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How can u read 8 hrs a day ? Sheer waste of time.

Please let her keep her FG job , slow and steady she’ll attain the career fulfillment and financial stability she desires . See ehn , Coca cola Job will give her high blood pressure and she will run pillar to post chasing targets that even when met will never be appreciated ( oyinbo kind of modern day slavery) .
With my experience with all foreign companies is that she should stay put with her FG job . Thank me later

Osinbajo or osinbade… that one Na man too ? Midget

AlfaAce:
Good morning guys, Let me just go straight to the point - I finished with university in February and since then, I have been jobless. Applied for a few jobs but no response.

I finally got a job at a pure water factory but the salary was 11k, 6am - 6pm.

They usually give workers #100 to eat everyday, then they'll deduct it from the salary - Meaning at the end of the month, I'm taking home 8k.

This did not go down well with me so I rejected the job. Wanted to learn photography but there was no money. I really need advice at this point because my almost deadbeat dad is further making life miserable for me at home. It's messing me up mentally.

What skill can someone learn at an affordable amount within the shortest possible time?

How can u talk ill of your dad in public like this and you expect to have an headway . O boy! be humble and listen to instructions . Secondly find passion and you will never work in your entire life .

Dear All,
I would like to know the whereabouts of the hunter Nitlad - Olusesi Olaniyi Akindele (+234 8032477184) phone has not been reachable since he collected my #140,000.
This is a great community and the sanctity has to be protected .
Please if you have his alternate contact please share . Thanks

Dear All,
I would like to know the whereabouts of the hunter Nitlad - Olusesi Olaniyi Akindele (+234 8032477184) phone has not been reachable since he collected my #140,000.
This is a great community and the sanctity has to be protected .
Please if you have his alternate contact please share . Thanks

I will write a query to him termed breach of trust and read the response . From the tone of the response I can know weather to escalate or let it slide . Ire o

Penielly:
Thank you everyone for your suggestions,I really appreciate,but with cost of things now in the country,I would have need a second means of income, please anyone with good idea should help,I have not done business before,and I base in Asaba Delta state, please your suggestions will go a long way..

Please stick to that job you will grow on it . Dubai is hell for non foreigner expatriates especially Nigerians.

chelseamann:
check first page

Please help me . It’s not there ...

[quote author=D4donnn post=10108378

Finder or Deal hunter or Seller[/quote]Yes Deal Hunter

Please who has Lionless number ? A finder is trying to play a fast one.

Amotolongbo:
Imagine!
I could tell all countries of the world and their capitals before I clocked 16 cos I was so much in love with Atlas map since my childhood.
Reaching all countries on earth is my dream

And I’m here far older than her and haven’t traveled to any other country before than Biafra.

Is travelling to other country an achievement ?

It’s not just a yahoo boy thing .
I have used upscale Samsung before but i had to switch to iphone and I can’t use any other phone aside it . It’s so reliable that’s all .

Don’t be moved by what your wife earns . She’s just a supporter. Be the man that you’ve always been .

izito:
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

Omihanifa:
Marketing strategy

Adron homes...

Male boss anytime , they do not attach too much sentiments.

Wat a pity .

lekbel09:
TLC DEALS.

Iphone 11promax 512gb
Factory Unlocked.
To be shipped by bukiemore..
Price is ..378k

Hmu on 09060175155

Can anyone vouch for this guy?

The man in him died along ago.

na wa o... just few years into marriage , he's out again , few years he's into another woman .

Ipsum:
Iphone 12
Blue
128gb
Factory unlocked
Brand new, sealed.

TLC 358k

Hit me up on watsapp
07036290422.

Hier thermocool is the best in cooling.

I won’t be surprise if this man is always on hard drugs . Serial assaulter.

our grading system should align with what is obtainable around the world . In other climes, A starts from 90+ not 70+ like Nigeria.

Find money go buy iphone I am talking from experience .

Are we just asking for meters or prepaid meters ? Lifeless government

He is just blowing hot air , Nothing to take out . This is not a comradeship practice .

Go better school you no go , you come dey complain say u spend 11 years here. Jamb form is still out

FFK should work on his anger issue for him to keep a wife.

You need to be dating for her to enjoy such peeks .

This just showed that it takes a good man to be lucky ,Buhari is a curse.

Foolish leaders. School feeding program when schools are closed. Money must be looted .