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damoceile:
Agreed a man should have all these in place before thinking of marriage.
How about the lady, what is she bringing to the marriage?

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flokii:
@Op If igbos really want to go, they know the right channel to follow.

Recall all your senators and House of reps members in Abuja, resign from all ambassador posts and resign all your appointments in the Nigerian civil service. Also they will have to submit their Nigerian passports to immigration that they cease to be Nigerians. They will proceed to leave other regions for the owners back to South East where their biafra is.. shikena!

But all these hypnotic biafra talks won't give you anything. You're not talking to a day old baby who can't tell right from left.

Please kindly and firstly submit the key to your house to the landlord when he has not given you a quit notice.

BRATISLAVA:
When you asked for that test, and she agreed, something changed. You have not noticed it yet. One day you will.

BTW, has she asked you to do tests for all the children of the women you've slept with? Women need to get wiser.

My your excuses are blurred. First ask yourself Why would the woman take another man's child to her husband.

Why do women always have a way of acting innocent.

uruba23:
DNA test being carried out should also involve the mother it is very possible the baby could be switched at the hospital, unfortunately we are a society very quick to judge women.. It is very important they both know the kids is there's but like HIV test I think counseling is important. But if the man needs to know it is very simple but provided he won't be judgemental till the wife does hers.

Please stop this kind of shameless defense.
1- if the child was switched during birth, the parents can still conduct the test to ascertain if the child is there child.
2- if the child was switched at birth the child would definitely not have any atom of the woman's DNA.(which means the child would not have the man's or the woman's DNA).

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Emmanuelcann:
Sex as a weapon and bargaining chip, it's inevitable! Do you expect that things will always be smooth and rosy in a marriage? No? So do you expect that a woman will be happy to engage in love making with a husband who has offended her one way or another?
Marriage for a man is a time to learn that you can't always have what you want - unless you are a polygamist. Learn self control!

And sex deprivation is best way to settle any issue? Do a fact check please sex should be used in times of conflict for marriage

IduNaOba:
Only the heavens know the lashing this abike got after she tried to downplay the hushpuppi story the other time.
The lashing really went a long way to restore some parts of her brain yet she still mentioned an igbo name just to show off her tribalistic tendencies.
Yeye sombori

I tell you�.....

Let's also remember that househelp is not your regular relative which some people try to keep as house help .

Let's all remember that the question is not about competition between spouse but under normal clime. Whose responsibility would it be to hire a nanny.

Let's just assume there is a problem with the house chore due to both spouse are working class.

nobone:
Hubby is into biz, while I did a bank job.
I pay the nanny monthly. 90% of times, i paid the kids school fees before hubby would even know.I make sure I stock the house with toiletries and some groceries every month. I buy clothes for my kids, when I see their uniforms/ school bags, shoes and food flasks/lunch bags aren't good enough, I change them straight without looking back. I buy my clothes. Sometimes hubby does. As I do all these, I wasn't ever compelled. I wasn't either asked to. Out of my church mind I do these even more.
On Hubby's side, he stocks the house with foodstuffs every time. He doesn't give me money as most times I don't need it. I have access to all his accounts and most times we run his little business together. When I lost my job, I didn't have need for a nanny again, I paid her off cos she was a nice lady. Hubby took every responsibility 100%, but I still feel bad cos I don't want the biz money to run down.
As for your question, it depends on understanding. Be sincere to each other and in that way, you won't mind who pays what.

Meanwhile, I'm an applicant o! I can do any genuine job.

Good to hear from a woman with dedication but I believe your case is only by God's intervention

Hello dear Nairalanders. I hope all is well with all otherwise continue to struggle positively and time would make things heal.

This topic is actually raised to address the issue of average families where both spouse earn little, but also when the man is taking care of the basic responsibility of house rent,school fees, PHCN bills, DStv, security and lawma. Etc.

My question is since the woman is also a working class, especially when she earns more than the man. Is it proper for the man to hire a house help for the domestic work.

Please only genuine opinions and no childish contributions.
Thanks

Thank you please ask the useless persons that wrote this.or are they saying that Anambra father's are at home while the wife's are at work during the lockdown quote author=tumababa post=90470666]Wooooow!!!! Were their wives not at home during lockdown[/quote]

helinues:
Why are they also travelling to China this period or are they coming from Pluto?

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carbon1224:
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Check the above thread made by me.
Good thing I made them pay and will still continue. I don't work for people for free. They should learn to respect the laws of operations

Nigerians are worse than its government, your right is to make subtle and respectful observation through email to your employers before your resignation.
Thereafter copy the appropriate regulatory bodies.
I was sacked in my last place of work for complaining about non tax remittance and not having a TIN.

if they eventually take the car to workshop they may not know if the right problem was resolved.

waste of efforts working here. managing your workforce is not by employing new workwers every month. you should thank your workforce for taking peanut and receieving abuses on daily bases.

shivtech the ill treatment of your workforce will always make you search for employees. working for you is like hell

shivtech the ill treatment of your workforce will always make you search for employees. working for you is like hell.

worst place ever worked with all the ill treatment of your nigerian workers. and peanut payment. rubbish and arrogant.

The question is. should PAYE still be deducted from my monthly salary after my contract states otherwise for the past 11months? and should this deduction continue without TAX being remitted to LIRS what would be the implication? and finally how can i get this sorted out. also i dont receieve pensions.