me i no no the last time i straf i am looking for sex i have miraclusly become a virgin i need sex oh

me i dont know the color of money but i am better than the second girl and i want to settle down asap. i dey wait oh

chai c news anyway let me snap n show the whole world am using keke maybe rice will become 150 a measure n 6500 a bag

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Hope dat statue generates light for them, since Sango is the god of lightning

more like it looks very romantic see six packs well built kai i dey find correct guy like that

its that all hmmm he can not even pretend that he did not hear anything come niger in fact he will deploy missiles to clear us all mr mouth

children of these days sef, them no beat them commot yeye and so I blame the parents I dey pity my unborn children I will never spear them

Sunnycliff:
Abacus is not corrupt and he has never stolen....PMB, 2010

you can only be guilty wen a competent court proves beyond Reasonable doubt u are guilty then u are.

Michael Jackson dey this picture nobody mentioned him oh

SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help

my dear your post too long unfortunately I couldn't read tru .first of all u are not well u need to first be friends before u see the need to move to the need to move forward. You can't just jump that first crucial part many people have done that before and it ended terribly maybe those girls u feel u didn't like and ignore were maybe compartable ur loss. And why should they want to remain friends Abi u are not a man. I feel u are not a man even if it's me even friends sef I no gree

can I ever lack Wat to do God forbid after it was so clearly stated don't do this people will do meanwhile can I die for a man who knows absolutely nothing about Nigeria tried n failed to win the presidential election hoped for minster but was disappointed then revolution came to his mind leaving his wife n kids in New York. haba wen will Nigerians realize that politicians will use common gullible people to achieve their selfishness at the detriment of their lives. me I want to marry born plenty children and die of extreme old age not of stupidity

Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.

stupid man marry better girl no it's the worst ones u find marry while good girls like us the wait anyway it's ur choice

wen the don't vote for themselves who go vote them Abi is it to carry the seat give them without election

come make I help u na if u see my body u no go gree touch itself again hope ur dick never shrink oh cos I like it..............

mybestlove:
Please we have burning issues facing us in Nigeria to tackle, not this Gambian bullshit.

I'm in Aba right now, have not eaten since last night because of Buhari economy and you're telling me of Gambian woman.

Nairaland ehh, make I no vex.

them say make u read am kai

TDEMONEW:
see what Buhari has caused

see your small brain am sure it's Buhari that built the house. how old are you you sef I see you must be born wen Buhari came into power in 2015

awelekiti:
You are actually right as you said one of the accused was spotted during saraki's daughter's wedding...the accused and not one of the robbers, mind you. Saraki's boys were picked deliberately after the botched wards congress in Kwara. I was following the news trend from authentic sources all along. When an incident happens, the police stage an arrest of suspects which may not be real culprits anyway. Did you watch the video footage of the robbery incidence? Can you match those robbers with those arrested? They look more or less fulanis...please do a close matching...this is not about being partisan, we are educated enough to see things and spot the difference this day and age. I have a feeling saraki was persecuted, simple. It's part of our political game. Did you also not see a cardboard with saraki's name written on it and pasted in place of a number plate by the police? It's unfortunate our police are always being used to attack the opponents in Nigeria. I am not in support of impunity but I believe in justice and fairness. If saraki is found culpable, he should be made to face the music.

true but as the implicated him he said he did not know them later pics surfaced of them going to the oba place to pay condolence and also at his daughters wedding infact everywhere he goes they go. Saraki should confess shikenan

hope it's not her village people after her or the effects of drugs God help us

bigiyaro:
guy! calm down. gov lalong promised the hausas those two seats, forgetting that he cannot play God, he is trying to abuse the same system that brought him to power, how can kabong and tudun wada be inconclusive? these are the main pdp strong holds in Jos. God pass Dem we are watching and waiting.

over voting caused their problems there from a reliable source they were caught rigging so it was cancelled don't get me wrong people rigged oh and areas around Nigeria were cancelled too

bigiyaro:
The number of votes for the whole country was declared in less 3 days, but the results of just 2 local government could not be counted in over 4 days. The APC and GOV. LALONG are trying to perform magic, but we waiting for them.

