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While I'm in support of telling it all, I must say one has 2b careful. 2 me, it depends on d man or woman in question. Wen I told my husband (fiancee den) abt my past, it drew us closer cos he ws hapi I cud trust him wit info abt my past bt wen I found out frm our mutual frend dt he kpt sumtin frm me abt his past, I ws mad. It nearly ended our engagement if nt 4 God. Since den (2d best of my knowledge sha), he dosnt kip tinz 4rm me knowin hw much it hurt me den. D funny tin is dt he was d one who helped me 2 com 2 terms wit my past. Weneva I'd stat regretting d tins I'd done, he'd say dey r all in d past & I shud use d lessons learnt 2 tich our kids and young girls out dre 2 bhave beta. So my point is, it depends on ur partner. Is he or she understanding enough 2 handle ur past?

Wow! Beautiful! I luv it wen pple use dier God given talents! Dis is one talent I sure wish God had given me cos I luv art.

I'll advise christians 2 stop arguing with dese atheist who tink dey no it all. I prayed 4 dem last 9te. D Holy Spirit said dey r meant 2b. its bcs of dem dt b bible says 'd fool says in his heart, there is no God'. So evn as far bck as den, dier existence ws already predestined. It is 2 strike a balance in d world. U hv darkness, so u'll appreciate light. Dts y we also hv buddhists, muslims, pagans etc. Its @ d end dt d true God will b revealed. Remember d bible says we shall all com under one true church in d end (d body of Christ). So liv dem, let dem blaspheme all dey want. Wen dey die or wen d world coms 2 an end, dey will all no d TRUTH. Its my prayer also dt it won't b 2 late 4 dem. Peace!!!

Christians remember

Hmm....I hv read through some of d comments expecially dose of d so-cald atheists and I must say I rily can't blame u guys 4 thinkin d way u do. Its d christians I blame. D church wich is supposed 2b d body of Christ hs 4gotn Christ's purpose 4 dying 4 us. Evryone is now so self oriented. (Myself inclusive). Evrytin nw is abt ME, MYSELF and I. So wen d atheists and muslims and oda religions c dese, no wonder dey ridicule us and our Almighty God! Dis isn't wat xtianity is abt! Its abt God and ur neighbour, nt SELF as d world propagates 2day! Hw r we different frm d world wen we r promotin dsame tin! Our lives r supposed 2 reflect Christ nt ourselves! I've bin 2 a lot of churches both orthodox and pentecostal and wats killin us is dt we tink our own church is d best and d odas r goin 2 hell. Little wonder oda religions mock us. D Holy Spirit clearly told me dt d earlier we realize dt on dt day in heaven, dre won't b different queues 4 different churches 2 b judged, d beta 4 us. I pray 4d unity of d brethren so we can show d atheist dt God indid is real.

I still dnt understand hw a thread on d desecration of a church turned 2 an opportunity 4 atheists 2 blow dier horns. U want a descriptn of God? Who r u 2 talk abt God in such disrespectful and degrading manner. God is nt man! Shikena! U r tinkin wit d limited brain of man dts y u can't wrap ur tiny skulls around d fact that God exists. Dnt u dream? Wud u describe dreams nw as only figments of ur imagination or tots? Frankly dre's one tin I desire frm God wen I go 2 heaven (by His grace), its 2c d faces of unrepentant atheists eida wen dey die or wen d world coms 2 an end, wen dey realize GOD IS REAL! And I'll b lyk IN YA FACE! I min jst luk around u, luk @ d birds, d sky, d cloud, d trees, d flowers, rivers, sun, moon, conception, birth, death and tell me all dese wre nt divinely orchestrated. Tink abt it? Does it make sense dt all dese tinzs jst came 2 being, jst lyk dt? My fellow xtians, pls irrespective or ur denomination, pls let's make it our duty 2 pray 4 dese souls evry day. Evn if its 4 jst 5 mins. Let God heal d hurt, pain and bitterness in dier hearts dt hs made dem 2 declare He dosnt exist. Heaven will rejoice @ dier repentance. And also 4 our pagan brothers and sisters. Thank u

I don sleep 4 church b4. I ws sick sha so dem excuse me bt I no longer sleep in church. My family and friends know I dnt joke wit my sa2day 9te/sunday mornin sleep, so dey no dey try disturb me. I slip early den so make I no slip 4 chrch. If sumtin make me no slip early, I go go 4 evenin mass instead. Bt d trut b say no b say I no dey slip 4 chrch bcs I wan hear wetin priest or pastor dey talk, na jst 2 avoid embarrassment, make usher or person no wake me bcs I get award 4 waking pple 4 chrch evn if ur seat far frm my own.

tellwisdom: Story teller " I was once a teacher" ..Mugu

. So out of all d comments in dis thread, dt ws d only sentence u cud bring out 2 comment on? Btw, wats it 2u? Wich one concern u? Beta change ur moniker to tellfoolishness coz dts wat u jst portrayed nt wisdom!

