Between this two which will you recommend and your reasons. Cos I see the 5in one like a waste of money cos I doubt if it will rock well

Hello every every. How are we doing. And hello to team April. Hope we are good. Please btwn 5in 1 bassinet and swing which will you recommend?

sugarcoatted:


I know someone that did 4cs. Funny thing about hers was that the last 3 was just a year interval each. 2019, 2020 and 2021. The first was in 2010. You will be fine ma, God will be with you every step of the way

Thanks so much

deeem:
congratulations, I've seen a neighbour that did the 4th cs recently but the truth is she worked closely with her gynecologist.So I would say you should relax and work closely with a good gynecologist.

Thank you maa

[quote author=formidablefunmi post=115845873][/quote] nothing oooo.

ladyrachy:

My sis in-law has gone thru 4 CS ooo and she's fine with her kids although she gave gap like 2 -3yrs. My doc even said he has done up to five depending on how good the person is and most importantly he said the woman must give enough spacing of the kids. So u will be fine ma

thank you for the response

Hello house I m back again hope we are good? I wish us all a safe and smooth journey. Thought im done we with this group but as God will have it I tested positive today to God be the glory after three CS. Mother's please put me in your prayers as I am very scared right now. Has anyone tried going for a 4th CS before? Experienced mamas please help

March mamas. Please if you have not started or done with shopping please do. Some of us are in 36th week now and we all know anything can happen.

Pineapple has always been my favorite fruit in pregnancy and it doesn't affect me in any way. So it depends.

flourish2021:
i am in same shoes with you mummy.am a 2 time c,s mummy,currently pregnant with with third.God will make it easy for us.love nd hugs

amen to your prayers. Wishing us all a successful journey

Temitope009:



Hello momma
Tight ehugs to you

We're in the same shoe.
Going in for my 3rd cs as well and it's elective.

First was emergency.
Second was elective/emergency, lol. If something like that exists.

For the second, I felt some tightening the previous day and since I was told to keep an open mind either to cs or vaginal birth, I told the doc to check me on my next appointment. She did, and said I was 2cm dilated and wouldn't be allowed to go home.

Whilst on admission, I still didn't fall into active labour until night.
Another doc on her shift adviced that I could choose to keep waiting for labour or I get wheeled into the theatre since the time interval between then and the 1st cs was just 14 instead of 18 months.

So, we signed the consent form for cs and Alhamdulilah, we remain glad we did.

So ma'am, it isn't still a big deal as the previous you've had. Sure, you might get scared as the days get closer but please, keep an open mind and pray, pray, pray.
May we all come out with our babies victorious.

Thanks so much for your words of encouragement. We will come back here to give testimonies inshallah.

Hello mamas how are we doing. Please I have a question. I have gone through 2CS already even though they were both emergency CS. But this time around I want to opt for the elective CS. Please I want to know how it feels being wheeled into the theater. I don't know why I am scared d two times I entered I was really in pains but this time around it's going to be a voluntary something. Another thing that's making me scared is dt some ppl say d anaesthesia they were given stopped working before d end of the stitching process. I never experienced this and I pray I don't. Please any body who has 3cs before? I kinda need to be encouraged.

oke22:
Oke22————March 14th/March 8/March 10
Tinudesi———march 21st
Pattenffy——-March 28
Haryanphe——-March 21st


Other March mama please drop your date gender

Add me please I am March 6.

Zino89:
I'm 32 weeks +5 days went for check up blood level is okay My urine was tested and the result was trace of protein ,I don't understand what it means can someone pls explain

How about your bp

threegees:
VERY LONG POST ALERT

Ngwanu, grab ya popcorn and juice, and enjoy the jolly ride. I will try to summarize cos story plenty. I hope it will be a worthy read.

PRE-PREGNANCY
My marriage was at the verge of being over because I had had enough of its wahala, coupled with a man who things were not going well with, and then, who was steady pouring his frustrations on me. Hubby and I didn't use to talk to each other sef, let alone play mommy and daddy. I had secretly planned my relocation to Abuja to get my sanity and move on. Before then, I was on contraceptive pills since August 2013 after I had my daughter, and it worked perfectly well for me, until October last year. Things were so bad financially for us and for me that I could not afford to buy my pills. How much? #150!
Yes! It was that bad. I got tired of begging people for money to get by so I locked up, afterall, I wasn't having sex with anyone.
Fast forward to early January this year, a friend who had been talking to me asked me to approach hubby and give him sex, and that from there, we could talk things out. He never supported me leaving my marriage. I had just finished my period and felt I wasn't fertile so I have nothing to lose. I approached hubby at night where he usually slept cos we weren't sleeping in the same room anymore. I seduced him and voila! it happened. Guy didn't even withdraw. I wasn't perturbed too since I had been on pills for almost 7 years. I thought belle no fit enter just like that na.

