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@ tope5000. be sincere, whatabout the benefits of marriage. no matter how rich u are, female cooking spices up ur marriage more than any thing else

question? is she willing to cook? if she is willing teach her or take her to a teacher, but its not as easy as u may think esp if she sees that cooking

ability as a criteria to continue a relationship, what if she is a slow/poor learner, she  may get fraustrated trying to please u, u may get impatient with

her esp if u hav a high taste like me. If you can cope with all these, fine. as for me if my gf cant cook and cant learn, life could be very miserable o.

she musto know how to cook and musto know it well well cos i sabi cooking myself, na me go dey cook for am?

Ur story is pathetic, quite unlucky tho, i think u tried, to make it fair, lets see "my(your) dirty linen, a letter to my(your) next girlfriend". Thers

always 2 sides to a story, mere fact that u put up with that shit long enough b4 bursting tells me u need some revving up!

ur girlfriend! thank ur stars, not ur wife. Learn ur lesson.

@ oyinda

there is really no good person, i think d ultimate criteria is a yearning and an effort to be a right person, to drop all we know is bad about ourselves

rather than deny or explain them. I'll dig for that kinda person.

I feel 4 u o! wooing is a dynamic affair and you obviously are not skilled. I wish i could teach u some good stuff, anyhow, i paid a bigger price to

learn all i know now, maximum 6 months if u dont win , run , with the right skills, she'd be back begging

Marriage is not a proof of love o!, love is essential in marriage but that is not all, if u dont believe, ask divorcees

my advice, "die without his love" but dont kill urself o!, if he's yours, he wont live without you, he,ll raise u up.!!! but dont capitalise on his

misfortune. take it slow.

everybody think they are good in their own way, issue is relationship sometimes is work and the work is about readiness to change, 4 get about this goodness thing , xtimes, good people end up bad and bad pple end up good. The right man/woman is willing to consistently make the right compromises in attitude  etc.to make the deal work,  think right, not just good

my friend, no matter how much u trust ur girl, ladies generally have a propensity to fall for some1 they appreciate a lot. If u smell rat, then the rat is

already there, take charge ,tell her to stop seeing this guy and tell her why, u know how to do that. don't wait for it to happen. , wahtever we

love, we improve, we appreciate, we scold and we protect, and if necessary, we avoid, dt wont happen 2 u. gud luck.

because the good guys are bad toasters and the bad guys are good liars

Good for sunny ade, u see, we are in an ever changing world, There is hope for pasuma, barrister,kollington etc, pastors and imams should teach

religious studies, yem kem will soon be allowed to teach medicos, but then what happens to the university curriculum and professionalism?, we are

moving into an era where professionalism is not defined by routine but by results, our world is gradually getting impatient with scripts alone!

Well, i read ur story but i feel u shd hav an open mind. U seem to have a fixed mindset and get dissapointed if the guys u meet dont fix into ur idea of the right person. believe me, some of the best things we want dont come when we are in need, When u meet a guy u like, dont expect 2 much, let them evolve and when they dont fit into ur xpectations, it will help u to deal with it, i mean to 4get them while u prepare ur mind 4 the right guy, I tell u, he may come when u least xpect. gud luck