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Lol not if I get to sleep afterwards, I wouldn't. If getting up at that 4am means the day has started then I would be the grumpiest person on earth.

ibkaye:
har har, I welcome thee to reality

You're evil.

@topic,
the beginning of the rest of your life starts now

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Hi, I'm new here.

From what to what?

My names may have been perhaps numerous and uncountable? Lol
maybe not?

Craziest thing I've done for love?

Can't quite recall. I guess maybe it's not so crazy then.

OMG! Look how they shine.

I'm terribly appreciative of morning rests. lol but I terribly dread the reality of the 8am-5pm industry work.

Oh what a coincidence, I'm home for the weekend as well. And already these thugs here are trying to overwork me. Home away from home is supposed to be a vacation! I guess they don't get it.

Anything pre-11am is too early for me. Even 11am is pushing it. My classes are usually not until 12p.

I struggle to make my 8am class on most days. Even when I do make it, I'm in there unconscious, drifting in and outta sleep and unattentive.

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For you I'd bleed myself dry.

ibkaye:
hey peroxide, how's your day been?

@topic
I'm arguing with an 11 year old lol

My day's been a bit scattered. Woke at 7am- which is far too early and unusual for me, to take sis to work. Came back, slept till 11a or something. Got up, made some concoction, went on computer. . . did some research.

how about you?

Mine is like yay:

1) Attraction- Beauty/Sexiness/Fashion/Girliness
2) Intelligence
3) Traditional/Homely
4) Virginity/Low Sexual Experience
5) Career Potential

Git 'er dun.

The goal must be accomplished.

lol you didn't penetrate, you only injected.

Secretz sorry for blowing your cover bro

chamotex:
Any problem? [size=2pt]whats wrong wiv having a quickie at lunch time, sch can be stressful u know[/size]

Yea bet you used to love the way she used to suck it and fu''ck it.

pls, i thought you were a virgin

It's Secretz bar-none.

No retreat no surrender.

lol you reach enlightenment by crossing borders? Chai I don hear something new today o.
I think I should drop outta school then.

Betrayal. Be it by cheating, lying, you name it.

You're related by virtue of your aunty's marriage to her father's brother. That is all. In that sense you are not directly related to her.
I would tell you to go for it because it's not so dicey, but proceed with caution. Nigerians nitpick on things like this.

Of course women are bastardly in love with money.

Money won't be the focal point of your relationship if you end up with one who truly loves you though.

They acknowledge the need for money because money can make things so much easier, however there are other aspects of the relationship that their focus is directed on.

Oh my God she's picture perfect.

Blah blah blah long empty rant

When is time for a quick self-service reliever?

sell my soul

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=678.msg5631478#msg5631478 date=1267782247]got it. still doesnt mean one should be eating the dust either especially in this day and time[/quote]To quantify that, if the level of wickedness in this man is that alarmingly high when he's upset - as this woman claims she's seen the good and the worst, she should take the initiative to leave now instead of being blindly in love. If the anger at its height has not driven her away by now, I really don't know what other answers she's looking for . . . other than the uncertainties within her that's causing her to have goose bumps or get cold feet. It happens to plenty of people. Nonetheless, she can either introspect and figure out what she wants like I said earlier, or she can simply end it now instead of both party wasting their time.

Turn the lights down low.

It's never been a do or die affair, but life's not always greener on the other side either.

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=678.msg5631352#msg5631352 date=1267780415]not making it seem/sound 'anomaly', my issue is why make the mistake of stepping into something with this unease mindset while you still have the chance to make a free decision. a bad relationship is always better than a bad marriage.[/quote]This was never in doubt.

how so?

It simply means she doesn't know what she wants.

meaning, work it out him and see if he changes?

Meaning try to work it out and see if a change is possible. If it's a missing component that cannot be change then find someone else.

in other words, think wise before leaving this your BF, because a bird at hand is always better than those on the tree?

Be wise with your decision.

I think you understand what I'm driving at.

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=678.msg5631233#msg5631233 date=1267778707]but why the " possibility of being 35, single, and desperate" because if she leaves her BF that makes her feel unease then shes doomed and will never find another husband or BF again [/quote]Because that limit tends to reality dear. It's not an unheard of anomaly as you're making it seem . . . it actually happens.

I'm not directly opposed to her dumping him. If she's dumping him for precarious reasons, then it is more than likely that she could fall into a similar hole again with the next man she gets involed with.
If she's aware of what's missing and she knows what she's looking for then since she has this man she can seek it out in him; it could be a simple excuse of cold feet that's causing her to doubt her love. If the man in question does not have what she wants then of course the best remedy for the situation would be to quit the relationship.

youre still reiterating the same thing which is suck it up and deal it, because if you leave him now, you have the possibility of never finding another man, even at the tend age of 23

I disagree. I won't tell her to suck it up and deal with it, but I am making sure she's aware of the huge possibility that it could happen to her. Thinking it won't happen to you means you're just not thinking as they say.