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Jullima:
Well let me say most, because some women are enjoying their marriage. Don’t ever NOT have savings, there is no protection for you o. As you can see your 100% contribution is not even appreciated. Always, always have savings. Always save a portion of your salary, if anything happens, Igando will award you N500 stipends. Starting from now, set aside a portion of your salary and start saving, so you can always have an option to leave when it gets unbearable or you have something to fall back on if he puts you out.

But it's OK for the man to spend all his savings on the family, while it's important for the wife to save from her salary? Women with their selfish attitudes

Jaycew:
I hear it’s safer at night. How true please?

No idea

sylvez:
What Op did not tell us is that:
1. He use to abuse his wife
2. He also cheats on her
3. He no sabi Bleep
4. He doesn’t take care of his wife
5. The wife always feel used and lonely
6. He doesn’t respect his wife
7. He doesn’t help to take care of their baby
8. He’s always away
9. He doesn’t allow his wife to go out
10. He beats his wife

Now the wife had to resort to finding solace from anyone willing to give it to her.

This does not justify the wife’s cheating but there’s always cause and effect.

I assumed the above because Op did not provide complete info about everything.

Do you know the Op in person?

You claimed to be married yet she password her phone, for what reason exactly? I don't just understand marriage these days...

I'll advice you to give her a second chance but with fierce warning, something she'll never forget in a hurry. If not she'll find another way to chat with the guy again and this time, he'll bang her. A word is enough for the wise

Flyer

I lost interest in football because of this particular game. I couldn't eat for almost 2 days. I was downed emotionally. Uptill date, you can't see me watching football in my house or anywhere else.

700k. Engine pix

This's serious

Buy

marshalcarter:
most times the way most of Yall do advert eeeeh... which one is A foreign used Toyota with Engine....was the car suppose to come with septic tank before


wish you quick sales tho

Read the contents again, this time slowly... He said ' engine and other features in perfect condition'

ayobamiJR:
I'm so impressed. I'd try to think about it but one thing is, do you justify abuse on children?

You'd try and think about it, so you've never thought about it before? You're a big fool. You better go on your knees and beg your mother.... These things happened everywhere in naija homes... That woman is depressed, she's been shouldering all the responsibilities alone... If you don't want to ruine your life go and make peace with your mother.. Ungrateful fool, idiot

Any car that the ac is working is a good car, bad engine cannot carry ac... Op the price is too low

lekkys:
Is it first body

U want buy car of 250k u dey ask if na first body? U no serious at all

Based on the testimonies have read about you sir, I'd like to order Sienna 2005 or 2006 xle model from you.

Please let me know the landing cost and I don't mind if you've Pics you can show me

SweetCunt97:
You pretend not to understand him na. He's playing smart... Quite d stingy selfish husband you have.

You and this your insensitive advice again. It's high time mod ban you from giving advices in this forum.

The woman isn't working at the moment, the man foot all the bills, school fees, feeding, accommodation, medical bills etc the man is obviously working himself out to provide for his family, yet to tag him stingy because he forgt to celebrate his wife's birthday... Fear God o.

Op. Don't let this small issue create a bigger one in your home, the next time you wanna celebrate your birthday, post it on nairaland, we'll celebrate you, we're your family too

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nnamdibig:
He is obviously not ready to be a Dad. So no need telling about your child.

How old are u son? One day you'll get a wife and understand better, don't you ever judge one sided story like this one.

When the ceo was renting/furnishing an apartment for your 17 years old sis, you didn't complain...

You've comiited a terrible offense by terminating that pregnancy... That's murder

Amastermovic:
I will post tomorrow the quantity of the materials needed to the last block excluding roofing..
After that stage I might help u with d quantity of tiles needed also ..mind you u will fix d price to each material urself will just tell u d quantity..


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Thanks boss

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This's an insult to the word 'super clean'... U too dey abuse that word... Pls start using something else..

