₦airaland Forum

barneystinson:
She's not unpretentious. She is just dumb. I was going to respond to her comments but I realised the folly of trying to reason with the unreasonable. It will be like chasing the wind.

Fire on comrade!

Pharaoh4rin:
You arshhh

Comrade! But it's true na

bigcasava1:
I will not allow my daughter to be a liability.

Way to go comrade!! No right thinking man would allow his daughter to be a liability!!!

BeautyB99:
You bunches of redpillers/alpha male association have come again, only you guys will be against helping a lady but you go on your social media and begin to salivate when you see one fine slay queen some of you might even go ahead and be comparing your main girlfriend to one Instagram slay queen as if you can maintain such ladies if given a chance, abeg if you can't help a woman financially then leave her alone she no tie your hand and leg with rope

Stop being silly. If you need someone to take care of you, then meet your father! Otherwise get a job, work, make money for yourself and take care of yourself!

Don't be deceived by those instagram and facebook pictures, most of those ladies you see there are sponsored ladies doing advertisement, while some are Oloshos looking for customers online.

You're not the responsibility of any man until you're married to him. If you need money, then get a job, not a boyfriend!

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Wittyduchess:
If truely you are a lady behind this moniker, I would say stop commenting, push back and breathe.

After seeing the outburst of one of the foremost red pill founders some days ago and also alot of male nairalanders confirming to being drug addicts on another thread.

It's a waste of time to engage in these type of threads.

All you should be praying is not to have the opportunity to come across such people in your day to day activities. I can see alot of them already supporting ritual killing just so you know the mindset of the kind of people you are engaging.


A person who feels someone deserves to be butchered for whatever reason , cannot be reasoned with and is beyond sane already. And you are here engaging such people? You try.

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sweetrace:
Dating is not marriage.

Increase the volume, your fellow gender need to see this!!!!!!

emmanuelbrown26:
If their papa no broke why dem cum dey beg up and down

I swear down bro. Instead of blaming their fathers, they decided to insult every guy calling them broke guys!

Nigeria girls are really entitled liabilities

kokomilala:
It's the generation of entitled liabilities. This sense of entitlement is ingrained in their subconscious that they feel no sense of shame at all when they claim so called rights.

Increase the volume comrade!!

Entitled liabilities everywhere with no sense of shame at all.

Kelechi009:
Same reason why I keep wondering why Nigerian women talk about Celibacy and Feminism, two totally different concepts but both cannot exist in Nigeria. How can I be paying for your house rent in Magodo and you tell me you want to be Celibate?

She is claiming to be a feminist at the same time, oh well return the money I sent you, so you can be celibate and feminist in peace. That is when the trouble started.

Honestly bro. They keep on screaming feminists up and down and yet want a man to foot their bills as though he is their father. Is this not stupidity with entitlement mentality?

Holluwhakemmy:
wereh lo ma ya gbe yin. Even after marriage you won't be responsible. Like Yoruba adage" oju to ba maa ba eni dale kin taaro sepin" if you don't understand google it. You that your parents are still feeding saying girls are demanding money from him. Go and work and leave me alone.

No one talked about marriage. You're not a man's responsibility until you're married to him.

Stop twisting the whole subject of discussion!!! If you need someone to spend on you, then get a job, work and make money and then spend it on yourself! Stop depending on a man to take care of you.

Nairanation2:
The entitlement mentality of this gender continues to astound me. Imagine my gf telling me there must be financial incentive for her cuz of her Fidelity to me... Lmao. So, not being promiscuous or nt having many guys digging her kpekus should come with a reward & she's damn serious. Their mindset about relationship is just horrible. Before u know, she's already giving me serious attitude. To MOST of them, 'love' equates money. I ditched d bitch. Just terrible.

That girl is an Olosho., who feels she's entitled to your money. That is exactly how Nigeria girls are.

I'm glad you ditched that girl asap, no time. Nigeria girls are full of entitlement mentality, this is exactly why they keep using them to do rituals

pansophist:
Why do you think one has to be broke to expect women to show up with equal contribution? To stay wealthy, you must make decisions that sustain wealth. You hardly see wealthy people marry poor people, those are Nollywood nonsense. Check the elite class in Nigeria, they marry within themselves. Being wealthy is not just a material thing, but a psychological thing as well. Now imagine the kind of discussion that will happen between Dangote and the bread-hawker. What will they talk about? Wake up, real life is realistic.

