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TravelRe: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by GoneKayLoner(m): 7:47pm On Oct 19, 2018
tj28:
(Maryland). Did you go to social security office?. It can’t come in with your green card, they are two different agencies. When did you arrive? Did you come with international license? I was driving with my international license till I got my md license last week.
Thank you tj28. I'll go to the SS office again
TravelRe: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by GoneKayLoner(m): 7:45pm On Oct 19, 2018
pretty16:
Hi, good to have u here. Came in on a Sunday, went to SS office the next day being Monday, a week later the SS card came. By 2 and half weeks of arriving the GC came.
Thank you Pretty16. I was slow to act. Do you have you driving licence yet?
TravelRe: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by GoneKayLoner(m): 7:40pm On Oct 19, 2018
[quote author=tj28 post=71882541][/quote]Thank you tj28. I seldom come online. I've gone to the SS office. But I'll go back there.
TravelRe: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by GoneKayLoner(m): 4:19pm On Oct 08, 2018
[quote author=tj28 post=71882541][/quote]Thank you tj28. Which of States do you live in. I'm thinking it may depend on the state.
I went to dmv and i was told to get my social security first.
I then went to social security and i was told it's going to arrive in the mail with my green card since i got here in CR1 visa.
I've been waiting like kilode since then. Can't drive. Can't do nothing.
TravelRe: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by GoneKayLoner(m): 5:55pm On Oct 05, 2018
Hello All. I've been a silent follower. It's just been interesting reading the comments of everyone here.
For those who paid their Green card fee in Nigeria before leaving and now living in the States, How long did it take to receive your Social Security and Green Card and how did you get busy before then?
And also for those who paid after arriving in the States?
HealthRe: Nigerian Lady Shares Her Journey To Recovery, Following A Ghastly Accident by GoneKayLoner(m): 4:53pm On Oct 17, 2016
It is well with you
Sorry
CelebritiesRe: Kwam 1 Poses With His Giant Ostrich Bird In His Ijebu Ode Country Home by GoneKayLoner(m): 3:51pm On Oct 17, 2016
same!!

FamilyRe: Maternity Photoshoot Of Pregnant Woman, With Her Husband And Children by GoneKayLoner(m): 6:12pm On Oct 11, 2016
this belle na baba

FamilyRe: Who Owns Me? by GoneKayLoner(m): 12:10pm On Sep 13, 2016
crackhaus:
The idea of using money to coerce you comes off condescending, this might probably be what irks your mom the most presently.

However, your late dad's brother did support and stand by her back then and I'm assuming he only lost contact with yourself and your mom after she remarried and relocated to Lagos (correct me of I'm wrong)— and personally I feel that the line I put in bold above should really be all that matters right now.
If the world was perfect and sane, just one act of selfless love can be enough to repair a lifetime of hate.


You can accept and recognize them as your biological family, it's the least you can do...you don't have to go playing or hanging with them on that account though since your mom is now threatening to lay curses on her own child.
RomanceRe: 5 Bad Habits Nigeria Ladies Find Hard To Leave by GoneKayLoner(m):
9ja girls lack conversational skill
The average 9ja girl can't head or even keep good conversation. Unlike their counterpart outside, 9ja babes are not Partners, they are Dependants.

Conversations ought to be like:

Hello
Hi
I'm Jake. nice to meet you smiley
Nice to meet you too. I'm Jaden. Where are you from?
Cool. Berkshire, Dub. You?
Los Ang. Cali.
Used to have a friend in Cali. not Los Ang. though. She since moved to Canada
Hm.. Your girlfriend?
Nah. We met in african on a Summer vac.
What do you do?

Home all day. Boring. Lost my job sad
Aw. that's terrible
Yeah, I know. But I"ll have a friend over soon and we plan to go....
(Conversation con't and becomes more interesting)
.....etc

Conversation with 9ja girls be like:

Hello
Hi
I'm Jake. nice to meet you. smiley
kk
What's your name?
Amanda
Cool. how is your day going?
Fn
Where are you from?
Lag. you?
Interesting. I was in Lag. last week. It was my first time in Lag. smiley . From PH
k
The traffic is no where like other place. how do you guys cope?lol
haha abi
hope to talk to you later Amanda, got to go now.
kk
Foreign AffairsExclusive–new Black Panther Leader: Blacks Need To Migrate To Five Southern Stat by GoneKayLoner(op):
Babu Omowale, the so-called national minister of defense for the People’s New Black Panther Party, says his group and allied organizations have their sights set on establishing “our own government in a nation within a nation.”

