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Klass99:
Lol, kpele o. But I thought you said it was the fake pastors, now it is your mother?

But I thought you said it was the fake pastors, now it is your mother?


You asked me what made me to believe witchcraft stories I said my mother because she introduced me to those fake pastors and I believed all their lies because I trusted my mother

Klass99:
This is doable and not impossible. But you sef what on earth possesed you to believe the witchcraft stories?

I browsed through one of your previous threads and I couldn't stop laughing when you said your daughter was commissioned by her mother to finish the work of killing you.

You see ehn, your situation is one of the reasons I don't tolerate people with a mindset of, the spiritual controls the physical. Every little thing with a logical explanation to it, usually means something spiritual to them and it is never good in their point of view.

The spiritual for them is always of a demonic nature, they never think in terms of the spiritual being God's good spirit or His angels.

But you sef what on earth possesed you to believe the witchcraft stories?

My mother

Klass99:
This made me laugh and I thought to myself, a whole logical gender person! Meaning no offence though I'm just thinking out loud.

With the things I'm reading about what you did to your wife and daughter, you really need to give her time. Agreeing to a reconciliation and returning to you was a giant step to begin with, not every woman would have taken you back.

Quit trying to make her forget, that is humanly impossible. She may be able to forgive you but to forget! Ahn ahn na, can you yourself forget what you did? Human memory is a very powerful thing o.

I know forgiving doesn't mean forgetting but she should stop reminding me about what I have done to her and daughter because it is not helping our relationship

superCleanworks:
So you feel entitled? I was right. You are so full of yourself, low wisdom.

That I choose to sit on the same table with you AFTER YOU STAB ME does not mean you are entitled to my forgiveness.

A) for me, it might mean I am luring you to your PAYBACK.
B) for her, it might mean she is IN THE PROCESS of healing.

none of these two options is good to rush.

Maybe she is also luring me to my payback

Oluneutral:
https://www.nairaland.com/5705389/think-wife-witch



https://www.nairaland.com/6787206/1-years-old-witch

Were you not the one that opened the above threads?
You accused your wife of witchcraft and behind every ills that befell you. As if that was not enough, you also accused your daughter of 1+ of witchcraft and that both of them have connived and conspired to finish you financially, emotionally and even health-wise. So you ridiculously and embarrassingly sent them out. Causing them a lot of trauma and emotional torture. Insults and embarrassment from your far and near folks. After a year, you came back to your senses and apologized, she accepted to come back. Do you think those embarrassing moments she and her daughter suffered could be erased in a jiffy? Do you think accusing someone of witchcraft is something that can be easily forgiven? What if you're in a barbaric environment and she had been stoned to death when you accused her and her daughter of witchcraft, would you still be entitled to her forgiveness? What if she had committed suicide for not being able to stand the false accusations, would you still be saying this?
You're delusional, yes, you are.

May God heal your wife and daughter of those trauma and torture you caused them to suffer.

As for you, I really don't know the advice to give you but I pray not to have someone like you around me.

I am a victim of fake pastors

yrhuhfy113:
YOU DON'T NEED HER FORGIVENESS AS LONG AS YOU HER GENIUNELY SORRY, START ACTING BETTER, DOING BETTER FOR HER AND YOUR DAUGHTER, START TAKING RESPONSIBILITY AND BE ACCOUNTABLE...... DON'T APPOLOGIZE ANYMORE, JUST BE THE CHANGED PERSON YOU PROMISED YOU WILL BE...... AND BE HAPPY WITH THAT.... IT MAY TAKE MONTHS, BUT SHE WILL LOVE YOU AGAIN

Thanks it is nearly 2 years since we reconciled

Richy4:
Maybe You should google guilt trip in a relationship and see if you can find what experts said about it and how to manage it in a relationship...She is guilt tripping you using the past to get her way....and it's not healthy..

Thanks

superCleanworks:
this is the ENTITLEMENT problem with CALCULATIVELY OFFENSIVE humans. they just walk back into your life with their dirty feet and START HAVING EXPECTATIONS about how you should become BRAINDEAD and automatically forget the bullshit they did to you in the first place. And if you just can not easily forget it, you have become a demon.

Minus your wife. Not everyone forgets easily and forgiveness is not cheap if at all it is available.