Please I need your assistance with costing of 4 bedroom bungalow somewhere at Agbara.
See attached pictures.

Now the engineer is asking for another 810k for German floor.

Kindly help me do the costing so I won't be ripoff.
Thank you.

Perfecttouchade:
the link to the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/2550211/general-topic-thread-to-discuss-anything/1345

Thank you

Valentine87:
this what some else spent in finishing all his bock work of a bungalow that is even bigger


This what I have spent to this stage.

Labour Cost for Foundation Excavation, Blinding and Block setting to Lintel = 180000

Blinding
Cement - 30 bags @ 2500 = 75,000
Sharp Sand - 20 tonnes = 32,000
Granite - 25 tonnes = 105,000
Total = 212,000

Foundation Block Setting & Sock away Pit
Blocks = 1400 @ 150 = 210,000
Cement - 30 bags @ 2400 = 72,000
Sharp Sand =15 tonnes = 24,000
Labour for Soak away = 62,000
Extra Labour Expenses = 20,000
Total = 388,000

Foundation Filling
Labour = 92,000
Laterite = 326,000
Total = 418000

DPC - Half
DPM Nylon = 11,500
Granite= 10 tonnes = 45,000
Tara = 10 tonnes =13,000
Sharp sand = 10 tonnes = 15,500
Planks - 25 pieces & nails = 25000
Iron
16mm - 4 lengths @4400 = 17600
8mm - 3 lengths @ 1250 = 3750
Binding wire =2500
Transport = 2500
Workmanship
Labourer = 40000
Welder and carpenter = 13000
Cement = 28 bags @ 2500= 70000
Wire Mesh = 10500
Total = 273,000

Above Foundation Block setting + 2 soak away pits
Blocks 4100 @ 150 = 615000
Water = 3000
Sharp sand = 36000
Joining sand = 18000
Cement @2500 =162500
labour = 56000
Total = 891000

Lintel and Pillars Casting
16mm - 8 lengths @ 3630 = 29040
8mm - 31 lengths @ 1030 = 31930
12mm - 34 lengths @ 2050 = 69700
1 binding wire = 4000
Transport & logistics = 4000
Wood and planks ➕ TP = 51000
Granite = Used remains
Sharp sand = 15000
Cement = 30 bags @ 2500 = 75000
Workmanship
Labour 40000
Carpenter 22000
Iron bender 17000
Total =360000

Parapet and soak away Casting
Iron plus
12mm - 30 lengths @ 1970 = 59100
8mm - 51 lengths @ 1420 = 72420
Big Binding wire @ 7000
Extra iron = 9000
Quarter rod - 15 lengths @ 200 = 3000
Transport = 3500
Workmanship = 25000
Wood and cutting = 175000
Nail = 11100
Transport = 4000
Workmanship = 40000
Granite = 20 tonnes = 100000
Sharp sand = 15 tonnes = 21000
Cement 50 bags @ = 130000
Labour = 50000
Total = 710,000

Electrical
20mm pipe = 2 bundles @2100
25mm pipe = 1 bundle @ 3200
Electrical materials = 14000
Workmanship =9000

Plumbing
Internal plumbing
Cost of pipes and accessories = 47,000
Labour = 18,000

Valentine87:
this what some else spent in finishing all his bock work of a bungalow that is even bigger


This what I have spent to this stage.

