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This one threebear have decided not give eviction predictions with her full chest this week and people are not posting polls results from Twitter.


Nawa ooooo

JuicyStar:
See baba I no fit shout, e be like say them never born u during pepper them season. In that season, Mercy secured immunity into the final week after she borrowed some coins from Ike.

She didn't borrow......she manipulated Ike into them combining coins to buy her Immunity.

Ike gave her is coins which was the highest then willingly.

carammel:
My brother nothing concern me with you believing or not, I don’t know you and may never know you . I have nothing to prove to you.
I only answered you based on how calmly you asked initially.

It’s however unfortunate that some of you do not know there are people who are well brought up, there are people who have self-control, physical restraints and above all too big to behave in a certain type of way😁😁.
You believe people living their normal life is not real.
E go be egbon or aburo.

Given a Slap/spanking younger ones who insult you has nothing to do with good upbringing or not.

Where I come from you can't Insult your older one and if you do they have the right to discipline you.

I hate holier than thought attitudes.

No matter what at some point growing up your younger one would have insulted you and trust me you would have slapped/spank them.

Maybe you have forgotten sha.

carammel:
No, I have never.
If someone insults me no matter how young, my instinct will not be to hit the person, I would rather insult you or walk away reserving my dignity.
However, if you hit me first, be sure to get a double.

I can only believe if you didn't grow up with younger siblings but if you did my dear the lies Is for the birds.

thatigboman:
ike's immunity is different. This one is ticket to finale

It was the same Immunity to finale during pepper dem.

Omashola nearly killed Ike that year...........lol.

carammel:
It’s good that you ask and I will answer.
I am naturally a calm person and for me to get provoked, the person must have gone too far and even at this, my mouth would rather come to play, I can be very mad with my mouth but most times, I don’t let issues get to that.

I see people who go physical as touts who lack class and self-control and for most times with my carriage, it is very hard to be in a situation where I would get physical with anyone at all heck I even avoid any form of exchange of words.
How in the world would my younger ones resort to abusing me verbally, what gangan will lead to that, now let’s assume, they do so, why would I go physical with them? Ahan, am I mad? Agba ma se bi Agba ni, ti omode ba nsiwin.

The only time I got physical with someone in my life was a boy back in my SS1, he slapped me and I returned the favor he was so embarrassed that a girl slapped him back and he rushed to beat me, I beat the shege out of him then and gave him a wound, we both faces disciplinary committee.

Right now, with my level and class, there is absolutely nothing anyone can say to me that would make me react violently, my posts here should give you an insight.

So you are telling me you have never in your entirely life hit anyone younger than you for insulting you.

Waoooooo............I reserve my comment.

Amillionnn:
But Adekunle and Venita have a lot of money why can’t they buy HoH

No one wan make Ike mistake again oooooo.

baye just killed cross 9times.....damn

Nhazeru:
Chai!!!

Venita bought dinner date for herself and her wife Kuku!!

Na waoo

In my world na man dey take woman out for first dinner date not the other way round

We said it!! Venita is the man Kuku is the wife

Look for any strong pillar around to smash your head against in celebration of being right.......✌

carammel:
You are right, verbal abuse is bad and can mess with one’s mental health but NO, going physical in retaliation is not the best means to resolve such issue.

Match energy for energy, if they insult your father, insult their own grandfather.

Picture it this way, if you are faced with someone that you know deep in your mind would beat you blue black if you try getting close to them, would you still fight them physically simply because they abuse you verbally?

Please I have two honest question for you and I really wish you can answer sincerely.

If a younger sibling insults you constantly/verbally abuse you unprovoked do you exchange insult with him/her.

Have you never in your life hit someone younger than you for verbally insulting you??

Please answer honestly.

ItisHi:
reasonable people knows what's at stake when they exhibit physical abuse on a national TV. Fools think otherwise!

Mor ons always forget......it is easier said than done.

Until they find themselves in same situation and do worst.

