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FamilyRe: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(op): 1:18pm On Jul 10, 2018
mrphysics:
Yeah, I think this is the best time to start. But you have to move in with strategy because the competition is high. It's still paying
I will pm you cos I need pointers my brother
FamilyRe: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(op): 8:49am On Jul 10, 2018
bukatyne:
Happy new year.

What is your definition of an 'Alpha female' with examples.
Alpha female has some attributes of a man.... she is usually the glue that holds her friends together.. tge central hub of her friends when she is not there , a vacuum is created... people sometimes thinks she is manipulative.
She stands for what she believes in.... people think she is bossy.

She is very confident and they think her arrogant

She is resilient

She is loyal to the core

She derives joy in extreme self dignity and respect... she doesn't compromise her basic principles

She has a strong personality

Risk takers, always the top of whatever they set their mind to do cos they are strongly determined and never quits.

The female leader

Not scared of being alone.

Etc..... Google has a million other characteristics
FamilyRe: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(op): 8:27am On Jul 10, 2018
mrphysics:
Lol. Kindly PM me. I will send you a book I personally wrote on fiverr. With practicable steps, it has helped people get started comfortably on fiverr.
Note: I DON'T SELL IT. I
Mrphysics, I want to start writing on fiverr for extra income. Any pointers? Please
FamilyRe: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(op): 8:27am On Jul 10, 2018
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FamilyRe: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(op): 8:08am On Jul 10, 2018
Hello people.... good morning.... longest time. How is everyone doing..it's been long.... Today's topic will be short... it's about the "alpha female". I work in a place filled with young people of both sexes and it takes guts and some level of confidence to call the shots... we thrive on confidence hence most of the ladies there are seen as Alpha female.... and for some men that is a turn off to me... "it's hard to date an alpha female... she wi'll be the boss and the man in the relationship" they say.

Ladies are you an alpha female, confident, strong personality , fearless and strongly opinionated, a go getter, independent.... How do you make your relationship work so that your man doesn't feel less of a man.. what kind of guy is well situated for an alpha female and how do you make it work.

Guys in the house... what is your take on dating an alpha female... what are the things she does that shakes your ego and how do you make it work?


The floor is open......... lets share our thoughts
RomanceRe: I Am Getting Married This Year But Yet To Identify My Bride by Harmonyemerald(f): 7:04am On Jun 04, 2018
GeeString:
Please I don't have energy to explain anything.

If you're the bride, pm me.

Thanks in advance.
I am the bride..... u PM me...lol
RomanceRe: What Should I Give My Girlfriend For Her Birthday? by Harmonyemerald(f): 10:55am On Jun 03, 2018
Willexmania:
So, tomorrow is bae's birthday grin and i'm really curious about what to give her.
We'll go on a date and after that i'll give her a gift.
but i don't know what to give my baby for her birthday tomorrow. sad
i really need your advice.
I don't want to buy an inappropriate gift.
what do girls really want as gifts for their birthdays?
can you guys help me?
i would really love the girls to comment because they'll know better. smiley
boys can comment too. grin

my sweetheart really deserves the best and i'm gonna give her just that. kiss

(Mention any type of gift except a car because she has not yet gotten a drivers licence. And don't worry about the budget. cash ain't a problem wink )
A ring would be nice
FamilyRe: Beating Ur Woman Dont Mean You Dont Love Her by Harmonyemerald(f): 7:02am On May 30, 2018
jakandeola:
I feel sad wen I see DAT husband kill wife or wife kill husband in marrage domestic voilent is bad and make marrage brake up but sometimes is neccessary to beat ur woman cos it dosnt mean u dont love her it mean u do but is only to train her. Women act like babies and dey need strong hand and force so dey do wat will let ur relationship grow I Neva said to beat to injured her but just a diciplines for her to become a true woman
1. Is a love beat. Did u knows most women hate a weak man but liek a strong man who can attack her and teach her wats right. Dey first get mad at u but dey later forgive u before DAT u as a guy must play ur part buy her gift to say sorry and enjoy her in rooms

