Romance › Re: When A Man Expects His New Wife To Call Him Daddy. by Gothblackgal(f): 7:52am On Sep 16, 2016 |
lol, very prominent among Yorubas. My dad also calls her "mummy". All things being equal. |
Romance › Re: Every Guy Works Only Cos Of A Girl by Gothblackgal(f): 7:50am On Sep 16, 2016 |
You have got it all wrong. We need money for maintaining ourselves and keeping our man or woman. We also do it for the society, to be respected as a growing young man. For our parents, who worked so hard for us, for our adorable younger siblings we are always shouting bro emeka, bro seun. We do it for our God, because there is no food for a lazy man, we do it for our children, to not go through what we have.
love y'all |
Romance › Re: Letter To His Father (pix) by Gothblackgal(f): 7:45am On Sep 16, 2016 |
at first, I thought it was his herbalist that was doing him.  love y'all. |
Romance › Re: My Guyfriend Knows My Neighbors Even Though I Invited Him To My House Only Once by Gothblackgal(f): 7:42am On Sep 16, 2016 |
Maybe he likes you  and think you are young and pretty... but nah, probably he has been there before  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Young Girls Still Follow Me Around Now I'm 30+ by Gothblackgal(f): 7:37am On Sep 16, 2016 |
half man is better than none.  |
Romance › Re: Who Is More Beautiful? Fulani girls vs Igbo girls by Gothblackgal(f): 7:35am On Sep 16, 2016 |
That's not what the OP is talking about. His question is which of these parts tend to have more beautiful ladies than the others.
There is racism everywhere in the world, but some countries tend to be more racist than others. Same way there is violence around the world, but some parts of the world tend to be more violent than others. The worst thing he added "light skinned" what happened to the genevieves to the daregos #TeamNigerianSkin |
Romance › Re: Where's Halfricanandian? by Gothblackgal(f): 7:32am On Sep 16, 2016 |
She went to Canada duh, and she joined Candaland  |
Romance › Re: I Dreamt About Cooking For My Boss, What Could It Mean? by Gothblackgal(f): 7:29am On Sep 16, 2016 |
Lol mamagee, you and your silly posts, abeg give her two awards  |
Romance › Re: MEN! Please Don’t Ever Consider Marrying These 10 Types Of Women by Gothblackgal(f): 7:20am On Sep 16, 2016 |
Lalasticlala... I kinda agree with some of these, but you see, in every relationship, you compromise. She might be high maintenance, and if she really loves you, she reduces the shopping spree. About the gossip, that can never change, its in our DNA  love y'all |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Sugar Mummy by Gothblackgal(f): 7:51pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
favoryte33: gotta name? I wouldn't wanna disclose it  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Sugar Mummy by Gothblackgal(f): 7:50pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
favoryte33: gotta name? U wouldn't wanna disclose it  |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Sugar Mummy by Gothblackgal(f): 7:41pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
favoryte33: Dont mind dat nigga jare...pls do me a favour,remove dat ur dp its giving me wet dreams. Lol, that's nice |
Romance › Re: What Would You Do If You Were This Guy by Gothblackgal(f): 6:07pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
It shows that you can't buy a girl's heart, go girl! |
Romance › Re: Please Help!! Should I continue with Her? by Gothblackgal(f): 6:05pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Tkayhandsome: Please stop saying rubbish here. If you don't have something to say don't comment. I beg you dude, please! don't take NL serious |
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Romance › Re: Please Help!! Should I continue with Her? by Gothblackgal(f): 5:58pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
We should come and die, because of your friend with benefits? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Sugar Mummy by Gothblackgal(f): 5:56pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
favoryte33: If i use d annoyance of dis recession call thunder for you,you no go like am. lol  |
Romance › Re: See This Crazy Maternity Photo.. by Gothblackgal(f): 5:33pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Totally disgusting. huh, keep your. body to yourself woman! |
Romance › Re: Why You Are Only His Sidechick Not His Real Chick by Gothblackgal(f): 5:26pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
How many times will they post this? if guys have SIde chics, then we can have side dudes also  |
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Romance › Re: What Is It Called When Ur Crush Has A Crush On You Too? (pic) by Gothblackgal(f): 5:18pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Crashes |