DISCOVERING PREGNANCY
So, I wondered why my period was unusually scanty in January. Imagine, I had forgotten about the sex. I was preparing for my relocation to Abuja, buying a few things and all when it dawned on me that my last period only came for one day. I explained to a pharmacist where I was buying deworming drug for my kids and she asked me to get a test strip and test for pregnancy. I laughed and declined. After buying the drug, she didn't have #50 change, so I asked for the test strip na.
Saturday 1st February, 2020, I wanted to pee and remembered the strip. I did the test with confidence that the pharmacist didn't know what she was saying. Lo and behold, two bold lines were looking at me. I was confused. I went to buy another strip o. Did the test again, and the two bold lines showed up again.
A mixture of emotions went all through my body. I walked up to hubby who was sleeping on the couch (Someone I hadn't talked to in months). I showed him the strip, he too was confused. He didn't say a word. That night, he moved back into our bedroom. I cried cos I felt this pregnancy is going to destroy my secret plans and preparations, and I couldn't bring myself to abort it. I kept doubting until I went for a scan and they told me that I was pregnant cos they could see a fetal pole.

EARLY PREGNANCY
Hubby mysteriously and miraculously accepted the pregnancy. He pampered me like no tomorrow. I had terrible morning sickness. He would make tea and bring to my bed. He'll boil water and keep in the bath tub for me to bath, make ice cubes for me to chew on while at work. Oh, my husbandman did everything. I was just a vegetable. This was same person who had been my live-in enemy for months. That was how I was able to manage the first few weeks until covid19 wahala and we were all at home. I wasn't working, hubby hadn't been working since 2018. No way to feed or buy baby things. Pregnancy after 7 years. I had nothing. We had nothing. Then hubby started drama.

He who had told his mom of my pregnancy out of excitement at the early stage when she came visiting started telling his family members that he is not sure he is responsible for the pregnancy. It was his brothers' wives who started calling me to ask what happened. He refused to give me a dime to get the hospital requirements and baby things. I had to beg my mom to feed. After sometime when people were allowed to move, I'd pack a few clothes and my kids and go to my mom's place to stay so we could eat. It was that bad. In June/July, same DH told his family and mine that he wanted a divorce. They called for a family meeting. No one supported him, not even his family. Everyone of them was trying to do whatever they could to make me happy. One would send me money, the photographer did me a free photoshoot, everyone would frequently call just to make me happy. After everything was resolved, he admitted that it was frustrations that got the better part of him. Amazingly, in all these, I was not perturbed one bit. Till things got back right again and I decided to enjoy my pregnancy.

LATE PREGNANCY
So schools were asked to resume but because of how advanced my pregnancy was, coupled with the bad roads and outstanding debt of school fees for my kids, I couldn't resume. My kids couldn't go to school too. We just stayed at home waiting for this baby to come and let me have my life back. It seemed like forever. No sign of labour or approaching labour. All along, it had been a perfect pregnancy, but by week 38 or thereabout, my BP started rising like dough with yeast. At every antenatal check up, I was given nifedipine under my tongue and I was told it can be managed and not too serious. My feet was swollen and heavy at week 40. I was given an injection and told I would drain the fluid through urine. It happened like that, but a week after, the swollen feet returned much more than what it was before sef, and very painful. I just felt it was the end of pregnancy so I wasn't bothered. I never knew I had eclampsia. Never experienced it in previous pregnancies, never knew anyone who had it too. I just wanted labour to come.