Omowale was speaking in an interview set to air Sunday night on this reporter’s talk radio program, “Aaron Klein Investigative Radio,” broadcast on New York’s AM 970 The Answer and News Talk 990 AM in Philadelphia.

Omowale used the interview to claim five states as belonging to the “Black Nation”: Louisiana, Mississippi, South Carolina, Alabama, and Georgia.


The revolutionary stated: “We just need to start migrating back to those states and taking control of the economics in those states. If black people move in, most definitely white people will move out. So it’s not a hard process for us to have our own country within a country.”

Omowale is also co-founder of the Huey P. Newton Gun Club, a black militant gun group named after Black Panther Party founder Huey P. Newton. According to reports, Dallas shooter Micah X. Johnson “liked” the Huey P. Newton Gun Club and Omawale has said that he recognized Johnson from black community events in Dallas.

Asked by this reporter what his group’s endgame is, Omowale replied:

The end game is land ownership. The endgame is our own government in a nation within a nation. Okay. So we claim the states of Louisiana, we claim the states of Mississippi, we claim the states of South Carolina, we claim the states of Alabama, and we claim the states of Georgia.

We just need to start migrating back to those states and taking control of the economics in those states. If black people move in, most definitely white people will move out. So it’s not a hard process for us to have our own country within a country.

For now, however, Omowale says the goals are more short-term:

There is no way that we can totally separate ourselves in the United States of America and we are aware of that. We know that we are owed land, we are owed monies, we are owed restitutions and we are owed reparations. That’s going to be a continuing process. What we are saying right now is we want to control the economics in our community. We want to control the black dollars. The money that goes in, the money that goes out.

We want to control the politics in our community. If a politician is not bringing anything to the table for the betterment of that community, we are not going to vote for these particular people. And we most definitely want to control the education. What our people are learning in what we call the public fool system, not school system, where they are teaching and misrepresenting the true history of the black man here in the United States.

The Huey P. Newton Gun Club says on its website it is seeking to “develop over time to a regimented Black Army.”

“Our mission is to educate the masses of black people on the necessity of self,” states the website. “That includes self-preservation, self-defense, and self-sufficiency through militant culture.”

“We want freedom. We want the power to practice self-determination, and to determine the destiny of our community and THE BLACK NATION.”

Aaron Klein is Breitbart’s Jerusalem bureau chief and senior investigative reporter. www.breitbart.com
Foreign AffairsBlack Cop Explodes ‘black Lives Matter,’ Racist Police Myths In Viral FB Post by GoneKayLoner(op):
A black police officer serving in Palm Beach County, Florida wrote a powerful Facebook post on Saturday about his experiences policing black communities where young black men preyed on each other, condemning the “Black Lives Matter” movement for ignoring black-on-black carnage taking place in major U.S. cities as they incited hatred for police.

“I used to be so torn inside growing up. Here I am, a young African-American born and raised in Brooklyn, NY wanting to be a cop. I watched and lived through the crime that took place in the hood,” Officer Jay Stalien wrote. “My own black people killing others over nothing. It never sat right with me. I wanted to help my community and stop watching the blood of African Americans spilled on the street at the hands of a fellow black man. I became a cop because black lives in my community, along with ALL lives, mattered to me, and wanted to help stop the bloodshed.”

The post quickly went viral, with over 80,000 shares. Stalien’s language is stark — the violence he witnessed over and over again while serving in Baltimore and Palm Beach County deeply affected him.

“I remember the countless times I stood 2 inches from a young black man, around my age, laying on his back, gasping for air as blood filled his lungs. I remember them bleeding profusely with the unforgettable smell of deoxygenated dark red blood in the air, as it leaked from the bullet holes in his body on to the hot sidewalk on a summer day,” he continued. “I remember the countless times I had to order new uniforms, because the ones I had on, were bloody from the blood of another black victim…of black on black crime. I remember the countless times I got back in my patrol car, distraught after having watched another black male die in front me, having to start my preliminary report something like this: Suspect- Black/ Male, Victim-Black /Male.”

But the communities wracked with internecine violence did not want to cooperate with law enforcement: “I remember the countless times I canvassed the area afterwards, and asked everyone ‘did you see who did it,’ and the popular response from the very same family members was always, ‘Bleep the Police, I ain’t no snitch, Im gonna take care of this myself.’ This happened every single time, every single homicide, black on black, and then my realization became clearer.”

