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ebuka10box:
bro this is real life.....gamble is very bad bro
u haven't played gamble like me oooo ,I played it ehhhh till I was thinking otherwise and acting crazy. u gotta stop man, u no go fit make am with gambling bro. u would send a Dm let's chat privately... I pray the Senate bans this game cause it's killing youths in the country

thanks sir. sent you a mail.

vikakuzzdrumzy:
bro I have been in almost the same situation ..i sold all i had , i sold my laptop, iphone ,properties lost alot of money ...i was so frustrated..see i understand perfectly what you are going through .I AM A LIVING TESTIMONY..and i can only tell and advice you on how to stop just the way i did ...its gonna be ok ...send me a message on instagram. (SWIT_OFFICIAL) OR ON FACEBOOK (SWIT VICTOR) . JUST KNOW THAT ITS ALL ABOUT GREED AND YOU LL NEVET RECOVER ALL YOU VE LOST ..TIME,HONOUR,INTEGRITY,TRUST IF YOU CONTINUE.. SEND ME A MESSAGE AND LETS TALK.

sir i searched for you on fb but i saw different swit victors'. Are you the guy on a suit on your profile picture? I really want to get in touch with you. Thanks

Albinoflash:
Have never been able to say how much,or what i have really suffered in virtual,but i still havent seen my match.sometimes am surprise am still alive

bro i remember you from my thread. please share your story with me. Hearing stories of what people have been through in this virtual can help too. My brother i almost died. Any suffering you can think of in this life, i have experienced it. Please do well to share your story with me. I would love to gain one or two things from it. Thanks.

thanks

onlyonechid84:
My friend the solution to stop gambling isnt only prayers. If I talk my story, you will give God the Glory for given you a second chance to received sense into your life.
If you have ever used house rent twice to gambling and still loose you will comprehend what I mean.
Fast forward - solution : if u are an online gambler meet a good friend to help u change your password and never to tell u the password that's after deleting your account.
2. Never Go near a betting shop, tell that gambling spirit to leave you anything time you approach a betting shop.
3. Attend more activities in your church. .If you are not one join a group. Don't be idle.
4. Stay with friends who never and that can never encourage gambling.
5. Tell God to forgive you.

thank you so much. Before i posted this, i thought i was the only one to have been in this for so long. But reading comments of those who have been there and overcame it makes me more focused now. Thanks sir.

francescainnoce:
Can I have your number please please

okay ma. I dont know if you will get it when i mail it to you. Please if you get it please let me know. I will be very happy to get help from concerned individuals. Thanks. In the mail, i will attach my facebook just in case. I have my siblings around now. I cant discuss something like this around them at this time. Probably tomorrow i can get your call. Thanks once again.

Martzki:
Are you on facebook

yes sir. Please if you know how i can get over everything i have been through. I will be forever grateful for your help. Thanks and God bless.

@ mr smiley05. Thank you so much sir for your words and encouragement. I am sorry i did not reply to it earlier. I just saw it now while going through some comments. I feel so much encouraged, determined and hopeful to get my life back and be great again. Someone used to tell me, it does not matter how hard you fall; what matters is how you pick up yourself and rise again. Knowing that some persons have been there before but still came out of everything stronger and a winner makes me feel so focused on making the best use of my life. Once again, thank you very much sir. God bless you.

Koralords:
Bro you not alone .....2012 before starting bet9ja I bought 3 cars same time from the USA ..had $28k in my Dom account ....have 3.8m in my accounts ...everything went bet9ja ..the day I sold of my car I staked 750k onces on a match and lost ....now have less then 200k in my act and squart with ppl

hello sir. . . i just saw your post. How are coping yourself. From your post, i believe you are far more advanced than i am. Sir Have you totally stopped, how did you get over everything? Looking forward to your reply. Thanks

Chikicaka:
I leave you with the serenity words of AA that says "God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, courage to change the things we can, and wisdom to know the difference."

God bless everyone.

Thank you so much for this MA. I feel more determined and hopeful now. Your story is so encouraging. God bless you more in your endeavors. It's time to pick up what is left of my live and move on. I believe what is coming is better than what is gone. Thank you once again

Amberon11:
If you are in Lagos locate Synagogue church of all Nations. If you're in Port Harcourt locate OPM.

