₦airaland Forum

nairaman66:
This is the reason men see women as sexual objects! Change your mentality. A woman can be independent too

Exactly bro! And this is the reason why ritualism keeps increasing daily. But unfortunately, these girls will never learn!!

Skillsnigeria:
Nigeria women, are you here

comrade they're all in sever pains! the post really pain them no be small

dammiedot:
Nairaland ladies left the group chat

They hate the truth so much bro. Check the comment box and see how they are trying to defend themselves, displaying their entitlement mentality everywhere!

Animegirl:


We have more pressing issues in Nigeria, but men can never stop talking about women matter and sex.

All these poverty stricken and lazy Nairaland small boys, can't stop talking about women for clickbait.

This one is obviously in severe pains!

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend

Elianawalker:
My daughters must be financially sound before bringing any husband home to me

You're one of the few sensible ladies on this forum. I'm highly impressed with your comment. I urge other ladies to learn from your wisdom

Holluwhakemmy:
silent is the best answer for a fool.

The post really pain you no be small. Get a job and be independent. Stop depending on a man to take care of you!

This is exactly why they keep using you girls for rituals

[quote author=Divoc19 post=111109973[b]]Dating is marriage rehearsal[/b]
What you see is what you get.[/quote]At the bolded, Another entitlement mentality liability spotted

Kellzzyy:
This one is gone to the dogs already.
Redemption is far from you, stupid simp.
But I bet you gon' learn... The hard way.

He is a frustrated and stupid SIMP! Simps will never learn!!

Bro, I'll urge you to ignore the idiot and starve him of the attention he seeks

Favfables1:
Michelle70

If the OP was talking about relationship as a whole, then your input would've been awesome, but the OP is talking about just 1 aspect of relationship - Finance and quite frankly, nothing you wrote up there relates at allllll...

OP....
Whether or not we refuse to acknowledge it, money is a very important part of every relationship...

You make calls, you sit out, you'll visit, you'll go places et Al., And all these things require money!

I think your issue is, why the money always comes from the man?

Well...
I for one will always reciprocate the energy of the one I'm in a relationship with, give me broke vibes and I'll show you that two can play the game

Leave that frustrated idiot to keep displaying his stupidity on nairaland.

However, of course money is highly important and needed in a relationship!

At the bolded, you have said it all comrade!!!

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Michelle70:
did u inherit this foolishness or was it passed to u divinely?

Anyone who doesn't subscribe to the idea of "thinking ladies are useless" is now a simp.

Unlike u who lacked proper training, some of us are trained to respect and never to look down on people irrespective of where they fall in the society.

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You seem extremely pain, bitter and frustrated, whats the matter son? I'm not the cause of your pains and frustration this morning. Stop being stupid

If this niggar finally achieve this thing. We no go hear word again!

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Michelle70:
I am not a girl, I am a guy and ur stupid post is full of broke and frustrated tone.

Get a life, get a good Lady that will connect with u and build a home to an enviable position.

The ability to have balls isn't what makes u a man but knowing that the balls could be very painful when hit by a slight force

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You talk too much like a girl. What a SIMP man you are. no one forced you to read nor comment on the post. You can continue simping or get sense. The Choice is yours.

No quote me again!

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Michelle70:
Everyone is now a relationship adviser, just because u start an advice with insult doesn't mean u are right

U think Relationship is build on egoism?
In life u will always find someone that is compatible with u and those that are not, someone that has almost everything u wanted and those that offers private part, wen that time comes, u have to drop that stupid broke ass ego of urs and build a relationship that could survive the test of time, ur girlfriend is not a doll, she has her own fancies, her own religion, her own mind. All u have to do is to find a balance and comne to a compromise . Ofcos there are times when the relationship will test ur willpower, this is the time when self control will come to ur rescue and commitment will keep u going, u think happily married couples dont see better qualities, Relationship should not be build on ur rigid, non flexible rules but understanding that commitment is ur greatest arsenal that destroy those unhelpful impulses if and wen it comes. u can fall in love with anyone, it takes little or no effort but building a relationship that could survive the test of time takes more than that, when u find the people that connects with ur soul, u should be scared of loosing him/her

sacred ko, supernatural in

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You seem pained and bitter about the post?

I'm certain the post is way beyond your understanding. We all know Nigeria girls hate the truth so much. However stop lamenting, grab the message and move on.

There are many jobs on Earth. Doctors, lawyers etc. Being a girlfriend is not a job. A relationship is not a business. the word STINGY should never be used by a woman to describe any man who is not her husband or her father.!

Only a woman who wants to Sting a man accuses him of being stingy. What right does a girlfriend has to make such accusation? Only beggars accuses others of being stingy. A worker can't accuse her boss of being stingy. You work and are paid. A businesswoman can't accuse her customer of being stingy. You charge and they pay. Being a girlfriend is neither a job or a business. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend!

If you regularly give your girlfriend money because you're scared of losing her, you're a fool. A very big fool. You will still lose her. why? All men must face financial hardship at least once in a lifetime. If money is the glue, you'll have no clure!

