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sacajawea:
This does not necessarily have to be a business entrepreneurial thread, you could just say anything random at all that you feel may work or you've seen work
Or just even rant the whole Idea is just honest discussion because I know in a country with about 200m ppl that there will still be opportunities one way or the other
E.g
If you know the kind waka I don waka because of loan even with collateral oh they said I should provide CofO. me I've not seen any land owner in Ogun State that has CofO Oh even the fine houses except survey and receipt from Omo Onile Families

My brother, you no need loan. The time you dey use Waka for that loan, u for Don use am start small journey at Fiverr.com or Upwork.com and the gradually raise the money you want from there.

banjicom:
Am sure some women were created wen God himself was confused and tired!

jeez... this one weak me oooo

ultimateyankee:
One thing you need know about girls is that their thinking is not steady, miss fellings 100%,confused 100%,easy to deceive , one thing I know is that know body knows what they are looking. When a girl tells you that she looking for handsome rich guy when she get it she will
Start looking for the one with fun and swag from here she will start looking for the one that can sex her very well. One thing I know is that I don't take them serious if you do u are at ur own peril.

hmmmm... my brother, I am even in one. She says she is not ready for relationship but she gives out signals like someone that is interested, such as asking me if I am with a girl and all that. Recently we had a misunderstanding (still on it though) and my friend called her on phone, she was still asking fact finding questions to my friend, such as do I have hot temper, did I show him her pics and all that.

May God help us. Like you said, it is best not to take them serious.

Before you bash me, hear me out please.

I don't know how women reason but I get so pissed off when see how they behave between two specific type of men. Why do women make it seems like being treated like trash is the best thing they deserve? Why? why? were you cursed?

I came on nairaland today and I stumbled on this very annoying thread===> https://www.nairaland.com/4477136/abortion-again-no-way-pls

As if that is not enough, I was talking to a friend from my neighbourhood today and he told me another one. There is this girl whose elder sister is married an old tenant of ours. The girl's sister fed her, clothed her, sheltered her and even open a salon for her. All was going well until a guy selling mobile accessories showed up.

I had been seeing her and the guy hang out, the guy even goes to her salon. While this was on going, I noticed that he was hardly at his shop, which was now at the mercy of his friends or younger brother.

My friend made me understand that the girl's sister rejected this guy as they had found someone better for her, but the girl refused and said she doesn't want any other person except the phone accessories guy. She told my friend that when she gets pregnant, they can come and remove it lol.

What an elder sees while sitting... a child can't see even if he climbs mountain.

True to her words, she got pregnant for the dude and her tummy is protruded already, not too long after I SAW ring on her finger, same for the guy.

Here is the shocker... The guy also impregnated another girl adjacent my street and she has put to bed already. Little wonder I saw the girl who refused to listen to her sister going towards that direction last month. I had no idea why but I wondered what she was going there to do.

The dude has accomplished his goals and now available at his shop.

It is really amazing what girls subject themselves to... the irony is that, like in the link I shared above, if a better guy comes their way, the one that will love and give them peace of mind, love them to the marrows, they will reject and ridicule him. See attached!

aaronson:
I'm sure if God truly exist, he wouldn't have approved of this belligerent words of Oyedepo, Not to mention how Jesus was manhandled, trialed and crucified but he never cursed anybody and even prayed for their forgiveness so, if Oyedepo was going by the scriptures he just deviated by being belligerent and petty. Only an ignorant man on the street acts this way but your know the funniest part right now.

All his followers worldwide would applaud to this foolishness by Oyedepo and say God is using him.


Ignorance is bliss.

shut up. Shut up I say. You are talking nonsense behind whatever device you hold in your hand because they have not come to kill you or your family. Elements like are the problem plaguing Christians in Nigeria such as the case of Osibanjo.

Didn't Christians fought many wars? Dude, this no time to be sentimental...