If in Lagos go to SCOAN on any day, try to soak with one of their workers, tell them your problem.
If you're lucky they will arrange you on prayer line and you will see the man of God prophet TB Joshua and he will administer prayer which will bring Deliverance to your life. Thanks and stay blessed.

Thank you for your concern. God bless you sir. I stay in delta none of those churches around me. Thanks for this encouragement. I feel so hopeful and determined now. God bless you

HoodBillionaire:
OP id still broke after gambling away your time,money,hopes,energy

were you addicted to virtual before?

Greenarrow01:
Was with bae for two years and things got better thou..
With help from my crazy parents.. bae and  my will, I was able to get over it... after a long time...
But I dropped out of the university with just a semester remaining.. and lost really good friends..


 Within less than two years of stopping virtual, things have gotten better.. my only regret is that I have lost time and I can't recoup it..

I now have a school in a small village up north where I teach (Hausa kids) pro bono (free) I also have 4 other staff members.. i now have an international partner/mentor who believes in me.. and we 're cooking up something. Not quite long.. I won a 1 million naira entrepreneurship competition...(I have once applied for this competition nd failed). I will be 24 soon and I am so grateful.

thank you for this bro. Right now I am reading a website somebody shared to me. When I am done, I will come back and read your whole story and how you came out stronger and better. I feel so hopeful and determined knowing that people have passed through the same problem and came out stronger. God bless you for this encouraging post

tega10:
Or better send me a Facebook friend request @ambrose osuagwu

i will sir. Thanks for your concern. I will text you soon

OdiaI:
Oh Okay...I understand now. How can you be contacted then? What is your Facebook I.D?

thank you. I have just accessed my mail. Never knew it is enabled on my small phone. I sent you a mail back. Sorry for the inconveniences. I did not know it would open on my phone. Did you get the mail?

@ odiaI. my phone is a small phone. it cant open mails. I am sorry. If you want to help me with recovery processes, and you feel i am lying you can click the other topic i created yesterday. It is less congested. Thank you. God bless. I have no reason to lie. Like i said when @ addictdoctor called. He restricted his number. I can give you my fb username. If you go through it, you will see i am telling you the truth.

OdiaI:
You don't have to explain. But if you can't access your mails because you don't have a phone, how did you register on NL and how are you able to reply my quote? If you have access to a system, you should be able to access your mail. I had the mind of helping before but you are not being truthful. Come out clean if you need help, you shouldn't turn to lying to garner empathy. There are people who are willing to help people who have gone through what you went through.

thank you ma'am. I used my sist's phone to create my gmail yesterday to open this account. You can see the account was created yesterday. Only two topics have been created. I have my other account i use on nairaland. I created this one to post this for anonymity purpose. I have nothing to gain. You can read up the thread to see that i have not asked anyone for money. One man has actually called me @ addictdoctor. You can quote him to confirm. He sent me a mail too but instead i gave him my number.

Organism000:
Then, what he needs is total defragmentation of the sub-conscious programming.

how can i do that please. Share some ways for me. I believe what you are saying. I feel that urge whenever i play and its the same anticipation to get that urge that pushes me to play. How can i overcome it.

Albinoflash:
U can only stop nw cos u have nothing else to loose just like me,ur schøol,ur social life,infact ur life,but if their be any hope bro u have to stop.4 me wat i did to stop was to criticise the game (virtual) any shop i go to ,making people knw how badly i have lost so much on it ,and that i will never try to play it not even once.anytime i have the urge to play i remember all the tins i said abt it and d mockry i will get i just had to stick with live bet .though am gradually trying to quit everything soon.bro to tell u d truth it is easier to take ur life than to stop virtual at this stage o,i have tot of suicide self

thanks bro. God help us all. Please since you have started your own recovery process, dont try to go back. Thanks for your concern

vikakuzzdrumzy:
your whatsapp number is ok
(Mo

i am not on whatapp now. my phone is bad. 08108604610. you can hide your own number when you call or text me if you have benefits of doubt. thanks once again

johnydon22:
email your number to me.

