They said the thread is dead or dying.
But little did they know it’s working effectively.
Of what use is the Redpill if you don’t apply it.
They expect us to be online all day talking about women and Hypergamy like we don’t have our life’s to live…
The messages you read here is worthless if you don’t apply it into your life….so you need to take the necessary actions in your life not coming here to post all the time.
Consider this thread a classroom where you come to take lessons then you go back to apply those lessons in reality to get your desired results…
Being a Man is by your Actions and not your words..
In a 100 years time from now 99% of the current population of the world today would be dead as time keeps ticking so make the best use of your time…
A classroom where everybody is a teacher then nothing can be learnt ….the system only works where there is a few teachers and many student who want to learn and Apply effectively.
A dead thread means it has served it purpose kos I know this thread has helped me and many others….Our teachers of redpill, more ororo to your elbows.

Johnnynash:
Hello nairalanders, I need candid opinion on how to deal with this relationship. There is this lady I am dating she is 26 while I am 46. We started in December 2022 with good vibes, love, care and romance. She was very helpful in helping me settle down again after the demise of my wife and I have her all the attention, care and love I can. I honestly wanted to marry her but she said the age limit is too much, even if she agrees, her siblings and parents will not. Ok fast forward to May 2023 she just started with attitude and eventually said she is not interested again.
I tried to persuade her but it all fell on her deaf ears. We still remain friends and still vibe well but no more relationship.

Before the relationship started I noticed there is this guy that calls her almost everyday but she keep saying they are just friends from nysc.

Immediately she broke up with me she paid the guy a visit somewhere in Osun State, I got to know all these when my phone had issues and I had to collect the phone I bought for her when her own had issues too.

When I reinstall the WhatsApp on the phone hmmm all I saw was that she had been keeping this same guy all these years and when she eventually visited him they had sex that she even contacted urinary tract disease from the guys toilet. Till now she dies not know I had seen all their chat history.

What is really baffling me with this lady is that before we started the relationship there's another guy in her office she confessed to me that they had a quickie and I said I will not judge her with this let her take it as a mistake and move on.

Right now as we speak, she is still claiming she is not dating anyone considering the fact that she had gone to visit the other guy, even did masturbation and nude video with him.

There is another guy again I saw on her chat history she confessed to him she had a crush on him and they are working in the same office with the one she had quickie with.

Summary of the whole story is that this lady is on the verge of sleeping with three guys working in the same office within the space of one year she started working there (this including me but I have since resigned from the establishment). And she already slept with the other guy in Osun State and still claiming they are not dating.

Meanwhile she still has numerous guys approaching her for either relationship or sex including her ex (s).

Now to the issue, how exactly do I deal with this kind of lady because I know she really need help not castigating.

Though I know she has been fooling me all along but this time I refused to be fooled. I want to end it all with her but not without making her realise all she had done in the past while I was dating her and how this would surely affect her marital future.

She is also a type of person that doesn't mind talking to her ex. Though very useful domestically.

Pls forgive my long write up I need candid opinion. Thanks

“There you go, You can’t make a wife out of Hoe”
Always remember this…….You can’t change her so don’t borders…..You can keep her for knacks but don’t feel pity for someone who feels no pity for herself….You have been warned

brightmorningst:
people please encourage me, this is 3:14 am I couldn't sleep cos my babe broke up with me. I actually did cos her action shows she's not interested anymore.
This is someone we our chats flow but for like a week now,it doesn't anymore stopped calling me claim she doesn't have card. She always do,we can talk for over two hours on phone but everything just changed.
I CHOOSE A LESS ATTRACTIVE LADY,ONE LF HER FRONT TEETH EVEN COMOT,SHE SHOWED ME LOVE I RECIPROCATED IT, IN MY MIND I WAS LIKE SHE NO FINE, GUYS WON'T ASK HER OUT BUT I WAS WRONG. SHE DON GO.

ALL LADIES ARE THE SAME WHEN SOMEONE BETTER THAN YOU COME AROUND THEM WHETHER BEAUTIFUL OR UGLY.

I DON TIRE FOR WOMEN MATTER.

THIS IS MY THIRD RELATIONSHIP... IT'S ACTUALLY A LONG DISTANCE ONE THOUGH.

ENCOURAGE ME MEN.

