Well! Thanks for all of your response to my question,I think some people are being unnecessarily playful over this issue,this has not only happened to me but a few of my colleagues who are here with me as well! Besides i think some girls in NL are avoiding the naked truth. Imagine someone who has seen your picture on FACEBOOK, infact the whole and knows very well you're not a kid,I mean am worried!
Well only a few people really said something sensible so far.

mrperfect:

Is like girls are avoiding this question, this type of question happens.
So why? May be to know if you are close to marriage or not(just my guess)

@MRPERFECT,you are absolutely right ,i think it's b/c of this the marriage issue,and am sure nairaland girls are avoiding this truth,although i know the good NL girls will soon say something revealing.

lady_hard:

Its only proper to ask so one knows how to relate to the person and also to know the level of communication.

I guess you are right lady_hard,you sound intelligent. Thanks.

Pls, gals and guys in the house,help answer this question,

WHY DO NIGERIAN GIRLS,LIKE ASKING FOR A GUY'S AGE IMMEDIATELY THEY MEET HIM ONLINE?

Godmother:

This is way too long!!!
I couldn't get past the fifth line

Godmother,
better learn to cause READERS are LEADERS oh, any way it's a very interesting story,how i wish you knew what you are missing.

tunene:

my brother seriously, I have learnt a great deal from your story, thank you and God bless you.

tunene,
thanks for your encouragement,i really appreciate it and GOD BLESS YOU TOO.

Is that clock actually keeping time?and what happened to the torn tent?

@tranngirls
thanks but whereever i picked it from does not make any difference, it actually shows that a not a sidon look,besides i want to impact lives.

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whats the meaning of this lol,honestly i dont know.

blue spice, you really hate me,don't you?

iice:

Why would i want him to call me more?

@iice
may be you sure do not have this problem but other do,there are times when a man wants to take advantage of a lady simply because he thinks she's crazy about him just because she calls him often, i was only try to be of help to my fellow niairaland ladies or don't you guys appreciate this.

bluespice:

oh pls,
this is so 1970's women are better than men liberation BS
if ur man cant call u during office hours and ur bothered,
u need a job, what are u doing waiting for his call anyway?
shouldnt u be working urself?

thats except he told u to expect his call

either way, if he cant call u or he forgets, whats wrong in calling him or poping at his place
call before hand!! if u meet what u dont wanna meet, atleast u left a voice mail on his cell n home numbers

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So he says he's too busy to call yet again? Most of us have been in at least one relationship like this in our dating experiences. The man we are with just always seems to have so much on his plate that he can't spare a few moments to call and connect with us. It's frustrating, not to mention disappointing, when you care about him and start to feel as though he's neglecting you. Nagging obviously isn't the way to get him to call, but is there anything that does work? There actually is. There are a few things you can do that will make him reach for the phone to call you more often.

If you're with a guy and he says he's too busy to call do you normally call him instead? If you do, you're doing yourself a disservice. You'll never get a man to call you if you are always picking up his slack. If he says he'll call and then doesn't because he claims to have gotten too busy, don't call him. Whenever a woman chases a man down by calling him repeatedly she's telling him in a very loud and clear way that she is desperate. What you must do if he says he can't find the time to call you is to not call him. Regardless of how much time has passed since he's last called, do not pick up the phone to call him.

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You need to always remember that men and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or before he's ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off. Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because they are too over eager to hear from him. Don't let this happen to you. For more answers to the age old question of when you should and shouldn't be calling the man in your life, visit this helpful site.

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abeg make una no make this guys cry, oh oh.

July 27th al the way,anyone out there?

i met this girl and we started talking, but i want to get to know her better and i want to call her with mtn night calls so pls what should i do?

sistawoman,
you are a blessing to this forum but so many in here do not know.
for me my advice is that you just learn to communicate with him,if he does not not know how to then teach him and and if you would ask me,it will even make him love you the more i, i wish you good luck in your r/s.

Sasha009:

You don't need to punish a guy for not doing the things he promised to do, like not calling you when he said he will. Give it time, and if he breaks his promises consistently, you have to understand that he may be busy depending on his job, if that's not the case, talk to him one on one, and let him know gently how you feel, make your concerns know to him, if after all these he doesn't change, then maybe he's not the one for you my friend. Move on.
Remember punishment/revenge backfires. it may come back to bite you in the ass, so stay clear of it, and move on to someone who will appreciate you better, its his loss!

what happened how?
don't you know that this kind of affairs do come with their wahalah he should just bear it like a man or better still he tells his wife and ask for her forgiveness simple,in life we all make mistakes, so i think the wife will understand although its no easy but i think he should just be a man and accept defeat for once.

for everything in life there is a price tag,who knows may be this is the price you have to pay for coded shaging.sorry, ohh, ohhh, ohhhh.

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