08108604610. that is it. thanks for your concern.

OdiaI:
I have sent you an e-mail, try as much as possible to reply. Your life is not over. Four years is okay to learn whatever lesson you want to learn in life. You can still get it right. okay?

thank you ma'am. i cant even access my mails now. my phone is bad. All thanks to virtual again. But if you are willing, i can drop my number. You can call me or text me. Please if you feel i am a scam, hide your number when you call or text me. thanks for your concern

vikakuzzdrumzy:
bro I have been in almost the same situation ..i sold all i had , i sold my laptop, iphone ,properties lost alot of money ...i was so frustrated..see i understand perfectly what you are going through .I AM A LIVING TESTIMONY..and i can only tell and advice you on how to stop just the way i did ...its gonna be ok ...send me a message on instagram. (SWIT_OFFICIAL) OR ON FACEBOOK (SWIT VICTOR) . JUST KNOW THAT ITS ALL ABOUT GREEF AND YOU LL NEVET RECOVER ALL YOU VE LOST ..TIME,HONOUR,INTEGRITY,TRUST IF YOU CONTINUE.. SEND ME A MESSAGE AND LETS TALK.

thank you bro. i will text you. Should i text you on facebook or i should drop my number?

johnydon22:
I'm coming to Asaba next week Thursday probably. I'll like to meet you

thank you sir. But i will be travelling to boji boji within the week just in case. Close to asaba. Before this happened again yesterday. I had post utme to prepare for. If you are willing, i can drop my number. I need all the help available. Thank you sir.

smat101:
call me now...
08103377129

thank you sir. I have written down your number now. I will do that. Thanks for your concern.

johnydon22:
Are you in Asaba?

yes sir.

adewumiopeyemi:
What I will advise is for you to stop totally.. I was onece like you 4 years ago.. what realy tempt me is the big point.. that normally fall.. what I do then is to stake high one the big point then I later loose...I was bannish from work due to this but now.. God haave realy make sometin Good in my life.. I don't even near there talkless of smilling the place.. just get it in your mind that you can stop it.. I believe that you can overcome dis problem bro...... God is your strength.. You can do it.. I no is realy hard..

thank you sir. God bless you for the encouragement. My level of determination to stop now is very strong and with God i am hopeful. thanks for your concern

johnydon22:
Which state are you in my friend?

delta state. thanks for your concern. please help me to help myself

enshi:
Baba where are you... Which state are you in. Reply ASAP

thank you for your concern. delta state. Please i need all the help on how to go about this

ozoneymcm:
Call me. 07038148140. ). Nairaland can't help you at this point, I'm a counselor and I'll help you for free (over the phone)

thank you sir. I have taken down your number. I will text you as soon as possible. God bless you for your concern

jaxxy:
Op i hv a question for u. Do u love urself at all? If u do u wud stop this self destructive attitude. Or did they jazz u with bet naija shop? My advice is make continuous effort, be determined to stop all these bad habits and destructive behavior. Learn how to stop being impulsive bt rather take u time and use ur sense for once. U are under d illusion dat bet naija can give u money cos im sure u don't just play for the fun of it. Disillusion ur mind for that nonesense and virtual world and deal with the real life and real issues. From today never step into any of those stores. Keep doing dat until u break d cycle. U have formed a strong bad habit and u need to break it with strong mind and force and get get ur life back into the right thinking process. Then u can be happy. Goodluck

THANK YOU SIR FOR YOUR CONCERN. GOD BLESS YOU. I feel so much hopeful and determined now

Vision2045:
Guy download Dream league soccer, give yourself target (like building all your players to 100) play it any time the urge comes...

I was once an addict and have lost close to millions on virtual..

Delete your bet9ja registered account

Do a kolo (traditional money safe) drop it anytime u have money with you and the urge comes

If u book game and wan play go with less than 200

Make up your mind, stay disciplined, read the bible or Quran, pray...

Its not easy but its achievable.......its a sucker

thank you so much for this. I feel hopeful and determined. God bless you.