Even if they refuse to acknowledge it but All women are the same…..
You need to understand female psychology to deal with them.
From what I have read…..You suffer from Onetitis meaning you gave her all your attention and this is usually the result…At the beginning she will respond well but later on her reply reduces causing you to panic like you are doing now…
When it comes to women….Always have a rotation when dealing with them…..Meaning talk and flirt with as many women as you can whether you are dating or single……It gives you a sense of abundance so you can let go of one if she misbehaves….girls do this a lot that’s why it’s easy from them to move on from a break up…..When they are in a relationship they still give their number to guys and even have male besties thereby increasing her options whereas a guy just focuses all his attention on one girl when he starts dating her….Girls use this technique so why can’t you…..Girls hate this but when she sees that you talk and flirt with girls more attractive than her the. She will value you more (even if they pretend not to)…..
Lemme ask you…Mr A has 7 houses And Mr B has only one house…..If both of them lost one house each due to fire or natural disaster…Who do you think will feel the loss more…..
Chat and vibe with more girls and this will keep you in your Alpha and Masculine traits when dealing with them……

flokii:
The friend saying.. 'I know what men have done to her' in the background is evil.

Truth be told.. the guy fvcked up.

She chose those guys so it’s her consequences ……
If a girl tells me that about my gf…Omo na to free her.
Meaning she has dated many guys therefore her body count go high gaan kos they can’t date without ……….

Sonnobax15:

Leg chain.....I hate that shiit like madt..


In fact,any banny wey I see say she wear am,na olosho eye I take dey look am ASAP

If you see it on her left feet….then they are into Hookups most times

heartofcity12:
Wtf 😯. I hope this boy doesn’t fall into depression with this..

It’s not that she is bigger than him….But she is now fucking guys far richer than him that why…..
The guy has fallen dip into the friend zone before he asked this…..He should have blocked her ass but bet me he will still go apologise like the little nice boy that he is

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

She is playing on your Ego as a Man...Be firm with your decision even if she lives your life,stick to it..

Go to the nearest busstop, in every 10 minutes you will count more than 20 girls prettier than that your babe...
No let woman do you this thing wey I dey think so..let her go and date those guys buying thier gfs iphones..

Battlefield2:
I have this neighbour,she lives opposite my Flat.....she is an average girl,jovial and all that

She has a fiance that is very insecure, I mean this guy calls her like 15times in a day, pleading the girl not to cheat on her and the girl keeps assuring the guy he won't

The reason I said you should never trust any lady is that I fvck this girl almost every time.
The first time was when I entered her room and I touched her,she told me she loves my hand that its so soft, and she pleaded with me to touch her again....ever since then,its bang, bang, bang.

She will call me,strip herself naked,plead with me to massage her body, I touch every part of her, I mean EVERY part, even places I know her fiance may not have touched and after that,its bang bang......then after we clean up,she calls her man, and they both do their lovey lovey stuff and then off to bed and I crash in my own apartment


Yesterday night was no different, the guy requested for a video call,they did their thing and bid eachoda goodnight and she begged me for the "touch" again....After that,I fvcked her and littered her bed with plenty cvm before picking my shirt and heading to my flat to sleep

This early morning,the guy has called again and they are busy doing their lovey lovey stuff again

Do not trust ladies......If you do, you are setting yourself up for immature death....I swear, MOST of them are hoes.

No one cheats more than a girl in a perfect relationship...trust me on this

irumole1975:
Hello guys. Something bothers me. I need to ask

I started going to gym recently. Becaus I want to get bigger. Usually I think about having sex all the time and this has made me an object of extortion from jezebells who don’t genuinely want me, but for my money.

However, since I started lifting,my sex drive decrease rapidly. It’s insane. One of the girls just left 3hrs ago ,and to her surprise I wasn’t begging her for romance like I used to . While she was here my mind didn’t even think about sex whatsoever. I didn’t move close to her even. She messaged me on WhatsApp just now asking me if she offended me and my behavior is unusual. I know it’s becaus I didn’t beg her.

Is it normal for sex drive to wane like this?

Just one Question...
Were you at any point masturbating alot??

She is getting bad advices from her friends or seeing her friends posting things thier bf got for them so she doesn't want to be left out...leave her so she finds the guy to get them all for her....
Don't threaten with break up rather just just stop talking to her...she will get the message soon..
Your peace of mind should be your topmost priority

Likeplaylikepla:


So how can I improve my game with women. Just asking Man. Please don't tell me 'go n make money' ... because I've seen guys I make money than shagging hot babes.