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Romance › Re: Guys: Why You Need To Stop Chasing Women And Focus Ur Attention On Making Money by Gothblackgal(f): 5:16pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
There is time for everything, you can accomplish a lot being married also |
Romance › Re: If You Are A Player Then You Will Love This. by Gothblackgal(f): 5:14pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
ooh, someone lend me yoga pants, sports 'bout to get interesting  |
Romance › Re: Get In Here!! by Gothblackgal(op): 4:57pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Lols,guy using a girl"s pic una no go wise?..people wey go cotonou go stil dey form american accent.. Huh uhn, I'm listening... |
Romance › Re: These Are The Names You Should Be Calling Your Girlfriends by Gothblackgal(f): 4:56pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Get In Here!! by Gothblackgal(op): 9:20pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
stiflerdrug: Have you been walking around without your pills again? I'm not a stone.er like you |
Romance › Re: Get In Here!! by Gothblackgal(op): 8:54pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
Surfboard: Haha, good. Welcome to Nairaland by the way.  Gracias! |
Romance › Re: Get In Here!! by Gothblackgal(op): 7:28pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
HateU2: whatever  Nice to meet ya! |
Romance › Re: Get In Here!! by Gothblackgal(op): 7:13pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
Surfboard:
 lmao, I don't know why I wrote that either |
Romance › Re: Should I Give In To Her Offer? by Gothblackgal(f): 7:10pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
Davindal: Hey guys! I need an advice.
There is this very tall, fair-compleioned, intelligent, and beautiful 22 year old girl whom I have been dating for a long time now, since when we were kids. We so much love ourselves. She is currently a 300level computer science undergraduate student of a higher institution. We have been in contact(talking on phone & chatting on Watsapp) ever since though our relationship is not a steady one - it has been off and on - no thanks to militating distance between us,
In the month of April this year, I traveled home to attend a burial ceremony; I didn't inform her I was coming around, only to mistakenly bump into her. She was shocked to her marrow upon sighting me. I didn't know what to tell her. Later on, I apologized to her,
Few days later(2 days), before a trip back to my base, she payed me a visit in my family house. My mum was a kinda okay with her, and by extension likes her(because she keeps asking after her). A moment after she arrived, I led her to my room for privacy sake; there she threw emotion-laden words of lamentation at me. I was speechless all through because I knew I was guilty(have wronged her), which later led to my concessions to her. In the cause of her expression of displeasure, she reminded me that I deflowered her, and promised her marriage. She went further to say that she has been keeping herself for me since then. Despite all the numerous toasters - which I later confirmed to be true - through my personal spies, around her school.
I, Consequently, made a plea to her in falsehood, that she was the one and only woman in my life - even when I know I have numerous girlfriends on my neck.
Ever since then to this moment, she has been insistent on paying a visit to me in my base. I have been objecting but decided to let her come.
On last night's phone conversation and watsapp chats, She informed me of her sexual starvation, and made it clear that she wouldn't want me to use condom on her. I objected on pregnancy and STDs(STIs) grounds, but she rejected saying that she would be willing to share whatever disease I might claim to have, that she loves and trusts me a lot.
Inwardly, I know that I'm one of the most unfaithful youths in the world but still can't help the matter. I know that this very girl can kill because of me, yet I can't help been faithful to her. I love her sincerely though, yet can't keep to only her. Right now I fill like crying for her.
Furthermore, she insisted on giving me a blow-job, and would even do more to please me as her man.
Now, the issues are:
How do I keep faith to one girl?
I don't like having sex without condom; I don't want to risk anything(she might hook me if pregnancy results)
I don't like blow-jobs; it disgusts me. Moreover, I hate it.
Other girls might see her, for I have yet to decide whom to settle down with.
Pls guys...no insults. What do I do? What does fair complexion have to do with anything, after getting into gobe, coming to us to advise, follow your heart, but take your brain with you! |