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TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 11:45pm On Apr 20, 2018
freeme5:
I thought I was the only one.
I won't invest my emotions in Bigbrother again.
Make sunday come abeg. Anybody wey go win make hin win & let them not organize another one for d next five years. This is crazy. Lol
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 11:39pm On Apr 20, 2018
diadem10:
Too toxic. The worst set ever and your Tobi inclusive.
I agree. d fans too got caught up in d happenings in d house & everybody just became crazy. Na wa o.
I think it may hav something to do wit d pairing poo. Many good HMs fell victim of d pairing & we were left wit a lot of junk housemates. If not for d pairing, I doubt if these will be our finalists. Too many good BBN materials were sacrificed to d pairing BS
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 11:28pm On Apr 20, 2018
stephleena:
true talk..miraku fvked up..if Tobi had mistakenly told CeCe, all hell would ave been let loose..
Yeah. It's an error of judgment. Miracle is a cool guy. Everyone makes mistakes. He realizes it & is trying to manage d situation by disabusing Nina's mind & defend ToLex but d damage has been done. Nina feels genuinely hurt. He doesn't want it to escalate. Both guys like & admire each other. They'll be okay outside.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 11:22pm On Apr 20, 2018
Maggiespecial:
Honestly, ao I wish tomorrow is Sunday, I don't like d way d house is bin divided right now. And it's Nina dt caused it. Shey Nina cannot be playing with cee c nii and at dsmae time leave miracle with Tolex? I can use everything to bet it dt Miracle cannot marry Nina. Sure banker
It's depressing to watch but u can't really blame Nina. d game is coming to a close & she's paranoid.
Her memory is short though. Alex that has always been there for her even when people like CeeC looked down on her. The two guys ar just trying to manage d situation. They ar uncomfortable. Nina is pissed wit ToLex & Miracle feels quilty. He knows it's not an issue he can sort out in d house. They ar trying to get hold of their emotions. They'll be okay when they go out. It's hard watching dis show. This year's BBN is just too toxic. Right now, it's hard to watch. If dis is how BBN will continue to be, it's not healthy o. Let sunday come abeg.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 11:02pm On Apr 20, 2018
akthedream1122:
BLA BLA BLA.. GOOD FOR TOBI... HE REALLY DESERVED IT.

TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 10:52pm On Apr 20, 2018
hazzard:
Is it me or has anyone else noticed Miracle has been avoiding Tolex the whole day
It's quilty conscience. Ever since he snitched on his guy, running to tell Nina what ToLex told him & wit d way Nina has been behaving around ToLex, d house has not been d same for him & he has been uncomfortable around ToLex. d clearing agent can't clear anyone on this one. I remember how he confronted people like Leo demanding answers. Everyone knows Nina has been gaming him & he too probably knows wit d way she goes about shouting Collins, hence he'd rather prefer if he doesn't win, Tobi should because he knows she'll run to Collins. Imagine wit all he told Tobi during d Ceebi drama if Tobi had snitched on him to CeeC. Everyday CeeC would hav continued taunting him. d guy fall my hand after Tobi sacrificed his relationship wit a woman over his G. He broke d bro code. Gs up hoes down. Gs over Hoes. I voted for him all d time he was up & still like him sha
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 3:02pm On Apr 20, 2018
In his diary session yesterday, Tobi said he worked hard to be HoH to ensure that his fans ar not stressed to vote week in, week out. This week was our opportunity to VOTE Tobi.
Let's keep pushing till d voting window closes by 9 pm. Last day to VOTE Tobi

TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 1:49pm On Apr 19, 2018
Balitah:
I wanted to throw in SMS votes for our guy and I kept getting the message below... What does it meanhuh

Team Tobi

It's the "Vibes" that is getting me confused
Just press 1. Accept & that's it. U'll later be sent a message like this:

TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 12:22am On Apr 19, 2018
MrBigiman:
Tobi would have won his immaturity has marred him. [b]If he cannot tame CeeC [/b]then he deserves to remain 23yrs for the next 5years as against 29yrs that he truly is.

CeeC has shown to be mentally unstable and incapable of being a model to anyone yet, she doesn't deserve d money.

Nina has been banged severally on public TV, she needs rehabilitation.

Alex was only prevented from Public sex by the intelligent LEO, she need home training.