Even if you give your girlfriend money because you want her love (money love isn't love), Another man can give her more than you do. Only stupid men engaged in bidding wars over women, when their mates are bidding for oil blocs and companies. The only time women get more money than men is in relationships. Men earn more than women in the cooperate world. If feminism means equality, let us apply it in relationships. Feminism must mean men isn't expected to foot a girlfriend's bills. Stop footing your girlfriend's bills!

luminouz:
Lmaooooo

I was just being sarcastic naaaa....it's called sarcasm.

Shuuu..you no know say I be redpiller!!!

lol OG. Na man you be!

So na dangote come dey renovate stadiums for Nigeria?

techWriter3:
Damnnn!!! offer me ur locale; render I resend u some cooled Malta Guinness quaffs

OG! Na man you be!!!!

womenareapess:
the truth is always bitter

Simp will be simp and there is no amount of wisdom throw on them can change there decay mindset!
But we must preach and let who has ear should listen

I swear bro, the truth is always bitter. Simpson is worst than cancer, it is a disease that needs to be eradicated from our society with immediate effect

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UyaiIncomparabl:
But, men are entitled too. I was chatting with a guy last night and he begged me for airtime. We hadn't even gone half way and this guy just started laying down his life problems for me.

Fine and fresh guy o. I told him I would not send him. And that I don't give men my money. He called me " Olosho" and all other nonsense insults your gender uses when they can't have their way.

Guess what I did? I blocked the idiot. Yes, na me talk am.

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The truth is always bitter. The post really pain you no be small!!!!

If you need money, go and work!!! Stop being a leech and a liability with entitlement mentality!

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UyaiIncomparabl:
My dear, leave this your westernized mindset in that abroad that you are in. Over here, we are Africans and we should behave like one. We are gradually throwing away our heritage and culture as of old in the name of feminism.

Men are by nature, total providers. Women will just assist when it's necessary. That's how I was taught and I adore the teachings. It has served me well. Even the Bible and Holy Quran command that a man should be 100% a provider in his home. It's just that our heritage has gone to the dogs and men of nowadays are so lazy and looking for working-class women so they will stop working and leech off them. I can't be that woman.

So, who are you a mere mortal to disobey God's commandment when he has stamped it?

Just get your acts together and start doing better. Or you just stay put forever there in that your abroad and be with whitey. Better learn to open your hand. Aka chi chi chi is not good.

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Always displaying your entitlement mentality everywhere! If you need money, go and work!!! With this entitlement mentality of yours, this is exactly the reason they keep using you girls for rituals

Beebah2000:
Nope, I am not.
E no go pain because I no be gold digger.
Hehehehe

Tell your fellow girls to desist from entitlement mentality! This is exactly the reason they keep using them to do rituals

luminouz:
Broke guy...shut your trap!!!
Misogynist oshi... Alfa Mail
If you don't have money, Goan hustle....or na me go fuq your gf

You mumu shaa. This post was for ladies but you decided to show your stupidity. Simps will always be simps. You can continue simping or get sense. The Choice is yours!

pansophist:
Our resident twins UyaiIncomparabl and iyaebe will not agree with you. For them, love and money goes hand in hand. Pay as you go

OG, those ones na Olosho from day one nah!!

Polynek:
Bitter truth

Increase the volume comrade!!

goshikid:
You dy remind me of my Ex gf.. That babe dy always broke.. She go get money but she go dy expect you make you do everything give am as if you be her papa. Everytime i dy Hungry, na so i dump am o.. I no want make person come use hunger finish my career

Gee, e be like say she think say u be her papa! I'm glad you dumped her ass! Nigeria girls are full of entitlement mentality!

talk2hb1:
Do You Know That:
Prostitutes are just about the only honest women you can ever find because they tell you the price upfront...

Comrade, you dey mind that werey? Leave her make she dey whine herself for there!

Mynd44, Justwise OAM4J, Dominique Lalasticlala Rocktation, Farano, Dragnet

My fellow Comrades let's Move this to FP, so others can learn too!

Shalommy:
Bleep off my mention. I'm done!

Lots of guys here are waiting for you to give us the answers to my question above!!!

Explain to us what it means for a guy to hustle hard, while a Nigerian lady shouldn't hustle hard. Or are you trying to tell us that a Nigerian lady, including you, use your pussy to make money? We don't understand

Shalommy:
Oopss... You're pained. Hustle hard.

At the bolded , are you trying to tell us that a lady can not hustle hard to make money and take care of herself? Are you trying to say that it is forbidden for a lady to work, hustle hard and make money? Does Nigeria ladies, including you, use your pussy to make money? We don't understand

Who else also noticed that Nairaland females ain't commenting?

The post really pain dem no be small

toujurs:
You mean after giving them your moniker, they still charge you money, wahala o.

Gee, Nigeria girls now thinks relationships is an employment opportunity to loot and reloot!