Rexnegro:
those are far too expensive options n I don't give give to no one cos we talking abt over 100kg in weight , do u base in Lagos? WhatsApp me 08038385337

thanks. Will do.

proeast:
Sure, anyone familiar with Aba knows all that. Areas like Bakassi in Ariaria is where you will see hundreds of bales of items like shoes, belts, bags and other leather materials and consumer goods being packed for export to different countries. Places like Kent off Azikiwe and Asa roads in town area of Aba is where you will see all sorts of clothes like shirts, boxers, singlets, overall, uniforms, bedspreads, suits etc being sown by thousands of people and being packed as well for delivery to different parts of the country and export. Aba is just like a small China where almost everything is being produced. I was in one shop when the owner and his workers were branding newly sown blue shirts with the name of a Nigerian bank being crested on them. What marveled me most was how local the shop was yet was producing such neat and beautiful shirts. Aba captures how worthless Nigeria is and why it would be very difficult for this country to ever develop. A responsible government would have provided an enabling environment for this hardworking and skilled producers yet the place is not even in the least conducive with thousands of small generators polluting everywhere with noise and dangerous fumes. Bad roads, filthy environment and flooding whenever it rains! Can any government be more wicked and insensitive than this? Yet one idiotic bastard is somewhere calling youths lazy! The mentality of the average Aba man is not different from that of Shanghai man but the difference is the respective government of both countries

Do they make bags in Aba, female hand bags?

Rexnegro:
to my sis for biz who base there

oh cool bro. I have been researching that niche/business for some time now. How do you send the food stuff? Do you give to someone going there or you use shipping companies like DHL, UPS or FEDEX?

bravehost4u:
I know where your problem is coming from.
Simple sentences you cannot write without abbreviating.
I wonder the kind of university graduates our education system produces.
I think you should have focused more on developing yourself than getting pregnant.

gbam... Just look at how she wrote everything like 90s kids lol.

Rexnegro:
I somehow concur cos myself I know how much I do use to send parcels to UK , that's just me alone o

You send to UK as in you export goods there as a business or you just send to relatives who are based there?

obi4eze:
Mumu².

Na you do yourself. So na you sabi.

You went back to sleep with a guy for whom you had twice aborted and you call that love.

You don't even love yourself in the first place not to talk of loving another person. Maybe you just liked the way he gives you sexual satisfaction and you thought you were in love.

Well, carry your pregnancy and learn your lesson the hard way.

My brother, no b small mumuni be this. She refused to give other guys chance, a few of them might probably had better plans for her but NO, she chose a bad boy.

This is what we have been saying that girls are stupid and very senseless to logic.

How can you abort for a guy, he broke up with you and you had so much chance to start afresh with someone else but you turned them all down.

I also have a lady I met on here and I have been trying so much to start something with her. She keep saying she is not ready blah blah. She dated one guy that didn't value for around 4 years and dude didn't treat her well.

You would be surprised to know that she is still attached to the guy and not wanting to give another guy a chance.

Now, tell me where is the wisdom in all of these?

OP, me I don't have any ounce of advise for you because I hate women like you who make it look like bad boys are the best and good ones are bad. CARRY your cross stupid fool!

desreek9:
Quite an interesting clip, most ladies dont start up being cheats, gold diggers et all, one of their past bitter relationship must have triggered them to become more or less monsters but then it doesnt justify what you are today.

DO NOT LET YOUR PAST DEFINE YOUR PRESENT AND FUTURE OUTCOME

same goes for men... i was turned into a freaking monster due to earlier experience with first two girls I dated with the 2nd one being the major positive catalyst... which reset my brain. I used to be all about one man, one woman... but after that experience, I fork girls as they come my way and I learned to play games too.

sehin79:
well david would always hype is stuff shows etc,just to trend which makes biz sense.
other art might make that or more but david seems to be the first to talk about figures
unfortunately we dont know where to verify this figures.

you are wise. He didn't tell us the cost and expenses accrued, the revenue and net profit.. Dude thinks everybody is stupid.

amani63:
who tell you
And where is your brided

lol. Her thread hit front page

amani63:
nne explain the pictures na

she is into building, she is an architect actually.

lokobyforch:
Why are you crying more than the bereaved, PMB and his cohort are on top of the situation and happy about the massacre. Shame on you for defending this shame we call president.

he is a northerner. When u see such comment, just know who is behind it. No southerners will talk like that at a time like this.