What makes you think you are entitled to her forgiveness? do you evendeserve what you are asking for?

If I am not entitled to her forgiveness but why did she accept to come back to me?

thesicilian:
She probably enjoys seeing you in this miserable state of grovelling for affection. The only advice I can give is for you to stop apologizing. Be a man, take care of yourself and your family in the best possible way you can

Thanks

We had a lot issues in the past we separated and later reconciled but every slightl mistake she will remind me about what I have done to her and our daughter she has said that when our daughter grows up she will tells her everything. I am not happy with her anymore because I have apologised to her from the bottom of my heart and I expected us to start afresh again but she is still dwelling in the past and I don't know how to make her forget about the past so we can enjoy our marriage. What should I do to change her mind so she will be in love me again and stop seeing me as a monster that caused her so much pain in the past?

To buy my wife sharwarma and ice cream

Thank you everybody for all the advice you gave me the last time i seek for advice concerning my daughter even thought some were harsh but it has helped me to bring back my family together. I regrets everything I have done to my wife and it had Brought me a lot pain and sickness because she was innocent and I thank God she has forgiven me and gave me a second chance and I have promise to stick with her no matter what. Advice to all my brothers please do not repeat the same mistake like me if it happen that you lost everything job ot business soon after getting married first seek God do not come to conclusion that your wife may be the cause especially if she is innocent and you maltreat her , it will bring more pain just like it happen to me , I wish I had listened when I brought the first story here but I didn't and send her packing. I have been through a lot after she lest much worser but I thank God for the second change and also my wife for accepting me back. God bless you all brothers and sisters.

Oppo A72

Killermamba:
can't your church conduct deliverance for your daughter?

Yes but I refused cos I was angry I wanted nothing to do with her anymore but I regret my actions but I thank God for this forums that I have come back to my senses and I am ready to take her for deliverance as soon as possible.

rickleye:
Dude - I will kill you if any harm comes to your daughter. I will search you out and make your life a living hell.
If you want your business to succeed.
Do the following
1. Give up your daughter to your wife.
2. Agree on a certain amount to pay your wife for her ( daughter's upkeep )
3. Change church.

Do you have her new address if you have please dm it?

Lostchild:
✋ Handsomejok

I deeply understand what you are going through. Marrying a woman from an africa families come with a heavy price.

Your wife is not a witch, she was being attack, your home is being attack. Your business was heavily attack as a result of marrying her.

Most Africa women has idol worship background.

I know what I saw in life, that is why I flee from Nigeria women and their families.

I truly feel your pain and will advice you not to divorce your wife but seek help from God.

You are going through a trial time

God can restore all your losses.

Someday
Soon

Amen � thanks bro

nineone:
Please, let some well meaning individuals rescue this baby from this man. Please this is an urgent situation. This baby has to be rescued before something serious happens

Don't worry she is in a good place nobody will harm her

solasoulmusic:
How did you treat the woman before your wife?

Very good

This message is for the mother if you can see this message I know you are also a member of this forum don't hesitate to contact me on my Facebook or you are free to come to my family house to pick your daughter don't worry I Will not harass you please come and take your daughter . Please act now because I am not happy to take her to motherless home but it is my only option for now.

Mrsoft3:
Don't be the winch this time around,give him the child atleast she will have a better future and be greatful to you for giving her up for adoption to canada

You can give yours if you like. Giving her for adoption doesn't guaranteed any happiness for her , haven't you seen or heard of adoptive parents who had kills their adoptive kids abroad. I will rather she stay alive with her witch mother than giving her away outside of the country to a stranger. Even taught I don't love her like before but she still my daughter and I can't change that.

Shokoloko:
The bad luck following you is from your own family. You also have a lying spirit from your family following you that gives wrong messages to pastors.
If you really do not want her and you are willing to legally allow someone adopt her, send me a PM. I will have her join me here in Canada - thankfully she is young enough to not remember that she had a family before now. I will deliver her, and though I wont let you contact her again I will give you updates about how your "witch" is succeeding and bringing light into my family's life.

