₦airaland Forum

Dtruthspeaker:
I am addressing the issues you raised.
And of course religion and character are the same thing.

And it is obvious that maybe because you are married to a Muslim or many of your relations are Christians married to a Muslim is why you refuse to see that this is an explosive issue. And you do not want to see it differently.

And as you can see a good portion agree with me that if the lady has sense she should run

Well, it is op and the lady's bed to lay. We pray that it does not end as we expect it to. For as you yourself said if same religion can be that bad is it now opposing religions? Anyway, may we not hear bad news from them

Religion and character ain't the same.
Although a lot of religious Nigerians either Muslim or Christian are innately evil, they aren't faithful partners and do not understand the rudiments of building a happy marriage.

Oisagbai78:
This is one of the real reasons my first marriage ended. Wife then was from a Muslim background, she got converted, her Mom Also. One other Siblings of her codedely got converted too. Father Not really a fanatic, but was pushed by his Alfas and Imams not to allow me marry his daughter. Fast forward, we Sha married. Did Court, Nikkah, Church blessing. Me a Christian o! I no do church wedding. Well, just 6 yrs later, Marriage crashed and thankfully, after 5 years of Separation, we finally divorced 2 years ago. I have Since remarried and enjoying my marriage now. So bro, na u get ur life, na u get ur decision, no go do wetin u go regret later o. Just take ur decision! There are red flags from both family already which can Make or Mar ur marriage in the future.

What you wrote does not make sense. When you read these kind of posts from. Supposedly educated Nigerians you weep for the educational situation in Nigeria.

From all the things you wrote how was interfaith marriage the reason for your divorce?

You wrote so much yet none of the things you wrote suggests that interfaith marriage was the cause.

I married my wife with non of my family in attendance, today we are enjoying our marriage .

I treat her with respect, never cheated on her and of course protect her from my family and I ensure she is well protected.

In return she loves and respects me and our home is peaceful.

I hope people reading this will learn, don't let your family intrude in your home and as a man marry a woman who respects you.

aliyuthayo:
You can easily get from Pearson VUE, but let me know if you need help getting it.

Thanks for responding.
I was hoping to get some discount.

Can I get a discount for CCNP Security exam ?

Poster do you have CCNP exam voucher ?

Yeah
I did.

I guess I am probably part of the 2 %.

Kobojunkie:
OP's wife is unable to give him what he wants whereas he has other women who can and are more than willing to. What other solution is there apart from divorce? Let me guess ..

• Op should get a sidechick?
• OP should force his wife to drop her own boundaries and possibly risk her own mental health in giving him sex to satiate his desires for pleasure?
• OP shut off his desires and basically toss sex out of his mind for the good of his wife and family?

Which one of the above do you not consider an attempt at gaslighting? Let's start with that and see what the stakes are.

I know you can't be right all the time but darn somethings you surprise even the devil with the kind of things you post.

I can only hope you are catching cruise as a best case scenario which even is quite concerning to be honest.
Now if you are actually serious about some of these disturbing replies you post then I am 100% certain you suffer from a psychological disorder.

This is not a terribly bad thing but you have to realize this fact so you can manage it especially those days that you'd be low and down and restless.

How do I know all this ? I have been there myself.

To the OP, as bad as Nigerians are not many are worse than professing /religious Christians who lack moral compass and solid family values.

It's even worse amongst those ones that attend all these "modern day club houses" now disguised as church.

Generally not many women can match a man's libido even my wife doesn't but it's the way and manner it's managed that determines how devastating that gap will be in the marriage.

I married my wife a virgin so it doesn't matter how angry I am whenever I remember that night I disvirgined her after marriage I just forgive her even when she's wrong...

It's this kind of things that makes marriage a delicate institution.

Hopefully she makes the correction or you learn to adapt to the new reality.

What happens if you let her know you ate now maturating due to her denying you sex ?

Fenrir:
Why do adults in this country let other adults stop them from living their lives?

Your parents and families do not need to like the people you marry at all, they don't need to approve or give consent

They dont even have to like or agree to the type of wedding you want, all they have to like is how the person treats you not the person

Stop living for the approval of other people

You are wasting your time trying to convince a group of people who are stuck in their old ways and would resist every attempt to emancipated them.

Majority of marriages in Nigeria are supporter by both families yet the family system in the country is abysmal with more than 90% of marriages involved in adultery.

No one is trying to find out why marriages in this part of the world is such a sham, one if the reasons being family pressure, imagine a parent assuming the right to choose a partner for a grown up adult sometimes these adults are even more than 30 years old yet they do not believe they are grown enough to choose their own spouses.

Something is really wrong with the African mindset.

ValiantONE:
Good Morning all,

New member here..

I've been trying to conceive for about 3 months now, but keep having a recurring issue of prolonged implantation bleeding.

please, what could be the cause ?

How do you know it is implantation bleeding ?

Have you done a scan to rule out fibroid.

Go for a transvaginal scan and report back with the result.

Popzyjay01:
Good day bros, I'll like to know the outcome of this because I'm facing same. Thank you.

Turns out it was ectopic (ovarian).
She went in for a double salpingectomy and open myomectomy （submucosal).

Took her 3 months to heal.

She got pregnant naturally at the 2nd try/month after recovery even with one fallopian tube.

Let them check the adnexea/ovary it could be that the fetus may be fused with the ovary.

Please keep me updated.

I wish you and your wife all the best.

Hi everyone, please how long does it take from submission of spousal sponsorship application to AOR ?

auto5598:
Hi Guys ! After AOR is received, I would like to know where exactly do one attach the AOR while applying for Spousal sponsorship Visit visa? Where will one mention the AOR in the TRV application ? so Ircc can be aware?? I'll appreciate a response.