Titaniumental:
LMAO

Aside those three Gold coins
Pere was on 5 weeks arena games winning streak,I don't those wins were for nothing

Yea. .....in was lucky with moniepoint arena game



Pere really Bleep up this season..........he laughed too much with ladies and that why he is experiencing all the BS.

I understand him trying to act different from SYE but in life men no suppose they shine teeth too much with women.......nah see finish e dey cause.

ItisHi:
only animals attack people because of one or two insults hurled at them. You insult me I insult back, you provoke me I provoke back, you deck me I deck back. Simple sturvs.

Only a nincompoop will expect everyone to always walk away from someone who constantly goaded them.

It will difficult for HM to pull the 4k MPC.

Soma,angel,baye,mercy are already out of the equation.

ItisHi:
Yea. Keep walking away for your own good. Walking away never harms anyone.

That what foolish and weaklings do.

Kindly direct the advice to such people......thanks.

4k much ooooo


I don't think any HM has 4k MPC.......two people have to combine oooo

ItisHi:
you can walk away from verbal abuse and not from physical abuse. They can't be treated as same oga!

How many times have pere walked away from Alex verbal abuse for the past 5weeks

The aggressor should keep verbally abusing while the victims should keep walking away......👏👏.

After pere 11 gold coins

Adekunle has 8 gold coins.

Venita has 7 gold coins.


Ike actually help pere that night by selling the game Master to him.....pere got 3 gold coin that night

carammel:
I’m not sure you know how to read properly, that isn’t my fault in anyway though.

I have condemned Alex severally, I don’t like and might never like her, the same way I condemned Doyin for her chochochocho.
What else do you need to see oga Ade?
Stop supporting battery, stop it.

I will never support physical assault..........but in a situation like this........ pere flinging her off the bed is justified for me.

She dared him once again and he responded cos he isn't a weakling.

In this case both physical abuse and verbal abuse should be treated same by biggie.....that my take.

Titaniumental:
Don't mind that fool
Whr was that stupid energy from her when Mamba physically abused a Man some weeks ago,lol

Hypocritical critins

The intention behind verbal abuse is to hurt the person directed towards and intention behind physical abuse is the same.

For me at this point non lesser than the other.....both should be treated same way for equity.

carammel:
Many of those defending Pete now know better and they know the right thing but the bbn stanship turns us all to hypocrites.
When Alex slapped Ike, I advocated for a stern punishment for her cos she went physical.
It shouldn’t matter which gender is guilty, we should be able to condemn a behaviour as gross as physical abuse.

Condemn a behavior as gross as verbal abuse aswell.


It is far worst than physical abuse.

carammel:
This is self-defence and no one will blame you for defending yourself.

If that girl had abused you with only her mouth, it would not be enough ground to push her off the staircase during break time.

Why does she have to abuse him with her mouth first


Hypocrite.

carammel:
..and deep within your mind, being sincere to yourself, the next thing is to beat up the person?
There are many ways to resolve disputes, everything shouldn’t be about punches.

Did he punch her Any woman who threaten a man to is face to slap him is ready for a physical fight.

Everything should be about verbally abusing someone during disputes......lol

You want me to condemn physical abuse while seeing verbal abuse as lesser evil......Never.

carammel:
Lol, you need to pick a struggle mr man.
The same you has always excused Venita when she provokes Ade and a strong advocate of women will always be women and as a man you should be ready to be patient with her and tolerate her, Biko, what changed?


Go through my post well, I never support a woman going physical, I am an advocate of tit for tat.
If a woman gives it to you verbally, give it back to her verbally and if she makes the first hit physically, deck her right back, finito.

Do not return verbal abuse with physical abuse, In the sight of the law, the punishment for verbal abuse is not as serious as that of physical abuse(battery), no one even remembers the physically abused party provoked first.

This is still the same reason, a man who acted on impulse by killing another man he meets in bed with his wife is still considered to be a murderer even though he acted out of provocation.

