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solasoulmusic:
I dont know how religious you are but the truth is God is the master controller and even when we as humans lose it and allow anger to bring the worst out of us he forgives us so why should you hurt another

People don't realize anger is a deadly emotion with no limit but God has a way of sending you a true partner who will learn to be the opposite of your temperament. Who says you will not fight who says she wont get angry but a true man knows how to show his power without raising his hand

aameyah:
Bulldog? Thats cool.
I can see I hit a raw spot. Next time you will think well before opening your wide mouth. You son of an ekuke mongrel.

aameyah:
So in essence, women are dogs, right?
Tell, what breed is your mother?

aameyah:
So in essence, women are dogs, right?
Tell, what breed is your mother?

Bibors:
And Angry wife = Contentious Woman.
Restraining her is like grabbing oil with your hands or catching the wind.
Better to live on the corner of a roof top that with an angry/ contentious woman.
Better to live in the desert that to live with an angry woman.

OP. Keep admitting you are wrong and see yourself become less of a man someday. She will still look you in the eye and say you ain't man enough.
Look at Genesis. It's either they submit or you rule over them.
Some will argue that this is a narcissistic view but study and experience will teach you better.

Benita27:


You better refrain from beating your woman cos is obvious you do...beating a woman doesn't make you more of a man.

TonyeBarcanista:
Baba wetin happen na?

nairalanddss:
If you had an argument with your wife the night before, chances are you would have forgotten it by the time your head hits the pillow. But not your wife. You might think you won the argument, but she will be getting ready to wage war. Men are rational creatures, using logic to solve all their problems, but there is no place for logic when you are dealing with an angry woman. And pretending to be invisible will only fuel her rage further. She is like a ticking bomb, waiting to blow up.Here are some tips to cool an angry wife.

ways To Cool An Angry Wife are:

1.Listen Closely:You might think you are arguing about something trivial like coming home late , but the argument might be about something entirely different. She might be fighting with you for something you did weeks, months or even years ago. And if you try to brush it off as insignificant, you will be in for trouble. So try to understand what the argument is really about and act accordingly.

2.Admit you were Wrong:Most important way to cool and impress an angry wife is to admit that you were wrong. It is irrelevant whether or not you believe you were wrong. And make sure it is not done in a condescending manner. That will just make things worse. As long as you convince her that you were wrong in your ways, and agree with her, you are safe. Until the next argument.

3.The Right Response:Sometimes women argue just for the sake of it. Make sure her anger does not ignite yours. Refrain from turning the issue into a debate or ridiculing her argument. If you leave in the middle of the argument, shut her out or pretend everything is fine, that will aggravate her anger even more. But if you buy her flowers, take her out or plan a fancy vacation, she will be like putty in your hands. The right response can leave spitting like a wildcat or her purring like a kitten.

4.No Logic:Refrain from using logic to win the argument with your angry wife. She will not buy it. And if you call attention to how illogical her arguments are, you will definitely end up sleeping on the couch. Instead of using logic, try to justify your actions by saying they were motivated by your love for her. She will cool down in no time and you will get extra brownie points.

These are the ways to cool an angry wife.


http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/cool-ways-to-cool-angry-wife.html

Teague4league:
I'm sorry but I have to say you are not logical, were you born today? You seem to know nothing about terrorism. Terrorism doesn't care what religion or which God you worship. They do whatever to gain attention and to be feared and they pick names in a way to get people like you to keep hating . The have a purpose only them understand .The USA is supporting the Islamic rebels they once battled ,Bokoharam case was an avenue which has been boycotted long ago by people who have an entirely different opinion compared to how it's started. We should think more than we do so we can see things in a much clearer way. Islam is my religion and she's very tolerant. With the little I know , anyone who killed a living soul is like killing thousand of souls while anyone who preserved a soul is like doing the same for thousand of souls . I can't begin to write much of Islam tolerance for other religion. Those who killed might still believe they are Muslims but it's stated clearly in the holy book they are not . How will the infidel you killed have thought of converting to Islam. Their are a lot of principle guiding Islam as a religion of peace. Some don't know a thing but rather for their empty headed religious leaders, I can never convert to any other religion cause I know they beauty of Islam no matter how much they try to paint it bad. You can hate and abuse . I believe the most supreme God "Allah" will be the one to judge us all. Blessings be upon us all

udatso:
You have spoken like an ignorant one.

elopee3000:
oh the whiteness that point those people re blind or the womans neighbour's re blind too abi? Muslim will bomb thier self in syria saudi yemen iraq iran pakistan bornu state they will blame others i just pity some yoruba muslim from ogun and lagos other yoruba muslims from kwara those one re more fanatic than alshabab time will tell

Senorprinz:
even if a man knows how to do those things without making enough money they'll still tag him as being useless.