LABOUR/DELIVERY
My EDDs had passed, no sign. If I hear that someone had put to bed, I'll feel bad that mine hadn't come. Until I begged hubby for sex. After he managed to do, the next morning, I saw my show. I was excited. By Sunday 18th, I started having contractions. I went to the clinic and after vaginal examination, I was just 4cm and asked to go back home till contractions were stronger. All through that night, the contractions were hellish. I was using a contractions timer app until it got to an average of 15 minutes by Monday morning. I had my bath and left for the clinic. Though I can't remember how I got to the hospital that Monday morning, I only remember I was checked by the matron and told I was 6cm. That's all I remember.
My mom and husband told me they came to meet me on my bed in the ward, and I told my mom I couldn't see anything again.
Before she could say sorry, I started convulsing.
She said I started foaming in the mouth and stretching. She screamed and called the matron. The matron put spoon in my mouth, beat me and all, just to stabilize me. They managed to stabilize me a bit and put me in the matron's car to take me to another hospital where they can handle my case. On the way, while in the car, my water broke and the head of the baby was showing. I started convulsing again. They beat nonsense out of me to stabilize me, yet no way. I was still stretching. My husband's hands were in my mouth, I was bleeding from the mouth, he was bleeding from his hands because I had clenched them with my teeth and stretching. On getting to the hospital they were taking me to, over 10 people rushed to hold me as they said they screamed Emergency o.
I was rushed to the delivery room. They tried to stabilize me as the convulsion started again. They finally did and when they checked, my BP had shot up to 202/100. They said the baby is not big but because of the high BP, if I push the baby, it will be 50/50 or I run mad or maybe paralysed.
They fixed oxygen. The first tank finished. They fixed the second one, then brought the BP down a bit. Then, the doctor told my husband it is a 50/50 chance, he should sign the consent form and choose who they should save. He said he shouted and said God forbid. He wants both his wife and his baby. He said he kept telling me in my ears to remember my other two children, my mother and him. He was speaking in tongues like no tomorrow. He called his mom, my pastor, everyone.
When the doctor to perform the surgery came, he asked both my mom and hubby out of the delivery room. They couldn't even take me to the theatre. The doctor faced the wall, knelt down, prayed, sent them out and did the caesarean. When he brought out the baby, she cried a bit, stopped and turned green. They abandoned me and fixed oxygen on the baby. They stabilized her, then faced me. The operation was done around past 9am, I regained a little consciousness and opened my eyes by 9.35pm. I didn't know where I was. I woke up and was telling my husband that the baby in my womb is not allowing me to be comfortable and that I want to turn to my side because I was sleeping on my back, he was laughing at me.
With the way he was looking at me, I then asked him if I have given birth, he said yes. I didn't believe. I said it was a lie. He bought the baby to me, I still didn't know where I was. I regained full consciousness on Thursday morning. Me that gave birth since Monday morning.
My recovery was fast and still in progress, and we were discharged on the following Friday.
God did a great thing and indeed we are glad. I am happy to have my baby in my hands. Daddy is glad. Big brother and sister are elated, and my mom can't stop singing and dancing for joy.

BS Submitted as I sign out of the month of October, extremely grateful to God for how far He has brought us. Indeed, it was a journey! Boots officially thrown into the lagoon

I have been a silent member but I just have to talk today. Congratulations. God has been so merciful. A lot of people passed through this but could not live to tell the story. I say congratulations again and again. May God continue to bless you and your family and grant you all that your heart desires.
Please mothers let's take our BP and swellings serious talking from experience. I had pre-eclampsia with my first baby in 2016 it's takes d grace of God. We shall all be alive to mother our children by the special grace of God

Good evening mothers. How are we doing? Please I have a question. I am 21weeks and I have been having frequent and painful urination. I have taken complete dose of cefizm. just two days after its back again. Please has anyone experienced this? And please any suggestions of what to use?

xeexee1:
. No dear You will still take it after birth Dat makes it complete dose! And subsequently when u have d complete dose if u goin for second projects u dnt need to take it so i hrd!! But like me i hardly go for 3rd dose after birth so most times when am goin into my next projects i start afresh!! My 1st n 2nd i do it afresh bt wl try my best on this third projects to c i complete it after birth. Insha Allah

The whole TT injection is 5. If you are able to complete it then you are protected for life. In other words you dnt have to take it during subsequent pregnancies. But if not completed you LL have to take it again during every pregnancy.

ifeoluwatoyin2:
Hi mums..

It is normal to be pooping(going to toilet) every morning...Almost 19weeks gone.

Once I pooped, feel relieved and energetic..but everyday thing giving me concern

You just said you feel relieved and energetic after that. Please it's no cause to worry. When I was pregnant with my girl I always feel same after I vomit so I began to force myself to be vomit every morning so dt I would enjoy d rest of the day.