2. It make relationship stronger did u know u become a stronger person wen u face pains u understanding each other beta. My nebo both old married for 42yrs I rember wen am growing up dey fight a lot did u know if u see dem now dey act as 16years in love even when then he beat her a lot they have learn a lot and now love each other. D storm is over. D woman said her husband has not beat her for 20yrs cos d bad things she stop doing and d man stop being voilent
3 I was dating a girl ibo girl for 2years sweet and beautiful but I hate 2tins about her her dressing and DAT when am around she speak her language. I warn her twice she Neva listen d last time I dicipline her. Did u know she got mad at me we Neva talk for 2 weeks until I beg her took her to eatry and shopping. After she promise neva to do DAT for 2year I Neva beat her
In love dere will always be fight but I feel sad wen Apple divorce cos they are coward DAT refuse to use their brain and fight for their love. If I dont give u money it dont mean I dont love u if I dont sex u it dont mean I dont love u u can dicipline Jr woman so she act right and u enjoyed her
You are sick... That's all I have to say.... you self deserve some beating for this write up
LiteratureMy Feelings Penned Down At The Demise Of My Second Mum by Harmonyemerald(op): 8:57am On Feb 05, 2018
Oh death why are thou so cruel?
You mock me, you laugh at me,
They say it's inevitable, how about a little delay?
Would that be too much to ask?
You took her from us without asking if it's okay,
You pulled her when we needed her the most,
And yet people say it's for the best.
Who are they to say that?
How can it be best when my heart is shattered into a thousand pieces.
When I can't feel my heart beat.
And you say it's for the best.
Don't tell me that. You have no right.
You don't know what it feels like and you don't get to tell me it's for the best.
I know what's best for me and it's her in the picture, her laughter, our moments, cooking together, laundry, gisting, she loves to gist and I loved her. I wish I can tell her that I love her, I was never able to.

I feel so numb, I feel weightless, I feel sad
I don't want to feel anything anymore,
Don't tell me sorry, it doesn't help me,
They say tears make you feel better,
I have cried till my eyes hurt,
But the pain in my heart aches so badly and am far from better. The pain is much, almost unbearable
Bring her back to me and I will feel something, anything maybe I will feel alright.
CareerRe: ICAN November 2023 Diet Exam - Let's Meet Here by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:12pm On Jan 17, 2018
Abdomox:
Guys, as promised I now have the scanned pdf version for Professional level.

Pls check at my dropbox link below:

https://www.dropbox.com/s/tijbs5bgpzay8dn/20180117_161633.pdf?dl=0


Kindly note that some pages were not properly arranged cos it was scanned then combined to a pdf file.

I wish you all the best.

I couldn't scan for other levels pls.
Can you snap? Is it at all possible or help someone check.... if yeah... please drop your contact.. Will add u on whatsapp
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!! Clean Peugeot 307 (2008) Model @ 550k by Harmonyemerald(f): 9:37pm On Dec 24, 2017
okpeho:
Mileage is 54920, last price is 500k
Kai...ok. if u decide on 400k , please let me know
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!! Clean Peugeot 307 (2008) Model @ 550k by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:34pm On Dec 24, 2017
okpeho:
Car is buy and drive, you can come with your best mechanic to inspect.
What's d milage? And it's 400k dat I can offer last
LiteratureRe: 50 Shades Of Grey by Harmonyemerald(f): 3:15pm On Dec 24, 2017
TechRev:
Drop ur email i email u the trilogy. Have not finished reading it though.
Nancyikedife@yahoo.com if you still have them please.
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!! Clean Peugeot 307 (2008) Model @ 550k by Harmonyemerald(f): 3:13pm On Dec 24, 2017
okpeho:
Please call: 07031336085 for negotiations. Thanks
Ok... is there any work to be done on it?
AutosRe: SOLD!!!!! Clean Peugeot 307 (2008) Model @ 550k by Harmonyemerald(f): 7:30am On Dec 24, 2017
400k....serious buyer
LiteratureRe: 50 Shades Of Grey by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:09pm On Dec 21, 2017
repogirl:
@born2bleep undt amynamerica, sorry my network has been wack all day, but will send it soon.
Please if you have the book, can you please help send to nancyikedife@yahoo.com
LiteratureRe: 50 Shades Of Grey by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:05pm On Dec 21, 2017
@ aunty repo,pls ma, i need the book 1,2,3. would be glad if i could my email add is
adetitigold@gmail.com
Please if you have the book, can you please help send to nancyikedife@yahoo.com
LiteratureRe: 50 Shades Of Grey by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:05pm On Dec 21, 2017
Abiagirl777:
Pls can you send to Tunalove38@yahoo.com
Please if you have the book, can you please help send to nancyikedife@yahoo.com
LiteratureRe: 50 Shades Of Grey by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:04pm On Dec 21, 2017
Yisolar:
Please, I also need the trilogy. mutiat_amoke@yahoo.com
Please if you have the book, can you please help send to nancyikedife@yahoo.com
LiteratureRe: 50 Shades Of Grey by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:04pm On Dec 21, 2017
Ludmilla:
Pls anybody! Am still waiting 4 d book/link. beebeemicheal@yahoo.com.
Please if you have the book, can you please help send to nancyikedife@yahoo.com
LiteratureRe: 50 Shades Of Grey by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:04pm On Dec 21, 2017
RETROSHAWTY:
Hello repo , pls can you email to me too. stephanie20104real@yahoo.com. thanks
Please if you have the book, can you please help send to nancyikedife@yahoo.com
LiteratureRe: 50 Shades Of Grey by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:03pm On Dec 21, 2017
Epathra:
Plz @ repogirl can I get book 2 and 3. Ptitilayomi@gmail.com. Thanks
Please if you have the book, can you please help send to nancyikedife@yahoo.com
AutosRe: Thinking of Selling Ur Cars? We Market&Sell 10x Faster&Smarter by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:57am On Dec 10, 2017
UklassautosnPro:
No
Ok... but if u happen to have anything around that range, please lemme know
AutosRe: SOLD!!!! Toyota Solara 2002. Buy And Drive 700k by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:24pm On Dec 09, 2017
zinaunreal:
lol. Whatsapp lets negotiate
Your location is phc...mine is lagos though
AutosRe: Lagos: 2001 Toyota Camry @ 700k #lagos #Sold by Harmonyemerald(f): 4:16pm On Dec 09, 2017
bolajinas:
Pls WhatsApp me for inspection and I might possibly buy.... pls whatsapp me on 08023870378...I need it asap
350k?
AutosRe: Thinking of Selling Ur Cars? We Market&Sell 10x Faster&Smarter by Harmonyemerald(f): 4:08pm On Dec 09, 2017
UklassautosnPro:
Do you have a good budget, for a buy and drive used cars in Lagos?

