₦airaland Forum

lagmostkuit:
Beht I can't see any fat police woman officer!

still searching

IamLEGEND1:
1.no
2. we are freaking awesome
3. no way in hell, i'd rather turn gay.

Rotfl

Gurgle:
1. Yeah

2. Don't know sha. Some of them seem ok but some of them are kind of dark-hearted somehow, I don't know

3. Yeah I think I haveeee

aww@no3.....the guy below you though......hmm

Its been on for quite sometime, I see no reasonable reason why a thread should be created for this..
#@reasonable reason. Haha

grad2012:
No1 yes
No2 some can be nyc,sweet and friendly and some can be very very mean.
No3 it depends on you if you end up meeting the person one on one to really know the person you might end up falling in luv wit the person.

I know the mean ones.....haha.

misspicy:
Op wat do you mran by datable in NO 1...

To go an a date with someone.
www.thefreedictionary.com/datable

LaDivva:
Lol... harffie wetin I do you?

nothing o. #lol........just observing.

MrsPhyno:
for wetin? you don't wanna say it here?

iono how to..lol. Okay.

I have taken my time to study the relationship trend on Nairaland but I am yet to be convinced, still. I kindly request your honest opinion on the following.
1. Do you think NL ladies are datable?
2. What do you think about NL guys? I mean in summary.
3. Do you think you can fall in love with someone on NL?

EroticAngelina:
hmm I knew the ban wouldn't last long. Indians are like the most hornyy set of ppl I've ever seen.

#ImNotExaggerating

True

MrsPhyno:
not true o boys gather experience wey pass girls own

hmm, send a pm. will you?

MrsPhyno:
See this one forming innocent

MrICantDoAVirginMyGuysMustDoHerWellarFirst

Pls when novices like myself are talking pros like you should correct us

A novice indeed. No girl here is one oo....especially, Ladivva

LaDivva:

LaDivva:
Lol, you know pass me already.

Walahi, your comment dey ...............

CivilzedTyger:
Girls grab more ie they grab men's heart, they grab our money, they grab our sanity, some even dey grab man future sef

You forgot 'Destiny'

Another ...... thread.

LaDivva:

. I could make you hold things..

Readers are Leaders, the more you read, the more you know. Who told you the bible didn't say anything about that, perhaps you've never read the part, well...
1 Corinthians 6:18-19
18. Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
19. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;
The fact that something is pleasing doesn't mean its not sin. Discard every bad advice from nL and pray to God to help you stay away.....(Flee not walk)

Delusiongirl20:
Not any sin, stop feeling guilty. Enjoy yourself.

It is called do-it-yourself method.

its a sin

LaDivva:
My thoughts as well, who or what will the lady hold so tight when climaxing

When masturbating? Sounds like you like holding something when you climax. Hmmmm badt gurl

QueenBJ:
Eyaaaaa

Hilarious moniker..

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]All this silly threads sef, Na wa oh.

So if a man is going out to a very important occasion, he would change his mind to engage in sex with his wife just because he sees her asss?

Any man that does this lacks self control and it's obvious he wouldn't be able to control himself with other women [/color]

we need more women like you here on NL cuz trust me......most of 'em ladies here......

misspicy:
I just leaked a secret for you guys abi

There's no secret under heaven.
#just the things we haven't said.

CEtoO:
Good question

ASK GOD.

misspicy

Baba Ibeji indeed

Gurgle:
.

Ye Right.

What's with the sugar mummy trend. I am starting to feel uncomfortable.

What if her bf is rich......huh?

Toks2008:
In many Countries, the issue of Bride price has been known to be a well grounded factor in determining your franchise over the lady.

In some parts of the world, this issue has been blown beyond proportion that huge money is usually asked by the Bride's parent and many suitors see this as very discouraging.

The amazing fact is that if you ask anyone why a bride price must be paid,they will be very quick to answer that GOD commanded it and even our pastors are quick to lay emphasis on this as a condition that must be met before a man and woman can be said to be married before GOD.

But is Bride price really a condition necessary for marriage? Can we say you are really married even if bride price have not been paid? Did GOD specifically lay down this as a law or was it man made tradition? Can Bride price be paid at anytime during the course of the couple living together as Man and wife? and is it proper for the bride's parents to present a list or ask for monetary bride price from the groom's family?

These shocking truths from the very Bible people use as yardstick for bride price will clear the air.


1. Bride price was never a commandment from GOD as a condition for marriage but only as a penalty for rape and in fact, you can still pay the Bride price and still be denied the woman to be your wife by the Father.

Lets read this from the book of exodus 22:16-17:
"If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife.If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he must still pay the bride-price for virgins."

Deuteronomy 22:28-29: "If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay her father fifty shekels[a] of silver. He must marry the young woman,for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives.


2.Monetary bride is to be paid only on a virgin provided the man has slept with her before he decides to marry her but if the man has never slept with her,there should be no need to pay a dime on her.(Read again Exodus 22:16-17 above)


3.Even if a man meets a virgin and defiles her and decides to marry her,no man is expected to pay more than 50shekels of silver as a penalty and according to Google research, 50 shekels of silver is just about 15usd today so what is this madness going on where in some places a man is asked to pay hundreds and thousands for a lady who have probably slept with many men.

4.There was never ever a place in the Bible where GOD commanded the bride's parent to present a list but it is the groom's responsibility to bring whatever he dims fit for the lady he wants to marry.

The great example in the Bible was Isaac's marriage to Rebekah who was a virgin and there was no monetary exchange or penalty whatsoever between the two families but affordable gifts were giving to Rebekkah's family by Abraham but not demanded for by Rebekkah's family. Read Genesis 24:52-54.

5. Bride price according to the bible is all about virgins and all the references and bible verses all point to paying a penalty for defiling a virgin as well as giving gifts as Abraham did to Rebekah who also happen to be a virgin.

Genesis 24:15-16:Before he had finished praying, Rebekah came out with her jar on her shoulder. She was the daughter of Bethuel son of Milkah, who was the wife of Abraham’s brother Nahor.The woman was very beautiful, a virgin; no man had ever slept with her. She went down to the spring, filled her jar and came up again.

6.Payment of monetary bride price on ladies generally whether virgins or non virgins is a tradition and not a direct commandment from GOD and in some countries like india,its a woman that actually pays a dowry on the groom and not the other way round.


7.Presenting list or asking for monetary bride price from a man who conscientiously marries a lady is man made rule and not from GOD hence becomes a sin because its better to obey GOD rather than men.

Acts 5:29:Peter and the other apostles replied: "We must obey God rather than human beings!

Conclusively i would advice that we just flow with the fun fare and traditions of the land and pay the bride price to either the Father of the Bride or the Mother of any lady we want to marry even if she is a LovePeddler.

Nevertheless.outrageous monetary bride price or list must be discouraged because it is not even Biblical in the first place but only necessary to obey customs and traditions.

Even Prophet Mohamed(May the peace of GOD be upon him) has this to say:

"the most blessed marriage is one in which the marriage partners place the least burden on each other" (al-Haythami, Kitab ab-Nikah, 4:255).

My candid take.

is Traditional wedding the same with Church wedding?? Shey na pastor dey collect bride price or parents of wife? It has nothing to do with God, its the culture of the yoruba........I was shocked to see you quote bible btw.