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Majek Fashek inda New Yorkkkkkkkkkk
R. I. P sir

Good one. I'll contact you soon

Wow. You did a great job. God bless you, I made my first akara reading your post. Thank you.

[quote author=amdman post=87899400]2006 Honda Civic

amdman:
2006 Honda Civic
No fault
162k miles
N1.3m

Can 1.3m deliver this car to my door step?

I see no issue here, 90‰ of Nigerian women nag. What you considered as a big issue in your relationship is a child play when you see real relationship issues. That woman don try for you o, she even gave you 450k to put your life together, most men never receive 5k from their wives/girlfriends.

No perfect marriage, honor her by paying her pride price. If you dump her, you think you'll get perfect person as wife, lol, it doesn't work that way. Devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

Congratulations. May the good Lord bless your union. Amen

Op. Your egungun don finally enter express...

eyinjuege:
I wonder o.

People just like beer parlour stories and will propagate it further.

These documents do get lost in real life, and they can always be replaced.



Why should your brother beat up his wife?
Violence is never tolerated abroad for any reason, and I'm sure he knew this.
So why did he do it? He didn't care about the repercussions abi?
Its normal to call the police for any reason. Even neighbors will call the police on you if they hear any noise from your house. Na their work be that.
I find it really annoying when Nigerians travel to another country, know they're immigrants with only residential permit and start misbehaving there. You will just lose all for a stupid reason and lack of self control.
Was the beating worth the consequences at the end of the day?

Woman never frustrate your life

lekki1444:
but this your story is not adding up lol. how did your brother with no papers bring a woman over to the UK ?

Are u alright, someone that have spent more than 10years in uk.

This same senero happened to my brother. The guy brought his family to UK. Wify started disrespecting him, he beats her up, she involved police and wholla my brother was sent back to naija without a dime.

Today, he looks like a mad man, no income, no job, take excess alcohol and tramadol.

The woman finished him, uk government sent him packing from his house he suffered to get in uk.

Some women are evil

Buy this drug and thank me later.

ademidedavid:
It's no longer a story that pastors divorce their partners, imams divorce their partners, highly educated people do same and even the so called marriage counsellors are not left out in the order of the day and it has always been a thing of worry for me with the thought that they never loved each other before marriage but getting married has changed my thinking and has made me realised that marriage only takes the grace of God to work out.

I have been married for 3 years with 1 beautiful daughter with a loving wife (maybe before and some years into the marriage). I have always believed that I cannever raise my hand on my woman since my father never did such but I find it hard to believe I did the unimaginable today although It wasn't intentional.

It was due to annoyance after she asked me to stop sitting at home and go work for more money like other men even though I am a federal worker with above 100k monthly income and still do personal work as a civil engineer apart from the federal job despite the lockdown.....

It really got me aggravated because I have been the one fending for the family and the kid for the past 3 years and never asked for a kobo from her.....

Although I have noticed the urge for very flamboyant life style in her lately and has even asked me to get more money at any means, that money is everything in this life even though I have tried telling her its a gradual process, she still doesn't listen and even asked me to raise money for her to travel out of Nigeria.

I have never thought of raising my hands on any woman let alone my wife.....

Please how do I change her sudden mentality towards this sudden extravagant life style because I pray it doesn't lead to something else since I can't do illegal things to acquire the type of wealth she dreams of?

Oga, don't put yourself under unnecessary pressure just to please your wife. Na her mate dey support their husband with millions. Wetin she don do for you?

Seems you exchanged words with your wife often. If e easy why she never make am and support you. Stop entertaining her with your response, she doesn't deserve it.

meetme01:
You don F-up. Raising your hands on any woman talkless your wife has degraded you. That's the bitter truth.

Back to the main issue. Your wife needs your unreserved apology. You need remorseful which is through your attitude. Let her know you are deeply sorry.

To her, is she not working? Why have you refused to set her up in a biz? One problem I have realized in today's marriage is, finance. It's really creating a lot of issues in most marriage. As a man, if you earn from three sources, declare only two. Let her know how the money is spent to the last kobo. That was the initial problem, you need to fix that part asap

You make absolutely no sense. Next time, don't give advice, you're not good at it

A broke man with constant erection will earn no respect from his wife. Barely 2 years of marriage you're already broke. Didn't you plan for the marriage.

You can barely feed yourself yet you went ahead and add another liability, marriage isn't by force.

Start by getting your life together. Improve yourself, put yourself first in whatever you do for now until you get your life together.

