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ismart:
I just had to comment because I realised that there are so few "wife" around here and it's just complete waste engaging folks.

There seem to be a misconception in my writeup.

I didn't imply that she should become house help automatically. What mean is that she seem to lack complete home maintenance... The like that won't even collect a broom from her MIL if she saw her sweeping.

Come on people, is this how you guys treat your MIL or would like to be treated by your DIL?

There is what is expected of a wife to show she has proper home training. This girl is lacking in that department completely.

But since people here don't see anything wrong with such attitude, I do hope their future DIL treat them in same manner and even give them plates to wash or clothes to wash and fall back on bed watching movie. By then they will understand better.

To those who have been defending her act, do you go to your MIL's house, wake up in the morning and do absolutely nothing? You people should know that someone is reading what is posted and you might passing wrong message.

Can you swear that you have NEVER done anything in anyway to show your mother in law that you are well brought up or where you came from they don't have elders there?

Jehovah!

I rest my case.

OP, I you 're so interested in you Aunts Welfare,then go get her a Maid. As for you go get a paid Job/enter street and Hustle, so you can get yourself a CAR and travel to DUBAI and SOUTH AFRICA too.

Chillisauce:
My dear, 45yr old nigerian man wey never marry Na him you say make him do housegirl work
You wan OP to swear for you ni.

The fiancee of his cousin. Cousin oh. Not even direct sibling .
N'a this kin people dey pursue widows from their husbands house if they happen to loose their husband to death. They will chase and sale everything living the fate of mother and children bleak


This OP mind no good at all at all.

See him mouth like my cousin will not marry her.

His posts depicts Pride,Arrogance and WICKEDNESS. He is already feeling like a demi-god. I pity the Lady sha.

Sagamite:
You are a fuuktard!

His jugdement by whom?

Your psychotic, illogical, ignorant and irrational God?

May GOD show you MERCY!!!

ismart:
Me saying some should tell you that it's not specific. I said between february and March should explain that it was early this year.

I had to do proper revision to when I went to Lagos and came back. It was around that time she put to bed and I was in Lagos in January and came back around February.

Now if it was 4 months, could she have been able to be driving in 4 months? That should tell you I didn't get the date right initially.

Guy Forget, you are a LIAR and a SADIST. If you don't like the girls Face, go and HUG Transformer.

Chillisauce:
Nna Mehn.

This Op can lie sha.
From four months ago. Now it's seven months.

Wicked people N'a dia way be dat

Always telling more lies to cover their Wickedness.

I swear this is SMARTEST post on this thread. The OP is a SADIST and a LIAR.

Chillisauce:
Diary of an angry black man

The hustle is real. OP is probably a 45yr old man who is still eating from hand to mouth and is angry that the small girl is driving car even before marrying their money bank.

Girl had a surgery
MIL had a surgery

Girl still nursing a baby
MIL nursing no one but weak and old.

OP had no surgery
OP not nursing anyone .
OP is still young
OP couldn't arrange for a maid for his BLOOD relation who is sick

And he is here ranting like a $#/@ when he should be in the market cooking for his beloved aunty and helping their in law to be with her baby.

Wickedness in high places.

Nigerian men Change o.
Wickedness won't do you any good.

You 've said it all. He's probably Jobless, he should have just been the Maid for his Aunt for the time being.

ismart:
I swear, I did not add nor subtract from what I explained. I wish I had known, I would have made a voice not of my convo with my aunt.

The girl does nothing! absolutely nothing. she just sit and receive money from my cousin. My cousin is trying t be a good guy and take good care of her but you sef reason am na... I know you find it hard to believe.; i didn't decide to make vow of not giving a woman complete right even if she had 100 kids for me for nothing... what I mean is that I can not be manipulated.

My aunt is an extremely good woman and a mother.


Part of the reason why I had to stay with her for that 2 months was because despite the injury she had, she followed me to go see where her sister(my monther) was buried. I even told her to rest awhile. she said no that we should continue. I was touched that day I swear.

You said she isn't strong enough to start a Business, but you expect her to have strenght to do house chores ba? Go get a house help for aunty PERIOD.

