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Romance / Re: Slay Queen Offers Herself As Fake Girlfriend To Guys On Valentine's Day For 5k by Harmthe(m): 8:03am On Feb 08, 2019 |
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Romance / Re: See What Happened Between This Lady And Her Boyfriend In A Bar. Photos by Harmthe(m): 5:10pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: 2019: Atiku’s “think Tank” To Rally Voters For PDP In 774 Lgas by Harmthe(m): 6:56am On Oct 26, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Lecturers, Students Back Atiku/Obi Ticket by Harmthe(m): 8:22am On Oct 18, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: EFCC Obtains Court Order To Detain Fayose For Two Weeks by Harmthe(m): 6:53am On Oct 18, 2018 |
fayose in soup, the reward of knowing how, where and when to fight when you are not fully clean. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: EFCC Digs Deeper, Releases Photos Of Fayose's Houses by Harmthe(m): 6:47am On Oct 18, 2018 |
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Education / Re: UNILAG To Screen New Students For Hard Drugs, Vows To Withdraw Admission If … by Harmthe(m): 5:57pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
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Food / Re: Bread Business In Nigeria; Demystifying The Bakery Industry Myth. by Harmthe(m): 10:22am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Technology Market / Re: Super Clean Iphone 6 64GB For 80k by Harmthe(m): 7:37pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
Investment / Re: Sports Betting: The Success Formula by Harmthe(m): 8:26am On Jul 10, 2018 |
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Sports / Re: Arsenal FC Partner MTN Nigeria by Harmthe(m): 7:21am On Feb 04, 2017 |
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Education / Re: 10 Reasons Why You Should Be A UNILAG Student(+gif) by Harmthe(m): 7:22am On Feb 02, 2017 |
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Romance / Re: 11 Girls Who Look Totally Out Of This World by Harmthe(m): 5:05pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
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Business / Re: 10 Small Business Ideas For Big Cities And Towns In 2017 by Harmthe(m): 7:02am On Jan 11, 2017 |
dis ain't small business 10 Likes |
Romance / Re: Advice Me: My Boyfriend Has Been There For Me But I Love Another Man by Harmthe(m): 10:30am On Jan 05, 2017 |
because am a man I need to be heartbroken after d one she thinks she loves turn her to sex machine, she will still come back to him abi. |
Politics / Re: Stella Oduah Spotted After A Long Absence Following Her Son's Death. by Harmthe(m): 7:42pm On Nov 01, 2016 |
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Sports / Re: Is Arsene Wenger A Failure Or A Success? by Harmthe(m): 10:35pm On Sep 21, 2016 |
am sure Arsen Wenger will be good to bring back Nigeria from recession
am sure Arsen Wenger will be good to bring back Nigeria from recession |
Romance / Re: 5 Lies (most) Women Tell by Harmthe(m): 6:50pm On Aug 06, 2016 |
laughing swahilli after my girlfriend told me dat she is not into money. |
Fashion / Re: Mr Nairaland 2016 - Grand Finale by Harmthe(m): 11:46am On Aug 06, 2016 |
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Romance / 5 Lies (most) Women Tell by Harmthe(m): 8:03pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
In dating and relationships, both men and women tell lies. Most are harmless lies meant to smooth communication or avoid conflict. In my experience, men lie for convenience, while women lie for control. Let me explain. One of the most irritating experiences that you can have as a man is being nagged about doing or not doing this, that, or another thing. Rather than admitting your shortcoming it is much easier to lie. You may do this as a way of putting the issue off until you can actually get it done or as a way of settling the thing all together, so that it won’t be brought up again. When you meet a woman you’re interested in seeing again, you may exaggerate certain features of your life that make you seem more important or more interesting than you actually are. Doing this is an expedient way to keep her interest so that she’ll go out with you again. You may figure—and this is a reasonable assumption—that once she gets to know you better the little white lie that you told will be forgotten. Women lie for different reasons. They do it to assert control over their circumstances, their emotions, and you—their man. Here are 5 of the most common lies that (most) women tell: 1. “I'M NOT MAD AT YOU ” This lie comes in various forms. She may also say something like: “It’s the situation that angers me” or “I’ll get over it. I just need a little time.” Don’t believe it. If you have had a disagreement and she looks upset, then she is upset—at you. She may try to defuse the tension of the moment by pretending that she is not angry with you. But women have very long memories. Whatever transgression you committed to upset her will not be forgotten. She will bring it up at some future date and use it against you, as proof that you are somehow always in the wrong and she always in the right. This will leave you frustrated and flustered and her in a dominant position in the argument. 2. “IT DOESN’T BOTHER ME THAT YOU STARE AT OTHER WOMEN” She may say this just to make herself feel better. But no matter how many times she swears to you that she is not threatened by the sight of you scanning another pair of legs walking by, it’s just not true. Women check out other women more than men do— especially women who are exceptionally beautiful or scantily clad. They pass judgment and make comparisons. She will be bothered by the fact that you, at least for the moment, prefer the tits, legs, or ass of another woman to hers. You will stare. You cannot help it —none of us can. To avoid trouble do it as discreetly as you can. 3. “I’M OKAY WITH SPLITTING THE TAB” Nonsense! She’s not okay with splitting the tab. If you are on a first or second date, you are expected to pay the bill. She may say she’s okay with going dutch just to test you. Or, she may say it because she doesn’t want you to think it’s a proper date. Indeed, this can be one of the tripwires for entering the friend zone. I learned early on how to get around this lie. If she goes to the lady’s just after you’ve finished the meal, ask for the check straightaway and settle the bill. If she doesn’t, then excuse yourself and go to pay the bill yourself rather than waiting for it to be brought to the table. This will put you back in control of the evening. 4. “MONEY DOESN’T MATTER TO ME” It may not matter that much at the start of the relationship, but eventually it will. She will want a house and the means to buy good furniture, clothes, and a vibrant social life. None of this is possible if you can’t make ends meet. The old saying that you should not take a wife unless you have a house to put her in has some truth to it. She may be willing to give you the emotional support you need as you work your way up the corporate ladder. Investing the time and energy that a relationship requires means that she needs to believe in you—both for your sake and hers. However, she will eventually expect you to start bringing in the kind of money that will help her fulfill her material desires. 5. “I’M NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW” And finally, my favorite: “I’m not looking for a relationship right now.” This is the ultimate line of misdirection. If she takes the trouble of saying it, you can be almost certain that she actually believes the opposite. A woman who really is not looking for a boyfriend or is just not in to you personally will simply blow you off. If she has laughed and flirted and made eyes at you and then spouts this line, it probably means: “You have to earn me”. In other words, it’s a challenge—one that you should take if you really like her. www.tsbmag.com/2015/07/24/5-lies-most-women-tell/ |
Fashion / Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Grand Finale by Harmthe(m): 2:10pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - Semi-final by Harmthe(m): 3:01pm On Jun 22, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by Harmthe(m): 11:06am On Jun 21, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by Harmthe(m): 11:06am On Jun 21, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by Harmthe(m): 11:05am On Jun 21, 2016 |
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Fashion / Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 1 by Harmthe(m): 12:46pm On Jun 20, 2016 |
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