Labour Cost for Foundation Excavation, Blinding and Block setting to Lintel = 180000

Blinding
Cement - 30 bags @ 2500 = 75,000
Sharp Sand - 20 tonnes = 32,000
Granite - 25 tonnes = 105,000
Total = 212,000

Foundation Block Setting & Sock away Pit
Blocks = 1400 @ 150 = 210,000
Cement - 30 bags @ 2400 = 72,000
Sharp Sand =15 tonnes = 24,000
Labour for Soak away = 62,000
Extra Labour Expenses = 20,000
Total = 388,000

Foundation Filling
Labour = 92,000
Laterite = 326,000
Total = 418000

DPC - Half
DPM Nylon = 11,500
Granite= 10 tonnes = 45,000
Tara = 10 tonnes =13,000
Sharp sand = 10 tonnes = 15,500
Planks - 25 pieces & nails = 25000
Iron
16mm - 4 lengths @4400 = 17600
8mm - 3 lengths @ 1250 = 3750
Binding wire =2500
Transport = 2500
Workmanship
Labourer = 40000
Welder and carpenter = 13000
Cement = 28 bags @ 2500= 70000
Wire Mesh = 10500
Total = 273,000

Above Foundation Block setting + 2 soak away pits
Blocks 4100 @ 150 = 615000
Water = 3000
Sharp sand = 36000
Joining sand = 18000
Cement @2500 =162500
labour = 56000
Total = 891000

Lintel and Pillars Casting
16mm - 8 lengths @ 3630 = 29040
8mm - 31 lengths @ 1030 = 31930
12mm - 34 lengths @ 2050 = 69700
1 binding wire = 4000
Transport & logistics = 4000
Wood and planks ➕ TP = 51000
Granite = Used remains
Sharp sand = 15000
Cement = 30 bags @ 2500 = 75000
Workmanship
Labour 40000
Carpenter 22000
Iron bender 17000
Total =360000

Parapet and soak away Casting
Iron plus
12mm - 30 lengths @ 1970 = 59100
8mm - 51 lengths @ 1420 = 72420
Big Binding wire @ 7000
Extra iron = 9000
Quarter rod - 15 lengths @ 200 = 3000
Transport = 3500
Workmanship = 25000
Wood and cutting = 175000
Nail = 11100
Transport = 4000
Workmanship = 40000
Granite = 20 tonnes = 100000
Sharp sand = 15 tonnes = 21000
Cement 50 bags @ = 130000
Labour = 50000
Total = 710,000

Electrical
20mm pipe = 2 bundles @2100
25mm pipe = 1 bundle @ 3200
Electrical materials = 14000
Workmanship =9000

Plumbing
Internal plumbing
Cost of pipes and accessories = 47,000
Labour = 18,000

Thank you for this

Don't panic. He'll come home with his 2 legs. Trust God Almighty

2.5m

francmoda:

Na you say extremely negotiable... Happy sales

Clyod:
.parental care from a chronic womaniser. If I hear.

Pls stop telling ladies to watch War Room

What should the man now watch

Ma'am devil you know is far better than the angel you don't know. So you prefer she divorce the father of her children and start sleeping with random men who probably has the same way of life like her husband?

Father figure is very important, as far as he doesn't bring those holes into his matrimonial home, I think she can still cope with him. Is not always rosy outside the marriage the way you guys paint it to be, no angel outside o. She'd be surprised alot of women are praying for such a man to be their husband, they don't care how he chose to live his life, they're ready to marry him with all his garbages. We should be guided, no be everything be divorce.

SweetCunt97:
Guy don't b silly. It's definitely normal for a visiting relative to help around the house.. U simply painting a picture that is non existent of that girl's character. Let's call a spade a spade. If na me, I for do about turn return to my papa house,... Who she eep

Me and u no dey the same category, don't ever use the word silly for me. Whatever rock your boat. I'm done with u

1.1m serious buyer

SweetCunt97:
Just imagine! Stop normalizing abuse ooo. Child of the sibling you grew up and played with came visiting and the first thing u do is ask d person to clean ur dirty house? U no offer am water or anything o... Abeg u must b a wicked person. U for talk say na househelps u want na.

I'm very wicked, I know. But stop being emotional. Put yourself in her sister's shoes, you have a sister inlaw who does absolutely nothing than to seat and watch Telemundo, no help whatsoever, just to wake up and eat your food, how would u feel? I'm sure you'll never take that shit.