I feel for some friends here

Stupid president

Myer:


Kanu Is about to be killed. You can't fight an incumbent by violence. The Biafra war should have been a lesson to igbos but history they say repeats itself.

Now Buhari has legit reason to go after Kanu and with collaboration with SE governors, they'll easily fish him out.

Buhari or Garbage Shehu.. Is Buhari a human being.. is it a name of a person?

sweetshisha:


[s]Subsidised health, electricity, petrol, education , foriegn imported luxury goods

If you have stayed a week abroad and paid bill, then you might understand how your taxes are helping in reducing utility bills[/s]

I live here and u are talking rubbish

Lostchild:


1) I can tell that she truly likes you a lot. Western women, their love is very real, unlike african women which hardship has tampered their soul.

2) She might see you as a great catch, believing that a good looking Nigerian guy like you will make a better hubby, unlike her Canadian ex who has betray and left her.

3) I warn you, never gave into her out of pitty. If women in general want to divorce you, they will not sorry for you. The day you stop loving them, you will become a devious enemy to them.

4) Be careful. Divorce is very rampant even here in Nigeria. The different between the west vs africa is that, the law favours western women against men. So be very careful when it comes to the woman you choose.

5) Tell her that You like her a lot but you can not be in a relationship where you will be in sevond place in her life. Stand by your word. You want a relationship where you will be the first priority, I mean you will be number 1.

Also tell her that you can not be in a relationship where two persons will always be among you (a) her kid (b) her ex, the father of her kid will always be between you and her.

6) If you date her, she may likely want to hook or glue you to herself. Another thing is that, you are an immigrant of which she may take advantage of you and wants to control everything in your life. When a woman is playing a major role in your life they will become over possessive / controling freek. I have seen that many times

7) Never settle for less. Look for a single lady/babe that is more mellow in nature, someone more or less younger than you.

As for your friend, continue to show her love and care, but I warn you, do not have sex with her.

I repeat: No sex with her, if not na you know OH

A very detailed points u raised bro.. just that she is not playing any major role in my life we just met and became friends but for sure I got all u've said.. thanks

Heathrow44:



Kk, let me put it this way?? Would u choose a Canadian woman over a Nigerian woman?

Am open to anybody my dear.. the only thing is that let her be a nice/good woman that loves me.. I don't care where she is from

Lostchild:


You know what I mean. Dating a single mother their child come first.

Women loves their children more than their hubby

Their child(dren) is their first priority

Be like u sabi them but this girl really likes me

dustydee:

You met her though a dating site and you were not expecting a relationship? You should have backed out from day 1.

Yes, I should have.. won't happen again

Peppysco:
I'm very sure if you were still residing in Nigeria and met this after one lady through the same online platform, you would forget all this specs and parts you're talking about because na to escape go dey your mind. So, bone all that specs ish, na chance you get.
By the way, that Canada wey you dey, I dey suspect say na citizen you be cos if to say you still dey hustle to get stay, even if na 3 children she get, you for still dey lick her plate. Stop making me and others feel we don't have principles, na chance you get.
I nor come fight ooo, na my mind I yarn

My brother dem no bring me come here I worked for it.. so I gats make my choice.. different strokes for different folks, your priority and mine isn't the same

Heathrow44:




Leave the mumu op, that woman showed high sense of maturity & understanding!!

@HappyCanadian pls I want t ask u a question In ur experience do u feel Canadians or white people in general are more loving than this things we av here?

Kind of, majority of Canadian/white girls love for real.. but there are also Nigerian girls that love deeply just that they are few and sometimes can easily be manipulated

BareFacedLies:


They all come with challenges... it's the degree that differs

Yea, but I always pray not to meet dramatic women

Toks2008:


You did well bro.

As a guy it is either your spec or die single. I don't believe in all those shitty talks of behaviour over spec. You can get your spec with the type of behaviour you can at least tolerate.

I had that issue too where people were wondering why i was still single despite my good looks bla bla bla but i tried to tell them that i have not found my spec but i was just sounding like a broken record to them.

Any guy who is married to a lady that is not his spec especially physically, will either end up fantasising over his spec for the rest of his marital life or may end up having a side chic that matches his spec. But when you get your spec, it will be very difficult for you to even contemplate cheating on her.

Bro, oil dey your head

Sparkle777:
Poster, from ur tone, I think the lady is not as pretty and hot as you'd like. But it's good as u let her know on time, pls let her be and dnt try to compensate her by calling her as much.
Dnt give her mixed signals, let her be. Good luck.

You kinda get the gist and as u have said.. I have left her no mixed signals.. thanks

femi4:
No pity party. You ve done the right thing. If it's the other way round, she ll move on without all these salaye you are doing.

