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Ugosample:
a mam who cheats on his wife does not love his wife in the real sense of it (in many many instances)....

He is only still interested in the relationship he has with her, and by extension his kids there is a big difference

most men in consecutive settings (esp. in Nigeria) see their wives as a means to an end, no love

to cut the story short, many many marriages in Nigeria are not based on love (either from the man/woman)

sisisioge:

Let me even change it sef

sisisioge:

Let me even change it sef

sisisioge:

Let me even change it sef

sisisioge:

Let me even change it sef

sisisioge:


Let me even change it sef

sisisioge:

Let me even change it sef

namiji2598:
then y can't she tell him she can't marry him??!

Jephyard:
What most you all don't know is that the dude crying has invested alot in the relationship. The dude is not weak just don't know how to bear the lose. He will get over it but the next girl that will come his way I pity the most, this is how demons are created.

sisisioge:


Bet the love is nice though. I kinda love it when someone loves another like kilode,especially if its a guy doing the loving.

namiji2598:
every woman has a choice of a man she needs, not all ladies desire a strong man as u said, if she truly desired a strong man then y did she even continue the relationship and even agree to marry him,their is never an excuse for cheating

and the guy is nt as weak as u think, a weak guy a weak guy u claim then where did he get the liver he is using to threaten the guy she is cheating with, the guy is nt weak, what makes him weak is love


naso my girl tell me today say she started cheating because of the distance between and her and I don't call her again as it use to be bro pls their is never an excuse for a decision u take

acounter2:
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Ogun:- (charm)

Ogun:- (war)

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Ogun:- (long)

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Thegents6:
Dear ladies,
Some of you do not know how to show love to the guy you are dating. Some ladies think that the
only way to show a guy love is by having SEX with
him; that is why some ladies do not have anything
to offer a guy except sex. SEX is not a PROVE of
LOVE. Don't use sex to prove that you love a guy. As
a lady, you can prove that you love a guy in the
following ways:
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1. Buy gifts for him. You can give him gifts of T-
shirts, shoes, wrist watches, undies, singlets or even a phone if
you have the money.
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2. Take him out for lunch and pay the bills at least
once in 2 months. It is not bad at all.
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3. Send him some love text messages occasionally.
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4. Give him phone calls daily at least once daily,
ask him how he is doing and tell him that you love
him.
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5. Occasionally you can cook a delicious meal for
him, maybe once in a week or once in two weeks,
but not everyday like a housewife.
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6. You can also help him financially when he is broke.
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7. Take him out for shopping at least once in a
year, YOU WILL NOT DIE.
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8. Pray for him
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9. Advise him
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10. Help him to build a bright future.
Be an ODOZIE AKU and not an ORI AKU
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I know some ladies will crucify me because of this
post, but this is the ideal thing to do for your guy,
not SEX! SEX!! SEX!!!
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Dear Guys, I hope say I talk una minds sha?

chibuzorAbia:
Apologies. That your brother needs to face the harsh real world he is born into. So you will continue with this into your old age?
Goodluck bro! We live in a harsh world bro, if care is not taken that bro with his problem will bring you down! wait until you hit your 50s.
All the same good luck! The mad man is even going from woman to woman?

chibuzorAbia:
Haba! Dey there dey jones.........Give that your brother a rope to hang himself! See how quickly he would change......nonsense.
You are being weak and it would cost you plenty!

Rosarie:
He is not into you. He knows ur flaws and good sides. He has choosen it'ss best he remains friends cos he can not marry you. If not he would have long made the move. If u date him;u will not be happy cos it will be a one sided thing. Some relationship are best left the way they are

HigherEd:
Hmm I u understand why ministers of the faith movement, the likes of Hagin, Oyedepo and Copeland would thoroughly hate that line because most believe the redemption package doesn't permit Christians to be sick or poor in the first place. But the reality is that many Christians live short of God's desire for their divine health and financial prosperity. And you don't want a situation where marriages collapse because of money or health issues.

Therefore, that line though Unscriptural was a necessary innovation from the medieval church to bring marriage partners into a vow bound by death. To ensure that no one jumps ship when things get low - which in many cases it does. In doing so, the church has removed the option of divorcing your partner for circumstantial reasons and reinforced that it would not be part to relationships inspired by benefits only.

My reservation is when major ministries abandon that line it would further weaken people's commitment to lifelong marital covenants.

The only evil the church has been culpable in is not encouraging victims of marital abuse to separate from their abusive spouses - something the church must work on.

UncleJJ:
This how they destroy people's marriages. They copy all sorts of stuff from American blogs and paste it into your life.

He said "wash the plates even if you have a maid" Like WTF

Capensis:
Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to day, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving your pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

You think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.

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