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ochardbaby:Hehehehhehe. Ok ooo. You try |
ochardbaby:Why is ogun state abi osum state man speaking igbo |
dabrake:Would have been cool if you still do |
ochardbaby:I can cook just about any igbo food, you name it |
ochardbaby:Hehehehhehe. Its not what it means jor........ |
ochardbaby:Biko am an only girl from Anambra oooo with older ones.... I hope you know what that means |
ochardbaby:I can relate..... still my best soup any day, anytime before the popular onugbo ...Bitterleaf soup |
dabrake:Hehehehhehe at them baggy jeans? Are you sure it's 2009? And not further than that? You cleaned up nice though |
ochardbaby:Lol....nsala soup... my best with fresh fish and dry fish..... good soup na money make am |
Hello lovelies, how are we this gorgeous morning....... like I said earlier, anyone of us can bring up a topic that we think needs to be discussed because we are all female and we all face alot of common issues. The topic I want to throw open today is "what do you do when all your friends are getting married and your mum is not helping matters and you don't even have a boyfriend or a reasonable chykers? ". I will run us through my experience. I have a great career and am in my twenties, pretty, ebony and super confident. Am what is called alpha female. As at the beginning of this year I was in a great relationship-two years and counting and then life happened. I thought I was even going to be the first among my folks to jump the broom and say I do.... so shortly after we broke up.... three out of my three closest friends n cousins met their men within a space of 6 months or less and are all married now......so funny...it was like the movies. Then my mum came to intensify the pressure she has been giving me since I was 17. It's like any other success in any aspect of my life doesn't count as long as am still bearing my dad's name. She has made my life a living hell like am the one to go get the husband.... the men go seek out the female. And it's not like she has tried bringing the man and I said no. She keeps judging me based on the number of guys I have met and in the course of getting to know them discovered that we aren't right for each other. With the rate of cheating, killings, domestic violence and broken/unhappy marriages should the society not let people take their time and wait for that one right person. Some are lucky to meet them sooner, others aren't but why should society push us to be marriage crazy without looking for those ingredients that make a good marriage... (when you want to make a good soup you take your time getting the right spices and ingredients else you are stuck with a horrible soup which you will continue to manage till it finishes or throw it away). Reality is I don't want to manage for the rest of my life, I don't want to be unhappy. I want the right one to find me. So ladies and guys how should a lady cope when it looks like her success is measured by her marial status or how beautiful her kids are |
Fiyinfoluwa20:Hi Tried replying your email. Kept bouncing back. You can reach me on ebonycoutures@gmail.com |
waleco2008:Location |
Location? |
zizzo:Can 500k get it? |
Mr tadeus...... can't Someone get a fairly used neat car that isn't golf for around 450k to just be moving within Lagos. .....mainland to island and back. At least an average looking car that won't need fixing up and easy to maintain to maintain and fuel for a low salary earner |
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500k? |
chibecanglobal:Do you have anything within 500k or less range |
What is Efe doing. All I keep seeing is Bisola and Tboss maximizing their fame....... this life ehh... all na strategy to get to the top. |
Please does anyone have the ican pack for fr, tax and audit or acca f7 that they have used and is lying down in their self... help a sister out... anyone in lagos biko |
Rishard:I don't know how this private mail thing works here. Saw the one you sent and tried to reply but it bounced back. If you can drop your email address here, I will get back to you |
Rishard:Most african countries are visa free.... like tanzania, mauritius, Cape verde, even my ghana which is a road trip journey.
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SlowlybtSurely:As a nice and good girl that I am...... Any african country..... either SA or Tanzania or Cape verde |
Rishard:Lol.... make I dey play along naa...... where your ministry dey carry me go biko my brother |
Rishard:Lol..... which city are we hitting...... and me saying who will help my ministry, am talking financials ooooo. |
This is soo cool.... I want a vacation. Who will help my ministry please.#a girl gotta try |
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