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healthserve:
You're making some very obvious mistakes that has been corrected/addressed so many times on this forum. But, I think I should get out of your thread for " obvious reasons ".


Best of luck

healthserve:
Valid points. But what about the bigger picture and the obvious mistake thats glaring for " us " ( being others ) to see in your assertions Madam?. There's massive flawed logic with your considerations thats blinded to you because of your by-stance approach of handling issues.

DanDeeBoss:
Lol..... I told her to try it coz her friends suggested it....

Laurene:
I'm sure you are one of those online feminists. Are you Poco? Karma don catch up with you.

dennel:
Hi Op! I just think you’ve read n listened a way too much to those relationship talks n all...

Always know dt there’s always a diff btwn theory and reality... ask people who attends motivational speeches (Ts way of the same attributes with relationships and marriage talks) it’s sounds too good but not always real because what works for Mr A may not work for Mr B.

I saw whr you wrote you maybe single @35, adopt n all... well if dts what you wished for yourself, you can have it!

A lot of women will deprive themselves of the joy of marriage bcus of pride, over pompous, ego, and all we do hide under self esteem and respect plus your so called specifications and attributes!

You all forgetting that the country is hard; so if you re lucky to have a silver spoon background why not assist a man you love up instead of giving them names!

My piece: pray n trust God, rebuild your h@ n mind to loving again (delete those blivs and what you read), fall in love, and men 10yrs older won’t make you feel so loved, so you may not really know what’s good for you...

All da best

pryme:
These are the kind of women am worried about,
Those that think they are perfect.

In other words you will be doing the man a favor by being in his life.
That's a red flag with bright colors.

daviddelly:
after getting married to an ambitious man ,later he will more obsessed about his ambition without giving u love or being there for d kids when u need him ,u will also be d one to open a new account to complain.most guys are poor today because of how the society (Nigeria)is,everyman or guy has an ambition.just hope for a man who will always be dia for u money is not everything true love is.

SouthSouth1914:
I am sorry to say, maybe you were once an undercover call girl. You need to realize men do not owe women anything, same way you have your standards!

I think you are just being addressed the way you carry yourself- A call girl.

PS: Any insult therein is non intentional and hope you don’t take offense!

Lonelypacifist6:
Are you truthful and to yourself? Answer this question first?

dancok:
sorry to bother you, did you ever find the ambitious lady?

jotey:
Do your Runs Girl work in peace. Please stop this Motivator / Motivational speaker act to these young girls who idolize and follow you. You’re recruiting runs girls like you directly and indirectly. .

These assertions : “ I worked So hard, God did it for me, Look at God, anybody can make it, I’m just starting, small girl big God” are very misleading and inappropriate. .

Don’t you think the men you’re sleeping with tell their inner circle friends and family who tell their own friends and family. Therefore your public success has an expiry date because a 5% know the truth. That 5% is growing gradually. .

I worked so hard ? – which work, product, project , proposal did you work on or sell ? Your Instagram page is full of flamboyant pictures of yourself and not a single promotion of a product or event you’re hosting. I guess you’re the product and your DM is the market hub.
God saw me through- saw you through sleeping with numerous older men for money ?
Mathematics: your salary doesn’t match your lifestyle. Something is missing. .

A self made woman is a woman who uses her brains, degree, personality, vocational skills to make money. Not through sex. .

IF YOU SLEPT WITH A MARRIED MEN, OLDER MAN, DID AN OLDER WOMEN “LESBIANISM”. .

Please Enjoy your money and stop this Motivational speaker nonsense. It’s like a Yahoo boy writing daily success memoirs on social media. .

It’s Psychological, you have to mention “Hardwork” and “God” so that you can reinforce it in your own Cognition that you’re not what you hate the most. A cheat, a runs Girl.

Enjoy your money, buy your creams, nails, hair to promote your ministry but please leave social media motivation out of it. You don’t have the right to motivate the youths.

Source: http://nigeriainfo247.com/2019/12/02/letter-to-runs-girls-forming-motivational-speakers-on-social-media-joroolumofin/20/35/20/497/categorized/admin/#more-497

princefunmmy:
Kindly review your specification, draw a scale of preference and apply opportunity cost..
No human is perfect, or let me say nobody has it all... I'd like to be a friend though, you sound smart and focused..

Beosten:
I didn't have the money she could collect and I was still financially better than her when I met her. How is that selfishness on my part? She instinctively knew that I will be something in this life.

Ladylite:
Aunti
Aunty

Calm down, go and enjoy your life.

You may not believe in religion now but I bet you when you are 35 you will know life is spiritual.


All this you explained here are normal for teenagers and under 25 girls.

Lady to Lady I tell you that you know even if you meet a mature guy with all that standard, he may not be interested in you and you are too proud to chase or beg.


See, you are not ready so move on and have fun with your life and other areas of your life.

IN your 30s try again by then the standards you spent so much time explaining now will not seem important to you.

Ciao

Originalsly:
Ehmmm...... as a very successful investor I couldn't resist making enquiries about this opportunity to invest in this long term project. Commitment is never a problem for me.... I am available 24/7 for us to whisper in private... away from these ehmmm.... gossipers and backbiters and liars and deceivers hovering over this my little honest comment. Feel free to WhatsApp me at

Riele:
Which mike ?

Do you know what he's doing outside the BB naija house ?

Lightway:
There are high chances that your are pocohantas

But one question you should ask yourself is, are you good enough for those ambitious men?

cc:
Harlequeen

Riele:
Show me a faithful man and i'll show you proof that Donald Trump is my father .

Riele:
You're too fast o .

Anyway , i have shared my thoughts .

GraGra247:
Stick with this no matter what and you will not miss it. Even if you miss it, it would be because you were not lucky and not because you didn't do what you were supposed to do.

I agree with your dad. Focus on building up your career, CV and Qualications and skills. Go from masters to PHD if you can.

All these come with huge bonuses:- Career men and "oil company" men will be competing for your attention. They'll be hunting you and not the reverse.

meekme:
One thing I'll tell you is to stop being too quick to block people off like that.
A simple 'No' is enough atimes as some decent men would act indecently momentarily just to test you, to see whether you'd consent to it.
You must be really sexy to have thought guyz will masturbate on your normal picture.
I pray you meet your Mr right soon. Good Luck.

Riele:
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GrabHisBalls:
The thing is that you have raised a standard for yourself. Perhaps, if you're patient enough, he'll come around. I'm in same shoes as you. Infact, I have one that has been disturbing me of marriage but he's just not my type. He knows he's not and has confronted me citing not being up to what I want but I refused to state the major reason why I won't accept to date or marry him 'cause I don't want him feeling less. I just believe that with time, things will fall in pleasant places.

ojun50:
Last last you will end up marrying the wrong person.

Skmoda360:
I think you should drop your guard a little but to be sincere....I'm not in a position to advise you....lefulefu, ubunja, and co come and give her refreshing advise.....Shianira!!!!!