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Away match led him away permanently...... Too bad

My sympathy goes to the wife and the three little children.

Good gesture!




YOU DON'T NEED TO BE THE RICHEST MAN ON EARTH BEFORE YOU CAN HELP YOUR NEIGHBOUR.- Afe Babalola



I love this!

God blessed her hustle! May God bless our hustle too

shugasofttouch:
My fiance of 6 yrs just broke up wif me cos I stood my grounds on him living d lady he met last year august n is having an affair wif. He claims not to love her n dat there's a reason he's seeing her he promised to end it wif her december. As soon as I found out he's still seeing her I got angry n asked him to liv her or risk loosing me n he said cool. He'll rather liv me which he jst did now. I'm really in pains right now.

You knew he was having an affair with another lady since last year August, you confronted him, he didn't deny but gave you ultimatum that he will leave her in December, you agreed and continued your relationship with him based on that promise? Now, he just told you that he would rather leave you than leave the other lady............... Is this what really happened?


If yes, I have nothing to say.

If no, please, elaborate.

@ dollyjoy, my post wasn't directed at you, in fact, I doubt if I've ever seen your comment because I rarely visit romanceland. But let me tell you, if truly you have that mindset, please change it, if not, it will cost you full respect from such a man.

Not that I support in totality what the op wrote, I only chipped in my own observation and a need for our ladies to change such mindset. If you observe me very well on this forum, I avoid confrontation, argument, and unnecessary name calling.






For those who are talking about number 1point, there's nothing wrong with being careful, at least I was careful in choosing who I wanted to marry, I thank God for who ended up with, but there's a difference between being careful and being too careful. You can't have it all in a man,compromises have to take place, if need be, there's no way you can have it perfect except you want to create such a man by yourself. I think that's what the op was trying to pass across.

May God help us all.

TheSonOfMark:
Oddly , your post is directed at her and her ilk. She's one time too many admitted , albeit shamelessly, that she wants a man who'd take care of her financial needs without categorically stating what tangible thing she'd bring to the relationship. Remember that saying about geriatric folks being uneasy at the mention of dry bones? Well , this is one of such scenarios. Below is one her numerous leeching posts :


https://www.nairaland.com/3447076/question-female-money-freaks/1#50774102

No wonder!

How could I have known that? No wonder she personalized my comment, whereas I was only stating my observation.

And that I started my opinion doesn't mean that I support what the op wrote in totality, but just an avenue to educate my fellow ladies that a lady who want a man to be completely responsible for all her financial needs cannot earn so much respect from such a man.

dollyjoy:
Going by your nairaland gender you are a female hence might be guilty of one or two mentalities listed by the op. The fact that someone's own varies from yours doesn't give you any right to ask stvpid questions.


We are all,at one stage or the other guilty of those things op listed. Nobody should come here to form any nonsense abegi.

I stated my opinion based on what I've seen among nowadays ladies, without quoting you or any other lady, why couldn't you state your own opinion same way without triggering unnecessary confrontation or reacting as if the post is directed at you

5. I want a man that will be responsible for all me and my children's financial needs.



This is rampant and very very annoying!

How can an able bodied person have such an annoying mindset and still want the man to love and respect her

seunny4lif:
As the prayer change the government from stealing them blind
Praying for Mimiko to pay thier salaries abi what are they praying for ?
Nigerians will pray from morning to Night yet the situations are getting worst

You dey mind them?
Nigerians are the most religious, yet the most corrupt, most selfish, most hypothetical.

Hypocrites

But that will not prevent many of them from being evil and corrupt.............



Go there now to get something done now, many of them won't attend to you on time except you bribe them.



Hypocrites......

May God meet you at the point of your needs

Atiku2019:
You want to compare the Stealing under Abacha/Abusalami to any Civilian Government?

You dey mind him?
He probably didn't know the damage done to his Messiah, PMB, with that comment.

sarrki:
Don't forget that he didn't take over from Gej

You probably don't know the damage you've done to PMB with this your comment.

You've just finished him!

free2ryhme:
Where were they when these MNC started the knowledge transfer and succeed in disengaging Nigerians? Were they sleeping

Toothless bulldog

Medicine after death

You dey mind them

They're indeed toothless dogs, they can only bark but can't bite!

Do we still have NLC in this country



Believe them at your own peril!

MMM this, MMM that!!

The noise of those who ain't in this MMM is more than those who have money there.


Abeggi

Dino..............Always talking

This life sha..........

If this is true, it means the brother have only been lavishing the money sent home by this couple for the building and he quickly eliminated them when they arrived to avoid being asked about the building.

Son of man


I'm still wondering how the judgment day will be, if truly there is judgment day.

This life sha..........

If this is true, it means the brother have only been lavishing the money sent home by this couple for the building and he quickly eliminated them when they arrived to avoid being asked about the building.

Son of man


I'm still wondering how the judgment day will be, if truly there is judgment day.

ishowdotgmail:
You and who?

Better don't say such again or else

But it's more common in Africa. This is not the first nor the twentieth time of hearing stories like this. I think that's what he's trying to say.


Africans....... Why evils

whirlwind7:


Pardon me, its nothing to laugh about.
But the nasty thing is, that is how we roll in Africa! Be warned

One question has been popping out of my mind for long, maybe you can help me out.......... Will the judgement day for Africans be different from other races Because the evils being perpetrated in Africa or for being African seems to be more than that of other races and continents.


Is being an African synonyms to being evil?


I don't just understand.


May their souls rest in peace!

This life sha..........

If this is true, it means the brother have only been lavishing the money sent home by this couple for the building and he quickly eliminated them when they arrived to avoid being asked about the building.

Son of man


I'm still wondering how the judgment day will be, if truly there is judgment day.

Inconclusive elections loading...............








But time tell!
We're hopeful!

I've said it before and I'm saying it again that, in this 2017, we're going to see more and crazier pre-wedding pictures.



This is one of the crazy ones.

That't for the parent to decide!
Personally, There's no need choosing different year, just choose the year you want and put a five minutes gap difference between the time of their birth. They're twins for God's sake. This life is so simple, one doesn't have to complicate it for him/herself and for the kids.



My personal opinion, please!

African outfits really look good on Nicki and Beyonce! They both look elegant in those outfits!

Whether 14 or 19, this isn't just appropriate!

Expecting to see more and crazier pre-wedding pictures this year!

Congratulations to her!




I can't imagine how Dora Akuyili will be so missed by her and other members of the family.
This life.........

You're so lucky that all the posters above have all said almost the same thing.


No kidnapping at all at all.

Adopt other means like the ones suggested above, but never think of kidnapping again, if you do, before people know that you're fighting for the right course, you'd have rotten in jail.

Happy wedding anniversary to you.

Wishing you many more blissful years!



Your wife is beautiful!

Lol@ take your number.....


As if after sending back the number,, he won't still see it again (the number)


The girl sef no send........