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Kim explaining herself to cross......baba dan vex.

ColdHunter:
You're deflecting.

My argument with you is based on the comment that Mercy won based on her bum. Meaning that the timeline is based on her PD season.

Definitely she isnt giving much now but that too is understandable. Even Ceec isnt barking like a mad dog anymore. Alex isnt dancing like a possessed sheep anymore. Angel isnt fingering herself anymore.

So.

Why was she called mercy lambo?? For me the answer was why she won.

Her bum was more discussed during her season than her IQ.

Kim.........nah double money you suppose collect for biggie hand.

Have to satisfy two niggas.............nawa ooo

Angel is tipsy again........person wey dey form sick all week.

Mercy just kiss pere oooooo

Nawa ooo

No man.....CeeC and baye rocking themselves

Lmaoooo

ColdHunter:
In fairness, it's ok to not like her, I also didn't like Mike as I thought he was inarticulate and dull.

But, while you may not like someone, that doesnt warrant you discrediting them or their achievements.

Discredit her how??

I stand by my words........I will pick Mike over her a billion times.

Are we not watching her again now..........nobody to ship with?? What next ........delawood

ColdHunter:
You're capping Sir. In a monumental proportion too for you to say Mercy women cause of her bum.

Mercy was an extremely interesting character and her major selling point was her charming and endearing personality. She also had this innocence around her, same with Ike.

I recall the day Mercy was declared winner, you'd think Nigeria just scored the winning goal in a world cup final. That was how she was celebrated in my street, despite it being an affluent area.

Also, her ship with Ike set an almost impossible to attain standard of a BB relationship. It was all shades of adorable.

Mercy was my fave 5 years ago, and since then I've had 4 other faves across subsequent season, yet she is the only HM I still have a strong affection for.

Y'all should learn to give this lady her flowers.

Anyway......everyone can say same thing for there fav on the show even if they don't win.

Am entitled to my opinion.......I will pick Mike over her 1million times

Am attracted to intelligent people.......that what is interesting to me.

We can agree to disagree.

(Like she wasn't call mercy lambo cos of the fake bum) lol

Altrarecords:
I like when random nobodies online act like they know shit about anything

I hate to break it to you but the world does not revolve around your delusional sense of quality taste

Mercy in Pepperdem was almost universally agreed to be one of if not the most interesting characters in THE BEST SEASON of bbn ever and generally considered a DESERVING WINNER

The fact she's the most followed bbn housemate ever also proves this

If you don't like her it's fine but don't start posting brain dead shit

Since you are a Dimwit who can't drop your comment without being a scumbag.

I have noticed your moniker and can never engage you again......I don't engage mannerless swine

Edu93:
Was it a planned move amongst the guys?

Not really........they just don't want any lady insulting them.

Base on pere incident with doyin......they feel no more Shining of teeth anyhow to avoid see finish.

aremubabs:
Relationship is not a do-or-die affair. You can change it as many times as possible.


I am married now, and my wife and I share a very healthy relationship. Of course, fighting and quarrelling is allowed. But no insult. No disrespect. No raising of voices. Once I am the wrong party, I admit. When she is in the wrong, she admits. We respect each other. We don't talk down or belittle each other by scolding each other like scolding a dumb fellow.




When you start stomaching insult, you are becoming helpless and your self esteem is dying.



I said it here once that I could see helplessness in Adekunle because I had been there at a time in my life. Coincidentally, the girl was biracial too. At a point, I began to even believe her that I was useless without her. She would gaslight me into believing that I was overreacting when I demanded to be addressed with the same respect that I addressed her with.




The fact is that Venita has very little control over her tongue. And if you allow her the liberty, you would never be happy with her. It would get to a stage that you would begin to rationalize the insult sef. It is at that point that you would start saying to yourself after every insult, "I have to be mature. Insult is a part of relationship".




My brother, insult does not have a place in a healthy relationship. Don't let anyone tell you abuse is a normal thing in a relationship. It is a red flag.




I tell it to my sister as well. There are some subtle abuse that if you don't address would make you end up in an abusive marriage. It is not until a man raises his hand to you before you start thinking straight. If your spouse uses words like " fool, idiot..." during an argument, that is not someone you want to be with.

For the last time .....am only talking about disrespect.

I think you don't know there is a difference between disrespecting your partner and insulting your partner.

I know you don't watch the show.........try go look for the video of what happened between venita and Adekunle so you can be cleared.

You have to stomach disrespect once in awhile is totally different from you have stomach insults once in awhile.

Goodnight bro.

Ilebaye, alex,doyin,CeeC dey suffer for that house.

Now I understand Alex rant this afternoon about ship in that house.

The oppression no be here.........no guy to play with.

chukwugoziegi:
Deks mentioned this earlier. He said the party will be tensed.

Yea......he told pere.

Yansh just dey waste.......no rocking except couples.

Altrarecords:
Mercy won cos of yansh?

Cmon man you can't be serious, it's obvious you never watched Pepperdem

Why do you think she's one of the most loved winners?

She earned her win and was genuinely one of the most interesting characters in bbn history

The fact she's not giving this season dosent mean she wasn't great in Pepperdem

Mercy most interesting character??