From a young age I knew I would adopt many children after having mine. Perhaps this is the time
Send me a PM please

I am not willing to give her away to a stranger outside the country. I will rather send her to a motherless home until her mother will be available to pick her up because her mother is alive she is just nowhere to be found and I can't make the decision on her behalf. Also my family has nothing to do with my downfall because I was doing well for 7 years before I got married everything was fine and if truly the bad luck was from my family then my business would have not been successful for that long.

Kobojunkie:
God never told you you have to seek his face in marriage.

And even jezebel had a husband of her own who loved and cherished her....a king for that matter. So stop deluding yourself that you are better in some way than jezebel or her daughter.

Jezebel and her husband were both witches worshipping baal that's why they both were madly in love but I am not a witch and how can you expect me to live with a daughter of jezebel? It will never work and if she find a son of jezebel it will work fine for both of them.

Rickmann:
Nigerians and their stupid superstitious way of reasoning..always blaming someone else for their misfortune. Rubbish!

You had better seek the face of God and also check urself to know where your problem is from.

My problems comes from the daughter of jezebel that I married. Advice to you singles in the house always seek the face of God about ur partners before marriage so you won't suffer like me.

Kobojunkie:
give the child back to the mother please!

I don't know where she is

CaptMarvel:
A child in the embryo can be possess by witchcraft most especially if her mother is a witch. He or she will be in her mother's womb yet her spirit will be very conscious and causing havoc in real world. This is a mystery unknown to many. If such Child or foetus die prematurely or aborted such can never see the face of God and such is relegated to sheol even if he or she is just 2/3months in her mother's womb. Your daughter is possibly possess by witchcraft spirit, don't look at her as a child of 1 year, in the spiritual realm she's way conscious and older than you. Take her out for deliverance most importantly for the salvation of her soul, cos she entered into it ignorantly, and also for the prosperity of your own life and business. Grace!

You are 100% correct the 3 pastors has said the same thing she got possessed while she was in her mother womb she is not a child but an old woman in their spiritual world.

[quote author=CaptMarvel post=106471138]A child in the embryo can be possess by witchcraft most especially if her mother is a witch. He or she will be in her mother's womb yet her spirit will be very conscious and causing havoc in real world. This is a mystery unknown to many. If such Child or foetus die prematurely or aborted such can never see the face of God and such is relegated to sheol even if he or she is just 2/3months in her mother's womb. Your daughter is possibly possess by witchcraft spirit, don't look at her as a child of 1 year, in the spiritual realm she's way conscious and older than you. Take her out for deliverance most importantly for the salvation of her soul, cos she entered into it ignorantly, and also for the prosperity of your own life and business. Grace!

GboyegaD:
They told you what you wanted to hear since you already labeled the mother a witch. Why can't they deliver her if she truly is a witch?

I didn't labelled her a witch , pastors , her stepmother and her baby father family has confirmed that too. I will not go in details taught cos I have nothing to do with her anymore.but She is truly a witch including her daughter from previous relationship and our daughter. But I am grateful God has exposed my daughter or else I wouldn't be alive to tell the story.

Ola17:
Deliverance from what exactly?!
Please don’t reinforce this absurd belief. Op needs to give up that kid ASAP before he does something stupid to her.

Don't worry I Will not harm her because I don't want to spend the rest of my life in jail for a witch. I rather send her away and continue with my life

LilMissFavvy:
Dont take her to a motherless uome, try deliverance first.

Do you think deliverance will work if her mother hasn't repent and she still a witch?

Mrsoft3:
A grown up man like you still being deceived. You blame anything for your current limitations including an innocent baby girl,who didn't choose to come to this world. But you made a choice to bring her and now you claim she is the reason you are not doing well.

I don't really blame you I blame the evil people under the guise of Christianity. They will pay for everything they are doing.

I wish I can collect the baby from you, but please abeg go drop the baby for motherless babies home.. and lets hope you get better.

The damage ignorance has caused is far beyond any imagination.

Thanks I will take her to motherless home tomorrow morning

mariahAngel:
You don't deserve her.
You don't qualify to be called a father.

Thank you God know my heart I have been a loving father since day 1 she was my everything until I find out she is a witch . It is true I don't deserve her because I deserve better. She deserve to be with her witch mother and witch half sister .

ThankYouGod:
Take the innocent girl to a motherless home.

Tell them her father has run mad and the mother is nowhere to be found.

Thank you for the suggestion I will take her tomorrow morning