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Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by Lostchild(m): 11:01pm On Apr 24, 2021
SweetCunt97:
Second place how?

You know what I mean. Dating a single mother their child come first.

Women loves their children more than their hubby

Their child(dren) is their first priority

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Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by HappyCanadian: 12:33am On Apr 25, 2021
Lostchild:


You know what I mean. Dating a single mother their child come first.

Women loves their children more than their hubby

Their child(dren) is their first priority
Be like u sabi them but this girl really likes me

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Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by HappyCanadian: 12:34am On Apr 25, 2021
Heathrow44:



Kk, let me put it this way?? Would u choose a Canadian woman over a Nigerian woman?
Am open to anybody my dear.. the only thing is that let her be a nice/good woman that loves me.. I don't care where she is from
Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by Lostchild(m): 1:08am On Apr 25, 2021
HappyCanadian:

Be like u sabi them but this girl really likes me

1) I can tell that she truly likes you a lot. Western women, their love is very real, unlike african women which hardship has tampered their soul.

2) She might see you as a great catch, believing that a good looking Nigerian guy like you will make a better hubby, unlike her Canadian ex who has betray and left her.

3) I warn you, never gave into her out of pitty. If women in general want to divorce you, they will not sorry for you. The day you stop loving them, you will become a devious enemy to them.

4) Be careful. Divorce is very rampant even here in Nigeria. The different between the west vs africa is that, the law favours western women against men. So be very careful when it comes to the woman you choose.

5) Tell her that You like her a lot but you can not be in a relationship where you will be in sevond place in her life. Stand by your word. You want a relationship where you will be the first priority, I mean you will be number 1.

Also tell her that you can not be in a relationship where two persons will always be among you (a) her kid (b) her ex, the father of her kid will always be between you and her.

6) If you date her, she may likely want to hook or glue you to herself. Another thing is that, you are an immigrant of which she may take advantage of you and wants to control everything in your life. When a woman is playing a major role in your life they will become over possessive / controling freek. I have seen that many times

7) Never settle for less. Look for a single lady/babe that is more mellow in nature, someone more or less younger than you.

As for your friend, continue to show her love and care, but I warn you, do not have sex with her.

I repeat: No sex with her, if not na you know OH

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Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by HappyCanadian: 3:14am On Apr 25, 2021
Lostchild:


1) I can tell that she truly likes you a lot. Western women, their love is very real, unlike african women which hardship has tampered their soul.

2) She might see you as a great catch, believing that a good looking Nigerian guy like you will make a better hubby, unlike her Canadian ex who has betray and left her.

3) I warn you, never gave into her out of pitty. If women in general want to divorce you, they will not sorry for you. The day you stop loving them, you will become a devious enemy to them.

4) Be careful. Divorce is very rampant even here in Nigeria. The different between the west vs africa is that, the law favours western women against men. So be very careful when it comes to the woman you choose.

5) Tell her that You like her a lot but you can not be in a relationship where you will be in sevond place in her life. Stand by your word. You want a relationship where you will be the first priority, I mean you will be number 1.

Also tell her that you can not be in a relationship where two persons will always be among you (a) her kid (b) her ex, the father of her kid will always be between you and her.

6) If you date her, she may likely want to hook or glue you to herself. Another thing is that, you are an immigrant of which she may take advantage of you and wants to control everything in your life. When a woman is playing a major role in your life they will become over possessive / controling freek. I have seen that many times

7) Never settle for less. Look for a single lady/babe that is more mellow in nature, someone more or less younger than you.

As for your friend, continue to show her love and care, but I warn you, do not have sex with her.

I repeat: No sex with her, if not na you know OH

A very detailed points u raised bro.. just that she is not playing any major role in my life we just met and became friends but for sure I got all u've said.. thanks
Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by Alejobs: 3:30am On Apr 25, 2021
Thane:


can you use the laptop bank to charge phone? how many hours to charge the power bank. where are u located


It.comes with 2 usb Port for charging phone and once you get this charging phone will never be a problem anymore at for well over a week, this will keep your phone charging. For example this screenshot below;

Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by Alejobs: 3:39am On Apr 25, 2021
reidkrugger:


How many watts is d power bank? My laptop is a beast o. Even my inverter cries when ever I turn it on.


