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Phones / Re: Airtel Binge Plan Is A Scam by goldenboyofpsy(m): 3:18am On Jan 13
Thank you for this. I never knew it was a scam. Imagine just scamming people of their hard earned money. We learn everyday
Travel / Re: Shoot Us- Nigerians Shout As They Clash With Police In Pakistan by goldenboyofpsy(m): 8:49pm On Sep 09, 2023
So sad. Home and abroad we are not safe. They take us for granted

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Romance / Re: In A Dilemma Right Now, Please Advise by goldenboyofpsy(m): 6:48am On Sep 09, 2023
There's nothing to advice. These among others are the implications of sex before marriage. She didn't do it once but 3 solid times that you know. What if it's more than 3 times?

Forgiving a cheating woman is a big sign of a weak,simp and a man that lack substance it often doesn't end well.

Forget the pressure and who knows about the relationship,it's about you and her. Seek counsel from someone older and neutral to add to what's written here
Sports / Re: Saudi Arabia Football Revolution: Which Player's Move Surprised You The Most?? by goldenboyofpsy(m): 5:37pm On Sep 02, 2023
These guys plans years ahead. They know what they want and go for it

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Sports / Re: Imprisoned Dani Alves Pens Love Letter To Estranged Wife Ahead Of His Rape Case by goldenboyofpsy(m): 5:36pm On Sep 02, 2023
Life of a big fish. They can use scandals to finish you in no time

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Family / Re: Should I Meet Her Biological Father Before Paying Bride-Price To Her Step-father by goldenboyofpsy(m): 8:32pm On Jun 01, 2023
[quote author=MetaBroadband post=123481845]Thank you all for your excellent contributions. Please note the following:

1. They said the man abandoned them, but what if it's not actually what happened, so let's not be emotional.

2. I'm not paying the bride price to the biological father, but there should be an understanding between both fathers at this point. because if the child was taken away from the man or if he had acted as a child then, both parents can come to an understanding so that my wife won't hurt any part of the tradition in the course of our marriage.

3. I know that my mother inlaw would be angry, but I still feel it's my right to know. What if something bad happens to my wife because she married in a way that violates her tradition (give Caeser things to Caesar)

4. I'm doing this for my fiancee not me, because as far as I've paid my bride price nothing can come to me, but if anything comes to my wife, it automatically affects me. So it's not just her and her mum's business.

Thank you as you put this thoughts into consideration as well.

If your mind is made up,there's no point asking for help. The father here is the step dad. If from childhood he took full responsibility for the girl,then you've no business with the father. If he comes later ,it can be sorted out but her step dad is her father.

One of my wife's aso ebi girls idoma has a Yoruba name. I asked her why,she said she took her step dad name because he has been the father that her biological father left them.

The most important thing to do is ensure necessary things are done
Nairaland / General / Re: What’s Your Worst Friendship Betrayal Experience? by goldenboyofpsy(m): 9:43pm On May 18, 2023
As much as we know bad friends and people plenty especially Nigeria and Africa,how come no one here has said he's the friend or family that betrayed or stabbed another person?

Believe social media at your peril. Their are lessons to learn but we all act like saints and angels but deep down,we are wicked,evil and selfish folks.

We hope God fixes us. Home and abroad,we are not too nice. Let's use these stories true or false to learn to become a better person who helps and don't back stab.

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Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by goldenboyofpsy(m): 4:15am On Feb 20, 2023
This heart of kindness is a true reflection of Nigeria.... Faceless forum but giving hope and life to families..... I read from beginning till the end. Weldon op and everyone who is helping out in their ways .....

I think the thread can be updated so more people can support. This is laudable @seun,no amount of money can give this kind of satisfaction.....

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Travel / Re: Have You Seen A Nigerian Elephant?Nigeria Abandoned tourism potential by goldenboyofpsy(m): 3:06pm On Dec 23, 2022
Wowwwwww
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Abuja Uber Bolt Matchmaking thread by goldenboyofpsy(m): 2:39pm On Aug 29, 2022
Obaman12:


I'm telling you, the lord will at his time renew our strengths once more, amen! My regards to your wife. Pls be strong boss, God will help us all
....

Amen o cos he that wears the shoe knows where it hurts...

Soon, we shall all testify of His faithfulness and goodness over us

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Abuja Uber Bolt Matchmaking thread by goldenboyofpsy(m): 2:11pm On Aug 29, 2022
Obaman12:


I'm telling you my brother, this this last I had close to $1.5k on my E-wallet. Crypto crashed, plus the family issues I had to handle during Christmas and everything went down to zeros. Since then I've been struggling.

Hmmmm..... It is well is all I can say. Sometimes,when I think about the whole stuff, I will start loosing it and boom, depression almost setting in... Wifey had to find way to encourage me.... She too lost her job last month due to health reasons (missed few days to treat herself). But in all, we're not sick (mentally & physically) that's something to thank God for cause we won't want to add that to this.....

