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Geminilove: Nope, I dont have a big belly. I just look like an average black American guy.

I will be 42 in December...lol


Thanks for your honesty. My thoughts you should focus on 32+ age group. A girl in her 20's is too young, you could be her father.

Here some questions that women out there would like to know:

so by your silence we can assume you have 2kids. Never deny your children. Children are blessing.

so you are a practicing and registered doctor in Altanta, GA is that correct? How long have you being practicing? you born- againchristian is that baptist, anglican etc. How long have you beem born again for? What other interests do you have?

I had my first degree in Nigeria over a decade ago. Had a company there for 10 years. Now Am a medical student of AIETI MedicalSchool in Republic of Georgia and not Atlanta Georgia please!!!

I got born again on April 16, 1986 and have been doing fine till date.

I have never had sex before. So, no kids; don't be scared...lol.

Well, 32+ is not a bad idea. Just that I don't want problem. Most ladies in their 30s can be very possessive and can love dangerously and can do anything stupid in the name of protecting their man. No offense pls. I just feel that ladies in their 30s must have had series of broken relationships and have determined to deal with any man that comes their way. I dont want trouble. I want to live very long and enjoy my life to the fullest. Period!

However, if I find any nice lady between 32 and 35, no problem. But I still like to peg it at 22 to 30. If you feel you are ok and fit in, why not send me an email.

Email: amreally4u@yahoo.com

Geminilove: the OP wrote Am 41+, single, never married, a graduate, tall, slim, handsome, friendly, a sound born again Christian, a businessman & travels alot


41+ means Over 41 does it not?

sure he ain't a virgin? he says he not look at his comments


This thread is very interesting

@OP my niece said to ask you do you have a big belly?

Am very proud to be a virgin.

No offense pls

Geminilove: the OP wrote Am 41+, single, never married, a graduate, tall, slim, handsome, friendly, a sound born again Christian, a businessman & travels alot


41+ means Over 41 does it not?

sure he ain't a virgin? he says he not look at his comments


This thread is very interesting

@OP my niece said to ask you do you have a big belly?

Nope, I dont have a big belly. I just look like an average black American guy.

I will be 42 in December...lol

SniperInADiaper: I dont think it really matters if he is a virgin or not.. If he is chosing to NOW wait until marriage then that is his choice. I didnt see him say the lady had to be a virgin, just that she had to wait until marriage with him.

O de jare. You got me right.

Of course, I didnt say the lady must be very good in bed. If I had said that, by now I would have had more than enough. But honestly, Am not looking for that. I simply need a good wife. Period!

Geminilove: @OP all these demands wow, is this christian like? Not even kind, patient but She must be tall, slim, busty, beautiful, irresistible & impressively dishy!

you are 41+ so your 45 or 50 is what your saying really. It does matter if you you look younger than your age you cant cheat nature. I look 25 but I am not so let deal with facts.

tell the truth how many kids do you have? 41 + but i bet you got at least 2 kids.

why you in rush to get married in 3mths, r u unhealthy?

what are you offering a 22-30yrs girl you say: 41+, single, never married, a graduate, tall, slim, handsome, friendly, a sound born again Christian, a businessman & travels alot

Get in line you a dime a dozen

Am single, never married, never had sex. But of course, I have seen countless naked ladies in the hospital, but of course they are my patients and not my gf. So, I treat them as patients. Period! If you come to me as a patient, I'll treat you as one. No toasting, no sms, no pinging. Get treated and pay me. Period!

Geminilove: @OP all these demands wow, is this christian like? Not even kind, patient but She must be tall, slim, busty, beautiful, irresistible & impressively dishy!

you are 41+ so your 45 or 50 is what your saying really. It does matter if you you look younger than your age you cant cheat nature. I look 25 but I am not so let deal with facts.

tell the truth how many kids do you have? 41 + but i bet you got at least 2 kids.

why you in rush to get married in 3mths, r u unhealthy?

what are you offering a 22-30yrs girl you say: 41+, single, never married, a graduate, tall, slim, handsome, friendly, a sound born again Christian, a businessman & travels alot

Get in line you a dime a dozen

You make me laugh.

For your information, Abraham's wife was so beautiful that a king wanted to snatch her from Abraham. Isaac's wife was pretty too. Who do you want me to resemble? I've just told you what I want that would make me never look outside, and here you are asking if it is christian like.