Miracle has been able to take everyone in that house, and has Cleared CeeC recurrently without fail. He is mature for a 23yr old and deserves the money.

VOTE Miracle for Miracle, signs and wonders.
Pls how do you tame an emotionally unstable basket case like CeeC who is set in her ways, unwilling to improve & do better, always saying "this is who i am".
Can it be that Lolu whose manhood & BBN career she almost ended is also immature?.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 12:06am On Apr 19, 2018
scondy:
People.r making seem like she has mental issues...o disagree....she is just a spoilt brat that needs to grow up or learn life lessons the hard way ....that's all...bad upbringing...

The major mistake she made was her to emotionally attached to tobi...she knows she is extremely and possessive...it them means bb is not the place for her to have a romance...she should have ensured that didn't happen....she is so in love with tobi and can't come to terms with the fact that it's over before it started. That is the root cause of her anger...and she has no one to talk to ...
IMHO, the root cause of her anger is far beyond big brother house. They are baggages she came with.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 11:58am On Apr 18, 2018
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thatigboman:
hater. It is only CeeC u see. U didnt see shameless alex and aunty tobi lying through their teeth
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TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 12:55am On Apr 18, 2018
safarigirl:
but she couldn't admit to Alex this night that she and Khloe discussed her and Tobi, but she tells you straight to your face grin


This one lies just as much as his King, even something wey people see korokoro, you still dey lie.

Straight to your face indeed grin
Thank u jor. d way CeeC dey lie ehn. Someone that told Nina & Alex they weren't on her level but when asked by Ebuka denied it, when pressed further said she couldn't remember. I tire for dis kain lair o.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 10:23pm On Apr 16, 2018
tegax:
Cee-C be using Nina to play her game this week and Nina in turn, foolishly falling for it......Hmmmmmm.....I just dey observe.
Final week in BBNAIJA seasons always packed with lots of tension and conspiracy.
CeeC has watched too many episodes of Big Brother for her own good. She just wants to create some drama for d cameras. I hope it doesn't backfire though, because I watched d two of them quarrel last time and mehn, Alex's craze is on another level
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 10:11pm On Apr 16, 2018
Favolly:
Lol! Don't you sound just like her? No surprise there. Trust me... When she loses, shame no go even gree una show face for this thread. Na today?
Leave dem. E go shock them. I don't even know whether I should be saying this but wit what i saw on Lagos Island today, team Tobi is doing a terrific job. Very well organized. Other teams should be scared
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 4:16pm On Apr 16, 2018
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nigerianwoman:
Big Brother rigged the show, big brother was supposed to evict two housemates, two weeks to the final which was to be the two housemates with the lowest votes Rico Swavey & Alex.

But Biggie wanted Alex to be in the final, Big brother wanted all the members of the caucus to be the finalist. Lolu is suppose to be a finalist, he would had been if Biggie had eliminated two housemates two weeks ago. Alex would have left with Rico.

Any team Lolu that votes for the caucus is not a true fan of Lolu. As you can see how rigged the show was, two Sundays ago, why was only one housemate evicted. Then a Sunday later, three housemates were evicted. When three members of the caucus was safe, and every Nigerian knows that Miracle was safe from eviction.

Biggie must love watching the caucus so much. It must please and excite Big brother and its sponsors to watch Miracle, Tobi, Nina and Alex.

Biggie has evicted every housemates the leaders of the caucus, Miracle and Tobi did not like, from Leo to Teddy A. Any guy that challenged and made Toracle feel intimidated, Biggie evicted from the show.

I remember how Biggie refused to put Nina and Miracle up for eviction at the same time to save Nina for eviction.
Nina had 4 nominations for eviction.
Cee-C had 4 nominations for eviction.
BamBam had 3 nominations for eviction.
Teddy A had 3 nominations for eviction.
Miracle had 2 nominations for eviction.
Lolu had 2 nominations for eviction.

Biggie decided that Nina, Cee-C, BamBam and Teddy were up for eviction. Why was Miracle and Lolu with two votes ignored. So Nina who has less voters would be saved.
Nina had less voters than Teddy A. Nina had less voters than Lolu. Nina had less voters than Cee-C, Nina had less voters than Miracle. It does not take a mathematician to know, Nina and Bambam would have been the housemates with the lowest votes.

