes is cloning her WhatsApp messenger and we both we also get all the messages she receives. One week is enough to find out.

We are of the same age but I'm far wiser than you when it comes to women

mibrims:
she wanted to send 4K, then she noticed dat she don F*ck up den angrily snt 8k... then complaining dat she’s broke.. I jejely sent her back 5k.... my 3k dat i borrowed her is enough for me.. though won’t solve my problems buh I have got the msg she was trying to pass across

Break up with her bro

mibrims:
Bro u needed the see the heated argument i had with my elder Bro on my spendings on this bae, sent her money to buy things for camp, sent her money while she was inside camp, sent her money wen she got outta camp, pay half of her rent. Evry month i pay despite Dat she receives alawee and does whatever god knows with it.. to imagine dat my mom and siblings are still struggling sef... pls comma smash my head for REAL beeko

Bro you are a nice guy. Emotions is just a hormonal thing. Next time you have hormonal rush for a lady, place reason above feelings. I was like you before but I have realized no one in this life can love me like my mom.

Any pure feeling or energy that would have been exhausted on these ungrateful women goes to my mom. She needs those love before she leaves this earth.

Whenever I needed to have sex with a lady, I detach emotion from it. No girl visits my house. It's strictly a hotel business.

I have never experienced a peaceful life as I am doing now.

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mibrims:
I’m angry right now, my story is long yet I didn’t even mention dat i sub 1k for her evry month plus stipend for hair and upkeep. In the past I sent money to her younger brothers, and her gfs.. so many more..... M jst confused AF

All because of that small hole? Only a fool spends on a girl instead of investing such...



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olarwhumy6:
This is ADR, mostly to settle d case amicably.

Hahahaaha...let me see where blackface will get money to pay the arbitration panel. That's why he's crying out. He could reject the summon sha and face the real court

Sharp Objects is one of the most boring and awkward show I have seen in the recent time. Nobody should download that shit

You are HIV positive and your wife who is HIV negative agreed to marry you despite your health condition. Now you are thinking of having a child with another woman for fear your health may deteriorate anytime.

Have you considered whether the ARV drugs have a side effect that affect procreation chances?

Have you considered you might have infected your wife if your viral load happens to increase yet she sacrifice everything to be with you?

Have you considered there are millions children in orphanage homes looking for a man to call daddy?

Have you considered the possibility of adopting a child or children?

Have you asked yourself what becomes of my soul when I drop this earthly coat called body?


My dear, make peace with yourself. Live in the love of your loved ones and take good care of your health. The last thing you would want at this stage of your journey is leaving a bad impression in the mind of your loved ones incase the inevitable happens.

Now to rekindle your hope, with God nothing is impossible. You may have had that cliche several times but it's real.

You may have tried many spiritual places to get healed of HIV but to no avail. I would like you to visit The Lord's Chosen Church at Ijesha Lagos for a prayer.

I am not a member of the church but my brother being a medical doctor has diagnosed and confirmed someone who was HIV+ to be HIV- after receiving prayer from the church

Nofav0rs:
So why is this a problem? Bro, you see ehn, I'm traveling tomorrow and I'll be going food shopping. I shop my food, I cook my food and eat my food. I 'hardly' do fast food or restaurants because I like my real food

That's why I'm wondering how this is even a problem

Have you ever wondered whether you are supposed to be in the local market at a certain age instead of your wife?

OfficialDad:
Go and die. Let me be the first to cry for you , I'm only crying because their won't be rice at the funeral. Poor man.

Hahahaha...I see a frustrated and suicidal pig here

OfficialDad:
Because you don't have any question poor peasant.


Thunder kee anybody that would comments below me, such topics should be neglected

Lol..I may agree I am a poor peasant but I bet you were not born laced with gold and silver at conception.

Why am I replying to this dunce that lacks simple reasoning

Nofav0rs:
Let's say he doesn't have any problem lol

I have problem more than everyone on nairaland but the joy of life is living in the present because at the end, we all leave this shithole to a better place beyond

Even monkeys are claiming fine boys these days...

The above posters have no answer to my question.

Before now, i used to patronize street vendors in buying food stuff to prepare my food and sometimes satisfy myself in a nearby restaurant. As I entered market to buy foodstuff to prepare soup this afternoon, I was startled at the manner women and girls were staring at me as if I was not supposed to be in the local market.

I ended up buying things very costly than I should.

Please single guys in the room, how do you buy foodstuff in the local market to prepare your dish?

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