Enice:
hypocrites, if there's anything like double standard, this is it. Over 21 christians just died in omoku rivers state about 2 days ago, you said nothing about it. Here you are blaming the General for something that has been an issue in the north since God knows when. Ekiti state promulgated a law last year about this issue, you are here blaming the President. God will judge you for your hatred of this country.

it is clear you are a northerner and a Muslim and a fan of of the motherfucking Buhari's... God will punish and him together. That his son will never get out of that hospital so that he will know the pains people feel when their brothers or sisters die.

God will punish anybody who see evil but denies it.. We talking of killings that has been increasing since the born fool steps his legs in there this moronic zombie is here talking about a one off killing in Rivers.

Woke has even stepped up his game and what has Buhari done? Was it not before you dirty eyes the people tried to defend themselves that army suddenly found their feet usable? But when fellow village killed Fulanis, the military was there with 24 hours.

Na Ogun go kill of una. If I had my way I will stab you for making this kind of comment you fool.

exclusivejayce:
She loves u joor. hw i wished my 'she' has ever flashed me.

she called me on 1st of January after I sent her a new year message. We spoke for almost 10 minutes before she hung up.

2 days before that I sent her a text too and called her later and she said she saw my text and that she would have called but she didn't see have airtime.

Apparently,like you guys suggested.. She may not want the verbal confirmation but just want to flow along.

xxxtedyxxx:
My brother stop waiting for permission- assume the bf role already. Take her as your girl, and act accordingly. Make sure her level of investment is greater than yours, that way, you can never go wrong.

if you don't act now, it might be too late

Okay bro. Will do as you have stated. Thanks.

mikolo80:
stop ranting. If guy not loyal it means it's only kpekus you bring to the table. Sorry.

you are stupidd

putit:
As you have said ,she only ask things from you only once in a while, and even when you want to treat her with any financial favor, you do it on your own TERMS.. In that case, its a big sign, she's interested in you..Good luck bro
And No I haven't created that thread yet, but I will anytime from soon..

Merry Xmas to xxxtedyxxx and every dude on these thread

I forgot to add that one time she called me. I wasn't in a stable mind and so I told her I would call her back but I didn't. Since I didn't call, few days later she buzzed me on Whatsapp and queried me for not calling as promised.

I had to start explaining... She then said okay. No problem.


Again, no girl has ever acted like this to me when they say they are not interested.

TheGoodJoe:
It has been a while. Actually, she contacted someone from a neighboring country who had her branded products at cheap prices, so I removed my hands. I should have told you. My bad. Hola at you later on Whatsapp.

okay bro.

TheGoodJoe:
Sorry.

I didn't hear from you again about the importation business what did your sister say

TheGoodJoe:
It is not a debate. Pellegrini groomed Isco into a superstar. You can say he had talent. Just like Iheanacho showed talent in the U17. However, the grooming happened under Pellegrini. As I said, this is not even a debate.

you people should leave me out of your argument

greenhulk:
Some people cannot just mind their own business. Someone bought an expensive car, so what? Go and buy ur own na. Did the person come to beg u for money to maintain the car or money to eat? I just don't get it with Nigerians, na so so aproko. Is it ur money?

the op no get car. Simple. He doesn't have a ride. Someone who has doesn't reason or talk like him.

Kylestone:
just a Christmas gift

lol. I know the author of that material. I just want to keep in my archive sha.

Kylestone:
hawt

How much?

putit:
As you have said ,she only ask things from you only once in a while, and even when you want to treat her with any financial favor, you do it on your own TERMS.. In that case, its a big sign, she's interested in you..Good luck bro
And No I haven't created that thread yet, but I will anytime from soon..