Read the complete post below:

I have come to realize something that is still hard for me to understand to this day. The following may be a shock to some coming from an African American, but the mere fact that it may be shocking to some is prima facie evidence of the sad state of affairs that we are in as Humans.

I used to be so torn inside growing up. Here I am, a young African-American born and raised in Brooklyn, NY wanting to be a cop. I watched and lived through the crime that took place in the hood. My own black people killing others over nothing. Crack heads and heroin addicts lined the lobby of my building as I shuffled around them to make my way to our 1 bedroom apartment with 6 of us living inside. I used to be woken up in the middle of the night by the sound of gun fire, only to look outside and see that it was 2 African Americans shooting at each other.

It never sat right with me. I wanted to help my community and stop watching the blood of African Americans spilled on the street at the hands of a fellow black man. I became a cop because black lives in my community, along with ALL lives, mattered to me, and wanted to help stop the bloodshed.

As time went by in my law enforcement career, I quickly began to realize something. I remember the countless times I stood 2 inches from a young black man, around my age, laying on his back, gasping for air as blood filled his lungs. I remember them bleeding profusely with the unforgettable smell of deoxygenated dark red blood in the air, as it leaked from the bullet holes in his body on to the hot sidewalk on a summer day. I remember the countless family members who attacked me, spit on me, cursed me out, as I put up crime scene tape to cordon off the crime scene, yelling and screaming out of pain and anger at the sight of their loved ones taking their last breath. I never took it personally, I knew they were hurting. I remember the countless times I had to order new uniforms, because the ones I had on, were bloody from the blood of another black victim…of black on black crime. I remember the countless times I got back in my patrol car, distraught after having watched another black male die in front me, having to start my preliminary report something like this:

Suspect- Black/ Male, Victim-Black /Male.

I remember the countless times I canvassed the area afterwards, and asked everyone “did you see who did it”, and the popular response from the very same family members was always, “Bleep the Police, I ain’t no snitch, Im gonna take care of this myself”. This happened every single time, every single homicide, black on black, and then my realization became clearer.

I woke up every morning, put my freshly pressed uniform on, shined my badge, functioned checked my weapon, kissed my wife and kid, and waited for my wife to say the same thing she always does before I leave, “Make sure you come back home to us”. I always replied, “I will”, but the truth was I was never sure if I would. I almost lost my life on this job, and every call, every stop, every moment that I had this uniform on, was another possibility for me to almost lose my life again. I was a target in the very community I swore to protect, the very community I wanted to help. As a matter of fact, they hated my very presence. They called me “Uncle Tom”, and “wanna be white boy”, and I couldn’t understand why. My own fellow black men and women attacking me, wishing for my death, wishing for the death of my family. I was so confused, so torn, I couldn’t understand why my own black people would turn against me, when every time they called …I was there. Every time someone died….I was there. Every time they were going through one of the worst moments in their lives…I was there. So why was I the enemy? I dove deep into that question…Why was I the enemy? Then my realization became clearer.

I spoke to members of the community and listened to some of the complaints as to why they hated cops. I then did research on the facts. I also presented facts to these members of the community, and listened to their complaints in response. This is what I learned:

Complaint: Police always targeting us, they always messing with the black man.

Fact: A city where the majority of citizens are black (Baltimore for example) …will ALWAYS have a higher rate of black people getting arrested, it will ALWAYS have a higher rate of blacks getting stopped, and will ALWAYS have a higher rate of blacks getting killed, and the reason why is because a city with those characteristics will ALWAYS have a higher rate of blacks committing crime. The statistics will follow the same trend for Asians if you go to China, for Hispanics if you go to Puerto Rico, for whites if you go to Russia, and the list goes on. It’s called Demographics.

Complaint: More black people get arrested than white boys.

Fact: Black People commit a grossly disproportionate amount of crime. Data from the FBI shows that Nationwide, Blacks committed 5,173 homicides in 2014, whites committed 4,367. Chicago’s death toll is almost equal to that of both wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, combined. Chicago’s death toll from 2001–November, 26 2015 stands at 7,401. The combined total deaths during Operation Iraqi Freedom (2003-2015: 4,815) and Operation Enduring Freedom/Afghanistan (2001-2015: 3,506), total 8,321.

Complaint: Blacks are the only ones getting killed by police, or they are killed more.

Fact: As of July 2016, the breakdown of the number of US Citizens killed by Police this year is, 238 White people killed, 123 Black people killed, 79 Hispanics, 69 other/or unknown race.