Miami11:
Poster you seem to know everything that goes on your cousins house,
Do you even have a job,
Do you have your own house, hobbies, maybe? How do you know people's deep affairs like this.

Ahhh, so you no know say OP na GBEFFF, he said she is not strong for business, but they feel she is strong enough to do HOUSEGIRL for them.

free2ryhme:
she has self esteem and self confidence

If i hear, this one that was beaten up seriously in Lekki Phase 1, by another woman. She went to shag Demola Seriki, and was caught by his lover, Razak Okoya's younger Sister bare bodied, she got the beating of her life.

worldgurus:
My people,I heard you can get help on social media,my name is sadeeq from Lagos Nigeria,i need help,my grandfather is dying and he needs to be operated before next month,he has lung cancer,No amount is too small.if you want to help just send it to this account,gtbank account no 0122874917,gbadamosi sodiq o.Am the only one he has left

Where exactly is he? How can i reach you?

Trishpat:
thanks hun, they'll be no reason.

Aunty, it is 'there' not 'THEY'.

EggovinMma:
Every adolescent Libran's fantasy is to find the Prince or Princess of their dreams. As their lives unfold, the experiences, false starts, dramas, broken hearts and disillusionment they encounter seeking this personal Holy Grail, often shapes their futures in the most extra-ordinary manner. Love and love-lost makes a big difference to the Libran although their often happy-go-lucky appearance against all kinds of odds may not reveal this as fact.

Librans can switch off from the world around then and during these periods much more occurs on the deep innermost levels of the Libran's psyche, than their closest companions imagine. Many Librans after establishing a lifestyle that somehow falls short of their childhood dreams, manage to conjure up a most independent life and keep up an image of being dedicated to a "close relationship". They can escape into obscure role playing - and often this makes them extremely successful business people. When it comes to romance and love, Librans can be difficult to fathom yet in business many Librans discover they can not only be creative, but it provides an opportunity to express the more diverse sides to their personalities. Their charm can win jobs and provides powerful friends. But in both work and play, looking for peace and harmony, Librans often say "yes" when they should be saying "no".

It is a sad fact about many a Libran's personal or business lives to say - many would have faired far better had they remained alone! But for those Librans who do find their secret dream and meet up with their Prince or Princess, that's another story! You'll find them living in some exotic, distant beautiful place, probably running the local bar or restaurant, designing the beach or ski gear, looking wonderful, sipping cocktails and finding life to be the total paradise they knew it could be. What Librans always have to remember when looking to fulfil their dreams is they should never undermine their own integrity and hold out until their dreams do come true - not simply take whatever is offered.

LOVE ME LIBRANS!!

I am Proudly an OCTOBER 18 Born.

klassiquette:
You should've simply pointed out the mistake

So you can't read? Pay more attention to your punctuations.

klassiquette:
I think you're still in the 18th century .... Sorry to burst your bubble but a woman of this present era needs to be intelligent ... Will you marry a lady that's more of a parasite to you? Even the bible confirms that a woman gats work to survive

Please Work on your Grammar.

omusiliyu:
I just check to confirm the name.

When it comes to this I'm always 99.98% right.

Okay I know him, he is a very Hardworking and unsuccessful IGBO businessman.

ellabooz:
Onyeshi k bu. You lack respect,I told you not to quote me again but choose to prove that your are stubborn and the black sheep of the family.

Don't quote me again and prove you are not

IGNORED!

ellabooz:
I smell lies from afar.
Why put the innocent woman into your stupidity? I won't say what's on my because it seems you are the type that brings disgrace and shame to your family.
And don't mention me again.

Am your aunt

Its sounds like a lie to you because you Can't imagine owning it,mumsy stopped using it because of its troublesome nature and its spare parts are scarce. I 've alway been a source of of JOY to my Family, they are proud of me.

Mishydoo:
This man dsnt look ly sm1 that has $30,000... see him dirty singley

Baba no be by looks oooh, if you go to Apapa and see MEN that own Tank Farms you go shock.