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Religion / Re: “We Should Spend Less On Ourselves And More On Others” –T.B Joshua Tells Pastors by Harmonyco(f): 10:14am On Dec 08, 2012 |
mankand: na wash...... Sori its not oil but water and its not 4 sell i ve one now |
Religion / Re: T.B JOSUA Is A Fake Prophet...? by Harmonyco(f): 5:35am On Dec 07, 2012 |
Bello555: Mr T.B Joshua is not what you think he is. He must be using diabolical powers.. Anti T B JOSHUA. Prophecy neva died in d days of old mind what u say nd these go's to every one sayin nonsense here. As a man thinkth in his heart so he is. |
Celebrities / Re: Heavily Pregnant Mercy Johnson On Movie Set In The US (photos) by Harmonyco(f): 5:13am On Dec 03, 2012 |
LesbianBoy:. How can u say such a tin dat woman was his galfrnd nt wife he only married Mercy legally. 2 Likes |
Culture / Re: Ogbuzulu! Ogbuzulu. by Harmonyco(f): 2:41pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
Odenigbo Aroli:. I said Ugbawka ppl dat should tell u am talking abt culture of ppl. K Ugbawka is in Nkanu East Local Government Area of Enugu state |
Culture / Ogbuzulu! Ogbuzulu. by Harmonyco(f): 11:44am On Nov 28, 2012 |
Plz my brothers nd sisters what is the culture of ugbawka people plz its my assignment plz help me. |
Celebrities / Picture Of Heavy Mercy Johnson Wit Husband by Harmonyco(f): 11:02pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Finally her husband's ex wil go nd die in shame i pray 4 ur safe delivery dear dis is just d begining
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Food / Re: The First Thing You Learned How To Cook And At What Age? by Harmonyco(f): 6:30am On Oct 06, 2012 |
I did mine @ d age of 6 beans nd yam. I dont wast machstick cuz i use to boil water 4 my morni tea. D tin happened wen my mum ask me to measure sm cups of beans nd pick i use to help her to do dat so after picking it she asked me to boil water i tot she wil do it nd i wanted to join my frnds dat are playin outside. When i told her i ve boiled d water she now said its ur turn to cook 2day Holy Jesus i danced Ajasco but dats is not 4 my mum so i ve to do it or i wil b grounded. But she assisted in in givin me quantity of salt nd pepper 4 it. |
Health / Re: 8 Easiest Ways To Lose Weight by Harmonyco(f): 5:50am On Oct 03, 2012 |
Thumbs up. It can help very wel |
Religion / Re: T.B JOSUA Is A Fake Prophet...? by Harmonyco(f): 7:36am On Sep 05, 2012 |
God ve mercy on u al. Wen Jesus was in d world he was rejected how much more the one He created i dont blame u ppl keep on wallowing in ur ignorance. Anti christ |
Religion / Re: Helen Ukpabio Blasts T.B Josua, Says Demons Give Him Money by Harmonyco(f): 7:19am On Sep 05, 2012 |
How can ppl be so wicked if dat witch Helen does not no wat to say let her sharrap. Emmanueltv ve partners al over the world which i am one of them so let dat witch lady keep mute. |
Romance / Does Ur Partner Ve Trouble Communicating by Harmonyco(f): 1:21pm On Apr 21, 2012 |
Gud communication is very integral 2 a successful r/s.Thoes who share a gud communication process tend 2 njoy a deep nd lovin r/s. Yet many couples 2day face d problem of poor communication nd it is one of d main reasons 4 conflict nd high divorce rate in socity 2day. When two ppl are datin or are married,dey ve 2 interact daily nd closely wit each oda. Dey ve 2 face daily issues nd challenges. It's vital dat dey ve gud communication nd understandin wit each oda 2 tackel dese issues. If a communication gap develops,it may faster into conflict nd den result even in destroyin d r/s completely. Conflict due 2 poor communication has been observed 2 lead clinical depression nd dangerous habits like alcoholism. There are different ways in which partner has trouble communicating nd a gap develops nd widens into conflict. 1. SILENCE ND ASSUMPTION:ur partner witdraws into silence nd adopts d behaviour of a computer hidin his/her true feelins. He is makin assumption abt u nd believes he can read ur mind witout actually communicating. U react 2 dis kind of behaviour by tinkin dat wat he is communicating is "i am'nt interested in d issues"or i ve notin 2 say". Dis gap is d startin of a disagreement nd fight. 2. OPEN DISAGREEMENT: smtimes conflict over certain issues is out there in d open, wit both partners adoptin opposite views on issues. D issues may be as follows:a)i need closeness nd intimacy/i need my space, dont bother me(b)i must ve control over u/dont tel me wat 2 do(c)we must keep secrets/lets discus evytin(d)conflict nd anger should b expressed/dont get angry. 3.COMMITMENT:disagreement also arise if both are not equally commited 2 discusin nd solvin d issues. If one is ready nd d oda complacent, a communication gap develops. 4.CLARITY OF PURPOSE:while discusin an issue,each partner must b clear in his mind abt his aims, intentions, views nd stands, b4 he embarks on d discusion. If u're confused in ur mine abt d issue, u wil ve trouble ammunicating. 5.HIDDEN AGENDA:if ur partner ammunicates wit u a certain issue but has a hidden agenda,d communication is doomed 2 failure. If d hidden agenda comes out in d open, it wil lead 2 frustration nd bitterness nd even destroy d r/s. 6.AWARENESS GAP:very often,d two of u disagree bcuz ur operating @ different awareness levels. Ur awareness level is shaped by ur upbringin,education,xperiences nd values nd dis may b above or below dat of ur spouse wit respect of a particular issue. One of u has 2 come down or rise up 2 d awareness level of d partner,4 proper communication. 