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LordScent:
Glory be to God

Yeah... those pics or story were old news. it was just last month that a news of having a heart to call his own has been found.

Happy for him.

In some quarters, guys will say you do not woo a girl in this current time.

And certainly, events have shown that this true.

I was busy professing love, speaking how much I want this girl and want her to be mine BUT all I get was rejection, or indifference.

After while I switch to flirting mode and all seem well with her.

Another girl whom I kinda have a respect for have been acting same way as well. She wouldn't want to admit outrightly or accept when the question is ask. She would prefer I do not even ask her to date me but to just flow along.

Mind you, if I choose this route, I can easily bolt out--after all, "we were not dating" or "I never asked you out"

Compared to case whereby the relationship is defined from the onset.

So I ask: Do modern day Nigerian lady prefer not to wooed? Do they prefer undefined relationship to a defined one, a case that seem like flirting?

He has found a heart.

Sugarhugs:
Hi guys, anyone of you know where I can get a customized necklace with ma name on it here in Naija? Please help out if yo can.

not sure if you have gotten the solution you seek but I am sure you can find something of that sort on Aliexpress.com

tumble:
ah ah, its dry land na. you need to come to our office lets take you there for inspection

Bro, From Lekky upwards is not dry. Reason why foundations in those places are usually different from other areas, which involve concrete and boulders used for the foundation.

So PRETTY... Seems she is married already though, which is very good. Else, dem for use koboko scatter kpekus

I wished this place was a dry land.

EOOJ:
yes boss i understand u but u nid to know dat even if som guys have good intentions, some ladies wud still not reply their pm. This could be as a result of their previous experiences wit badt guys or just d normal woman yanga but wareva d case may be, my point is dis....if as a guy, i send a pm to a lady, no matter how good my intentions are, if she dosent reply me, then i move on to d next tin in life. Just me tinkin out loud. I no get dat time to dey wait for pm

Nice one bro

Lol, I am not waiting for anyone to reply my PMs o. Just created this thread out of curiosity as well as to while away time.

EOOJ:
Na by force to send gal pm neh Even if u decide to swnd n she ni reply abeg, na beg i dey beg u, move on or do like d previous poster said, go offline

Haba!!! Life is too short and too sweet to be waiting to get pm bak from a lady ooo

Lol, bro, certainly life is too short. We can't save everyone. Just saying some dude might good intentions and they will think otherwise.

Trust me, it happens.

[quote author=MissHatey post=47726184][/quote]INDEED!!!!

senibo1:
what about little? I don't mean much make-up


bro. i admirer make ups. not much, I've paid for a make-up class for my bae cause i find her style of make-up un attractive.... that should be 2014.. like seriously I did!

and now you just contradicted yourself. lol. You have finally agreed to what you initially disagreed to. My earlier post stated :"Too much makeups"

Yuneehk:
Personally, its only normal I check your profile. Not necessarily for photos but your posts. One who's never sensible will never get a reply from me I'm sorry.

The ones with vulgar monikers, mba mba oo.

For a few, I reply but probably due to network issues, it doesn't get to the recipient and he concludes ladies don't reply PMs

For others, I hardly check my mail and forget I'm to reply a PM.

Yours seem much more reasonable. By the way, moniker has no correlations with people's offline personality and neither does their post. It just depends.

senibo1:
who is talking about your turn off buddy.


let call a spade a spade, make-up helps

not in all cases, buddy! And you should know that by now

MissHatey:
I said read the reasons ooo.

ok MissHatey.

ronald4lif:

senibo1:
you're the kind of girls op is referring to, your comment compelled me to check your profile, you know what I saw? rubbish

your ain't having only but thausands of location on your profile, you even have the guts to include Iran and Iraq. who does that??

lala is the only person you following you still have the guts to spew trash of the kind of pm you"d reply. do you think we are that gullible

btw cute. are you cute your self? who cuteness epp?

Too much makeups turn me off either, especially if it's like coke and fanta on the applied regions.

FlawlesRebirth02:
I do reply pms

no=if you don't have a pic on ur profile(do not think about it)

no2=your thread reads trash eg...I LOVE SO SO So.. I WANT TO FVCK(dont even come close)

no3=you no get location... nothing nothing... no only 'm' de dere(na knife I go take cut ur pm)

ya not cute(pls forgerriiit)



oya m awt

Okay

1. She is smart and intelligent.

2. She is very current with the happenings in the country and knows politics/history

3. She is naturally beautiful, even without makeups.

4. She is a go-getter and a remarkable pace-setter

5. Do you qualify for any of the above?

sexymoma:
Most of us don't even know our email account.
most of us has forggoten our p/word
most of us can't access our account
While some of us get multiple account...so wer nor even know which account get email.

hmmm... quite a list! Not bad, we can always excuse ourselves in to ....

MissHatey:
Check hateu2's profile for reason ladies don't reply pms.

It's not a do or die affair either. I created this out of curiosity. How is that?

StupidGoat:
If online women do not answer you go for offline women. Don't complain

True bro.

Afrok:
Congratulations and happy birthday to her... but its like all the Olympus in their family have FALLEN... even at 18years?

Reference: the photo below...

do you think the money they get is free? money for hand, back for ground! simples.

Okay buddies, I had included : You are free to bash but removed it. Surprisingly, it is taking effect lol. I get it people.

Most guys have sent PMs, but hardly get a reply because ladies on here ignore them.

And I ask, why? could you give your reasons? I had tried to reach out to a few but they wouldn't respond and most do not know why I contacted them in the first place.

No, it wasn't what you were thinking lady, not for sex. It is not something I do often but for some next year plans, I felt I could reach out to just one person whom I deemed reasonable. Whether to term it pride on their part or fear, I have no idea. You could do good by letting guys know why you ignore PMs and it will help fine tune approaches if I or anyone is doing something wrong by sending PMs.

So, may I know why you ignore PMs? Don't be shy; let me hear from you!