I guess you need to know that all the ladies I have ever dated were in the class of Miss World. There are everywhere. It is a matter of choice. I can't imagine myself sleeping with a lady below my above-listed requirements. Honestly, there won't be any attraction. My body won't even move. I must be honest with you, I see so many kinds of ladies in the hospital but the type that attract me are the tall, slim, busty, irresistible and impressively dishy! No offense pls

Geminilove: @OP if you were this good no offence you be taken by now.

My brother said to me couple years ago if a black guy of any value is 40 and single he either gay, divorced or got issues.


you dont worry lol hilarous


Idowuogbo you took words out of mouth Something is seriously wrong somewhere(U need to fight dat spirit holding ur joy and happiness. Haba! u no
knack but dem dey bring belle come meet u, it don pass student matter o!
Something is seriously wrong somewhere.)


@OP whether you marrying white, black, brown, red or red it doesn't matter a black man get choice oooooooooooooo they are in high demand. My cousin at 39 left his oyinbo girlfriend of 6yrs met a black girl within 3mths and was married to her in the eight month of the relationship. You keep saying we our confused i think it you that doesnt want to face fact. it not hard for black man to get married you been on the matter since 2008 no way. If you were a black women that would be a different story

Yes, I don't worry over what so many people worry about. I simply look forward; I don't

look backward. That's the rule if you must live long and enjoy your days on earth.

Your brother is not God. He doesn't hold the key of my life, but God does. The Bible says,

"There is time to everything". Your time is not my time. God's time is always the best. I

have seen many people who rushed to marry, but today they are so said they did so early.

If you know what I know and experienced what I experienced you won't talk like that.

For your information, if I date you and during courtiship I discover we aren't compatible, I'll break up quietly. I won't rush because of age. Noooo. I would ensure I have what I want because I like to live long and I know some women are nothing but trouble.

God has good plans for everyone one us. We have to be patient and careful to ensure we don't get anything below God's plan.

Forget about my age people! I need a good wife. Period!

SniperInADiaper: I dont think it really matters if he is a virgin or not.. If he is chosing to NOW wait until marriage then that is his choice. I didnt see him say the lady had to be a virgin, just that she had to wait until marriage with him.

Am a virgin but Am not demanding that the lady must be a virgin.

That's the way I have chosen to live my life. Period!

Dyt: Bt she's yoruba and not bursty

Let me see her pictures or fb profile first. My email address is amreally4u@yahoo.com

Dyt: Ok truth b told, I hav a very pretty pastor cousin, she's 26
Serving
Bt u too old, 41? Loun loun
Oga o

I look younger than my age. I may even look younger than your friend. If u see me u can hardly believe Am 41+ because I don't womanize, don't smoke, don't drink and don't worry at all.

@sweet-test, thanks a million

[quote
author=Idowuogbo]U need to fight dat spirit holding ur joy and happiness. Haba! u no
knack but dem dey bring belle come meet u, it don pass student matter o!
Something is seriously wrong somewhere.[/quote]Don't be confused. There nothing wrong with me.p If I wanna marry a white girl, I'll wed within a month. But I want a Nigerian from any tribe. Period. Unfortunately the ones I've met aren't what God desires for me. Truth is, I've not met my wife yet.

Hear this: I met a virgin lady in church in 2008 & proposed to her for marriage. We courted for 2 years. All through the 2 years, we quarreled almost every time we met. She refused to take me to her mom or give me her mom's phone number. She insisted I'll only see her mom after our wedding. She knew everyone in my family. I never had a girlfriend in my life, so she was warmly welcome to my family without anyone objecting to it. I was so open to her & wanted to marry her by all means despite the odds. When she told me she didn't know how to cook, I confided in my mom to teach her, which she was willing to do but she never wanted to see my mom.

At a point she started staying away from me. She repeatedly said she regretted accepting my proposal. That she would have consented to the proposal of one Emeka who was wealthy if not that he is a drunkard. She began to nag about virtually everything. At that point, I decided to let her go.

She is simply not meant for me!

Dyt: Y'all don't get it
Dis man wants a slave as a wife
After he has sampled every patient, he wants a clean woman
Go ur village na

Every doctor can never be the same. I've chosen to be different

[quote author=Mynd_44]Cos it seems the powers of this world have a hand on your case. Maybe you don offend person.

