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SeanT21:
Step  away from the situation that is making your "privates" hard!!

How?  

Moonstone:
You have no idea what estrogen does to women. Mood swings? Hot flushes? A lot. That thing messes us up!
Testosterone is absolutely not that bad.

When it gets hard, go to your girl or get some lotion. Don't go around spreading your seeds, planting babies!

 
I'm saying once i gets hard it becomes the "BRAIN", and this brain only knows how to do one thing.

onyinye2:
That guy in the OP doesn't even know what love is. All he knows is Pure Infatuation. These are the kind of people who wahala at their women in the beginning. Like puppy love. But as the relationship grows, the figure out that they don't give a damn about the person as a person. Which goes back to my conclusion this guy is probably a High School Graduate or newly entered College man.

Are you saying women don't hurt the men they love?

I didn't say privates! I specifically said D I C K! you have no idea what this testosterone thing does to the male

SeanT21:
are u on our side?

I thought it was Man vs Women!

I commend YOU O!!

One word: balls

Look at you people. If you had a dick for a day you would understand.

OgidiBoy:
Have you ever been cuffed ?

Moonstone:
Ummm Dude, do you need a moment?
Have you been raped that way?

Haaa
Nobody said that o

And let's not talk about those girls that cuff you to the bed.  

Treetop20:
it doesn't take anything to cheat
like it can happen in a millisecond
from kissing to ripping the clothes off
to moaning and groaning and after
"what the Bleep have i done"?

EXACTLY!

but it can happen accidentally, like sex.

Moon,

You said kissing is alright.  Don't you know kissing is cheating too?  How many women get wet off kissing, or just fantasizing about other men in their minds?  don't think any man would appreciate some random dude making his woman wet.

Treetop20:
women are funny
a man will be tempted to cheat
we are visual beings but pray he fears God
because that is what will put him off and also has
strong love for you. I also think men cheat because they
do not know what it feels like after. if they did i don't think they would

Thank you! The brain ceases to function at that point.  The mind and body take over.

ztyle:
# H202- Me Too i don't Shit,Oop Cheat  

LOL

Moonstone:
Dude you are testing me! 
Are you looking for justification on why you should cheat too?
Men can hide. I know married men in my community (NIGERIAN) that are masking as single guys to get girls. Who do you blame then? The unsuspecting ladies or the possessed, married, self-destructive buffoons?Thank you jare!
Those are the best ones. Because she kissed them first, they must continue to term
After sex, I felt nothing - During sex, what did they feel?
I don't know what I was thinking - Obviously they are possessed. Exorcism is the best.

LOL Moonshow,
You know me, I don't cheat. And we both know the devil wears prada

SeanT21:
how about~~~

She kissed me first
After we had sex,I felt nothing.
I don't know what I was thinking

Moonstone:
Oh nice names. . .  
I didn't say any man is above temptation. I just hate silly excuses like "I was drunk" or "She came on to me". Since when did guys become puppets?  

Body no be wood.
Couple that with the problems the man is having with his lover.  He doesn't feel appreciated by her, she keeps pushing him away, and the killer is if the seductress approaches him when he's sexually frustrated.  Abeg man go blow steam o

SeanT you better marry a Nigerian man. See how slow your Liberian comrade ztyle is

Hesperus:
I think guys (and girls too!) cheat primarily because they have become too used to their partners and just want a breath of fresh air. Does not necessarily mean they have fallen out of love with said partners. Which is why people tend to code their kurukere moves, because they don't want to end up hurting their loved ones.
I think that summarises it basically.

Abi o, that's what I think too. Obviously there are various other reasons lovers cheat, but that has got to be the biggest one.

vicade:
The devil that made the naija man do it abi? And it is Angel Gabriel that made the naija girl accept from devil sent abi.

In primary school we were taught that both the giver and reciever are guilty of Bribery.

There you are.

Thank you jare ma bru
Mooning is a known misandrist.

SeanT21:
Liberian boy,LOL

Why do MAN cheat?

Correction,
Why do lovers cheat

Moonblock,
No man is above temptation.

Okay, here is a continuation from the site

"Love
The chase is better than the catch. (False)
Do not take love for granted. (True)

1) Saying "I love you" - It is not enough to express it non-verbally as your partner will never get tired of hearing it.
2) Love tokens - As little and simple as they might be, they are the constant fuel in a relationship (love notes, CDs, little gifts, silly surprises, or even remembering how your partner likes his or her tea).
3) Smiling - It sounds trivial, but a little smile on your face when you see that special someone says that you love them, you are happy to have met them, and you are happy they are in your life.
4) Eye contact - The eyes are the windows to the soul and there is nothing better than a silent moment that reveals a loving soul.
5) Holding hands - Do not be embarrassed to walk down a crowded street holding your partner's hand; it just says "I am yours" in a deeper way than any words could possibly express. In front of the TV and at family visits is a bonus. Why do married couples stop holding hands? Why do married couples stop holding hands in front of their kids?

Love is a feeling that is born strong, but without the right maintenance it will fade away and you will be left with a sense of emptiness and lack of fulfilment. Some people, instead of looking for ways to revive the love they once had, begin hunting for the thrill outside of their relationship. Statistics tell us that 75,000 divorce cases have been ruled by Egyptian courts in 2006-2007 and that in 45,000 of those cases, the internet and online relations were the reason behind the divorce. Love has the potential to fade and an equal dimension for growth and transformation into a strong bond. Choose to neglect it and you end up alone."

SeanT21:
Make him Jelous.Go on a date with a sexy man at his favorite spot.Wear your favorite attention grabber outfit.Pretend to be into the Guy and even give him a kiss on the cheek a couple of times.Make sure Your ex sees it.IT will burn his heart!!

LOL I will just finger the sexy bartender to piss you off

Women are confusing.

Oh sorry, this is addressed to both sexes! I am not going to single out the women. The bible didn't say "only women should remain virgins"

Haha how do you know u have reached ur drinking limit

SeanT21:
If my man cheated on me and cry for me to forgive him,I will.Everyone can be tempted now and then.


I always forgive the first mistake but next mistake is UNFORGIVABLE!!

Thank you baby.

syren:
doesn't matter if he's drunk he still chose to do it, unless he wants to cry that he was raped.

Moonstone:
Drunk and stressed? Then he can call me. I don't think that's accidental. No responsible guy will get himself in that kind of situation anyway. There is nothing like accidental cheating. . . the only thing that's forgivable is raping. Every other thing is not an excuse.

I am not justifying cheating, but are you saying it is impossible to cheat accidentally? You women have no idea how much chemical imbalance you can cause in a man's body. It's inevitable sometimes! The only way to avoid it is to avoid being in situations that can cause you to slip.

How come you only understand kiss? Why not sex?  He could be drunk and stressed.  Some desperate girl could take advantage of him.

Please answer the question and stop taking it as an attack on your lewd acts.

SeanT21:
REal Love Last FOREVER!!

I never argued with you on that  

If your lover accidentally cheats on you, are you going to take him back because "REal Love Last FOREVER!!"??  Better use your head

Nobody asked why men cheat. You are sexist!

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