Guess I'm d only March mama here I welcome myself I pray it ends with praise. Happy delivery to those that have given birth. And I wish all other July mummys a successful journey. To all of us please stay safe.

Good evening everyone in d � please welcome me I'm team March 2021. greetings to team Sept 2018 is anyone of us back or I'm i only one. Sugah, zaynie. I throw way salute.

Good evening house I'm new here hope I'm welcomed. Just summoned d courage to try to conceive again. Please wish me well. Baby dust to us all.

Good evening all. Please i have a question. My M.Ed score is 59.3% and i want to apply for phd. But most institutions are requesting for 3.5 on a scale of 0.0-5.0. What is my 59.3 on this scale? Thanx in anticipation

comtem2011:
continue trying, my baby was like that 3 weeks ago, but now we have overcome that poo phase.

Prepare in small quantity so she won't be wasting the food.

Pele.

Thanks. I won't give up

lightedpath:
try frisogold rice. Make it light

Thanks it's frisogold rice based cereal that I bought for her ooooo. She will allow me put it in her mouth but she ll not swallow it

Good evening mothers. How are we and our babies. Please I need your help. I m not a new mother this is my second baby and she is 6months and a week. She has refused to take everything I av offered her. I gave her pap, Tom brown to no avail. Even water she pushes it out with her tongue. Don't know what else to do. The worse of it all she is not sucking like before. I put her to breast and in 2minutes she has removed it. She is no longer as chubby as she used to. Don know what to do again Please help a confused mom.

Good evening. How are we doing and our youngones. Sorry I am registering here late. Had my girl 27th of October that year

Jenonye:
Merry Xmas mamas.
My bs goes like this.
On 13th I started feeling menstrual like cramp off and on. The during the night I couldn't sleep properly as the cramps where getting more uncomfortable. By early morning like around 7am on 14th, I told my hubby about it and he said we should go to the hospital. By then the contractions where coming every 20 mins. We got there and after everything it was our turn to see the doctor. I told her what I was feeling and she checked me and said I was already 4cm dilated. She cleaned me and saw mucous plug. She said I was dialating well and that i would definitely give birth today. I was happy. I was admitted and in like 30mins a nurse came to check me . she collected my baby things and asked me to follow her to the labour room. But there was a problem , my contractions where not strong enough and my water hadn't broken. Meanwhile the nurse that was attending to me was ready to close and I was handed over to the next nurse on duty. I was like on 7cm for a while because the contractions where not strong. The doctor later came in and they put me on a drip to make the contraction stronger. That was when I started seeing hell. Chai. She now broke my water and in like 30 mins or so I was fully dialated. I told the nurses I wanted to poo and before they could do anything I started pooing and pushing at the same time. That was when the nurse checked me and screamed "she's ready" ! . they asked me to push at each contraction. Can't remember the number of times I pushed before my prince came out screaming @4:40pm. I had very little tear. I thank God for everything. Bs submitted.

Congrats our Lil prince. Welcome to the world

Good evening house. I am back after a while. How are we all doing. Missed u mums like kilode. The last time I was here was when I gave my BA. A lot has happened since then. It's not easy nursing a baby and dealing with a God sent 2years old boy plus I lost my phone along the line. Dealing with end of the year demand and so on. I'm now fully back to continue from where I stopped. Where did I even stop sef. I can't go back and start reading Biko. Lemme just start for here

portable4real:
Good morning to all the beautiful mothers. Indeed mothers are trying. Working with 2 babies is very tiring and exhausting for me. Have really missed this forum for but I hardly have time to be available on line.

Hope we are all doing fine.
@zaynie
hunniesuzie
wowdiva
Alphahandmaiden
tatacharie
onegai
haleematm
jazzyjazz
And all mothers
God will Crown our effort

We are fine. Its not easy but we have a way of handling it. That's why we are mothers. Any man that wants to try what we do for a month will breakdown

Tabsy:
Congratulations mama. Thank God for safe delivery. Welcome Princess. God bless you and keep you.

Amen

zaynie:



Yay!!!!
Alhamdulillah.
Choi this woman, so you escaped .
May Allah make your children the coolness of your eyes and may He make their path always bright and beautiful.
Àmín

Amin amin.

Owasgirl:


Congratulations and welcome to your princess. She shall continually put smiles on your face.

Amen