But it's a light at the tunnel.... Let's keep hope alive and avoid short cuts....... But being a man is a huge responsibility

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Abuja Uber Bolt Matchmaking thread by goldenboyofpsy(m): 1:42pm On Aug 29, 2022
Obaman12:


It's not easy being a man my brother. I'm having my own share of the cake here as well. Being the first in a family of five no be here ooh. So many responsibilities on me man. God will help us all.

As regards the hustle, you're doing rentals now right?

Nothing presently.... I had a car I was using for hustling but I sold it and the expensive amount cars are being sold has made me used the money to sustain my family...... The bills I face daily,it's crazy when you have nothing entering your hand.....

But it's a phase sha.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Are You Jobless? Sell Yourself by goldenboyofpsy(m): 12:49pm On Aug 29, 2022
In need of job....
Graduate of psychology (2:1)
Location... Abuja can relocate if accommodation is available
Skills... Leadership, managerial, administrative, driving skills with licence, Microsoft office, logistics, interpersonal communication, efficiency, effective and deliver in time
Worked in Bakery,farm, NGO, church.....

You all are doing a great job

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Abuja Uber Bolt Matchmaking thread by goldenboyofpsy(m): 11:31am On Aug 29, 2022
Obaman12:


My brother! When it comes to hustling for survival [especially in this current regime], there's nothing to be ashamed of as you're not alone. I am a graduate just like you, even with an MSc in view. We are many! I am still in this same street with u hustling to get a car for HP as well. God will help us all, amen.

Have being warned to avoid HP ooo and I understand.... It's really a trying time but we have to keep the hope alive.....

Above All, never take for granted opportunities and never abuse privileges, little support and faith in our struggles...

Am married why makes it somehow challenging but my wife and her family have been supportive but it's not easy as a man to be idle..... It's a very difficult period

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Abuja Uber Bolt Matchmaking thread by goldenboyofpsy(m): 8:11am On Aug 29, 2022
AOresources:
Ogwepa Nigeria Limited is recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Bolt Driver

Location: Abuja
Employment Type: Contract

Job Brief

We are looking for a Driver to transport clients in a comfortable, safe and timely manner.
Driver responsibilities include arranging regular cleaning and maintenance services for the vehicle, planning each route based on road and traffic conditions and managing payments.
Ultimately, you will help us increase customer satisfaction, making sure clients depend on us for their transportation needs.
To be considered for this role, you should have a valid driver’s license and a clean driving record with no traffic violations. Note that you don’t need to have a car; we provide drivers with our own vehicles.
Responsibilities

Map out driving routes ahead of time to determine the most expedient trip.
Pick up clients from the place and at the time they’ve requested.
Collect payments and issue receipts.
Assist clients with loading and unloading their luggage.
Listen to traffic and weather reports to stay up-to-date on road conditions.
Adjust the route to avoid heavy traffic or road constructions, as needed.
Answer clients’ questions about the area and local places of interest.
Ensure the car seats are clean and comfortable for all riders.
Schedule regular car service appointments and report any issues.
Book car wash and detailing services to maintain interior and exterior cleanliness of the car
Requirements and Skills

Candidates should possess an SSCE / NECO / GCE qualification.
Minimum of 3 years work experience.
Proven experience as a Driver.
A valid driver’s license.
A clean driving record.
Must own a smartphone.
Familiarity with GPS devices.
Knowledge of area roads and neighborhoods.
Ability to lift heavy packages and luggage.
Availability to occasionally take weekend and night shifts.
A polite and professional disposition.
Ability to remain calm in stressful driving situations (e.g. at rush hour).
Application Closing Date
31st August, 2022.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: info@ogwepa.com.ng using the Job Title as the subject of the mail.


I applied for this already. Though am a graduate one must not be ashamed to do it especially when things are not going as planned...... Thank you for this thread God bless you richly.
Family / Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by goldenboyofpsy(m): 10:28am On Jul 02, 2022
DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.
I fear the visit is not to do physical chores but also bed chores..... How can she put some dirty words codedly for you and you didn't notice? Avoid any proximity with her for your own good
So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?


The words are visible that she has more to do than chores..... She just showed you what to expect....''cum'" it's deliberate., Don't wait to tell the story.... Avoid her for good
Family / Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by goldenboyofpsy(m): 10:26am On Jul 02, 2022
DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.
I fear the visit is not to do physical chores but also bed chores..... How can she put some dirty words codedly for you and you didn't notice? Avoid any proximity with her for your own good
So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?
Car Talk / Re: Black Smoke From Exhaust. by goldenboyofpsy(m): 8:06pm On Sep 12, 2021
Originakalokalo:


My car smokes black only when accelerating but stops afterwards.

It burns oil too. However, everything else is fine. It fires well.