Yea, everyone go dey alright las las

BiggyB242:
As for me, I will rather stick to a girl that loves me more. Hope your spec will want you as well. I know talking about the spec you are referring to physical appearance.

Most times a guy will leave a good woman and start chasing this hourglass with an entitlement mentality. After these ladies have frustrated them they come back and start insulting women.

My brother u won't understand.. though u are right in a way

Michelle55:
Congratulations bro.. Enjoy your new found freedom!
Ps: never lead anyone on unless you want them for life.

Sure, thanks

cenaman:
Chop clean mouth.

Zendinho:
Bro.... because of this victory, I'll certainly spoil you and every happy nairaland with chilled bottle of beer......

Beer For all.......

No be small victory.. thank u oo!

Theboy21:
I am Happy for you now next time put your personal interest before emotions

Ok bro.. well understood

Theboy21:

why u dey laugh?

Cooldiipo:
Congratulations, this is why i encourage women to be hardworking. She doesn't depend on you for food or upkeep, moving on will be much easier. [s]Whoever you choose will still bring you her fair share of challenge too[/s]...as a man, you have to be ready in your mind for the tough times ahead. I sell Laptop powerbank,50k for 100,000mah guaranteed to power you pc for more than 10 hours. 75k for 180,000mah guaranteed to power pc for more than 18hours. All are built with brand new liFePo4 battery.

Well, I do not pray for such challenge.. thank u

Drenimarcus:
Lol you should be happy you left her. With her tone, you for hear am from her if you had agreed to date her, she seems a wolf in a sheep clothing . She is all caring and loving because she knows her value is dwindling faster daily. Stay sharp and stay safe brother.

Yes oo! check the proof in the attached, and thank u bro

Hey Guys,

I created this thread to thank and update you guys how my strong closeness with the single mother ended after receiving advice here....
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6477303/how-leave-single-mother-without

Before I start I want to correct the negative impression a lot of you had thinking I was chatting with her in Nigeria> FYI me and her live in the same city in Canada but I met her through a popular dating site.

So after the brilliant advice from the previous thread which I remained grateful to everyone that contributed. I messaged her two days later on Instagram to come let's talk. She arrived at my apartment and called to tell me that she was trapped in the snow mud with her car and I had to come out and labor that night in a wicked cold weather to make sure I brought out her car which I did and she went gaga the more heaping all kinds of romantic praises on me . Later on, we started discussing and I told her respectfully that I needed time to think through our friendship as I wasn't ready for something serious/relationship which she is gunning for, since I noticed she became too obsessed and close with me that a day does not pass without her thinking about me or messaging. As I talked to her she remained quiet of course I knew she was disappointed and didn't look happy cause that was not what she expected. Then after, I jokingly told her a family friend saw her photo on my WhatsApp (false) and became interested in knowing her she was quiet and kept listening till I finished and then one hour later she said she was going.

When she got home she wrote me that she has seen I needed my space and time and that she would move on with her life but saying she doesn't like the idea of telling her about someone else when it was me she had feelings for.. which I apologized.

Since then she became quiet kinda saying I friend zoned her though I didn't, hardly writes me and does not think of visiting me or whatsoever. But I recently called her to "extend an olive branch" since she wasn't cool about my friend I told her, and she was rather interested in knowing why I called her to appear saying she thought I would define what we are or ask her for a relationship having known for months and all that which I maintained my stand . At the end, she mentioned everything I said boils down to her distancing herself from me so I will have my time and do my thing. Few minutes later she stood up to leave and I walked her down, she entered her car and left.

I felt for her then but I know she is fine now. The thing is that I do not likely see myself settling with her as I have my reasons, plans and spec in a babe.. yes I liked her and we vibe and crack sometimes but I got to be honest with her as was advised here.. again she is so sensitive probably her Canadian lifestyle.

Thankfully its over and we are free.. most importantly I have learnt some lessons but above all I wish her well.
When next I see one I will recall this incident and keep calm

#Respect to the Mods & Nairalanders

Goke7:


Blame buhari for this?

Is it a lie?

atonement12:
Hypocrites everywhere! Your Obama and USA have killed and still killing hundreds of thousands all over the world yearly. Ignoramus and deceived Africans. What do you know about internet?

Dem kill your person? and I know more than u

atonement12:
According to BBC and CNN. Right?

Internet is your answer.. be like u support killers and terrorists like Buhari

stanluiz:
He send assassin to kill him in UK with nerve agent poison.

Litvineko died slowly and painfully. Putin is a muderous dictator.

You know the story.. it was radiation poisoning with Polonium 210

atonement12:
Casualty of British propaganda!

Not propaganda anything.. he was poisoned with radiation by his men

Anytime I hear of this man.. Alexander Litvinenko comes to my mind