Merry Xmas to xxxtedyxxx and every dude on these thread

thanks. I mean I do give once a while. She has never asked me for something. Things I have given her is on my own volition. She didn't ask for it.

Kseafresh:
The other day,i saw a girl turn down her guys proposal publicly...... imagine how the guy must have felt.... Kneeling in public to propose to a girl just shows that truly end time is near....

well, the dude didn't find out where he stood before doing that nonsense. You don't just propose anyhow.

You should have just listed the price or slightly higher than you would sell it to give room for negotiations.

Don't make your job harder because there is an over supply do vehivles, add to the ones on jiji and you have a large pool of sellers.

When you visit site is that sells things online, the prices are Always displayed, not hidden.

Personally I don't take sellers ,who tell Customers to contact them for price ,serious, especially when they are using online medium. . And I am sure there are people like that here.

Just my two jobs.

I do hope it sells fast

putit:
OK groomed, There's high chance she's really interested in you and there's also high chance she's just NOT interested in you..

You see, there are 2 major kind of girls I'v encountered in my years of dating girls(naija girls);;

1..The girls that are interested in you but will act or pretend they are not interested for few reasons like; they don't want to look easy or cheap or they don't trust me, because of my player/asshole vibe, or even worse because they have a boyfriend already and they don't want to cheat on him... I always end up dating or sleeping with all these kinda ladies..So bro, I guess she might really really likes you..The best thing to do is to invite her over. If she ask why, tell her you want to spend some real quality time with her.. If she resist tell her "it will be surprisingly fun for her". If she still resist, don't persist anymore, just talk about other neutral things with her for few more minutes and end the conversation. After that don't initiate any sort of conversation with her again until she herself does that.. Anytime she does, make sure you tell her about your intentions of she spending time with you ..With these she'll know you're serious about starting something with her

2.. Now there are girls that are really and sincerely not interested in you but will act or pretend they are interested in you because of the big financial favors they are gaining from you. Not just financial benefit, any kind of (special ) attention benefit you're giving to her..
So groomed, if you're treating her with any sort financial favors, there's good chance she's not really interested you. She might just be "COCK TEASING" you.. If she's just cock teasing or playing silly games with you, my advice for you is to forget her and go game/woo other mature and classy ladies.

the first point you raised is much likely... She is single and some times say things like few days ago, "so that is how you will starve me"when I talked about not giving my brother food cos he can get that done himself. She also jokingly told me she has friend in my location and would visit the friend and use that opportunity to see me.

She always always sound excited when we speak on phone. You know when someone is happy to get your call.

I mean, I have asked other girls out and when they say they aren't interested, none has ever exhibited the kind of traits this girl has. The height and most obvious of it all is that NONE ever called me... And if they did, it might just be once. Which is why I think has might be genuine.

She always asked after my brother and sister. Like few days before our mild feud, she asked after my sister whether I won't go see her. This is like 3rd time she has asked after I told her she gave birth. I had to tell her my sister doesn't reside in Nigeria.

So many variables.

Now for the second angle your raised I can not really decipher is that is the case. Yeah I have been of help and I do it due to her complaining about guys not caring and all that but it is not regular thing... Just once a while and she does not ask me for it. I do them by my own volition.

But either way, time will tell which is why I think a long distance and break is needed to clearly evaluate if she is really interested in me.


P. S: did u create the thread you said you were writing?

agrovick:
In that period from 19th she didn't get back to you right?

Now is the time to try other chicks, just enjoy the flow. Mistakes are going to happen in that process but we are gonna learn

our last chat was she replying me but I didn't respond. So since then, it has been like that. The chat was her telling me about what I said above that she doesn't catch feelings easily...and don't know how to do it or explain it for me to understand.

I just read it and said no words. We are very cool in all other aspects except when I bring this up. But I think I should just accept the actions like you suggested and flow along.