Florblu:
If as a man you can't do all this then you need a help,cos a Lady can even do all this.

Senorprinz:
how many of these things does dangote know how to do?

ChemicalReaction:
Lemme admit that i'm hoping for the best! When love finds me. I believe in POSITIVE change. Whoever loves me wouldn't mind bending their rules to suit me biko.

Antina:
What is this one saying

swtbby:
Saalam.

I need help. I'm angry depressed and sad all the time but I try to control it. It all started when I was little. I saw something really scary and since then I have been seeing things that are not normal.

Sleep time is a nightmare. I am being afflicted with one sickness or the other but doctors tell me that there's nothing wrong with me .

Whatever I do always turns out to b a failure. An Imam told me that its jinn aashiq. I say du'as and do all that is recommended but still no any improvement.

What else should I do ?

lonelydude:
Each time I want to take my car to the mechanic, I always develop the fear of the guy destroying something else after fixing the reason for the visit. This was the case with the last mechanic I frequently used until I got tired of him after he completely knocked my car engine and destroyed the gearbox. I had to take a driving break for about two months before I purchased another engine and gearbox.

Now, the new mechanic, who was recommended by the engine seller, installed the entire package only for the speedometer not to be working and a delayed/sluggish response transmission whenever I accelerate. I noticed this when I test-drove the car from the mainland to the island. The engine works perfectly fine but for more than 3 weeks now,I am yet to start driving the car just because of the two problems mentioned above.

The car is currently with my auto-electrician (Very educated Auto-electrician) who said something needs to be changed in the gear. He said the speed sensor (which is perfectly ok) is not being turned by the gear and hence speedometer still stagnant at zero reading. When he turned the speed sensor with his fingers, the speedometer responded but when connected to the gear, it remains stagnant.
He has checked everything every other electrical faults/signal/sensor that may be responsible but none of this seem to be the problem.

My questions:

Are educated mechanics really better than uneducated mechanics? They both claim they are specific car brand specialists (e.g. I work on only toyota, i work on only honda, bla...bla..etc). Do you consider their educational level before the patronize them?

How do exactly know a good and experienced mechanic?

Please, advise a brother. BTW, I drive a Toyota RAV4 (2002).

Thanks in advance for your advice.

lovelygurl:
Yep I started working at age 14. Those are not real jobs something like summer job which I do every summer

lovelygurl:
You just proved how clever you are by generalising over and over again. You want to FORCE me to be impressed by money. I have seen a lot of women who just married for money. They will wear the most beautiful clothes etc yet are still not happy. I don't want to go through that path and you can't convince me to. You don't even have the power to. Money is good but I would rather work for MY OWN money than MARRY BECAUSE OF MONEY.

lovelygurl:
Then get angry but money doesn't impress me. And to your question have you seen the poor associate with the rich, like seriously how many rich kids have ever been in a slum. That's just normal!

Josephamstrong1:
Gerrarraeehere my friend.
Keep deceiving yasef in a problem u've already givn a solution to.
We all kw u here for traffic. Better get a life.
Mitschww.

Billiondoe:
What are the characteristics of a good marriage, am 25 and single and staying in a relationship is like world war 2... seems like love is not all it takes... am in a relationship with a 27yr old man and we r In love and we are both university graduates but I dont think we can make it to the alter cos it's a different drama everyday, never caught him cheating and he respects me but his family controls a better part of him and he isn't ready for marriage anytime soon and I have this ex who is very willing all I have to do is tell him am ready and am no longer in a relationship, he is rich and has different cars and houses but am not so into him but he loves me for sure....