₦airaland Forum

mariahAngel:


You're paranoid.

What state are you from? Cross river or Akwa Ibom?

None of the above

chatinent:
Your pastor is the witch.

I don't know but 3 pastors cannot lie to me

I have a big problem � I separated with my wife because she was a witch and the cause of my downfall. I had the custody of our daughter who is now 1 years 6 months old.

After getting rid of the witch I taught my business will be better than before but no. Things become even hard for me I started experiencing body pain and unknown sickness and we have been to church where I was told my daughter Is a witch her mother has given her the mission to kill me.

After prayers and fasting my health is getting better now and I have been to 2 different churches just to confirm that my daughter is a witch and yes it is true. I have packed her stuffs and i took her to her mother but she is doesn't stay there anymore and I don't know her new address. I am not a wicked person but I don't want her in my house because I don't want to harm her and regret it. What do I have to do with a witch?

Resurgent2016:
Sorry for your loss, but the reality is hard times come to all men. It takes the right character and grace to pull through during this period. You must be careful not to wrongly apportion blame to your wife and suffer more as a result.

You wife is a pillar in the home , I struggle to understand why she will destroy the pot she eats from and chose suffering instead.

Let me also warn you that maltreating your wife carries consequences.

1 Peter 3:7 King James Version (KJV)
7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered

My advice to you:

1. Show your wife love
2. Thank her for standing by you during the trying times
3. Tell her to pray for your success and ask her opinion on solving issues
4. Seek the blessing of your parents and siblings prayer too
5. Always remember that darkness does not last forever

Thank you

Mandelus:
Well before giving my advice I would like to know if you dated your wife before marriage and how long was it.

We dated for three years and 6 months before getting married

alphaNomega:
So many debts to pay after marriage? Are you among those men that take loan and borrow money to marry a wife? If yes, why are you blaming the poor lady for your present debt profile?

No I didn’t take any loan to marry my wife , I was fully prepared for my wedding . The loans were after my shop got burnt , I had to borrow money from people to repay my landlord and some of my business partners .Have spent all my saving money but still own them lots of money to repay back. I had to stopped the building process for my house and still owning the builders some money too. Everything is stressing me so much that it makes me hating her.

I opened my shop in 20012 everything was moving well , during this time I was with my ex and we broke up in 2014 ( she is now happily married with kids) my shop was still moving well ,never had any problem. Then I met my wife December 2015 we started dating things were still fine , we got married June 2019 just two months everything has changed from good to worst. I strongly believe that my wife is responsible for my misfortune, she came to my life to destroyed me , which she has succeeded . . My family hate her nobody want her in this house , even myself I don’t want her anymore am only keeping her cos of my unborn child , as soon as she put to bed she must leave. Wish I never wasted my time with her. She is a bad luck. I’m sorry I’m broke and depressed right now

Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?