Fact: Black people kill more other blacks than Police do, and there are only protest and outrage when a cop kills a black man. University of Toledo criminologist Dr. Richard R. Johnson examined the latest crime data from the FBI’s Supplementary Homicide Reports and Centers for Disease Control and found that an average of 4,472 black men were killed by other black men annually between Jan. 1, 2009, and Dec. 31, 2012. Professor Johnson’s research further concluded that 112 black men died from both justified and unjustified police-involved killings annually during this same period.

Complaint: Well we already doing a good job of killing ourselves, we don’t need the Police to do it. Besides they should know better.

The more I listened, the more I realized. The more I researched, the more I realized. I would ask questions, and would only get emotional responses & inferences based on no facts at all. The more killing I saw, the more tragedy, the more savagery, the more violence, the more loss of life of a black man at the hands of another black man….the more I realized.

I haven’t slept well in the past few nights. Heartbreak weighs me down, rage flows through my veins, and tears fills my eyes. I watched my fellow officers assassinated on live television, and the images of them laying on the ground are seared into my brain forever. I couldn’t help but wonder if it had been me, a black man, a black cop, on TV, assassinated, laying on the ground dead,..would my friends and family still think black lives mattered? Would my life have mattered? Would they make t-shirts in remembrance of me? Would they go on tv and protest violence? Would they even make a Facebook post, or share a post in reference to my death?

All of my realizations came to this conclusion. Black Lives do not matter to most black people. Only the lives that make the national news matter to them. Only the lives that are taken at the hands of cops or white people, matter. The other thousands of lives lost, the other black souls that I along with every cop, have seen taken at the hands of other blacks, do not matter. Their deaths are unnoticed, accepted as the “norm”, and swept underneath the rug by the very people who claim and post “black lives matter”.

I realized that this country is full of ignorance, where an educated individual will watch the ratings-driven news media, and watch a couple YouTube video clips, and then come to the conclusion that they have all the knowledge they need to have in order to know what it feels like to have a bullet proof vest as part of your office equipment, “Stay Alive” as part of your daily to do list, and having insurance for your health insurance because of the high rate of death in your profession. They watch a couple videos and then they magically know in 2 minutes 35 seconds, how you are supposed to handle a violent encounter, which took you 6 months of Academy training, 2 – 3 months of field training, and countless years of blood, sweat, tears and broken bones experiencing violent encounters and fine tuning your execution of the Use of Force Continuum.

I realized that there are even cops, COPS, duly sworn law enforcement officers, who are supposed to be decent investigators, who will publicly go on the media and call other white cops racist and KKK, based on a video clip that they watched thousands of miles away, which was filmed after the fact, based on a case where the details aren’t even known yet and the investigation hasn’t even begun. I realized that most in the African American community refuse to look at solving the bigger problem that I see and deal with every day, which is black on black crime taking hundreds of innocent black lives each year, and instead focus on the 9 questionable deaths of black men, where some were in the act of committing crimes.

I realized that they value the life of a Sex Offender and Convicted Felon [Alton Sterling], (who was in the act of committing multiple felonies: felon in possession of a firearm-FELONY, brandishing and threatening a homeless man with a gun-Aggravated Assault in Florida: FELONY, who resisted officers who first tried to taze him, and WAS NOT RESTRAINED, who can be clearly seen in one of the videos raising his right shoulder, then shooting it down towards the right side of his body exactly where the firearm was located and recovered) more than the lives of the innocent cops who were assassinated in Dallas protecting the very people that hated them the most.

I realized that they refuse to believe that most cops acknowledge that there are Bad cops who should have never been given a badge & gun, who are chicken shit and will shoot a cockroach if it crawls at them too fast, who never worked in the hood and may be intimidated. That most cops dread the thought of having to shoot someone, and never see the turmoil and mental anguish that a cop goes through after having to kill someone to save his own life. Instead they believe that we are all blood thirsty killers, because the media says so, even though the numbers prove otherwise.

I realize that they truly feel as if the death of cops will help people realize the false narrative that Black Lives Matter, when all it will do is take their movement two steps backwards and label them domestic terrorist.

I realized that some of these people, who say Black Lives Matter, are full of hate and racism. Hate for cops, because of the false narrative that more black people are targeted and killed. Racism against white people, for a tragedy that began 100’s of years ago, when most of the white people today weren’t even born yet.

I realized that some in the African American community’s idea of “Justice” is the prosecution of ANY and EVERY cop or white man that kills or is believed to have killed a black man, no matter what the circumstances are.