Call us now on 08033409402
400k
AutosRe: SOLD!!!! Toyota Solara 2002. Buy And Drive 700k by Harmonyemerald(f): 4:07pm On Dec 09, 2017
zinaunreal:
Call and negotiate. The car is nice. I just dont need it . Im travelling out
Please naa sow it as a seed to me..... or at least 400k
FamilyRe: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(op): 5:08am On Dec 08, 2017
kristen12:
Marriage pressure is very very real and crazy especially when your parents are not understanding. I never thought it will get to me at all.

My relationship of 5 years got broken because the guy wanted someone from another tribe and it's like I'm starting from the beginning again. Nobody is coming at all.

The one I'm with right now isn't really ready for it cos of money and some other issues and my parents aren't even trying to understand. I've not gotten a job yet and there's no money to start a business and they're talking about marriage.

It's frustrating, wish I could run away and start my life quietly somewhere else.
Hehehehhehe mine is sometimes praying that I wake up with amnesia in a far away place n start over
FamilyRe: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(op): 9:40pm On Dec 04, 2017
bukatyne:
Why are you not seeing reasonable chykers?
No idea
LiteratureRe: Casting Frankline by Harmonyemerald(f): 6:48am On Nov 21, 2017
repogirl:
smiley

Name: Adepeju Amadi

Abuja

Very Married

Safarigirl (I want to write like her when I grow up grin)
Three people pulled me to literature and made me start writing though I barely have time to write now.

Princesa.... think she wrote taking chances. I have read that story about 3 times
Repogirl.
Flowingscene or something like that.. she wrote chocolate and sushi before she started all amazing christian write ups... her blog is bookmarked to my phone. You can feel how crazy she is about God from her writing...
Safarigirl (though I didn't notice her at the time I started but now am so excited seeing a thread by her).
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RomanceRe: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Harmonyemerald(f): 8:05pm On Nov 05, 2017
Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?
Better let the sleeping down lie... Men don't understand things like that especially when you are desperate to want them to understand. Even if he forgives you, he will always have that nagging thought wondering what else you have lied about. In the future, he will always second guess what you say.... this lie has lingered too long that trying to undo it will create alot of harm and no good..... please delete that incident from your brain and move on. Don't start beating drum that you can't dance to
FamilyRe: A Guy Impregnanted My 16 Years Old Sister. by Harmonyemerald(f): 4:25am On Oct 31, 2017
Skipuru:
. I left them since 2014 now I'm going crazy. I want to poison her self.
Please let her marry the man and have the baby... different people with different destiny. You can never tell. She might be too young for marriage but our parents got married at 15 to 18years then. Something God may come out of this. But abortion at 16 is a no no

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