SmartyPants:


Well, not doubting your capability either but it is almost a fact that as much as women may claim to be attracted to intelligence, the actual dating pattern of most women does not confirm this assertion.

What I can say to that is maybe they aren't that bright themselves or they can put up with it. But I can't it irritates me no end

I believe people did it before and some are still doing it but for me personally I don't think I can

The problem with most people is they don't want to start small and grow big

Really? Are you sure? No only that your uncle they work there? E no get supervisor? E no go wife or account?
Nope am sorry I don't believe it

SmartyPants:


In my experience women who say they like intelligent men generally tend to actually like men who look intelligent as measured by certain esoteric factors such as dress sense and elocution, rather than possess any genuine intelligence.

Not doubting your experience but I'm pretty sure I can differentiate between both if not at first but subsequently

So intelligence doesn't make the list abi? just so you know some of us appreciate intelligence and straight forward men

A baby from both would be average I think

Thanks alot sometimes when spending, it get a little overboard. Think am gonna try it this way

Not fatter then the lady that was in my faculty then same Esut

Given the chance ehn hmm na to burn them alive. Seriously though they should be killed immediately, someone cannot be rich or comfortable again in Nigeria ha ba

Effects of watching too many Indecency ,he's even lusting after an unknown female, his problem is very serious

He must have been doing it even when he was still in the police force giving the police force a bad name.

RuthDaniels:
A matured woman in a serious relationship or at least in a relationship with someone she values,loves and respects knows there is a boundary when it comes to relating with opposite gender

One can safely say, you are either dating a lady/girl who has no deep knowledge of what relationship entails or you are with a lady who doesn't value you that much. You are dating yourself!

Communicate with your girlfriend, tell her your worries, make her see reasons with you. If she remains adamant, draw a line. Make her choose between you and her 'bestie' then you will have your answer!

It doesn't necessarily work that way, they've probably been together way before he started dating her you know. All becoming friends is a better way not an ultimatum

Forgive at your own detriment, what kind of stupid, useless and nonsensical love is this . Any man that does this to me had better be dead

The hod should have rejected this result and the lecture should be questioned after thorough investigations this is very bad and sad

The way girls/ladies be claiming virginity ehn na wa oh, it makes me wonder why aren't the guys doing same and do virgins get paid for it?

tstx:
What is the word for someone who is below an upcoming artiste...?


Meanwhile checkout my Signature for more Info's on the 'pagan' religions that influenced the bible.., our cherished bible.

Lolz very funny, below should do all in caps BELOW

One of the problem in Nigeria is body shaming, it's effect can be very overwhelming.

Guys and ladies may argue and rain insults all you like but then she's got some points there and we all can't be same. And really can you say you've not referred to a girl as a hoe or demean them hmmm

Donald3d:
Not again , person come dey fear to marry na , una wey don marry just dey make person fear everyday .Shey I go marry like this sha ,chei
Anyway.....
Situations like this to be honest would be very hard to solve(she is unwilling to do anything about it) , this is why you should always make it clear the things you like and the things you dont like before marrrying your partner .

Your madam was very very very very wrong on all levels ,
1.She is not supposed to go to a single guys room and vice versa
2.She is not supposed to collect anything from him , You should be the one to go to him if your family needs his assistance.
3.The height of it is her inivting him to your house at night to watch match by 10pm !!!!, like what the ....

Now to your own part
-If she has not always being like this, then something is wrong , and its at the foundation
-How often do you and your wife do things together ?, because from the look of things , if you observe critically and psychologically , its not just about collecting things from him , and she also might not be cheating on you, the koko here is SHE ENJOYS HIS COMPANY.Thats why she finds it hard to stop .
-Is your wife your best friend ? , how do you correct her when she is wrong (by shouting or in a loving manner)
-How well do you tell her sweet words and comment on her beauty
-How well do you give her time just to listen to her
-I know its hard creating time for all these with work and everything but you have to try .
-Women love someone who makes them feel safe and alive, someone who listens to their fears and worries and anything they have to say -Be her friend !
-Have a heart to heart talk with her, tell her calmly why what she is doing is wrong .
-Never stop telling her you love her , even when you are angry with her
-Try and get her busy , so she would have less time to even think he exists
-Bring back respect into your home , not just her respecting you , but you also respecting her .She has obviously lost respect for you
-Above all while you take actions talk to God about everything .

Act fast , because that guy na sharp guy, he knows where you are lacking and he is capitalizing on it , thats the advantage side chicks and side guys always have over the main partner "filling the empty spaces"

No matter what you do ,use wisdom and be calm and loving about it
God bless your marriage


MODIFIED : Women please stop assuming your husband would automatically know what you are thinking or feeling , talk to him if you feel he is not doing something right , not all men are mind readers biko, sometimes he honestly has no clue what you need until you open up,same goes for men too

Abeg make una check my signature

You are sooooooo soon on point

First point is so true, personally I love learning new things especially languages

EricBloodAxe:
south africans, manufacturers and suppliers of hiv.

Lolz

These are all lies and you know it just keep quiet. :-

MrHistorian:
Speed Darlington.

Lolz why not add Vic O :

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
He has already plucked one eye already!

Lol na mango

I wish for this as my first. They're so cute

I wonder if this woman has a heart at all, killing no taking a life you can't give back why not walkaway from the marriage since you're tired.

Aww so nice congrats to you ma.
Truly love knows no bounds

I can't believe that a human being did that to him, his own father for that matter
No it's not his father, that man is not a father but a failure, looser and an untrained animal

Seriously though I won't do anything but clearly I'll invite both cook for them and after eating I'll let them know I know what they've done behind me. Then push them both out of my life for good, I might even thank her.

If I were in her shoes, which I don't pray to be, I'll make sure she's there to witness the wonderful harm I dish the soul called man. Even she go hail Cos hers will come after. And I mean in spades