There is no Game that work for all women since their preferences differ...But one thing that will make you get more pussy than other guys to make a lady sexually comfortable around you....
Someone here earlier wrote something like that and I 100% agree kos of past experiences.....When a girl becomes sexually comfortable around you that's when you get to see her bitchy side....Note that all girls have that bitchy side irrespective of how they appear.
I had a friend who I met on fb then..she was beautiful and I am just an average guy...she made it clear she had no interest whatsoever in dating me So I just friendzoned her and just started teasing her till things got nasty...we did literally everything imaginable and still I was her type of guy...I once asked her if she does the same with other guys especially the ones she likes and she said a big NO n she only does it with me kos she feels so free around me that's why...
This has been the same case with about other girls I met..
Just have fun with them,play along and make them sexually comfortable being with you and she will Bleep you even when she isn't interested in you...

2dice01:
When you marry a Bitçh
You will begot Bitchesss

A girl of 10years in my street wore a top and trouser👖 which is normal
The annoying part is she consciously pull her top up like every few seconds so her butt can be seen as she walk by

This thing baffles me alot...most girls nowadays are so attention hungry ...98% of them in fact
They will wear a big polo and raise the back just to show thier Asses even the skinny ones with no Ass do this......
And one guy go dey somewhere dey think sey him get loyal babe

jayAjoku:
The fact that you won’t do it doesn’t mean someone else will not do it to you it’s how life is . It’s not a weird thing He wants to smash remove your mind from the matter unless you want to smash too in which case you should be letting the girl ASAP. Women are fair game bro No reason am

Harsh Truth...Thanks boss

jayAjoku:
My bro you still have some simpish tendencies inside of you that’s for sure , whatever your brother chooses to do with your “Ex” Should be none of your business even if you still have feelings for said Exes It’s None of your business your brother is doing what every normal man will do if he finds someone attractive he’s trying to get his dick wet which is what you should be doing too with Some New girls I don’t see how him seeing your Ex should be a problem y’all are broken up. The Question should be why are you still in contact with your Ex ? Are you suffering from ONEITIS? 🤨🤨

Lol...Why am still in touch with them is because of how we separated...first one was due to distance and the relationship wasn't even up to 2 months and we decided to call it off...the other one as I stated before we dated when we're teens(time of 2go) and that's over a decade ago so we have been friends since then.....
I also said I changed my number and they found their way back to contact me and not the other way round so they need me more I guess..
I don't really care if he bleeps them but I find it wierd kos it's something I won't do to my fellow guyman talkless of a brother.....Girls plenty for world to kome dey run after my guy ex babe....
Thanks for your advice but it's just a though tho

Lol..been there...they have been intimate long before then
My advice Forget everything about her and move on....even when she tries to come back don't let her...
A woman's respect is far better than her love..from the looks of things she doesn't have any respect for you and trust me it will only get worse..
Leave her and a year from now you will thank yourself for making the best decision ever or stay with her and continue going through this emotional pain...your choice brother

I greet all of una for the house...been an observer till I created this account here...I have something to ask my Gs in the house..
So I have an elder brother....he is typically the ladies man..far more handsome,taller,bigger and gets girls far more than me( no biggy actually kos I have my own fair share)....
So I have about two Exs of mine in which he knows and he is a friend to one on FB..Recently I changed number and bkos of this they tried reaching me but it didn't go through so eventually they both got my number from him in which he eventually gave them and they were able to reach me...he later called me and told me some girls were asking for my number and I told him who they were(he is even familiar with one of them kos I dated her in my teens)..he also said that they were sexy and and I laffed it off till we changed topic..
So two weeks ago while at his place he was showing me a video on his phone when a Facebook message entered and it was from my ex so it seemed they have been chatting for a while..I just overlooked and acted as if I saw nothing then gave him the phone back...
So three days ago I called my other ex, while we were discussing she said my brother is inviting him over to his place even when he knows she is my ex...he said he knows but he wants to see her by inviting her to lag....I just use style to change the topic kos it was funny after the first one now this again...if it was a friend I will just back up a bit but this is my blood so I can't say I will stay off him...Not jealous but I find it wierd...so house what's your say on this...