FrancisTony: I read some comments on this thread and I am crying for some peoples effing ignorance and stupidity.

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1) Not all light skinned Nigerian girls do bleach.

2) So, if a light skinned lady deserves the crown with her combination of beauty and brain, they should give award to a dark skinned ladyl 'cos we are promoting our colour. Pfft!

...and the most annoying thing is tribalist shouting 'Igbo girls are beautiful'.

If the girl is beautiful,"does that mean you're also beautiful(for people who are not tho' )"?

Let's call a spade a spade. Mtchew

Another fellow was talking about beautiful fulani girls. Nonsense.

Do you think MBGN and Miss World is all about beauty

. Dude, read through comments b4 tagging dem as nonsense. Wen I mentioned fulani girls, I dint jst mention dier beauty, I also mentioned dier brains. Comprehend?

A lot of funny comments. Let's nt confuse fairness for finess. B4 am crucified, am a fair person. I hv sin a dark skinned girl dt is more beautiful dan dis girl and I'd go 4 her 1st b4 dis girl (mayb cos opposite attracts). Naim make bleaching cream don finish 4 market. How I wish d northerners r nt so inhibited. Dey hv very beautiful fulani girls who could win dis competition evry year. Dey r vry natural (natural fairness wit no enhancing cream 2 make dem fairer) wit long flowing hair. Dey r brainy also. D few ones who go 2 sch r actually very brilliant. (Yes, I ws once a teacher). Congrats 2 her though bt in all sincerity, she wdnt b my first choice.

Nobleval: No 1 is the bomb. Others are nonsense. I hate death! I'm scared of death. Death is my nightmare! I wish I will not die...God you made a mistake when you allowed man to be dying.

. E b lyk say sumtin dey wory u. God did nt make a msitake and God doesn't make mistakes. Man chose 2 die. He told Adam nt 2 eat dt fruit else he dies (spiritually and physically) bt Adam chose death. Hence, man started dying. So if u wan fight person, go luk 4 Adam fight am. Na d guy stat death. And pls, stp being afraid of death. Wat u fear most coms 2u. Try 2 com 2 terms wit it and it won't hunt u. Wetin dey dis world sef wey person wan stay 4eva? E go tire person eventually.

All I have to say about dis is dt dose pple hopingand praying 4 gay rights in naija and d gays in naija shud pls form a union or organization and match 2 Aso rock 2 tel d president dt dey all want 2 relocate 2 dose countries dt support dier rights or dey want 2 go and form dier own country- sodom and gomorrah. We, d straight pple r okay d way we r, wit our ova religious attitude, yes, we go manage ourselves. We hv enof vices as it is dt we hv bin battling 4 years. 2 add homosexuality 2 it mite jst b one stroke 2 many. Its bad hearin abt girls being raped, hw wud it b now 2 hear abt guys being raped by dier fellow guys bcs d law hs bin legalized? Den watch out 4 division cos I sure aint letting ma son go 2 a sch wre dre r gay teachers or hvin a gay tenant, law or no law. 2 avoid stories dt touch. Bt wait o! Y wil a guy b eyeing anoda guy? Wit dier hairy bodies and all? Wen God hs beautifully and wonderfully made women? And women r evn mor dan men in dis world o! Na wa o!

*scratching my head*I'm beginning to think d names wre mixed up cos sum of d names dnt tally wit d states @ all! Northerners do compete in beauty pageants bt nt d show body type. I think it ws last year a beautiful lady frm kano won a foreign muslim contest or sumtin. Dese gals r beautiful bt am wondering y sum hv 2b half naked 2 attest 2 dt fact.

I dint even remember d existence of Nta until one wicked storm fling our cable. Nw d tin don bend head and its irreparable. Dt ws wen I started watchin nta again out of boredom pendin wen we go buy anoda cable. Am xpress made sense. It showed different nigerian cultures. Nw all we hv 2 watch is jst two pple talking politics 24/7. Boooorrrrriiiinnnngggggg!

Stumbling on dis thread is actually God's work bcs I ws so confused. U guys r magnificent! I studied computer science in d university bt found myself working in an environmental firm. My interest for d environment ws piqued den. I evn excelled in d field writing eia, ear reports. I evn co-wrote a report abt pollution awareness & waste management for undp. Unfortunately due to jealousy, bck biting & conspiracy against me bcs of my double promotion, I lost my job. It dint stp my interest howeva. I lost my masters admisn in Environmental. Mgt bcs I cdnt com up wit d fees on tym so hd to defer til nxt year. I found a company cald structural solutions wre dey cari out hse programmes. Pls is it authentic or shud I jst go for nisp doe I dnt hv d 35k for dier ghse rite nw. Pls I nid ur reply urgently bcs goin tru dis thread stpd me frm goin to d bank to pay for d hse frm d Structural Solutions. Tanx