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i smell rat in this whole stuff. Why 5 banks in the first place. Let CBN tell nigerians the status of debts in other banks, i dont believe there are 5

banks involved and it is obvious that there is some political game being played here. Let them show us the white, we are not satisfied with the

black alone. Not that i support non performing loans though. By the way, where does soludo fit in in all these.

no big deal, am not against the cause, the means of achieving ASUU's requests are simply unproductive, sorry, counterproductive, detrimental,

unrealistic and extremely shameful, funny thing is these very ASUU people will go into politics and start messing up like the FG they are fighting.

I wonder why in this country, it is the so-called Accademia ie ASUU that are the most backward. They are a bunch of old fashioned, atavistic , archaic

anti-progressives who cannot fashion out a peaceful, intellectual way of achieving their aims, but prefer to prey on the future of millions of

Nigerian Youths all in the name of STRIKE.

u are indeed catching fun. so what do we call the show? amakamansion. really am willing to contribute in cash if u are serious. u got a nice pix

because we sometimes feel that all eyes are on us, yes its not always so, it sometimes is.

abeg. contacts pls?

what____ _______today?

can i love or hate?


@missy B, if tis u, u have one helluva profile, yes u kno. so do i

whether prophet subscribes or not does not guarantee d future of the relationship, she is using a manipulative means to get him committed. the

guy shd enter d relationship with his eyes open. av bn thru dis b4

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I'm no soothsayer, but i smell rat in this thing, most relationships this complicated nosedive, in any case if the story is true and both are in love,

there is little the elder sister can do however if she feels that the guy will be a threat to the happiness of her younger sister, she shd come in all in

the interest of the younger sister; emphasis, the important person here is the younger sister, that guy may hurt her.

@ romeo4real


u got it, excellent response

@ all posts so far. So impressed with all of it, I'll say hold on to anything but a wife who wants to walk away for no good reason: tis really sick trying

to hold on to such a wife, if you succeed, u'll end up being manipulated.

If u were to choose pleasing God over pleasing men, what decisions would you have taken differently in the past 5 years?

gerrout, u a ru funny, wipons of mass instructions

nothin from ur post tells me the kind of relationship u want!

meant little to me, my imagined 1st kiss meant more

@ whiz kid, u fine o

settle for me, joke really, d truth is within u, i think u have a decision problem. Settle 4 the man u can trust

handwriting is on the wall, sooner or later that relationship will nosedive

men i feel u o! bliv me, we dey in the same shoes. i think its manipulative

good talk

I love this thread cos marriage consummates that long awaited expectation and determines what
happens in the future, but you see, the way God created man, he made self esteem a pivotal point in
man’s self actualisation.
Man will rebel against anything that undermines his self esteem sooner or
later, he either moves towards it, with aggression or away from it, in recluse. If a lady foots the bill
there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, but what happens? Can both of them, and the family
psychologically adjust to the change that is bound to occur in the wedding or marriage life. It takes
extremely matured people to handle this situation. If they can handle it fine, if not , life will be very
miserable for the man unless he is not like one of us, he will be suffering in silence, se na by force to
marry when u no get money? And trust women , make one mistake and they will be quick to remind
you how it all began.
On the other hand today is very certain, I assure you, but who knows
tomorrow? What if the guy is so rich he can pay for ten weddings at once, then, after 1 year gbam!
he goes crippled and can’t work for the rest of his life. My conclusion is that everybody should be
complete b4 this marriage thing; psychologically to deal with the unpredictable and financially to
deal with the predictable.

mere fact u posted this question means u are worried already. consider the implications of all d options, find out the good side and bad side of

adoption, then decide . gud luck

i told obama to contest

The guy is in d best position to decide, he can't be wrong whether he decides to go or not, in any case, he shd call her and wish her well.

nothig wrong really but if u are the picky type, be ready for a lifetime of "pickment", cos after you get what u want, u start seeing things u hate.there comes a time when u shd close ur eyes and appreciate what u have.

I think d thermostat mechanism works. know how to adjust urself, if u r hot and he is cold u wld not like it. same thing goes 4 the guys

back 2 topic, @Gabry, u were willing to work hard at it, now u r d best. Thats what u shd encourage others to do

Dear lover boy, if I must be frank with you, I will tell you that you do not know what you are doing. You should be thanking God that even when you we re stubborn and adamant on treading through the dangerous relationship that is capable of leading you to no other place but failure in spite of all the signs that God was showing you by revealing the girl’s secret to you, you were just being unnecessarily worried. Free that girl, and ask yourself what you want in a woman instead of going for just anything. Place a value on yourself and don’t think that if you don’t marry that LovePeddler, you cannot have a future. Pray to God, do things right, I mean God’s way and He will give you a daughter of Zion. All the best, if you will listen.