Hello
Please how long did it take you to recieve your AOR please ?

tiwatope15:
Hello everyone

For people that have done hysteroscopy what anaesthesia was used for you?

I was supposed to have mine last week but I cancelled it because I was told it will be general anaesthesia..

I was thinking it will be local anaesthesia or conscious sedation. Can someone please throw more lights?

Thank you.

It depends.
Sometimes if you are going to be having extensive adhesiolysis or polypectomy you might be put on general anaesthesia .

Some places will do adhesiolysis with localized anaesthesia so I am wondering why they want to use general anaesthesia for hysteroscopy.

Sometimes hospitals do this to increase cost and raise their profit margin.

There are good hospitals that will do hysteroscopy with localized anaesthesia

motionarena:
Until he use your Mama head for rituals that is when you know you should not treat this kind of people lightly

You Nigerian youths are irredeemable.
You do not jail someone in anticipation of future crime.

What law did he break to arrested ?

What offense did he commit to be arrested ?

Ikiloba:
Yes it's possible but you have to pay a transmission fee

Thank you.
How does that work ?

Hello everyone
Is it possible to do biometrics in Lagos and do passport submission for visa in Abuja (in person) ?

Please educate me as I am confused if it's possible.

Thanks.

ibechris:
Major express.
Where u are going to take commercial vehicle to where u are going.

Alright thanks.

ibechris:
Yes,u can get okada inside the estate that can take u guys to the junction.

U will see vehicles calling area one or apo bridge.

Either ways,u can stop at area one or area three before the apo bridge.

Ask people around,where u can take vehicle going to area 8.

Just so easy.

By "junction" do you mean Trademore Junction(gate) or the main junction of the road around the police post ?

ibechris:
When u take a machine from trademore estate down to ur junction.

U can then enter car going to area three or even area 1.then u can find ur way using taxis going along.

Thank you for your suggestion, so it means we can't get a taxi right from inside the estate.

Those bike guys are just too reckless.

Hi everyone, my wife and I have relocated to Abuja - Trademore Estate Phase 3 Lugbe.

We are finding it difficult to integrate here, we don't drive and would need a vehicle to carry furniture .

We also want to know what's the best way to transit from our location to Garki, Area 8 I.e from Trademore Estate Phase 3 to Garki Area 8, what's the best way to get a transport while avoiding bike as much as possible.

We know there is bolt but is there a cheaper taxi here ?

Thanks for your help.

Hi everyone, my wife and I have relocated to Abuja - Trademore Estate Phase 3 Lugbe.

We are finding it difficult to integrate here, we don't drive and would need a vehicle to carry furniture .

We also want to know what's the best way to transit from our location to Garki, Area 8 I.e from Trademore Estate Phase 3 to Garki Area 8, what's the best way to get a transport while avoiding bike as much as possible.

We know there is bolt but is there a cheaper taxi here ?

Thanks for your help.

Hi everyone,

I am relocating from Ibadan to Abuja, we need to move some household items and I am wondering what is the best/cheapest way to hire a bus to carry our load from Ibadan to Abuja ?

A sienna size of bus would probably be okay as we don't have a lot to transport .

Thanks you for your suggestions.

Hi everyone,

I am relocating from Ibadan to Abuja, we need to move some household items and I am wondering what is the best/cheapest way to hire a bus to carry our load from Ibadan to Abuja ?

A sienna size of bus would probably be okay as we don't have a lot to transport .

Thanks you for your suggestions.

Reading all this replies confirms that indeed Nigeria is a failed state with majority of its populace incapable of critical thinking.

When someone makes an accusation like the op, you don't start by asking them to assault the accused, when we are not barbarians.

The first thing is to ask the op salient questions like:

1. How was a 4 year old boy left unattended to the point where a supposed pedophile can abuse him ?
2. What proof do you have except for the 4 year old word of mouth ?
3. How soon after the abuse was the incident reported.
4. How did the 4 year old boy report this incident.
5. What other kind of abuse is this 4 year old boy exposed to because from what has been said, the boys parents dropped the boy with op(uncle) and his grandparents and it appears they have failed in their responsibilities to properly monitor the child.

learn:
Please has anyone uses nordica fertility clinic abuja for ivf. What was ur experience like

Why not try primecare in Abuja, they are cheaper and have great reviews.
Send me a mail at
aws.seventeen@gmail.com and I will add you to a whatsap group of people planning to cycle with them.

TinaJoe:
I'm planning too but I'm not getting the informations I need before traveling to Abuja cos I stay in the east ND wouldn't want to travel down to Abuja and end up not achieving anything and the doctor doesn't reply messages probably cos of his busy schedule.

Please send me an email with your whatsap at : aws.seventeen@gmail.com

Graciousbaby:
Thank you so much Blendy. Do you know where I can get Serrapeptase? or anyone selling? I’m currently in Abuja.

Dear Graciousbaby, kindly send email to aws.seventeen@gmail.com .
Thanks.

Hi everyone, my wife and I are planning to cycle at Primecare Abuja early next year.

Please reach out to me via this email if you are also planning to cycle at Primecare Abuja so we can have a community and provide support for each other.

aws.seventeen@gmail.com

Hi everyone, my wife and I are planning to cycle at Primecare Abuja early next year.

Please reach out to me via this email if you are also planning to cycle at Primecare Abuja so we can have a community and provide support for each other.

aws.seventeen@gmail.com

Hi everyone, my wife and I want to rent a house in Abuja.
We have never been to Abuja and moving to Abuja due to medical reasons.

We need recommendations on the best, safest and cheapest areas to rent for 1 year.

We are looking at room and parlour self con.

Thank you.

miraclebabyamen:
Everything will be fine.
Your wife should start using serraenzyme serrapeptase. It will prevent adhesion from forming.

Thank you