If Miracle and Lolu had been up for eviction that week, it would have been BamBam and Nina that would have gone home that week, instead of BamTeddy.

Last week HOH task, after Nina picked the lowest number and was the 4th to be out, the three remaining contenders were Alex, Cee-C, and Tobi. The three went to pick another note in the cash booth.

Alex has no value on the BB naira note she choose, Alex picked a note with no figure, which means she picked a note with zero amount.
Cee-C had100 BB naira on the note she choose.
Tobi had 100 BB naira he choose.

Biggie even made a joke at Alex saying, Alex what kind of note did you pick. And all the housemates laughed.

I was shocked when after two minutes of silence, Biggie said the three would go and pick again, and this time they would be blindfolded. Alex picked a note with no figure, which means she picked a note with zero amount.
Why was Alex not eliminated from the head of house challenge, it was suppose to be Cee-C and Tobi that had 100 BB naira note each to continue. But Biggie gave Alex another chance. Why?

Alex note had no value, the note equalled to zero, no figure. Why did biggie not eliminate Alex from the HOH challenge.

Cee-C and Tobi was to continue qualifying for the HOH position. Biggie wanted Alex saved last week, because he knew she was the housemate with the lowest vote.

When the three of them went ahead to pick with blindfold, Alex now picked a 100 BB naira note, Cee-C picked 50, Tobi picked a lesser figure. With that Alex won HOH.

The point is Alex was to be eliminated from the challenge after she previously picked a note with no value, a note with no figure, why then did Biggie ignored the rule of the game.
Cee-C and Tobi, was to continue the next round. And if Tobi won he could have saved Alex from eviction. Biggie didn't have to cheat to save Alex.

Why are people keeping quiet at this rigging, at this bias and prejudice, why are all the celebrities watching the show quiet about Big Brother manipulations.

Lolu is suppose to be in the final and he is not because Biggie wanted Alex to be in the final by all means. See all the cheating and bias at Lolu expense.

The enemy of my enemy is my friend.
BamTeddy hated the caucus more than Cee-C.
Lolu hated the caucus more than Cee-C, but because he is smart he played diplomatically with them, Tobi that was trying to snatch Anto, Lolu despised him, Lolu hated Tobi and Nina, resented Alex and Miracle.

Both BamTeddy, Lolu, Leo hates the caucus, especially Miracle and Tobi more than they hated Cee-C.
BamTeddy true fans are voting Cee-C for the final.
Lolu true fans are voting Cee-C for the final.
Leo true fans are voting Cee-C for the final.

But Biggie will still rig the vote, and give it to Miracle or Tobi. Because Biggie wants a caucus member to win, Big brother refused to eliminate Alex. So the caucus can be happy and be together in the finals.

Let this picture remind Lolu fans of how they were cheated of Lolu being in the finals. And how BB naija is a rigged, bias and manipulative show.
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Biggie evicted Lolu & rigged Nina, 4th runner up in d HoH task & Alex into d finals to divide Miracle & Tobi votes for CeeC to win. He even kept her in d arena hoping d other four will think she's out of d house & badmouth her so she can get more pity votes. People can see thru his moves to make her appear as a victim. CeeC has watched many Big Brother shows & is now playing d pity & victim card. Biggie's every move going into d final weeks were aimed at giving her an advantage. We won't let him hav d last say.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 10:43am On Apr 16, 2018
Maggiespecial:
I am not in support of cee c ooo, infact I don't like her atall. But Alex shouldn't av say she doesn't want cee c wahala. She shuld av allow her to be d HOH. Honestly, I pity cee c oo. And wat kill most is loneliness.... Dey shuld just be free with her dis week.....
But she's d one that is not being free wit them nah. Probably playing a pity game. Having watched frm d start of d show, we know she's no victim
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 10:40am On Apr 16, 2018
dominique:
The price is not Miracle or Tobi's birthright, anybody currently present that house is deserving of it including Nina, Alex and yes Cee C. Go and vote for your Tobi and stop trying to influence fans of housemates he openly resented to vote for him
U ought to know that at dis point in d game trying to influence anybody is an exercise in futility. Peoples' minds are made up. As i said, i don't care who you vote for. I'm just pointing out d obvious injustice in d game. Allow me. We are voting like crazy for my boy. It's not about " I intend to" but about putting in d work & money. We'll not let our boy down.
BTW, though they had their differences in the house, Lolu actually preferred Tobi to win. While Lolu was up, many of us Tobi fans voted for him. How many CeeC fans can say same?

TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 2:40am On Apr 16, 2018
DrinkLimca:
I am a lolu force too and i was not surprise he got evicted, during the last head of house challenge, you need to see the way i was praying for him to win the head of house challenge, because i knew that was the only way for him to go into the final,, i was even more sadder when biggie said Nina was not up for eviction because she was forth on the nominated house mates, right there i knew that biggie wanted lolu out just to favor Nina..

I really wanted him as head of house but he failed, i guess the presence of anto distracted him a little bit..

But that being the case ,, we are here for ceecee just as the way the American armies will always be there for the troops of England..

ceecee for the money..
I don't care how u vote. I just wanted to point it out that rigging d person that came 4th in HoH task into the finals along with Alex was Biggie's plan to divide Miracle & Tobi's votes. He cheated Lolu & is trying to cheat Miracle & Tobi & win it for CeeC. We'll try to stop him while hoping it works out.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 2:31am On Apr 16, 2018
Sanctinolezsan:
Sorry dear, biggie just screwed things up with his rubbish favouritism.
Yeah, very true
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 2:29am On Apr 16, 2018
gengen118:
evn if u don't want to do Sms pls do an online vote for cee-c. i am a teddy fan too. i stopped voting but decided to vote dis week . pls Vote Cee-C.
God forbid. After they evicted Teddy & Lolu & rigged Nina who came fourth in HoH task & Alex into d finals to divide Miracle & Tobi's votes to help CeeC?. Lolu & Teddy were cheated. How can I help them to rig it for CeeC?
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 12:39am On Apr 16, 2018
mercy232:
I am done voting for anyone dear... #i am a loyal fan of Lolu # it's my baby or no one else like I said# it was just a shout out to CeeC fans..
Very smart of you. Good luck next time. I'm so sorry I put in some votes for Lolu but Biggie had his own plans

TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 12:36am On Apr 16, 2018
mercy232:
I am done voting for anyone dear... #i am a loyal fan of Lolu # it's my baby or no one else like I said# it was just a shout out to CeeC fans..
Very smart of you. Good luck next time. I'm so sorry I put in some votes for Lolu but Biggie had his own plans
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 12:34am On Apr 16, 2018
Munzy14:
Biggie scammed lolu. HE said he is same as Cee-C they both suffered same faith. but unfortunately alex was the scam to spite lolu. Cee-C miss lolu. he was the legit Gee for Cee-C. immeditely she stepped out,the question she asked was,wia is lolu.
Team ceelo we stand. Team lolu keep voting his only true frnd Cee-C. destiny have it that ceelo are frnds for life.
VOTE Cee-C to 32052
I know where u stand. Arguing wit u is meaningless because u can never be objective. CeeC knew five people entered d house only to discover that Lolu was nowhere to be found. She's bound to ask. As i said arguing wit u is just a waste of time. Vote ur CeeC & we'll vote our favorites until d voting window closes. May d best Housemate win.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 12:22am On Apr 16, 2018
mercy232:
This to a darling you Omololumi... your exit from the BBH got me so emotional tonight.. my eyes got wet and I skipped my dinner... u mean so much to your fans... we tried so hard, but like biggie will say ''it's biggie's house,rules and game''... regardless, you remain my favorite... #stand with you#loyal fan#die hard fan#its you or no one else# .......shout out to CeeC fans...
Do you not understand that evicting Lolu & retaining Nina, d housemate that came 4th & Alex was meant to cheat Lolu & favor CeeC by diving Miracle & Tobi's votes & yet u ar happy to help Biggie to achieve his goal. Smh. I'd have thought that a true Lolu fan would try to ensure that Biggie's plan doesn't succeed. Anyway, it's ur money sha.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 4:51pm On Apr 15, 2018
Munzy14:
If it's your opinion ok. But I prefer Cee-C that i know her character. At least I know wia to start. No one knows her mental case .Because we don't know and have not studied it outside the BBN house. All we are seeing is a lady reacting to the way people in there acted on her because of her choice.
Ok. Different strokes for different folks. May d best Housemate win.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 4:12pm On Apr 15, 2018
Munzy14:
Stigma u said,that is haters synonym for controversial. all housemates have their extreme bad side. But hypocrites pointed out Cee-C own because she allowed them to know. As far as I am concerned you will see what will be come of all of them after the show.Access them after one year.
Its a typical daft nigerian that will shout stigma to a lady's chararacter whom you are yet to meet. You just rushed to follow bandwanginism of criticism even when we ourselves arent close to good, not to talk of perfection.
Take it or leave,she is loved like never before. You witness her home coming. and you will read about her amazing future endeavours from blogs and elsewhere.
Spin it anyway u like, continue to be defensive & wallow in denial, take every criticism as an attack frm haters but It is not only a controversy but d reality of CeeC's character that stared us in d face for over 2 months.
Many talented & gifted people hav been undone by their characters. Being humble in ur relations with others is essential. d vital importance of character to one's success can not be over emphasised. She's a loose canon whom every HM tried to avoid being paired wit for d sake of their BBN career because she's unstable & volatile. Should she continue on this path, d same fate awaits her. I pray not. No one is perfect & no one is looking for perfection but it will be wrong to support arrogance & condescenscion.
Receiving a rousing home-coming is d issue that is most important to u, but d real issue is her mental state. No matter what u do, u'll find people that will support u. d question is are u doing d right thing?. Yeah, blogs. OK, they'll feature her. That people enjoy watching a mad man dance doesn't mean they like him. Bandwagon?. Naah. I've watched CeeC for over 2 months & these are my own opinion.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 3:08pm On Apr 15, 2018
livelymatilda:
OK....TELL US WHAT NINA'S FAMILY SAID ABOUT HER NUMEROUS SEXCAPADES.