Or should I just change the engine?

Any remedy? Can anything be done?
If it's black smoke,it's not engine problem ooo don't be deceived. It's electrical issues or the stuff in your exhaust has issue......


The only issue is that it consumes more fuel than normal if it's electrical fault.... Your engine is okay... If it's blue smoke,that's where the engine is faulty
Politics / Re: DisCos Get NERC Approval To Increase Tariff September 1st by goldenboyofpsy(m): 7:55am On Aug 29, 2021
We all will learn the hard way....

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Phones / Re: Kindly Advice On Which Phone To Buy, Target Price Is 70,000 Naira by goldenboyofpsy(m): 6:31pm On Aug 09, 2021
ItsmeF:


I did mine at Slot banex. Its called sentinel. Presently I mistakenly break my screen, so I've been asked to bring the phone for the screen change to be done but I can't stay without my phone, I trade online. When I'm ready I'll take there.
Funny enough,I know banex very well as I go there almost everyday... But is the place inside or close
Phones / Re: Kindly Advice On Which Phone To Buy, Target Price Is 70,000 Naira by goldenboyofpsy(m): 11:17am On Aug 08, 2021
ItsmeF:


Just screen insurance 5k yearly


How do I do this please am interested
Politics / Re: DSS Keeps Mum Over Igboho’s Arrest by goldenboyofpsy(m): 9:28pm On Jul 20, 2021
Tread carefully security agencies...

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Family / Re: Anger : An Unfortunate True Life Story by goldenboyofpsy(m): 8:08pm On Apr 26, 2021
Quite shameful that he lost all he laboured for in his lifetime due to his inability to control his temper.... Power needs to be managed in a way it won't lead to destruction...
Celebrities / Re: FIBAN Asks Alaafin To Withdraw Mayegun Title From KWAM 1 For Beating Broadcaster by goldenboyofpsy(m): 2:28pm On Oct 05, 2020
Shameful

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TV/Movies / Re: Laycon Wins Big Brother Naija 2020 (bbnaija) by goldenboyofpsy(m): 8:39pm On Sep 27, 2020
As predicted..... He surely deserve it
Food / Re: Expect 50% Increase In Prices Of Bread - Bakers Tell Nigerians by goldenboyofpsy(m): 12:57pm On Sep 13, 2020
Hmmmm it is well oo
Health / Re: Wuhan Pool Party In China Sparks Outrage Amidst Covid-19 - Video by goldenboyofpsy(m): 8:45pm On Aug 19, 2020
bukatyne:


Hmmmmmm.

Spread a world wide virus, have the world on lock down and so scared for human contact while you are comfortable to party in water shocked

Perhaps these Wuhan people know something we don't.

This is very gross irresponsibility as they have proven they can't contain their consequences of their actions/inactions.






When you have stupid and irresponsible people at the helms of affairs, that's what you get...

WHO should be held for this trouble.. if Na Africa now, it would be different
Family / Re: Man Absconds With Boss’ Wife Over Failure To Pay Salary by goldenboyofpsy(m): 8:42pm On Aug 19, 2020
Inside life.....

There's more to this story
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How I Almost Got Scammed Over A Civil Defense Job by goldenboyofpsy(m): 2:30pm On Aug 16, 2020
I called him to notify him of the new l, he congratulated me and told me i will have to pay the sulm of 85k for my 2 weeks training in Kano and the payment mulst be made before noon but i shouldn't worry the money will be returned after my training but u have to pay early so as not to loose the job....

This got me
Family / Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by goldenboyofpsy(m): 2:17pm On Aug 16, 2020
fieryy:


I thought I was the only one who picked that up. I can only imagine how much of a disgusting human being he must be

He's an opportunist. He took full advantage of her situation knowing she's weak, helpless, homeless and anything will go.

He showed his true colour after putting her in a family way with no option. He left her worst then he met her...

God is watching sha

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Family / Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by goldenboyofpsy(m): 2:38am On Aug 16, 2020
How about your maternal family?

You will need a good lawyer possibly those legal aid or human rights lawyers who offer pro bono work to help you see the paperwork..

Secondly, how much of the woman do you know? Many things have gone wrong in our value system and opportunist is what we have mostly around us.. Try not to fall victim the second time.

Pray to deliver yourself from the curse your mum brought on you through her lifestyle so your daughter can have an edge in life so the circles don't continue...

Your baby father is playing with fire... He impregnated you as a minor which is punishable under the law of the land...

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Properties / Re: Anger, Despair As FCDA Demolishes Houses In Apo NEPA, Abuja by goldenboyofpsy(m): 2:28am On Aug 16, 2020
Another estate loading.... It's the trademark of the elites always looking for ways to surpress and oppress.

Make provisions for them... You kill people's Morales,joy and means of livelihood because of your selfish interest.

FCT is the only state with this problem almost everytime... Quite unfortunate.

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