I realized the African American community refuses to look within to solve its major issues, and instead makes excuses and looks outside for solutions.

I realized that a lot of people in the African American community lead with hate, instead of love. Division instead of Unity. Turmoil and rioting, instead of Peace.

I realized that they have become the very entity that they claim they are fighting against.

I realized that the very reasons I became a cop, are the very reasons my own people hate me, and now in this toxic hateful racially charged political climate, I am now more likely to die,… and it is still hard for me to understand…. to this day. www.breitbart.com
Foreign AffairsBlack Cop Explodes ‘black Lives Matter,’ Racist Police Myths In Viral Facebook P by GoneKayLoner(op): 5:58pm On Jul 13, 2016
A black police officer serving in Palm Beach County, Florida wrote a powerful Facebook post on Saturday about his experiences policing black communities where young black men preyed on each other, condemning the “Black Lives Matter” movement for ignoring black-on-black carnage taking place in major U.S. cities as they incited hatred for police.

“I used to be so torn inside growing up. Here I am, a young African-American born and raised in Brooklyn, NY wanting to be a cop. I watched and lived through the crime that took place in the hood,” Officer Jay Stalien wrote. “My own black people killing others over nothing. It never sat right with me. I wanted to help my community and stop watching the blood of African Americans spilled on the street at the hands of a fellow black man. I became a cop because black lives in my community, along with ALL lives, mattered to me, and wanted to help stop the bloodshed.”

The post quickly went viral, with over 80,000 shares. Stalien’s language is stark — the violence he witnessed over and over again while serving in Baltimore and Palm Beach County deeply affected him.

“I remember the countless times I stood 2 inches from a young black man, around my age, laying on his back, gasping for air as blood filled his lungs. I remember them bleeding profusely with the unforgettable smell of deoxygenated dark red blood in the air, as it leaked from the bullet holes in his body on to the hot sidewalk on a summer day,” he continued. “I remember the countless times I had to order new uniforms, because the ones I had on, were bloody from the blood of another black victim…of black on black crime. I remember the countless times I got back in my patrol car, distraught after having watched another black male die in front me, having to start my preliminary report something like this: Suspect- Black/ Male, Victim-Black /Male.”

But the communities wracked with internecine violence did not want to cooperate with law enforcement: “I remember the countless times I canvassed the area afterwards, and asked everyone ‘did you see who did it,’ and the popular response from the very same family members was always, ‘Bleep the Police, I ain’t no snitch, Im gonna take care of this myself.’ This happened every single time, every single homicide, black on black, and then my realization became clearer.”

Read the complete post below:

I have come to realize something that is still hard for me to understand to this day. The following may be a shock to some coming from an African American, but the mere fact that it may be shocking to some is prima facie evidence of the sad state of affairs that we are in as Humans.

I used to be so torn inside growing up. Here I am, a young African-American born and raised in Brooklyn, NY wanting to be a cop. I watched and lived through the crime that took place in the hood. My own black people killing others over nothing. Crack heads and heroin addicts lined the lobby of my building as I shuffled around them to make my way to our 1 bedroom apartment with 6 of us living inside. I used to be woken up in the middle of the night by the sound of gun fire, only to look outside and see that it was 2 African Americans shooting at each other.

It never sat right with me. I wanted to help my community and stop watching the blood of African Americans spilled on the street at the hands of a fellow black man. I became a cop because black lives in my community, along with ALL lives, mattered to me, and wanted to help stop the bloodshed.

As time went by in my law enforcement career, I quickly began to realize something. I remember the countless times I stood 2 inches from a young black man, around my age, laying on his back, gasping for air as blood filled his lungs. I remember them bleeding profusely with the unforgettable smell of deoxygenated dark red blood in the air, as it leaked from the bullet holes in his body on to the hot sidewalk on a summer day. I remember the countless family members who attacked me, spit on me, cursed me out, as I put up crime scene tape to cordon off the crime scene, yelling and screaming out of pain and anger at the sight of their loved ones taking their last breath. I never took it personally, I knew they were hurting. I remember the countless times I had to order new uniforms, because the ones I had on, were bloody from the blood of another black victim…of black on black crime. I remember the countless times I got back in my patrol car, distraught after having watched another black male die in front me, having to start my preliminary report something like this:

Suspect- Black/ Male, Victim-Black /Male.

