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@manakins , dont mind them . the lady told me the mans wife doesnt know a thing and its all very secret . she even said she doesnt call this mans cell phone and doesnt send text .
I have two married male friends . one cheat while the other doesnt . i tell u if u see the one that cheats with his wife u will say wow this is marriage made in heaven but the other guy that does not cheat , men , na so so quarell at home every time .
Hey people I am not supporting cheating o but , when no one is hurt then life goes on .

I av heard many married women say , well if he cheat , he should not just let me know . It is if i know that is when there will be problem .

and all the babes that av reigned cat and dot in the forum , are u sure u are saints(virgin) . I am sure u are not . If u can sleep with a guy (single or married) out side marriage then u not so cast any first stone at this my friend .

@dewdrop and natasha , na wao for una . kai , kai especially natasha , na wao .
u must be saint mary or saint terasa . how can u say this : (She might be pretty, but ill mannered and decent that's why no man sees her fit to become his wifey.) are u saying those pretty matured working class ladies are not good enough thats why they are not married till now .

Na wao . God dey o

@iice from ur comment . i guess u wouldnt blame her . for me i think i dont wanna blame her

i asked her ur questions today . she said it is not easy at all . she said she has
succeeded in playing the game for the past 6 months without any emotional attachment
its been just the friendship and sex thats all.
She is pretty i tell u . i asked her if she has no single man toasting her .
she said non for now at all . the only person that came up to her for the past two years apart from this
married man was one very young man that she is like 5 years older than and it was obvious that
all that guy wanted was just flings . she reiterated that eligible men are some how scared of single matured and successful ladies like her .
she confided in me that there was a time she had to swallow her pride and be toasting a much junior but older staff in our office (before she gave in to the married man )cos she likes him and dont mind to have him as her husband . But this guy refused giving in .
Guys i tell u this lady in question is my senior in the office and for her to go toast some one junior to me in the office ( u know how hard that can be )


She ask me again . can u blame me? I got confused ,
what y'all think ?

if u were in her shoes what will u do .

There is this female colleague of mine, 31 years old who is dating a married man in our office secretly . I am the only one in the office that knows about the whole thing .

Just last week I asked her why she had to be dating a married man .
This are her words:

I parted ways with my last boyfriend at the age of 27 since then I have been waiting for Mr. right . when I join the office some two years ago , this man has always been on my case . I prayed and look for Mr, right but all to no avail .
A time came that I could not just hold back , I mean I had no one touch me hold me and make love to me for more than a year .

I guess young guys are always scared of going into relationship with ladies of our age because they think all we ever think of in a relationship is marriage , marriage and marriage .

I was getting desperate ( no sex for more than a year ) . U know body no be wood . This married man seen to be the only one toasting me at that time .

So one day , in one of his normal toasting ways , I gave in . I gave in not to destroy is marriage , not to let no one know , but to satisfy my sexual huge .

We have kept it clean for the past 6 months now . his wife doesn’t know . he does not demand too much other than our once a week or once a forth night secret meeting in one of his friends place . And that does not disturb my searching for Mr. own Mr right

Will you blame me?

Nairalanders, will you blame her? What do you think?

thanks didisky and naijacutee for your responce . One of the major thing we are going into organising shows for american stars to come perform here and nigerian stars to go abroad to perform too but what myself and my contact want now is something completely different . something that people into show biz in nigeria have not gone into .
We want to be different and unique .

Waiting for more responces .

i have contact with an entertainment and event managment company in the US . The company is expanding and wants to come and establish in nigeria . But they want me to come up with ideas , something different .
I said to myself that i have guys in nairaland that can come out with nice ideas on what we can do here in nigeria , what we can offer .

Please can any one help me with necessary information on starting up an entertainment company here in nigeria . i have a link with one entertainment management company in US and they want to have one here in nigeria too and need me to control it here in nigeria .

My advice to u is that u should first consider if the job is in line with ur career plan . also consider how old u are now and in 4 years time how old u are going to be . My guy , out there is pretty rough . u got a job and u are still complaining of bond . The bond is only 4 years and 4 years is not that long . U could build ur career there and achieve alot within 4 yrs after which u will know if u want to continue with them , move to another job , go get further degrees or even having ur own company .

Just jump for joy and thank God . 2.1 in mechanical engineering full for town no think say thats the ultimate .

Take care

Hi every one .