THANKS
I'm not saying what Nina did was right & I don't believe d family will approve also. I disapprove & hav criticized her. However, putting people down & constantly bragging about how they're not on ur level is also painful for me to watch & I criticize it too. Problem is people find it acceptable.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman:
Munzy14:
If u really understand what PR is, you will know that was the smartest move to put her image in the good light .It happened at the heat of voting that week. It was during her fight witb nina which khoe jumped in. you know what happened that week, she gained serious voting fans because a lot of pity votes. Don't joke with a smart intelligent Image maker. Not everyone fits in as a PR. its a hot cake job nowadays in most firms. Regarding handling there SM accounts.
To u, it's all about d game, PR, drama & all that poo. To her Sister she's not a project. At d point where she had to shut down her Instagram page, she reminded all that though it's just a game of 85 days, it's her sister that is involved here. The Sister had said in d past, that going forward, she'd be more involved in CeeC's life. They know there's a problem. Na only her?. No HM's family has had to apologize & defend d upbringing of their wards.
Trending for d wrong reasons is not publicity but stigma. CeeC is continually trending for d wrong reasons but what do u care?. To u, she's just a game. Next year there'll be another BBN. She's d one dat will hav to live with d stigma & be assessed & continually scrutinized based on d all-round lack of quality in her character on d show. Rudeness, condescenscion, arrogance, anger, jealousy, possessiveness & paranoia does not equate strength, indepence or standing ur ground. It's bad character. What is there to admire in d reality of CeeC's character that stared Africa in d face on TV for over 2 months?
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 1:31pm On Apr 15, 2018
stunning4real:
I wish ceec sister can copy and safe the post for her to see
While some fans see CeeC as a game bringing drama, i think the family is aware there's a serious problem. Her Sister once said she hadn't seen her for a while & didn't know much about what was going on in CeeC's life. She had also had occasions where she had to appologize on CeeC's behalf, something no other Housemate's family has had to do. Some of her Instagram posts were critical of CeeC's behavior. I read an Instagram post where she was critical of CeeC's behavior & threatened to leave it there so that she'd know that she never approved of her behavior. Though she later had to remove it because it might not be good for CeeC's game. After d game, i suspect some kind of intervention.

TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 1:01pm On Apr 15, 2018
Beorn:
Let me take this away from the Cee-C hatred for Alex to closer home. If I had a sister who's in Cee-C's condition, I'll never encourage her like you typed above. I'll fight very hard to make her expunge the hate, let go of the hurt, and allow happiness flow back into her. What you wrote above will not teach any lady how to move on and love again. It'll rather ensnare the lady into a trap of bitterness for every perceived lady that is friends with a guy she loves.