I remember the countless times I canvassed the area afterwards, and asked everyone “did you see who did it”, and the popular response from the very same family members was always, “Bleep the Police, I ain’t no snitch, Im gonna take care of this myself”. This happened every single time, every single homicide, black on black, and then my realization became clearer.

I woke up every morning, put my freshly pressed uniform on, shined my badge, functioned checked my weapon, kissed my wife and kid, and waited for my wife to say the same thing she always does before I leave, “Make sure you come back home to us”. I always replied, “I will”, but the truth was I was never sure if I would. I almost lost my life on this job, and every call, every stop, every moment that I had this uniform on, was another possibility for me to almost lose my life again. I was a target in the very community I swore to protect, the very community I wanted to help. As a matter of fact, they hated my very presence. They called me “Uncle Tom”, and “wanna be white boy”, and I couldn’t understand why. My own fellow black men and women attacking me, wishing for my death, wishing for the death of my family. I was so confused, so torn, I couldn’t understand why my own black people would turn against me, when every time they called …I was there. Every time someone died….I was there. Every time they were going through one of the worst moments in their lives…I was there. So why was I the enemy? I dove deep into that question…Why was I the enemy? Then my realization became clearer.

I spoke to members of the community and listened to some of the complaints as to why they hated cops. I then did research on the facts. I also presented facts to these members of the community, and listened to their complaints in response. This is what I learned:

Complaint: Police always targeting us, they always messing with the black man.

Fact: A city where the majority of citizens are black (Baltimore for example) …will ALWAYS have a higher rate of black people getting arrested, it will ALWAYS have a higher rate of blacks getting stopped, and will ALWAYS have a higher rate of blacks getting killed, and the reason why is because a city with those characteristics will ALWAYS have a higher rate of blacks committing crime. The statistics will follow the same trend for Asians if you go to China, for Hispanics if you go to Puerto Rico, for whites if you go to Russia, and the list goes on. It’s called Demographics.

Complaint: More black people get arrested than white boys.

Fact: Black People commit a grossly disproportionate amount of crime. Data from the FBI shows that Nationwide, Blacks committed 5,173 homicides in 2014, whites committed 4,367. Chicago’s death toll is almost equal to that of both wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, combined. Chicago’s death toll from 2001–November, 26 2015 stands at 7,401. The combined total deaths during Operation Iraqi Freedom (2003-2015: 4,815) and Operation Enduring Freedom/Afghanistan (2001-2015: 3,506), total 8,321.

Complaint: Blacks are the only ones getting killed by police, or they are killed more.

Fact: As of July 2016, the breakdown of the number of US Citizens killed by Police this year is, 238 White people killed, 123 Black people killed, 79 Hispanics, 69 other/or unknown race.

Fact: Black people kill more other blacks than Police do, and there are only protest and outrage when a cop kills a black man. University of Toledo criminologist Dr. Richard R. Johnson examined the latest crime data from the FBI’s Supplementary Homicide Reports and Centers for Disease Control and found that an average of 4,472 black men were killed by other black men annually between Jan. 1, 2009, and Dec. 31, 2012. Professor Johnson’s research further concluded that 112 black men died from both justified and unjustified police-involved killings annually during this same period.

Complaint: Well we already doing a good job of killing ourselves, we don’t need the Police to do it. Besides they should know better.

The more I listened, the more I realized. The more I researched, the more I realized. I would ask questions, and would only get emotional responses & inferences based on no facts at all. The more killing I saw, the more tragedy, the more savagery, the more violence, the more loss of life of a black man at the hands of another black man….the more I realized.

I haven’t slept well in the past few nights. Heartbreak weighs me down, rage flows through my veins, and tears fills my eyes. I watched my fellow officers assassinated on live television, and the images of them laying on the ground are seared into my brain forever. I couldn’t help but wonder if it had been me, a black man, a black cop, on TV, assassinated, laying on the ground dead,..would my friends and family still think black lives mattered? Would my life have mattered? Would they make t-shirts in remembrance of me? Would they go on tv and protest violence? Would they even make a Facebook post, or share a post in reference to my death?

All of my realizations came to this conclusion. Black Lives do not matter to most black people. Only the lives that make the national news matter to them. Only the lives that are taken at the hands of cops or white people, matter. The other thousands of lives lost, the other black souls that I along with every cop, have seen taken at the hands of other blacks, do not matter. Their deaths are unnoticed, accepted as the “norm”, and swept underneath the rug by the very people who claim and post “black lives matter”.

