dollyjoy:
I don't regret losing my virginity, its for the best, heaven knows i would have tried to explore if i had gotten married a virgin.
Humans are by nature designed that way.

Nothing beats an experienced mind.

I dont regret mine too. At sixteen I was young and green and I enjoyed every bit of it. I have been having sex constantly since then till this moment save for some one and half years I was without a relationship.

Saw this on Facebook and I thought to share here.

Please note: I am not a virgin. Lost mine some 6 years ago at 16. But I love this post nonetheless

Read below...

VIRGINITY AND SEX ON THE WEDDING NIGHT
Countless virgins have been cajoled into premarital sex on the excuse that sex on the wedding night will be painful and boring and your husband will see you as a disappointment.

First sex will be painful whether before or after marriage. Engaging in it before marriage makes it many times painful because (1) The guy sleeping with you is in a hurry to give himself pleasure and wouldn't want to waste his time being gentle with you. (2) You are torn apart with guilt which makes it double painful -you know you shouldn't be doing it. (3)Your self esteem drops far down as you realized the consequence of what you have done and the regret that you have lost it forever. (4)You are plagued with the fear of unwanted pregnancy and STDs (5) You live in fear of losing the guy.

Sex on the wedding night may give you pain but pleasurable pain and not all virgins even experience pain with their first sex. With good books, godly counsel and genuine love for each other, you can both be taught the process to take to make sex as painless as possible. If at all, you experience pain, it won't be excruciating pain rendering you incapacitated for months. You only have one pain, the pain of breaking the hymen but you gain your pleasure soon afterwards.(1) The pleasure of having waited till your wedding night. (2) The pleasure of giving your husband pleasure (3) The pleasure of winning your husband's pride and trust forever (4) The pleasure of having a solid, sky rocketting self esteem (5)The pleasure of expecting pregnancy without worrying whether your womb has been damaged by the multiple abortions you did before wedding. (5) The pleasure of having no past lover to compare your spouse to. It helps you to thoroughly enjoy sex with your hsband. (6) The pleasure of climaxing easily -you have no hang ups..

Yes! The pleasure of waiting far outweighs the momentary pain you naturally experience with your first sex.

https://web.facebook.com/oladele.seun.589/posts/217126595390903

afanide:
Don't know him....

Congrats nevertheless.......

You were probably born in the late 90s...

remiiko:
flash with a PC.

How do I flash it?

I bought a new Tecno w3,it has the latest android on it, i set up a patern and I forgot it, I tried to reeet it to factory setting by pressing power and volume up botton, it asked me to on a WIFI which I did, it asked me to log in to my google account that I used to set the phone up, now I have entered it up to a billion times with the correct password and username and it still keeps asking me to enter it again and again... I have been on it for a week now, please help.... I even used another phone to login to my gmail, changed the passowrd and tried to login again on the tecno, all to no avail... Please help me.

I bought a new Tecno w3,it has the latest android on it, i set up a patern and I forgot it, I tried to reeet it to factory setting by pressing power and volume up botton, it asked me to on a WIFI which I did, it asked me to log in to my google account that I used to set the phone up, now I have entered it up to a billion times with the correct password and username and it still keeps asking me to enter it again and again... I have been on it for a week now, please help.... I even used another phone to login to my gmail, changed the passowrd and tried to login again on the tecno, all to no avail... Please help me.

It used to Kenya, now Zimbabwe

MrHenshaw:


l know you will be better so don't wish.#1dafullymade

...God where are we going?

Techsupport:



You dont know every Nairalander.....

Cheers

Dada643330:

I carry yansh for you o...You no even book the space with common dot, just empty space

My father My God

When people are complaining of hardhip

King Solomon of ancient Hebrews put it this way, ".....It is better for a man not to be born into this world"

adviseseeker:
Well, it is not your fault that I find myself in this position.

I just went through your post and read all the comments therein. The comment pasted below is what I deem best. Your wife scammed you!!!

"WARNING!!! long intellectual Post ahead, NL kids can go ahead and skip to the next kiddie post.

@ adviseseeker

So many things to unpack from ur post...but let's go there.