Lalong is now inec and apc is Wat people people please grow up oh. or u think Wat you say will discredit his reelection think again

Petersamuel8:
my own plateau na pdp

only you oh. people don't know that other people differ from your own opinions but if it's not Wat you believe in then there is a problem please grow up

my able president Buhari if only u were younger I for toast u come marry you on top fine man with sweet character God bless you amen

my able president Buhari if only u were younger I for toast u come marry you on top fine man with sweet character God bless you amen

wizard how u take know say the no called 300000 were all pdp sour losers

ceeceeco:

No sensible citizen with a sane mind & clear conscience that has great love for his/her country, and also want the progress of his/her country will ever wish for an illiterate to be the president of his/her country. Not at all. How can a blind man lead in a place where they have many people with vision, or are we all blind? As for me, I can never accept an illiterate as a president. Never. Nigeria has no president, the last one they had was back in 2015.

good morning Mr sensible abeg move from road jare my President lives more over 4more years ticking so I suggest u leave this country

ZombiePUNISHER:


you are one of the microscopic few that enjoys bloodshed.... Never again

talk for yourself hmmmmmmm don't generalized but talk for yourself and family nonsense

jconsulting:
Anybody that thinks Buhari will better their lives will be sorry by June when you buy a litre of fuel at N250 and dollar exchange for N500, then you will know your next level, Buhari will be selling our asset to China and Morocco to manage the economy......
is like Nigerians dont know that the western world are watching us to make this mistake, Buhari does not have a single friend in the west or developed nations that can invest in Nigeria
A vote for APC is a vote for no future

really if it boils down to #250 then we will be fine. but wen ur father sells nnpc I wonder how much fuel will be sold maybe #1000 Who knows

ZombiePUNISHER:
Propagandists


No plateau resident is voting for Apc

liar me and my family will vote APC in jos. please don't spew out wat u don't know

saintbillion:
you are one of problems we have in Nigeria voting someone that was absent in a Presidential debate? Someone who couldn't represent u dear I weep for u

and atiku represented u wow. his show of shame unpararel any way his excuse Kai if I were pdp I for waka go another party is he going because of Buhari is it Buhari that would vote him now I know he has failed

deboysben:
Buhari knows he has lost it in plateau state

He's trying to fulfill all righteous

shock will catch u as for me n my households na buhari I go vote

Sirheny007:
Clearly, the side chick is more beautiful.


The wife is a fool for coming out to social media to rant about her marriage.
If you treated your husband well, he'd never have had a side chick.

I don't blame her this may have been the push to the wall and this is the only avenue she may feel secured if na me eh that man may not live to see any chick from any angle not to talk of side chick.WHO BORN AM nonsense some women sabi take rubbish though e. Pain me as she commit the rant for media but at the same time I have to try and look at her situation tufiakwa

asobo:
All these Bauchi agwan rogo boys et al. I will see if only them will make him win the election. A governorship campaign flag up this low key goes to show that he has lost touch with the people.

if u were there all this nairaland warriors will disappear fake people wait see how Lalong go humble u[quote author=elpj post=74454506]This was a gathering of N-Power beneficiaries from d 17 local government council who were asked to all come n collect there tabs n t-shirts not knowing that it was a scam. Many came back disappointed.[/quote them say its a thank u rally for ur small mind u wan go abuja thank them please I know u are not that dumb

asobo:
All these Bauchi agwan rogo boys et al. I will see if only them will make him win the election. A governorship campaign flag up this low key goes to show that he has lost touch with the people.

if u were there all this nairaland warriors will disappear fake people wait see how Lalong go humble u

panmunium:
Where's the crowd?, there was no crowd joor

were u there? Amebo