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Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by reidkrugger(m): 3:52am On Apr 25, 2021
Alejobs:



Electricity is always a challenge and i am always happy to be part of the solution to that. Do you need an mps? Mobile Power solution for laptop, led tv and decoder, light bulb, fan, Phones e.t.c fully assembled by Nigerian for Nigeria for the last five years and still waxing stronger. 50k for 100,000mah guaranteed to power you pc for more than 10 hours. 75k for 180,000mah guaranteed to power pc for more than 18hours. All are built with brand new liFePo4 battery.


08065.31.6307, you have a week to test after purchase, guarantee you full refund if it does not satisfy you

Fair enough.

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Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by phemy36(m): 9:16am On Apr 25, 2021
Nigerian females should be avoided by all means

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Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by luminouz(m): 11:01am On Apr 25, 2021
Peppysco:
I'm very sure if you were still residing in Nigeria and met this after one lady through the same online platform, you would forget all this specs and parts you're talking about because na to escape go dey your mind. So, bone all that specs ish, na chance you get.
By the way, that Canada wey you dey, I dey suspect say na citizen you be cos if to say you still dey hustle to get stay, even if na 3 children she get, you for still dey lick her plate. Stop making me and others feel we don't have principles, na chance you get.
I nor come fight ooo, na my mind I yarn
Are you with a single mom?
Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by jantman(m): 11:53am On Apr 25, 2021
Nice one grin
Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by sergi99(m): 2:55pm On Apr 25, 2021
You did the right thing sir.


HappyCanadian:
Hey Guys,

I created this thread to thank and update you guys how my strong closeness with the single mother ended after receiving advice here....
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6477303/how-leave-single-mother-without

Before I start I want to correct the negative impression a lot of you had thinking I was chatting with her in Nigeria> FYI me and her live in the same city in Canada but I met her through a popular dating site.

So after the brilliant advice from the previous thread which I remained grateful to everyone that contributed. I messaged her two days later on Instagram to come let's talk. She arrived at my apartment and called to tell me that she was trapped in the snow mud with her car and I had to come out and labor that night in a wicked cold weather to make sure I brought out her car which I did and she went gaga the more heaping all kinds of romantic praises on me tongue. Later on, we started discussing and I told her respectfully that I needed time to think through our friendship as I wasn't ready for something serious/relationship which she is gunning for, since I noticed she became too obsessed and close with me that a day does not pass without her thinking about me or messaging. As I talked to her she remained quiet of course I knew she was disappointed and didn't look happy cause that was not what she expected. Then after, I jokingly told her a family friend saw her photo on my WhatsApp (false) and became interested in knowing her she was quiet and kept listening till I finished and then one hour later she said she was going.

When she got home she wrote me that she has seen I needed my space and time and that she would move on with her life but saying she doesn't like the idea of telling her about someone else when it was me she had feelings for.. which I apologized.

Since then she became quiet kinda saying I friend zoned her though I didn't, hardly writes me and does not think of visiting me or whatsoever. But I recently called her to "extend an olive branch" since she wasn't cool about my friend I told her, and she was rather interested in knowing why I called her to appear saying she thought I would define what we are or ask her for a relationship having known for months and all that which I maintained my stand sad. At the end, she mentioned everything I said boils down to her distancing herself from me so I will have my time and do my thing. Few minutes later she stood up to leave and I walked her down, she entered her car and left.

I felt for her then but I know she is fine now. The thing is that I do not likely see myself settling with her as I have my reasons, plans and spec in a babe.. yes I liked her and we vibe and crack sometimes but I got to be honest with her as was advised here.. again she is so sensitive probably her Canadian lifestyle.

Thankfully its over and we are free.. most importantly I have learnt some lessons but above all I wish her well.
When next I see one I will recall this incident and keep calm grin

#Respect to the Mods & Nairalanders

Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by treziMcCarthy: 10:56pm On Apr 25, 2021
Aburada:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

2 cold bottles of beer for you for not being a pussy ass niggarr

This is the same thing I did to one single mother that year. I don't want anything to distract me from my daily hustle because there's no love in the street

I only derive joy from my weed not from any woman

Smoke up
Drink up
Bomb Chinese websites

WeChat/Alipay/courier/Consignment

grin grin

You had to check the moniker if it's

slawormiir



My ghee, give me Chinese site too... I beg write me, wilspark20@gmail.com
Re: Update! How I Finally Left This Single Mother And Learnt Lessons by Aburada: 10:57pm On Apr 25, 2021
treziMcCarthy:



My ghee, give me Chinese site too... I beg write me, wilspark20@gmail.com
read the comment again

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