I suggest you go for deliverance celestial type(the ones they do with brooms and they flog the demon out)
[/quote]because I didn't sleep with the ladies while in courtship, abi?

What a shame! I so much pity u

[quote
author=sweet-tease]Agreed, hav not seen a 22 year old graduate married to a 41+ year old
student either.

BTW, if you find a girl with all the listed qualities, you are xtremely
lucky. Try not to piss her off by feeling too full of yourself![/quote][quote
author=sweet-tease]Agreed, hav not seen a 22 year old graduate married to a 41+ year old
student either.

BTW, if you find a girl with all the listed qualities, you are xtremely
lucky. Try not to piss her off by feeling too full of yourself![/quote]You are so wrong lady. There are so many guys here of my age who are married to 21/22yrs old graduates, most of whom are from private universities in Nigeria.

You don't semi to get it. Am here in Georgia on scholarship. I don't need a lady who would be depending on me too much. Of course, Am blessed & can take care of my wife all through my study period if she is not the too demanding type.

There are so many white ladies here of that age bracket, dying to marry black guy at all cost, but I have a choice. I wanna marry a lady who can prepare me akpu, pounded yam and all manner of African delicacy. If I wanna marry a white lady of 22 today, it won't cost me anything

Idowuogbo: I'll simply book u in for deliverance.

Why?

Idowuogbo: U go tey for market.

@idowuogbo
Don't jump into quick conclusions because you may be very very wrong after all.

Hear this: I was once engaged to a student & sponsored her in the university & never had sex with her since we're both Christians & met in the church. To my surprise, she graduated & came back home with pregnancy for another man. When confronted she claimed it was because I refused to have sex with her until we get married.

I left her & dated another student from the church. When she started making passes for sex, I begged her to let us marry, she declined, claiming she's still in school. But she ended up pregnant for another man while in 300 level.

Another pretty student nurse did the same & left last year because I didn't have sex with her.

Now, if I were you elder brother, will you ask me to date a student?

[quote author=Mynd_44]And why is that a bad thing? Does a university degree make someone a better human being?

I tire for people like you oooo[/quote]Pls don't be offended. I don't need a school cert or student for a wife. Thanks for your concern. I quite appreciate it

Dyt: Bt she's not a born again o
She doesn't have BSC bt sch cert

Have you ever seen a medical doctor marry a school cert? Sorry, end of talk

Dyt: Rotfl
Don't u think those in ur church as likely same here?
Mayb u edit dat list, I cld get u someone to fit in

How do u want it edited? Send me an email.
Email: amreally4u@yahoo.com

Dyt: What happened to the Christian sisters in ur church?

It is a long story. Please dont go there

nicky4lif: I see nothing wrong looking for a wife here.it doesn't matter where u met ur wife,what matters is the connection.I'm sure some of the people calling u name,will go at the back to e-mail u.some people came here cryin that they needed husbands,a husband came calling nd u started calling him names"why?if u can get good advice from this site,why can't u get a good husband too?the way some people label people bad nd evil,I just don't get it,that is to say me,u nd every one here are evil.but ur demands are too high.with all those things u mentioned up there,u are indirectly looking for a perfect woman.all the best though.

Thanks! Am sure God is in control

[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]Oh boy at 41, if you must find one in your Abia village.

Most of the old cargos in this forum are in the family section, and man of them have made up a pretense husband.

41 looking for 22? Good luck[/quote]@Texas Cowgirl,

What if I state here that I am a medical student of AIETI Medical School in Georgia, do you think it would be difficult for me to get a lady of 22 years to marry? please answer that question sincerely

Dyt: I am all u want bt e b like say I get 3kids
Bt I ll mk u so happy

Thanks for your sincerity. I need a lady who is single, never married.

Please dont feel bad, we can just be friends. You may reach me via my email address
Email: amreally4u@yahoo.com

@Op, some mother-in-laws are wicked because daughter-in-laws like u are wicked to them but nice to ur moms.

In my entire extended family it is not so. You'll hardly know who is a mother-in-law because we love everyone & the ladies we marry are closer to our mom than even we her sons! There has never been a single quarrel.

My candid advice to ladies: Love your mother-in-laws like your moms & be closer to them than your husbands. If you don't, then expect them to be turned to Boko Haram in your homes. Period!

Age: Between 22 & 30 years.

She must be tall, slim, busty, beautiful, irresistible & impressively dishy!

