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I'm alright man. Just there.

If the situation ain't irreversible then where there is a will find a way.

okay then do it dreeldee

It's already hard enough dealing with people speaking gibberish, now we have people trying in gibberish too

FML!

Exam got cancelled today.   Those darn protests!

Mate, it is part of the full assessment I do on any woman I engage in a relationship with: "What do you bring to the table"

Most Western influenced ones are so warped nowadays that they over-value themselves and think all guys should get in a relationship and should be satisfied with is constant intimacy, and for this "privilege" (as they are told by the rubbish magazines they read) he should worship their feet.

You should share in all the traditional female roles, but be a man and continue with the traditional male roles (except maybe their contribution financially nowadays). And then buy them flowers and text sweet things frequently because they somehow think they are L'Oreal (slogan: Because I'm worth it).

And lets not forget the negatives they bring that you have to tolerate because [speaks in childish feminine voice] "that is the way women are".

LOL you are speaking so much sense dude. Frankly (and not to sound in the least bit sexist) what many women bring to the table when it comes to relationships is sex and you as a man are automatically expected to be more than satisfied with that. The pink between their legs is used simultaneously to exalt them into a position of power when dealing with men and also in exchange for favours.

I haven't given too much thought to all these issues because I was previously under the impression that they are trivial. I base my decisions to go out with women solely on intuition and other simpler parameters. Now though, it's highly important for me to find a way to devise a list or a chart that will separate and differentiate the empty vessels from others who can understand, share, and value the same family structure that I believe in.

I don't want to mistakenly end up with a woman who readds feminism into every minute issue in relationships.

If that makes me sexist and close-minded then so be it.

Nigerian values raised girls are just a million times better.

statement of fact! undeniable.

davidylan:
Reminds me of a dinner i attended with a couple of friends last week. The only female among us insisted she wouldnt pay for her meal because "i am a woman" (she's nigerian so no surprises there) . . . apparently she was looking to take advantage of the fact that we're all friends.

I promptly divided the bill equally, payed for my own portion IN CASH and walked off.

Most women have nothing to offer . . . i'm sure the OP is the one doing all the paying. [/b]I bet if wifey had to dig into her purse to pay for her food outings she would suddenly develop a love for home-cooked meals. [/b]She doesnt "hate" home made food (at least she ate her mother's food abi), she's simply seen a mugu to pay for her long throat.

    this is hilarious but it's really true.  it happens frequently.
some of these women are quite silly and almost impossible to deal with.

Sagamite:
Thats not the only thing, the worst thing is she would expect flowers on Valentines and on few other occassions because [speaks in childish feminine voice] "That is what men do and it shows you appreciate me"

That is why I was asking him what she brings to the table in the relationship so I don't jump the gun as I am suspecting there is nothing to appreciate, as like most girls that can't be bothered to cook for their guys she might really have nothing much to offer in relationships.

that's good food for thought actually, never thought about it that way.
More women are continuing to manipulate the gender card in their favor.
"I can't be bothered to cook for you . . . you have got to do this, that, . . and treat me this way because that's what real men do"


@poster, hope you read what sagamite said.  don't simply settle for convenience. though convenience is good, you should make sure she brings something worthwhile to the table as well.

What's the gain in always eating out? Has she given you a valid reason for preferring to eat out instead?
Like others have said, the costs of constantly eating out compared to preparing your home-cooked meals are a difference maker in the pockets.
Plus, it's motherly to have a woman that cooks some of that good food at home jare

lola19:
looool iz kl no wahala,

okay nau no yawa. takia woman.

lola19:
loooool is not hard to decrypt all dese lines are cheesy funi sometymz creepy etc etc etc, notin do mi ,

okay don't vex o lola i just couldn't understand

Dear lord, please where do I begin to decrypt the cryptic post above mine.

parislomo:
Thanks dear, you really are nice. Just make sure you don't run out of kleenex quickly. hmmmmm. . . and there I was believing it was a womanly thing to cryyyyyyyy. . .

haha mo ro go. you have finished me. thanks for the chat.

parislomo:
I'm a cry baby that's why. . . can't help it. . I'm happy now.

That's good to know. Keep it up. I'll be here with kleenex tissues in hand just in case you need to wipe your tears.
No need to cry. Wipe your tears, be a woman.

Secretz:
But you already described yourself as a simpleton. Lol :p

blood of
.

we are calling you "anti" and you are yabbing us. please o
what did we carry what did you throw.
miss luscious you are not serious o

Ujujoan:
Tot you already had your one word

Nice!

Please, I'm allowed o.

googles:
[size=13pt]looks like you really need a shrink

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lol haba

cry? crying alraedy? what for? don't shed any crocodile tears here o biko. i am not vexing at all. what for? oti o.

Ebonyeyes:
Nice

Lol tell me you lying dear. I had imagined you'd be diabolic or something.

Lol you weird dear.

@Topic,

Driven

Okay o no vex, we won't stray from topic. Wasn't making fun of you though, I meant that lol.
but takia

eazyman:
Thanks bro, Im already getting inured to expect the worst at anytime.

Nut up son!

parislomo:
Ok, when I hear a quiz like WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE? or something similar. . . that's usually my response.
[sub][/sub]Yeah boring line I know.

Lol no it ain't. it's cute actually. how are you?
lol

Secretz:
Schizophrenic.

Of all words, na schitzo you choose. Freak

You ain't failed yet. Not until you answer what you're waiting for the right time to do.

it might be a ticket to success.

parislomo:


Waiting for the right time. . . like now.

lol o ti pari. waiting for the right time to do what now? i'm lost

maybe you're deeply in lust?