I am based here in naija . i have a direct link to the manager of the group SILK in US . They are coming to nigeria for a show .
Please does any one know whom i can contact for promoters, venues and more .
Please i would appreciate a response to my email link.up.nigerians@gmail.com

Thank you .
Nagode
E she o
Daalu

I am so dissappointed in those that tried the discourage the person from coming to Nigeria . Nigeria is not that bad . There are no millitants here to make your stay difficult . There are lots of foreigners living and working in Nigeria , Indians , White and more . There are so many companies here where foreigners work . And there so very cool and quiet places in  Nigeria like Abuja where u can expericence peace and quite and very good standard of living .
Nigerians a nice and hospitable people . U can come around and i can assure you that u wont regrets coming here .

goodbobo

I have a contact in America . She is a black American who is into event management , producing films and many other things . She wants to work with me on a project . We want to start a kind of organisation that brings Americans ( Expecially black americans) closer to African ( Nigeria in particular) .
She wants me to come up with an idea of what we can go into and how . I have been ask to write a proposal
Please your ideas would be highly welcomed and appreciated .
U can also contact me on link.up.nigerians@gmail.com

well my brother it is like that with the US embassy . the fact that u have all the right papers complete does not mean an authomatic visa . i believe they have a specific number of people they give visa per day and if exceeded there is no paper that can make them give u visa . but remember winner dont quit . try again and if not possible Uk schools are equally so good.

Wish u all the best

There is a girl in US . Her half brother kiddnaped her because she has all the wealth of her father willed to her . He took her to a place blindfolded . She has been there for like 6 years now and all she does is to sign bank papers for the brother . The brother is only keeping her alive so that she can be signing bank paper for him . He imployed someone to be bringing food for her . The only thing she has access to is the internet and that is how i got to meet her .

Please nairalander what do u think she can do .

There is a girl in US . Her half brother kiddnaped her because she has all the wealth of her father willed to her . He took her to a place blindfolded . She has been there for like 6 years now and all she does is to sign bank papers for the brother . The brother is only keeping her alive so that she can be signing bank paper for him . He imployed someone to be bringing food for her . The only thing she has access to is the internet and that is how i got to meet her .

Please nairalander what do u think she can do .

There is a girl in US . Her half brother kiddnaped her because she has all the wealth of her father willed to her . He took her to a place blindfolded . She has been there for like 6 years now and all she does is to sign bank papers for the brother . The brother is only keeping her alive so that she can be signing bank paper for him . He imployed someone to be bringing food for her . The only thing she has access to is the internet and that is how i got to meet her .

Please nairalander what do u think she can do .

There is a girl in US . Her half brother kiddnaped her because she has all the wealth of her father willed to her . He took her to a place blindfolded . She has been there for like 6 years now and all she does is to sign bank papers for the brother . The brother is only keeping her alive so that she can be signing bank paper for him . He imployed someone to be bringing food for her . The only thing she has access to is the internet and that is how i got to meet her .

Please nairalander what do u think she can do .

Hey guys ,
want the gmail /gtalk users in this forum to get connected . lets get talking online with your speaker and mic .

lets me have your gmail addresses so that i can add to my gtalk messanger

mine is link.up.nigerians@gmail.com

Please i want every member of this forum the please listen and check out this analogy .

I want to bring your attention to the IFA worshipers world wide . I am sure u all would be wondering where i am going .
. All ifa worshiper world wide ( in Yoruba band , Brasil , Cuba , USA , Haiti .etc ) .
1.they all must speak that yoruba language for incantation ( no matter what their mother tongue is ) .
2 They must perform ritual and blood sacrifice .
3.they have a special way of performing their prayers and worship ( same way world wide )
4. they all have their 'OPELE' ( the beads with string attaching the beads for prayer.
5. some come to yoruba land to see the source of their worship
6. They all have their Image which represent their God which they all face and bow for .

SIMILARITY WITH ISLAM .\

1. All Allah worshiper worldwide must speak Arabic for prayers
2.They must kill ram yearly for sacrifice .
3. They all have same special way of prayer
4. They all have they tesbiu ( beads with string attached for prayers
5. Some go to Mecca to see the source of their worship
6. All Allah worshiper face the Karbah and bow down for Allah


DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO

Ifa worshipers know they are Idol worshiper cos the can see the image of what they are bowing for but Allah worshipers dont know what they are bowing down for . They dont know what is in the Kahbah .