As an analogy, its easier to climb the staircase to the 5th floor when you're not carrying a woman on your shoulder, because she can use her legs. It's easier for two couples to go higher when each of them can contribute materially even if it's not equal, instead of the women burdening the man with hers, while not contributing anything. You can argue that men should provide more, then you'll have a point. But saying women should not do at all is a recipe for singledom. Only dumb men that do not know their direction in life will accept that condition.

Don't you also want to be the kind of woman that gives her a husband car as gift? Is sex and washing his clothes only how you'll show love to him? Don't you want him to feel convinced that you're with him not for his money? If economy goes bad and he looses income, will you guys become poor instantly? What kind of mentality do you have sef?

The only woman that I'll take serious with this "men are a provider crap" must also be the typical submissive, a virgin and must accept if I take multiple wives. I don't like selective application of culture. The bible says that a man should only pay bride price for virgins, so she must be one. Stop the hypocrisy abeg.

Epitome of wisdom! You have said it honourable comrade!!

What a very brilliant and intelligent answer!

ShaqFu:
You should ask yourself why women put money in the equation with relationship?

Like can't you women just be in a relationship without the guy taking care of you, your family members and also your relatives?

"Money for hand, back for ground" is the surest way for men to get what they worked for. Beside, it is purely transactional. No harm is done, nobody is cheated or feels cheated.

PS: Don't be surprise this lady who was docked for fraud still feels entitled to her husband or boyfriends money, despite her dispatching millions of naira from her Employers.

https://www.nairaland.com/7033265/efcc-arraigns-female-banker-alleged

Only God can deliver you guys. We no even know wetin una dey use all the money do sef. Lmao.

A very brilliant answer!!!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Why do you guys put sex in the equation with money? You men are the instigators of this 'money for hand, back for ground'. Can't you all just spend money on your women without wanting her body in return?

What do you mean by spend money on your woman? Are you his wife? Is he your father?

If you're looking for who will spend on you. Then get a job, make money and spend it on yourself!!

You're not a man's responsibility untl you gets married to him. Anything aside this is called prostitution. You have an entitlement mentality. You seriously need to work on it, else you'll be used for rituals

Bullman:
When u date girls from other countries in africa u will realize that most Nigerian girls are just parasitic nd greedy.

This is so true comrade!

Holluwhakemmy:
can you even feed yourself? How much do you have in your account? Less than 1k. You will just come online and be writting nonesense and vomitting rubbish out about women. Go and hustle and be responsible.

There we go again! This is the problem guys have with you Nigeria girls. Are you trying to tell us that Nigeria ladies can't hustle? Are you saying that it is forbidden for a lady to hustle, make money and take care of herself? Why depending on a man to take care of your needs?

Sammy101111:
This is the pure truth
Nigeria woman once you date and you sleeping with them they say you most provide for them and if you don't do enough they move to the next hot guy .

Now are days prostitute are even loyal and truthful than girlfriend .No heart break No over spending . i only spend when i need you .

The funniest things is that prostitutes can even please you more sexually than girlfriend

Relationship is a no area for me
I remember when i was dating a girl her phone screen spoil i had to fix it with my own money because she said she is broke and i work in ikeja so i told her to bring the phone to my shop she came after fixing the screen i had to test the screen to know if it is alright na there i see her alert of 150k in her account . i was like oh my God and me i had only 55 k in my account i had to even remove inside my own money to repair for her . From that day if any woman ask me money i screenshot all the loan app in nigeria and send it to them to borrow .

Your story have said it all comrade. This is exactly how Nigeria girls are!. They're so full of entitlement mentality

Holluwhakemmy:
i'm working for your information, I don't depend on frustrated people like you from all your comments it shows you are not a responsible person. You are fake not real.

This one is obviously in severe pains and frustration. So a responsible person should keep spending money on you na because he wants to earn the title "Responseible"? Werey. You're not the responsibility of any man until he is married to you. Stop depending on a man for money. He is not your father. If you need money, get a job. Not a boyfriend

UyaiIncomparabl:
Women are babies and forever will be. Doesn't make us irresponsible. Just as we would pamper our men too. The financial duties of a woman shouldn't be your business. A good woman steps in when she's needed.