I realized that this country is full of ignorance, where an educated individual will watch the ratings-driven news media, and watch a couple YouTube video clips, and then come to the conclusion that they have all the knowledge they need to have in order to know what it feels like to have a bullet proof vest as part of your office equipment, “Stay Alive” as part of your daily to do list, and having insurance for your health insurance because of the high rate of death in your profession. They watch a couple videos and then they magically know in 2 minutes 35 seconds, how you are supposed to handle a violent encounter, which took you 6 months of Academy training, 2 – 3 months of field training, and countless years of blood, sweat, tears and broken bones experiencing violent encounters and fine tuning your execution of the Use of Force Continuum.

I realized that there are even cops, COPS, duly sworn law enforcement officers, who are supposed to be decent investigators, who will publicly go on the media and call other white cops racist and KKK, based on a video clip that they watched thousands of miles away, which was filmed after the fact, based on a case where the details aren’t even known yet and the investigation hasn’t even begun. I realized that most in the African American community refuse to look at solving the bigger problem that I see and deal with every day, which is black on black crime taking hundreds of innocent black lives each year, and instead focus on the 9 questionable deaths of black men, where some were in the act of committing crimes.

I realized that they value the life of a Sex Offender and Convicted Felon [Alton Sterling], (who was in the act of committing multiple felonies: felon in possession of a firearm-FELONY, brandishing and threatening a homeless man with a gun-Aggravated Assault in Florida: FELONY, who resisted officers who first tried to taze him, and WAS NOT RESTRAINED, who can be clearly seen in one of the videos raising his right shoulder, then shooting it down towards the right side of his body exactly where the firearm was located and recovered) more than the lives of the innocent cops who were assassinated in Dallas protecting the very people that hated them the most.

I realized that they refuse to believe that most cops acknowledge that there are Bad cops who should have never been given a badge & gun, who are chicken shit and will shoot a cockroach if it crawls at them too fast, who never worked in the hood and may be intimidated. That most cops dread the thought of having to shoot someone, and never see the turmoil and mental anguish that a cop goes through after having to kill someone to save his own life. Instead they believe that we are all blood thirsty killers, because the media says so, even though the numbers prove otherwise.

I realize that they truly feel as if the death of cops will help people realize the false narrative that Black Lives Matter, when all it will do is take their movement two steps backwards and label them domestic terrorist.

I realized that some of these people, who say Black Lives Matter, are full of hate and racism. Hate for cops, because of the false narrative that more black people are targeted and killed. Racism against white people, for a tragedy that began 100’s of years ago, when most of the white people today weren’t even born yet.

I realized that some in the African American community’s idea of “Justice” is the prosecution of ANY and EVERY cop or white man that kills or is believed to have killed a black man, no matter what the circumstances are.

I realized the African American community refuses to look within to solve its major issues, and instead makes excuses and looks outside for solutions.

I realized that a lot of people in the African American community lead with hate, instead of love. Division instead of Unity. Turmoil and rioting, instead of Peace.

I realized that they have become the very entity that they claim they are fighting against.

I realized that the very reasons I became a cop, are the very reasons my own people hate me, and now in this toxic hateful racially charged political climate, I am now more likely to die,… and it is still hard for me to understand…. to this day.
BusinessRe: Access Bank Twitter Handle Addresses Relationship Matters! by GoneKayLoner(m): 1:52pm On Jul 03, 2016
Odunharry:
What makes it easier is because we are tougher and we know how to handle rejection.

For ladies, the thoughts of the guy saying No alone is killing
I'll like to think it is How the NO comes out. This is largely uncharted territory for the Female folks who make the first move as such They have little to No one they can relate to, no information or similar story they can read up, and it's still considered a mis-normal by Both genders esp. the Male as such They (the male) don't know how to handle first move from ladies. I strongly believe the Society aid the Male folks. And I do not foresee a major shift from this in the Far future
BusinessRe: Access Bank Twitter Handle Addresses Relationship Matters! by GoneKayLoner(m): 1:22pm On Jul 03, 2016
Odunharry:
My bank and I

There's nothing bad when a lady/girl/woman makes the first move, what is bad is showing signs of desperation.
If only our society doesn't frown on that and if only 9ja many ladies can do it.