You & wifey were sexually active b/4 marriage so it's not that she can't get freaky with you but she is actively CHOOSING not to be sexual with you.

What was her demeanor b/4 you decided to wife her? Did you do a serious assesment of her b/4 you decided to give her a ring? Was ur Dating stage one way traffic, You GIVE & She TAKES?
Did she ever go out of her way to do anything for you? Did you ever allow her to Chase you? No my broda that wasn't a typo! Too many of us guys give ourselves to girls too easy... we don't make them work for it like our fathers did!

All these things that ur wifey is displaying now are things that should have been a Red Flag for you if your eyes were wide open to see them!

1) b4 marriage you guys were fvcking like Rabbits but like most guys you were more intrested in just having sex (Quantity) rather than asking urself the dynamics of the sex ur having with her (Quality).
How many times did she INITIATE SEX? Was she active during sex or was she counting the cracks on the ceiling?

2) Did your wifey ever cook for you while you were dating? or were you too busy taking her to Tantalizer, Mr Biggs etc playing Mr Romantic instead of carefully assessing her Domestic Skills, habits etc!

3) I make a habit of advising my guy friends who are about to get married to avoid having a child in the first 2 years of the marriage. My rationale is simple, the first 2 years is a delicate transition period from Boyfriend/Girlfriend to Husband/ Wife. If you throw a Baby into the mix so soon b4 both of you have 'jelled' into ur new roles then that could be avoidable stress on the new marriage and besides I believe children should be planned for, how they affect both of you in a marriage, how you will raise them etc rather than just popping out kids because that's what 'someone' or 'society' expects next from you after the wedding!

But back to your case, ur wifey suddenly switches of from sex after marriage & gives you all the excuses in the world?!
peeps on here talking to you about how it's just been 5 months since childbirth, not easy taking care of baby, be a bit more helpful with baby etc .... but these same peeps didn't find it odd that wifey is sooo tired being a new mom but not too tired for Africa Magic, Youtube, Instagram etc sad

Bros, you said in one of your posts that you are a GIVER and I believe you becos you have given wifey everyting she really wanted!

1) A good hardworking Jackass...errm Sorry! Husband who brings home the cash like clockwork!

2) A roof over her head & her UNEMPLOYED @$$

3) A cute little baby girl to show off on her Instagram page even though she cares less about the girls Father (errm...that's you bro)

The only problem for her is that you actually expect her to be a WIFE and do her part in your marriage!!!

@ Adviseseeker there is one fundamental truth you need to understand at this point which is....

A Woman who really wants to FVCK YOU will find a way to FVCK YOU!

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C4630141647

she will trek to your house, she will rent a hotel room
, she will get on a plane and fly down to where you are and FVCK you silly!

the second truth is.... You can't negotiate desire

https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/25/the-desire-dynamic/?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C2733254515

and for good measure read this one too

https://therationalmale.com/2013/01/30/choreplay/?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C9138046946

With all due respect I believe that wifey never really loved you, to be sure she loved the prospect that you represent to her
1) steady income
2) home over her head & comforts that come with it
3) sperm donor for cute little baby! smiley

In due time you have given her what she wanted and now you are just a live in flatmate, the 'Fun' sex you said you guys had b4 marriage was simply a means to an end.

This is harsh Bro... I know but the ugly truth is better than holding on to a beutiful lie in your head."

adviseseeker:
1 year plus

See my thread to understand better.

https://www.nairaland.com/3371723/need-matured-advise-married-nairalanders

I am really sorry about this....

adviseseeker:
Per week I meant to write. She doesn't have a job FOR NOW as we both agreed to that. I am my own boss and work from home 90% of the time.

And she doesnt give you enough sex? Something is wrong. If we are always at home together 90 percent of the time ama fvck your brains out mehn....How long have you been married?

RIP...You just shouldnt have taken your own life

Meanwhile, there is a man going round claiming he can tell a woman's future by handling her breasts...See photos of the man handling women's breasts to tell their fortune here: http://factflyers.com/watch-man-fondles-breasts-women-tell-fortune/

The two best comedians in Naija...HBD Bovi