HOW CHRISTIANITY DIFFERS COMPLETELY FROM IDOL WORSHIP

1.Christians speak their native language to communicate to God .God understands all languages
2.Christians dont kill any animal for sacrifice . Christ did that for them 2000 years ago.
3 . Christians pray to God as the holy spirit lay in their heart
4. Christians dont keep any beads for prayers.
5. Christians dont have to go any where to see God . God is every where
6. Christians dont have any direction they must face to pray to God . God is every where

I hope this is convincing enough . thank you

Please i want every member of this forum the please listen and check out this analogy .

I want to bring your attention to the IFA worshipers world wide . I am sure u all would be wondering where i am going .
. All ifa worshiper world wide ( in Yoruba band , Brasil , Cuba , USA , Haiti .etc ) .
1.they all must speak that yoruba language for incantation ( no matter what their mother tongue is ) .
2 They must perform ritual and blood sacrifice .
3.they have a special way of performing their prayers and worship ( same way world wide )
4. they all have their 'OPELE' ( the beads with string attaching the beads for prayer.
5. some come to yoruba land to see the source of their worship
6. They all have their Image which represent their God which they all face and bow for .

SIMILARITY WITH ISLAM .\

1. All Allah worshiper worldwide must speak Arabic for prayers
2.They must kill ram yearly for sacrifice .
3. They all have same special way of prayer
4. They all have they tesbiu ( beads with string attached for prayers
5. Some go to Mecca to see the source of their worship
6. All Allah worshiper face the Karbah and bow down for Allah


DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO

Ifa worshipers know they are Idol worshiper cos the can see the image of what they are bowing for but Allah worshipers dont know what they are bowing down for . They dont know what is in the Kahbah .

I hope this is convincing enough . thank you

All pro Islam in this forum . let me give u one major point that would make u have no reason to argue again .

Basically Islam is following the deeds and way of Mohammed and Christianity if following the deed and way of Christ .
We have seen Hundred and one things according to your Holy book that are so so wrong about Mohammed's deed .
PLEASE I PUT IT TO YOU ALL TO FIND JUST ONE BAD DEED OF CHRIST AS WRITTEN IN THE BIBLE .
If u can not then , lets forget this auguement .

Neoteny I am so sure u know the truth now . the only thing u can try to do is to force urself not to admit it or try as much as possible not to think about it so that u dont end up seeing u have been following the wrong part all your life .
The bible says there is a way that seems right to a man , but the end is distruction .

This applies to all muslims in this forum

I repeat the truth is as clear as A, B , C .

Who will ever say Kill an infidel is better or acceptable thnn LOVE ur friends , love ur enermies , love all human race of what ever colour .or is better than forgive all offences commited against you ( no matter what it is )

No christian will do any thing bad and can claim he saw that in the bible ( for where u want see am ) .

Do u know that in christianity , there is so much LOVE . there is what is called intercesory praying where u pray for people u know and those u dont even know . We even spend days praying for Muslims and all non christians

this is not a matter of Good Muslim or good Christians . U will always have good and bad people .
But the main point is considering all what this forum has brought to light about the content of the islamic book .
How can people read all this about their Prophet and still believe in such a prophet and follow him.
How can people follow a man that kills , take as many women as possible . even take a nine year old girl ? A racist .?

All these thing are not made up . they are all right there in their book . No wonder many of them are not turning to christ now .

If u read all about Jesus christ in the bible' u can not see any thing bad about him in the bible , not a single thing .

He is a perfect man .

My people let me tell u one major truth i have conlcuded .

The good muslims are the one shying away from the what their Quatan says  . They are the ones not really following the teaching of Muhammed ( kill Jews , kill infidels) . Such people wont point out those fact we are made known in the quran through this forum . they try as much to hide it . Those are our muslim friends that we mingle with every day , that some christians marry . that we talk to freely and sometimes do business with . Those are the muslims that are not really following their Quran to the letters .

The real muslims ( bad ones) are the one following Mohammed to the letter . they are the ones killing people up and down because their holy book say so .

Real christians follow Jesus christ to the letter . Look at Jesus , even the people killing him , he forgave them all and Pray thar  God should forgive them all for they dont know what they are doing . What a good saviour .