Your entitlement mentality is astonishing!. You really need urgent deliverance. hence, with this entitlement mentality of yours, see you see ritualist. Dem go use you do ritual very soon

Animegirl:
See this one, then tell your fellow men to stop coming for us na. Stop deceiving yourself, you men can't do without us. We have your mumu buttons. Alpha male or not you must spend for the woman you love. Stop forming woke.

Me, immediately a guy say he loves me, he's my ATM.

Continue until they use you for rituals.

emmanuelbrown26:
Comr u can loud again and again. I keep asking what a Nigerian girl will offer aside sex which I can get elsewhere. Nigerian girls hv lost their values since late 90s to early 2000s

You have said it all comrade. We have asked this question on this forum over and over again "aside sex what do Nigerian girls have to offer a man in a relationship". Instead of answering the question, they insulted every guy on nairaland, calling them broke guys!

Mavor:
It is simps like you that are confusing these small girls up and down. Feeding that ridiculous entitlement mentality of theirs. We are now in 2022 and a lot of guys are now wising up. No time for nonsense anymore!!!

Louder bro!!!!

Increase the volume comrade!!!!

Zealag:
Once a lady invest so much in a relationship,she hardly leaves or cheat.Guys when you go into a relationship,force her to investment nd commitment then watch her withdraw the entitlement

This is very true comrade!!

MartinsD12:
The honest truth bruh but sadly 95 % of Ladies see dating as employment opportunity infact they want you to place them on monthly salary plus other allowances, it's quite shocking the way ladies see dating especially in this country Nigeria they see it as greener pastures same ladies who say love is caring if love is caring why can't you ladies too spend for the guys , guys be wise any lady that can't contribute anything other than spending will leave you broke and date another guy , Chose Wisely once in a while let her buy you gifts, let her use her money go market buy food stuffs cook for you

Increase the volume comrade!!! I just hope guys will listen to this great advice of yours!

dboY1123:
Very true... The babe I'm dating right now would even ask money for hair, she'd tell me she's hungry that I should send money, she wants to fill gas, data and so on..
She's working o.. I just told her I won't be sending her money again, last week, she asked Monet for hair, I just told her I don't have and she got it done herself..e no concern me..
Me wey d relationship don tire already just looking for excuse to run

What an entitlement mentality!!!

I'll advise you not to give that girl money again. She's emotionally manipulating you into fulfilling her demands and needs.

It is not the responsibility of a man to take care of a girl his dating at all. Let her know you won't condo such rubbish from her! If she says otherwise, refuses and starts acting funny. Then dump her asap and move on.

hkunle71:
Them don run away....

Comrade most of them are planning on deactivating their nairaland account

quentin06:
The Nigerian girls on nairaland will bash this thread, do you know the risks our girls take to honor a date? They travel long distances to destinations they don't know, borrow money, sometimes get there only to return empty handed, after being used by the guys.
There's the money ritual crew too, haba! Pity dem.
Its not too much to ask for compensation na.

Our greedy insurance companies and PFAs won't even develop packages for them.
Thank God for daddy OPM.

We understand all of these bro. A girl honouring a date isn't a big deal. She should be grateful to the guy who initiated the date in the first place. This is why money is highly important in a relationship. But however, Nigeria girls are making it seem like it is their almighty right to receive financial benefits from any guy who crosses their path. This is entitlement mentality and needs to stop!

dalass:
By your monicker, it shows the real reason you want to 'date'. Go to oloshos for your urges.

If you guys devote just about half of the energy and heckling over ladies to at least attempt to find solutions to the myriads of problems facing this country, Nigeria will enjoy her society

You seem pained and bitter. Are you not a human being to find solutions to the myriads of problems facing this country? This is exactly the entitlement mentality we're talking about.

I don't know why you Nigeria ladies hate the truth so much.

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend

Jmichael1:
Dating an average nigeria grl is a total waste of time and resources,i rather patronize olosho than date nigeria grl.....

You have said it all comrade!!

Divoc19:
Hear yourself well. The same men will call her loosed/control freak because she is independent.

So wrong. No man will call a girl loosed because she's independent.

When a girl is independent, it automatically accords some level of respect and value to her.

Sammy101111:
If a woman cant support you but demand she no be woman na theif

Increase the volume comrade!!!!

ShaqFu:
many of them will tell you, "I'll be giving you my hard earn money and you'll still be fvcking me?".

Bro, The fvcking was both enjoyed by the both parties. Abi na only the man dey enjoy am?

Nigeria girls are really full of entitlement mentality honestly