She must be a born again Christian, an indoor type, no parting, no clubbing, no drinking, no smoking type, just a quiet, easy-going & homely type with very few friends, a good cook, fashionable, well-mannered, educated, working class, from any tribe(preferably Igbo), single, never married & no babies out of wedlock.

She must be ready to marry within 3 months.

No sex before marriage please.

Am 41+, single, never married, a graduate, tall, slim, handsome, friendly, a sound born again Christian, a businessman & travels alot

Email: amreally4u@yahoo.com

Your problem is ignorance, and nothing but ignorance.

The Bible says, "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge" (Hosea 4:6).

Pastor Kun, kindly show us one verse in the Bible where God says that He will spread the gospel all over the world through poverty. Secondly, show us how this thread can win souls to Christ.

Pastor Kun, if you can't find any scriptural verse like that, please apologize to us for raising this controversial thread, and beg God for forgiveness.

We're waiting...

[quote
author=DrummaBoy]Pastor R B Thieme pastored the Berachah church for
over 50 yrs b4 passing away in 2009.
He taught God's word with earnestness and still has his tapes and books
around today.

He did not preach tithe but the Berachah church people must be crazy
givers bc hundreds of request for his tapes and books are made to the
ministry almost daily and the ministry send them to people worldwide
free of charge.

I know bc I have benefited.

They add a little cerveat though: That God gives Bible doctrine and in
our bid to reflect his grace wish to desciminate them free of charge. If
however You're blessed by this ministry you may wish to support
financially as you feel led but no compulsion is placed on individuals
to give.

I do not know a single church in Nigeria that does this, though many
collect tithe.

That for me is true ministry and the work/result of a true
pastor.[/quote]I got born again on April 16, 1986 & have read several books, including that of R. B. Thieme. Unfortunately, Thieme preaches heresies. For example, he doesn't believe the blood of Jesus saves. Visit www.jesus-is-savior.com/../thieme.htm for details.

Therefore, it is dangerous for you to believe his teachings. It is even more dangerous to teach others to believe the teachings of such a man. You had better paid your tithe & stop arguing blindly

[quote
author=Pastor Kun]So what happens when the Pastors are busy copying
themselves especially in the financial modelling that they have reckoned
as the manifestation of success in Ministry? do you still get the
pastor you deserve then? No doubt there are a few out there that are not
infatuated by money and how to use gimmickry to pull it out of the
pockets of the dazzled and mesmerized members, but overall, the true
proof of pastoral care is lost.

Jesus asked - 'what do you want me to do for you'?
The pastor is a shepherd and should be ready to lay his life down for
the sheep, is that the case of most pastors? Hell no, they haven't cared
enough to lay down their unnecessary desire to compete with the
corporate world in showcasing the trappings of financial success.
How would they care for the sheep? How would they not have a desire to
bring the sheep together to milk/fleece them so they can keep up
appearances that 'The Lord is Good All the time'?

The ministry is not an enterprise or business, its a work of sacrifice,
not a profit driven, heartless endeavor to maximize returns but a
selfless love driven effort to reach out to those that God brings your
way with the mind of doing your best in every way to make their lives
better because by gathering them, certainly you would be better too.

Instead of turning the blind eye and throwing all these funny ridiculous
sayings about, put pressure on your pastor to make him/her more like
Jesus and be the good shepherd that cares more for others than for
himself, gives to others more than what he gives to himself.[/quote]You are a gross disappointment if you are not a real pastor, yet looking for a real pastor. You should be number one on the list. Otherwise, you are a shame to God and Heaven.

Are you a real pastor?

Dokubo is my man.
Let every Nigerian try to be like him. It will help us a great deal. He is a man of courage.

I am 100% in support of Dokubo. He is my main man. We need more of such people these days to let Buhari, Atiku, Ciroma and co to know that no one or region has the monopoly of violence.

Why didn't the Reps call for the arrest of Buhari, Atiku, Ciroma and co when they made similar utterances? This is the best time for Buhari and co to repeat what they said before.

The Reps and Hausas should stop making mouth. They should arrest the man first and lets see if the country will not split into 50 countries.

What Dokubo is doing is what the Igbos are supposed to be doing too to ensure the igbos also take the turn to rule after the South South. It is high time we stopped the northerners from ruling us as a way to teach them some lessons.

Dokubo is a man of courage. I love you man