If things continue this way, I can assure you, you'll hate your life, depression will be your companion, someone else will heat on your wife. No woman likes a man who can't take charge, enough said

Babyforever:
Since she came to your apartment has she cheated on you ? I guess the answer is NO you see she's just like a baby under your care put somebody to watch her for you when she goes back and delete the guys contact invite her over and over again if possible give her head too since that's what is taking her outside that way the love will grow ooo nna

If don't have anything reasonable to contribute pls shut your mouth. Can you give the same advice to your brother. If you're the type that cheat in a relationship, you better desist from it else you might not be lucky.

AuroraB:
Pray Covid 19 goes away. No one's worth the virus' target practice . Enough of your lobbying

Don't quote me again. I'm done with u.

AuroraB:
All of you haranguing on school resumption, I ask, what is the color of your problem? Are you guys not tired of being silly? There's a pandemic and you are talking about school reopening. Who do una this thing? Kai!

Calm down ma'am. Million of Nigerian feed their family through schools... I do yearbooks for schools and I can't imaging what would happen if school don't resume on time as I'm loosing millions already. We can only pray and wish schools resume on time.

decatalyst:
Ah! This one is absolute disrespect to your person! They even fvcked while u sleep on the floor...and refreshed with your milk and bread? Ah!

I was ridiculed. Depressed for so many days. Though she came to apologize... At the end her pvssy ain't worth the stress because it smells like rotten fish

Addy003:
You just be mumu I swear ����

What do you expect, to fight them? Lol. Na u mumu pass. I called before coming and she never told me she had a visitor.... I got there late, there's little to nothing I could do. I can't get hotel at that time of the night 2.am

Though she came to apologized, but at the end the pvssy ain't worth it because it smells like rotten fish

exynos:
Lol... make i hear say i no kill people that night

Kill person over woman? Nah. Ain't worth it bro

yyba:
chairman are you related to lai Muhammed ? just asking for a friend. if you know you know

This's not fiction. True life story bro

Though she's my crush then, but I love her so so much.

She was schooling in ado, it was around 2010... I travelled from Lagos to Ado just to see her. Bought provisions (milk, bread, 5alive,soaps,bounvita etc).

I got to her hostel around 2am because there's a heavy traffic. I almost fainted when I met a guy at her place at that time putting on just boxer, she later introduced the guy as her boyfriend. Both of them slept on the bed while she gave me mat to sleep on. I couldn't sleep because I could hear them fvcking.

The following morning, she prepared the bread, milk and bounvita I bought with my money for her boyfriend. Oboy, I don suffer.

Ugochizey:
Do they do general repairs too and is their cost of repairs pocket friendly? I drive a Hyundai sonata 2009 and It needs some repairs, thank you...

I'm planning of buying this car after the lockdown. What has been your experience so far. Handling, maintenance, fuel consumption etc. Thanks

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crackkhaus:
Right... so do you have it or not?

Abirun... Lmaof

crackkhaus:
Do you have epilepsy?

Seun. You need to do something about all these teenagers given unreasonable advices on the forum. They lack intellectual ability to do so.

bukatyne:
I see two issues:

1. You both are earning below the standard of living you have set for yourselves. In what ways is your husband trying to increase his earnings?

2. Do you have a written budget where you can track income with expenditure so you see where you can cut expenses (I know what you have is not enough however, that will reduce the mental stress on you).

3. You have the classic egoistic Nigerian husband. How do you navigate them? By apologizing when issues crop up whether you are wrong or not. Yorubas call that apology 'gba je n simi' or 'sorry, let me rest.'
So issues come up, it is quickly 'sweetheart, sorry, I did not mean it like that.', 'sorry, no vex' etc.

4. His spiritual life: what happened to the man that wanted to be a pastor? Just how you leaned on him for spiritual growth, you might need to return the favour now.

And good that you have to wisdom to avoid his blows since you are still willing to stay.

You're smart and wise... No bias in your judgment. Surprisingly you're a woman

budaatum:
This is like sailing on a ship with an incompetent captain who refuses to take advise as he leads you all to destruction. Mutiny is of course the solution, but you probably can't divorce him.

You married an ignorant person and you need to educate him, or at least educate your children so they do not become ignorant like their father.

Wake your children up in the morning for Bible or Quran Study (or reflection on the previous day if you are not religion inclined, I add, for those who may not be religious but read this). Don't do it the traditional way however, whereby one person assumes to preach to everyone else, but let everyone say it as they understand what you've all read, then pray and go about your day.

And take the advice of putting some savings aside because he will leave you once he has ruined you and you'd be left with nothing to feed your kids!

Judging a one sided story is evil. Desist from it else you'll become a victim one day...

crackkhaus:


Well since you're tired of always being the one to ask him why he's keeping malice with you, don't you think it's time for you to start planning your move?

You said you don't have money yet and this is why you're still there... Madam start keeping/saving money aside small small, time dey go.

She should start planning her move... If she pack, na you go marry her abi you go give her your brother to marry. No problem without solution Mr advicer