7.BODY LANGUAGE/NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION:if u're forced 2 come arnd 2 am opinion,ur body language nd nonverbal actions al give u away, ur stiff, cold, rigid posture or composure belies ur worm speech. 8.GENDER BASED DIFFERENCES:sociologists nd psychologists ve observed a number of fiddsence in d communication patterns of men nd women.Regardin content, men luv 2 report on events give information nd state facts.Women talk 2 gain information nd build r/ss wit does dey talk wit. Men luv 2 talk abt business,politics,technology nd sports but women luv 2 speak abt ppl nd r/ss. Men are obessfe wit facts, women wit feelins. Dats y men complain dat women talk too much nd women complain dat men "does not open up". Regardin d way of talkin men talk 2 d point nd dont hypothesize. Women are ready 2 give details nd 2 speak abt hunches nd intuition. Men are assertive, independent nd objective nd women are cooperative, dependent nd subjective in d mode of communication. 9.ATTEMPTS 2 CHANGE D PARTNER:one of d most common reasons of conflict btw couples is bcuz each one does not accept d difference of d oda nd attempts 2 change nd mould d oda 2 their likin. Dey use harsh communication tools like shoutin, criticizin etc 4 dis purpose, Therapist who wish 2 bridge d communication gap ve suggested d followin methods 2 tackel an issue . Share ur feelins abt d issue . Send clear straight 4ward message . Talk only abt d issue being discused . Acknowledge/validate wat ur partner says . Try 2 see ur partners point of view . Take time 2 kul down nd return 2 talk . Keep d focus on findin a solution. Proper communication is vital 2 any r/s. Couple must learn 2 embrace their differences. Dey must constantly appreciate each oda 2 heal emotional hurts. One must pay attention 2 d partner's words nd empathise wit their point of view. Dey must find a common ground nd arrive @ a consensus. Proper communication is d path 2 true understandin nd intimacy btw couples. |
Car Talk / Re: List the Cars you Have Owned and Post a Photo of your Current Car by Harmonyco(f): 10:04pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
I had a bike but now dis 1966 model
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Religion / Re: TB Joshua - Nollywood To Lose Another Actor Very Soon by Harmonyco(f): 8:08am On Apr 13, 2012 |
Am not suprise if he is d one
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Religion / Re: TB Joshua - Nollywood To Lose Another Actor Very Soon by Harmonyco(f): 7:41pm On Apr 12, 2012 |
One of them is seriously ill by name Prince Uche |
Educational Services / Is There Anyone Here Who's 2012 Utme Is Held by Harmonyco(f): 2:37pm On Apr 01, 2012 |
I tried checking my 2012 utme result but mine is held if anyone is having same experience plz let me no |
Education / Re: No Questions From 'The Potters Wheel' & 'The Successor' In 2012 Jamb by Harmonyco(f): 2:28pm On Mar 29, 2012 |
Story |
Education / Re: No Questions From 'The Potters Wheel' & 'The Successor' In 2012 Jamb by Harmonyco(f): 12:52pm On Mar 29, 2012 |
This is just their normal comprehension, lexis structure and oral forms,opposite in meanin and nearest in meanin stress and so on but in our syllabus dey said dat the two novels carries 25marks |
Education / Re: No Questions From 'The Potters Wheel' & 'The Successor' In 2012 Jamb by Harmonyco(f): 12:35pm On Mar 29, 2012 |
Dats not fair i should ve used dat time to read for other tins cuz i no dat u can neva read 4 an exam and be satisfy until u seat 4 it 1 Like |
Education / No Questions From 'The Potters Wheel' & 'The Successor' In 2012 Jamb by Harmonyco(f): 11:26pm On Mar 28, 2012 |
Plz can any one tell me why jamb told us to read THE POTTERS WHEEL and THE SUCCESSOR and we wasted our time reading that but not even a single question came out of it. |
Food / Re: Funny/Strange Combinations Of Food You Have Eaten Or Seen People Eat? by Harmonyco(f): 9:25pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
Pounded egg wit ogbono soup |
Celebrities / Re: Genevieve Vs Omotola: Who Is More Beautiful Without Makeup? by Harmonyco(f): 11:40am On Jun 23, 2011 |
In dat 1st pic she not wearing any make up gene is no top omo is also gud |
Politics / Re: Enugu Brt To Be Run By Nigeria Made Buses! by Harmonyco(f): 9:09pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Even if u the bus can only last 4 weeks it doesn't matter what matters is @ 5O 9ja can do something like dis and i no we can do even more dan the whites. Three kpoza 9ja. |
Business / Re: What Is The Biggest Amount Of Cash You've Lost? by Harmonyco(f): 10:42pm On May 30, 2011 |
Oh my gosh not now <<SOBS>>¤¤¤ #1O dat was given 2 me then dat i was small by my lovely uncle. [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] |
Celebrities / Re: D Banj Denies Marrying Geneveive In August - Video Interview by Harmonyco(f): 10:25pm On May 30, 2011 |
So if a guy and a girl should talk it means that they are dating or something. Dis is 21st century let us b wise if he says there is no wedding dat means there isn't |
Romance / Re: Leaving My Wife For Another Woman: Your Views by Harmonyco(f): 4:35pm On May 24, 2011 |
Shine ur eyes my brother ur inside water and soap wants 2 enter ur eyes u want 2 leave ur lovely wife and children just bcuz of one stupid woman batter think twice dont even try that @all cuz u wil live 2 regret it |
Romance / Re: What Are Your "five Foundations" Of A Solid Relationship? by Harmonyco(f): 7:06pm On May 22, 2011 |
Communicatio True love Humility Care Intelligency |
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