It will take the courage of 5 ancestors ,10 dwarfs and 15 mammy water for a typical 9ja Babe /ladies /girl to tell you she likes you.
I think it also take courage for a guy to come out. What makes it easier for guys is the Society. Uncommon as it may seem, I've twice had ladies make the first move. The first was mature and the second was quite desperate.
EducationRe: 11-yr-old Wins 16th Spelling Bee Competition by GoneKayLoner(m): 12:52pm On Jul 03, 2016
jide219:
oga my senior bros name na Michael Paul, infant no only me day use my Yoruba name u hear if u nor know something nor talk am ooo
No mind the guy. Na ignorance. Me and three of my siblings all use our English names as First-name
EducationRe: 11-yr-old Wins 16th Spelling Bee Competition by GoneKayLoner(m): 12:37pm On Jul 03, 2016
teebillz:
I doubt he is a "pure yoruba" guy. Give an example of a pure yoruba guy without a Yoruba name.
Nawa u o. Wetin you no know pass you. I am "pure" Yoruba but my first-name is English and my last-name is also English. It's only my Middle-name that's Yoruba.
SportsRe: Ogenyi Onazi's Traditional Marriage In Benin City (Photos) by GoneKayLoner(m): 3:26pm On Jun 17, 2016
amzee:
Yoruba women always make the best housewife
Lets stop all these Bigotry. It's no longer funny.
SportsRe: Ogenyi Onazi's Traditional Marriage In Benin City (Photos) by GoneKayLoner(m): 3:18pm On Jun 17, 2016
uselessgoat:
This economy is too harsh and here is someone rich enough to think about marriage for this time wey to chop sef na wahala. Suicide on my mind since last week but i can't even afford sniper. God is indeed partial embarassed
Hey bro. Everything is not about 'God'. Life is a little complicated than that. Feel You though. One Up
EducationRe: Pioneer Female Graduates Of The UNN In 1963 by GoneKayLoner(m): 3:05pm On Jun 17, 2016
Emmaoga:
nice

I am not sure if any of it is from
Mugabe though…..but have a laugh
and add yours !
Girls’ legs are like rumours.. They
spread any how
Robert Mugabe 2015
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Ladies are powerful, they can
introduce two boyfriends at the
same time.
They will say My Love meet My
Sweet heart. And the two
idiots will say “Bossu how far?”
Robert Mugabe 2016
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Some of you girls can’t even jog for
5minutes but expect a
guy to last in bed with you for
2hourshuh Ur level of
selfishness demands a one week
crusade..
Robert Mugabe 2016
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It’s hard to bewitch African gals
these days. Every time you take a
piece from her hair to the witch
doctor, either a Brazilian innocent
woman gets mad or a factory in
China catches fire.
Robert Mugabe 2016
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Dating a slim/ slender guy is cool.
The problem is when you lying on
his chest then his ribs draw adidas
lines on your face
R.G Mugabe 2016
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No s*x before marriagehuh
If that was God’s plan you would
receive your Penis or Vag*na on
your wedding day.
Robert Mugabe
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Whenever things seem to start going
well in your life, the Devil comes
along and gives you a *girlfriend*
*Robert Mugabe 2016*
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“Sucking breast is a survival skill
guys learnt at birth. But as to how
and where girls learnt the act of
sucking d*cks still baffles me…”
~Robert Mugabe
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If you are ugly,you are ugly.Stop
talking about inner beauty cos we
dont walk around with X-rays
#ROBERT MUGABE
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Respect pregnant women because
it’s not easy walking around with
evidence that you’ve had s*x
-Robert Mugabe
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Dear sisters,
Don’t be deceived by a man who
texts you “I miss you” only when it’s
raining………you are not an umbrella

Robert Mugabe (2016)
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Obama: Mugabe, wisdom and money
which one will you go for?
Mugabe: I will take money
Obama: But I will go for wisdom
Mugabe: Well everyone will go for
what he lacks
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Stupidity is when you lick a woman
with your bare tongue and later s*x
her with condom. What are you
preventing, catarrh or headache?
– Robert Mugabe
#Copied
Why does he talk only about Women?
PoliticsRe: Iara Oshiomhole Is The Head Of Edo Table Tennis Association by GoneKayLoner(m): 11:49am On Jun 17, 2016
DeRay98:
All these ignorant teenagers typing their ignorance away to the world.
You don't have to be tennis player to head the Association, getting a VIP to head the body is a way of helping the sport get the necessary attention and sipport it needs to move on. They are likely to get more financial support to run their programs now that she is their head.
Lucky Igbinedion was the Chairman of the Nigerian Amateur boxing board while he was the governor of Edo. Was he ever a boxer? In 2004 and 2008, Nigeria didnt win a single medal in the Olympic...
Don't mind Them. They are just cheap haters

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