What has the hatred and bitterness gained for Cee-C? You might say it got her a huge number of fans but at the expense of her happiness. Look at Tobi, he's no more the bewitched boy whose life seemed created to worship Cee-C. Tobi has gotten right back on track, gotten some of the fans he lost earlier in the program and has gotten peace of mind he sorely missed.

Meanwhile, Cee-C has been distraught ever since. Looking sad and jaded. Openly admitting she's exasperated. For what? Over a guy and HMs not being able to stand her? Don't you realise Cee-C should be encouraged and prayed for to look deep within her and find love for herself? Don't you know the best thing Cee-C can do now is to be happy and move on from Tobi? Cee-C lacks Vitamin Self-love. Cee-C needs to understand that she can move on and be happy without Tobi. Cee-C needs to understand that her happiness doesn't hinge on any man or woman. In short, if Cee-C wants Tobi back, being free and less bitter like Alex is the only way to get Tobi back. Being uptight cost her, her love for Tobi, being understanding and compassionate will get Tobi back. Not this continued hatred.

Do you know what you typed in bold is akin to encouraging ladies to fight and hate a woman that slept with their spouses but absolve their men of a y wrong? Did Alex force Tobi to leave Cee-C? Did she point a gun on Tobi's head and warn to stop talking to Cee-C? Was she the reason Tobi called it quits with Ceceillia? Or did Tobi break up with Cee-C immediately Leo left? The answer to all this is NO. Alex is not the problem here, Cee-C is the problem, her attitude pushed away a guy and she can't move on. Tobi's acts, gossips were wrong, he even admitted he did some things wrong, but Cee-C drove Tobi away and she doesn't know how to get him back which drives her crazy.

You're forgetting that Cee-C became an Internet sensation when she squeezed her face out of unadulterated first-class jealousy just because Biggie paired Tobi and Bambam together? Was Bambam blocking Cee-C from Tobi yet Cee-C couldn't stand ordinary pairing. Was it Alex that grinded on Tobi that made Cee-C turn Tobi into a beggar for just an ordinary truth or dare game that was just for fun? Miracle did his with Ifu and Nina laughed over it. That's the difference between Nina and Cee-C. Cee-C has psychological problems. She's too uptight and extremely jealous and bitter over little things. She thrives on toxic habitat. Deep within, I know she means good, but she doesn't know how to go about it. She's not all that bad, but she needs to learn few things about life. I wish I could talk to her and let know one or two things about life.

During my teenage years, when we used to do "I love you, talk your own" back then in secondary school/waiting for university admission, I suffered my first ever heartbreak. It's like hell on earth. I loved deeply like Cee-C so letting go was a herculean task for me. For months, I couldn't let go of the hurt. But then, I made peace within myself, I found my inner strength and zeal to move on, and to love myself above everything. I realised that if I don't love myself, I couldn't love another, that my happiness depends on me and not on a love from any lady. Before I knew it, I moved on. From dodging her, I'll see her and greet her, smile and keep it moving. I found happiness from within. I discarded hatred as it did nothing but make me a shadow of my bubbly self.


So, my friend, never ever encourage anybody to keep hating on a man or woman that replaced him or her in his or her partner's life, if one door closes, another will open. Cee-C needs to find happiness and learn how to navigate her way out of such situations in future. Hatred will do her no good.


Like a friend use to tell me, the best form of revenge is success.
Great post, full of wisdom. Thank you for this post.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 12:35pm On Apr 15, 2018
airmark:
You failed woefully by adding the emboldened. It shows the level of moral decadence in our society.

I hope you won't disown your daughter for being a virgin at that age. So disappointing.
U may like to re-read my post. I never condemned her for being a virgin. I don't know d implications of her being a virgin at 25 & don't know whether it could be a good thing or it might suggest some underlying issues.
TV/MoviesRe: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by guardsman: 12:30pm On Apr 15, 2018
Ambber:
Not to take away from any of your points, but Alex wasn’t helpless and without a friend after Leo/Efuenada’s exit. Nina has been her friend before they came in for BBN. That’s someone she knows before the game, there is not a more comfortable and assured support than that. She just prefers a dedicated male attention l. That’s all
Alex & Nina had different groups of friends at dat point & they had drifted apart somewhat. Nina even lamented to Miracle how their friendship had drifted apart. Though they knew each other outside, they had drifted apart to different group of friends.

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