This the mediocrity am talking about.........tell me the things that made mercy interesting apart from insulting the guys(especially Omashola) and her ship with ike.

This guys are avoiding dancing with the ladies.

Operation avoid there sharp mouth.

Geezeem:
Your shalaye don full basket sha... sis Kunle would be so proud of you

Ehya ......do you need pain relief.

carammel:
No matter how tired he is, this is a night to unwind, relax and enjoy himself.
He’s allowing Venita get to him.

If Adekunle doesn't brush his teeth at this point nah venita fault.

Did Adekunle really party during LU??

No be everytime person dey mood to party.

davodyguy:
I was at the mall today and heard the staff shouting 'dem Ilebaye people'

I realized the bandwagon straight up.

They could not pin point anything in particular that she brings.

When will Biggie allow smart and intelligent people win the show rather than some other factors?..

Phyna shout so tey last year she win

Mercy kept shouting 'kween' of 'halight' in 2019 till she won. Where's the highlight this season?

Like Wike says: if it didn't dey, it didn't dey

That what piss me about the show.........rubbish bandwagon win most times.

Nigerians celebrate mediocrity alot
mercy won cos of fake bum bum

Phyna won with shouting

Efe won with poverty strategy.

Only two intelligent guys have won......miracle and laycon.

carammel:
Adekunle is not in a good mood, his body language is off..

He is tired actually.

He really stressed himself today......he complained about it to pere after the task.

He also said he is feeling tired from the doing the show back to back.......he feels the LU HM in the house didn't really rest cos they just finished shooting reunion.

chukwugoziegi:
Na craze dey worrrry am.

We go soon burst bottle for hin head......kobo hin no go collect.

Giel:
I don't even understand today's dj

He is changing the songs too fast.

aremubabs:
We are talking about a relationship, not a random woman.




If you are in a relationship with me, you can't be disrespecting me and expect me to stay in that toxic relationship.

Well you go change relationship tire then......I was once like you nah so I can relate.

When you live under the same roof for 6month to 1yr with your lover.....you go learn how to stomach disrespect once in awhile and patience.

The only dance step mercy has to shake that ugly bum bum looking at the mirror.

aremubabs:
Advise your children (if you have any) never to stomach abuse/disrespect.




God, we have a long way to go in Nigeria if you think one should be able to stomach disrespect to stay in a relationship.




Disrespect is a red flag, especially if the disrespectful partner is unwilling to change.




There is nothing healthy or mature about stomaching disrespect.




I mean, where I teach, we are not even allowed to talk down on children. Respect is a core part of a healthy relationship. Disrespect, on the hand, is a sign of an unhealthy relationship.

I guess were you work no lady have disrespected you before right?? If a lady have disrespect you kindly tell me what you did since you didn't stomach it.

Don't expect much from Bad boy deks tonight.

He is tired and not drinking tonight.

The party tonight might not be really lite sha.

This HMs will likely be late for the party tonight again.
I don't understand the obsession with makeup for ladies.

Are we going to see different people at the party....nawa ooo

aremubabs:
There is nothing normal about a grown ass woman running her mouth.




Stop enabling bad behavior in women.





I mean I hear it even from pastors claiming to be marriage counsellors. You will claim the podium and tell men that a woman's power is in her tongue, and therefore men should tolerate verbal abuse from their women. Then, you tell men to always walk away.




No! A woman who runs her mouth is not yet an adult. If you cannot trash issues without running your mouth, then you have no business being in a relationship.

If that how you interpret it no wammm.

But trust me......if you cant stomach disrespect just stay away for relationship/marriage.

Allnacruise:
Asides the charade game they played first...which team Arla had the best finishing time

What other task did they do?

Cooking
presentation of the meal along with a pageant.

Adekunle team wins again.

Congrat team Arla

Am shocked oooo

chukwugoziegi:
Anything wey concern lovers, I no dey shook mouth. She no good, he no good, okay! I hear. But I go face front, mind my business

See the two of them being chummy in the kitchen now.

I tire oooooo.

Anyway I was once like them sha with that mindset........after I lived with a woman for about a 1yr my mindset change totally.

Omo is a whole lot seeing someone everyday and sharing the same place..........at some point una go just dey fight over stupid things.

Any man who can't stomach disrespect once in awhile shouldn't bother going into a serious relationship/marriage.

fitzmayowa:
I ask again is Venita's behaviour an acceptable behaviour Rather than answer the question you are throwing tantrums, if you have studied Venita and Deks relationship you won't talk about once in a while...


Toxicity in a relationship is not anything close to normal, if you see people going through what Deks is going through you should advice them to run and not think it's normal.....

Toxicity.........are you mistaking it for somgel??

FYI they are both smiling and playing now.

So stop with the false agenda of toxicity.

Geezeem:
How does it feel speaking from two corners of your mouths?

I just couldn't be bothered, otherwise I for dig outbyour posts on "men, women and respect" before today

Your problem is simple my dear.
You don't no disrespecting your partner is totally different from insulting your partner.

No be everything we go turn banter.......let be serious atimes.