I am sure PEACE is not in any way related to the teaching of ISLAM . how can war be peace . how can violence against other people of other faith be PEACE .  
this is not a matter of one understanding another persons religion or not . PEACE IS total tranquility (simple ENGLISH ) how can u kill some people and u call that tranquility .

what is the there to understand ??

Sorry , a little correction ,

I wanted to say , this implies u can NOT kill , as christian ( Under no condition )

Please let all christians in the forum be very careful . Dont let ur identity be so known . They can actually come for you . They can kill .

You know the lord Jesus Christ say we should love our enemies .He said forgive 70 times 7 times , which means in all cases , u must forgive , which means there is about nothing anyone of any race , of any tribe , of any religion do to you , U must forgive .
This implies we can killl .

But for them their religions says they should kill . Their masters ( Mohammed ) killed .

Please lets be careful . But any way , the Lord God is our strenght . They are is weapon of the enemies that fashioned against that will prosper .

And for all the innocent muslims in the forum , I am sure ur mind is touched . They truth is too clear . All the pro Islam in the forum can not just point out just one reason to be a muslim . One of them clain u cant understand Islam if u are not a muslim .
What a statement , what cant u understand in a religion that says u can go ahead a killl . I really pity that guy .

Please dont let us argue again . I am sure that if the muslims in this forum were not born into the religion and are newly introduce to both christianity and Islam , they will choose christianity .

How can somebody tell me he will choose a religion that says :

U can kill human being made by God almighty and leave a religion that says love ur neighbour even love ur enemies .

How can u tell me u will choose a religion that directs ur life to a particular Race (arab) , Location ( Mecca) and particular Language ( arabic) and leave a religion that tells u That I God I am every where , I hear all languages . I am God of all Flesh . U can be in Lagos , Ijebu , US , Owerri , Ghana , speak ur language I can hear u .

Please , .Please stop decieving urselves ,

Last week , on the road i saw like 4 islamic ladies , the were completely covered up even their eyes are completely coverd , as in completely covered .( what the yorubas call EKEHA) , come on .

how can u say u will choose a religion that gives a woman no identity , u are only there because u were born into it .

I asked a yoruba muslim friend of mine that if u have a son that converts to another religion , what will u do . He was so reluctant to tell me but he had to admit that he will have to kill him . i said why he said his holy book says he should kill him.

At this point i can assure u all that there is no reason to argue .

Muslim do u know that in Christianity , according to what Jesus said in the bible , u can not kill any body . u can not wish any body bad . u can not envy any body . it is even so good to the extent that if someone slaps u , Jesus says u shpuld turn the other side of ur face to recieve the other slap . meaning ,

All these means , there is no form of violence , i repeat no form of violence , i say again , no form of violence in the teaching of Jesus Christ , And u seat there saying one religion is a religion of peace , wake up , I never even knew that Mohammed did all that was said about him . Na wa o . I think may be when u muslims read those portion of ur holy book , u try to ignore it .

Please make we no argue again

Please i want any muslim in the house to disprove what ever i say now .

1. If a man enters a mosque on a friday and shout out loud against Allah or Mohammed , i am sure they will kill him that day if it happens in northern nigeria but in the west he might be given the beating of his life

But , if such happens in the church , ( speak agains God or Jesus ) the christians will look at him in pity and start serious prayers for him and try as much to preach to him .

2. If an Imam's son converts to christian , be sure the family would look for a way to kill him .
If a pastors son converts to a muslim , all he can do is just to preach and pray for him .

3 . what does Quran says about Infidel , kill them , what does the bible say about non - believer , love them , pray for them , preach to them ,

4 . A woman caught funicating was brought to Jesus for judgement , Jesus told those that brought her that let the person that has no sin be the first to cast stone upon the woman , they all left and Jesus preached to her .

5.  Why must I pray to almighty God in another mans language ( arabic) . when i can talk to him in my local language and he will answer me . Why must i dress like an arab to serve my God .

6. why must I face a particular direction ( karba, Mecca) to talk to the ominipresent God .

7. What exactly is in the Karba .?


The truth is too clear , too clear ,

Tell me , where is the peace in all these. how can u say its a religion of peace , ?

wake up . such can work out in nigeria . i am not discouraging u but is the truth . u can use this ur idea and refine it into something better dont discard the idea

presently i am an IT staff of a bank. i have been able to accumulate 5,000,000 naira .
does anybody know any good business moves or idea one can go into with this kind of cash .