Mama Gee, not really but this is a true life experience. As we are sharing now those directly involved are wondering what to do. Is it wrong to help them?

Friends,

The stigmatization, the discrimination and the traumatization that those infected with HIV/AIDS go through in the society, the church, places of work, schools and the neighborhood is bad enough, but the worst is when family members treat such people as an alien.

How best should we treat a member of our family who we eventually discover to be infected with HIV/AIDS?
Do family members like father mother, husband, wife, brothers, sisters each have different roles to play?

Friends, help please.

Sunday Sun of December 6th 2009, p.44 tells a story of one Rasheedat Waheed who delivered a tortoise and then a baby girl at birth recently. The name of her husband is Dele. My fellow brothers and sisters what should Dele and his wife do? Should they kill the tortoise or allow it to live. If they allow it to grow up with the baby, can that baby accept that tortoise as her twin brother or sister?

Should a father or mother tell their child of a twin brother or sister that is not a human being?

How would you(of course God will not allow it)accept it when you are eventually told that, that goat, snail, tortoise, dog, cat or any other animal you thought is a house pet is eventually your twin? Someone needs your comments.

Your contributions are quite interesting, however let us be objective and constructive in our arguments. Let no one feels being attacked by the other. Actually a lot of people reading your contributions are learning a lot. Keep it up by giving more reasons why you think the proliferation of churches is either a need or nuisance. Thanks.

Baptism in some churches qualifies a person for church membership, church membership qualifies a person for communion, communion qualifies a person for heaven. Where then is the place of being born again? How will you explain it to some who desires to know?

In the same article where a man reacted to the issue on sex education for children as ", the worst case of child abuse brazenly endorsed by the nations education authorities and unleashed on today’s kids like a poisonous live snake!" A man responded to the issue this way, "SEXUAL ABSTINENCE: Rubbish! To demand that a girl abstains from sex until she is married is to impose an unbearable burden on our daughters.” (Ugochukwu Ejinkeonye, “Nigeria’s Last Virgins” The Vanguard, (Kaduna), 12 October 2006, p.39). If teaching children to abstain from sex before marriage is rubbish, what do we tag promiscuity before marriage?

Is it right for parents to encourage their daughters to have sex before marriage? Kindly give reasons to help others please. Thanks for your anticipated responses.

What do you think of the number of churches spread all over the place today? Was churches not meant to reduce corruptions and moral ills? What are the tasks of our own many churches? Someone is about to open another church again, I am not sure whether he was angry with his former church or has just received God's call. Help me talk to him now,

The debate has been that, all these needs can be met by 2 lovers without getting married. Why must we say 'I do' when we can achieve all these without getting married and possibly prevent future pains.

That was why I said, holistic completeness is in marrying. Something is wrong with meeting some of these needs outside marriage. Religious beliefs apart, even traditions understand that there is something wrong about those who believe in doing things ordained within marriage outside marriage. Having a life partner is never a pain, pains come from wrong choices. This is true of every other thing apart from marriage. Wrong choice is the mother of pain. A good marriage choice is one of the most wonderful things that can happen to any body.

Well meaning Christians, what do you think is the reasons for the random opening of churches all over the place today? Are all these churches needful or are there nuisance among the genuine one? Advice the next man who is attempting to open a new church please.

The reasons for marriage is simply to meet or satisfy needs. These needs may be physical, physiological, emotional, spiritual, economical, pressure-wise, societal, you can name them. Marrying is one way to live complete holistically except if one has other reason(s) not to marry.

Thanks for your reply. The particular child in question is terribly afraid when she is alone in her room and if for instance she woke up out of bed at any time and discovered she is alone, she screamed as if death stares at her. Her fearful reaction to sound, I mean some movie sounds even in our presence in the room is something else. Just this afternoon, the door was mistakenly closed against her and I could hear her shout for help at almost 500metres away. She is smart in every other thing except this. She is above five years old now and is already transferring this fearful attitude to her younger sister. Can any practical thing be done to help her apart from prayer?

Well, pastor Chris to me is a man of God and we all need to leave him alone. I am not a member of his church but these rumors and accusations need to be properly confirmed because if eventually the carriers are lying against this man of God, then we are drawn in with them for judgment if we contribute negatively. Falsehood does not thrive publicly without obviously betraying itself. Pastor Chris ministry is well known in Nigeria that we do not need South Africa to confirm its authenticity. After all, South Africans don't like much of the Nigerian feats so to say.

How do you handle a child with a terrible phobia attitude? I am aware that fear is common among children but the child whose fear-attitude is becoming unbecoming; how should the parent handle such case(s).

Hi friends,

I came across these lines in an article sometime ago, "… I could not imagine that anyone outside a mental home could be wicked enough to design a subject with such insidious contents even for kids of his worst enemy!, I consider the introduction of that subject (sex education) in our schools the worst case of child abuse brazenly endorsed by the nations education authorities and unleashed on today’s kids like a poisonous live snake!" (Ugochukwu Ejinkeonye, “Nigeria’s Last Virgins” The Vanguard, (Kaduna), 12 October 2006, p.39).

Since then I have been wondering if sex education is necessary for the contemporary children or not. As a father, mother, uncle, aunt, brother, sister, friend of the contemporary child; what do you think?

, one wonder at the rate the number of married men take off to pleasure-points to ease themselves every evening after "the days work" - If you know what I mean-, Anyway, the other day, Richard was tempted to just try it as other men do with ease before he meets his, You cannot afford the embarrassment of a disappointing marriage, do the right thing now. Check this address for details- http://101marriagecounsels..com

Thanks for reading the article "How to find the love of Your life." I am sorry I am not able to express my points to your understanding. I have just edited it and you can check again. Your reply is well appreciated. Keep it up. Tanx.

Don't you think that some mother-in-laws are wonderful? You should have qualified your subject by simply including "some" instead of generalizing all the mother in-laws. thanks, keep it up.

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