I just read your first paragraph and your point is baseless.

Am an advocate of people watching with brain and not emotions.

How does Adekunle and venita misunderstandings the same with Alex and pere goading??

Am very sure i advocated for men to be patience when disrespect happens.........which is totally different from someone constantly insulting you

Since you dont know the difference between disrespect and verbal insults/provocation.....I didn't bother reading the rest of your movie script.

Ciao

TheEnforcer:
You meant to write "goaded"

Corrected....thanks

Lauryn41:
Y’all should stop pardoning women and start calling them out on their BS

That’s all I’m saying

Now that the issh with most men..........let me give up a clear scenario.

Do you know how it feels for a man to report his wife physically abuse me.

No one is a saint here honestly........I just feel women get away with lot of things.

Didn't biggie see Alex assault on Ike.......what did they do
No one cares jare.......even your fellow man no care.

In every fight and confrontation between both gender the man is first assume guilty.

carammel:
You mean Doyin has also been goading him for 6weeks to warrant hitting the wall leaving a hole in her stead.

No matter how much you think someone has provoked you, there’s still virtue in patience, a wrong move might be what he’d live to regret all his life.

This is not an issue of gender, managing your anger will help you a great deal in life.

Am sure you don't watch the show ......even biggie had to give doyin a strike.

When issues happens and you insults someone let it end there don't bring it up the next day again.

Only witches talks about the same thing over and over again.......doyin intentionally wanted a response to continue with the insults the next day.


When someone is obviously avoiding you and you actually continue to poke them........then you deserve whatever you get.

Lauryn41:
This is why I keep telling you to stop making excuses for Venita and saying “it’s how women act ‘“

Everyone must learn to be held accountable for their own actions

No I disagree........for me most of you women are the same.

Let use BBN 8 season as a case study.

How many male HM has goaded fellow female HM

How many female HM has goaded fellow male HM

How many male HM has goaded fellow male HM

How many female HM has goaded fellow female HM


We all know the answer.

carammel:
I don’t understand how you’d see the truth and would rather turn is to gender crisis.

Pere has physical abuse tendency, the day he hit the table cos he was angry at Adekunle, was he provoked constantly before that day by his fellow man?, was he under the influence of alcohol?
As much as provocation is bad, we should not excuse a physically abusive man behaviour simply because he was provoked.

For me once again pere should have flung her off the roof.........am very sure if HM knows you can actually get a strike for goading Alex won't try intimidating pere midnight.

Na mumu man una like..........na your type go tell man make he no retaliate if any woman slap him.

Verbal abuse is even worst than physical abuse.

Sanqa:
By provocation right? Then you should not blame Alex.

Who is Alex conspiring with to get pere disqualified

Tatiana4u:
If you think that Pere would thrive like Tacha,Erica and Beauty if he gets disqualified,then you need to think again!
Pere is not girl that can use her beauty to get ahead…neither is he a spring chicken like kemen who rose from that disgusting tag and became a huge success in the fitness industry!
Pere is in his early 40s and if he gets disqualified,he might never recover from the shame and stigma cos that tag will haunt him for life!
People haven’t forgotten how he conspired to disqualify his fellow housemates,turned against his so called daughter and plotted against her,how he almost punched Doyin which made most of his fans to dump him,so imagine how disqualification would affect him.

How is conspiring to get a HM disqualify a bad thing?

Didn't biggie permit them to conspire

Manfromlasvegas:
Well I feel provocation is subjective. What would annoy or provoke you might not annoy or provoke me. But physical assault can be objectively determined. The moment you slap me, there is a clear boundary that has been trespassed. This is especially so in big brother's house. Pere went physical and he would be lucky to escape a double strike and outright disqualification.

So constantly provoking/verbally abusing someone is subjective too aswell and doesn't show trespass of boundaries??

Like I always say.....it is the double standard for me.


Am very sure if this same senerio was flipped the guy will still be blamed.