DanielAlhassan:
Please I need your help according to doctors report she 3 month pregnant and i calculated the period we had sex it was 2 month ago
Am confused if am responsible for the pregnancy

She has been swearing that for the pass 6 years now she has not had sex with anybody until 2 month ago which she had sex with me

Don't know what to do or believe
I need your advice

I suggest you run another series of pregnancy test at a good Lab to authenticate the result , beacuse your woman might have an agreement with any dokitor ( who does not practice the ethic of the medical profession ) in swindling of your hard earn currency .
And when in doubt: BE BOLD to ask the doctor in charge questions nevertheless you will pay for consultation levy ...
And if you no fit maintain and carry the RESPONSIBILITIES attached to pregnancy: I take Baba God beg you make use of CONTRACEPTIVE it will not eat deep into your purse ..
# don't spread your seeds everywhere when you are not ready ....

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

Well, every relationship or marriage has its negative and postive upturn as long as we live. No one is perfect as well even the Christian Courtship. Don't misquote me please .
I will suggest that you cancel the wedding plans now and use this few period to research more about the ex- boyfriend and other little secrets that were hidden from you, likewise getting to know more about yourselves and plans fo the future . since the relationship is based on Technology Communication Only .
If not satisfied you are free to make decision on staying or leaving. Remember an angel you know is more preferable than the unknown angel..

mugnmuffin:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.

Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.

At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...

Your fears are real and it is better to solve it now before marriage.
Firstly if your man is a DIE-HARD catholic by belief while you are also a DIE-HARD pentacostal christian I will suggest that you leave the relationship immediately because you might be in for an ENDURING MARRIAGE rather than a peaceful one because both religious doctrine differs in nature and that could be a CLASH OF TITIANS because marriage is not only based on the word LOVE but UNDERSTANDING and The God factor .

Peradventure he is a Romantic Catholic just on the lips you could go ahead after all, there is no DENOMINATION in Heaven , those that we make it there are only people with a CLEAN HEART and THEIR GARMENTS UNSTAINED . If you feel you didn't pray well them go back and do so.
Marriage of this modern century is not a MUST for All and Sundry because most people don't endure and settle out LITTLE Things that matters when admitted into the INSTITUTION called MARRIAGE. Please don't JUDGE him because you are not PERFECT in your CHRISTIAN JOURNEY....

Even though you didn't specify your age bracket but I think getting married to a lady at 22 can be likened to" getting married to an underage girl" trust me , a lady at that age is matured physically but not well develop in understanding the course of marriage as an institution let alone life experiences .
You didn't do a well thorough job regarding the "jovial and friendly " personality of your' wife ', I stand here to say that any lady of what any age that is friendly to a male bestie apart from her main guy is an Emotional Cheat which graduates into sexual tension between them ...
The solution to this is either you get to know the
Unknown bestiee in all ramification by imbibing the little secrecy that makes your woman runs to him emotionally through communication by building on this, then educate her more on the pros and cons of marriage as an institution ....

I agree with the term " FOLLOW" your passion and heart in achieving and fulfilling your dreams .... Surely you should but I must remind you that studying "MEDICINE" as a course in Nigerian Universities is not as easy as it sounds.... Especially if you are a lone ranger...
Most students who study this course are either sponsored by their religious organizations, societal clubs , family members , villagers, rich men etc which made the course easy: in return your favours will be required ....

I will like to suggest that you should save enough financially as you embark on the medicine journey because you might not have some spare time for side hustle which leads to frustration, succidal thoughts and withdrawal from study .... Lest you forget with your age blinking in your face ....
In summary it is a great choice , as per it saves Humanity .

Mine was in high school 2, my spouse and I are still together , back then I was not ready to date anyone my hopes were on " E DON BETTER' guy ... So my guy called that he was coming to see me after lectures towards evening I agreed and we fixed the time .... it was not our first eating out ...
He called that he was at the faculty gate waiting , he looked BREATHE-TAKING that I WAS DUMB-STRUCK, because I was with the girls I left him standing at the gate and waved at him , my guy call severally ...
My girls became supscious that he was waiting for me so I denied heaven and earth to avoid criticism and jealous from them and we kept on .... He later walked up to me at the bus stop in which I denied him again ... Then he left unannounced... I felt so foolish that I slapped my face 3times on the road.... I walked home alone
I will like to apologise publicly ,.... That I am INDEED SORRY for the "SHOW-OFF" .... you are truly a RARE GEM ....

You need to be corrected here , that you had a 25mins One Stand with an innocent young woman without make-over and accessories should not be termed 'DEEPERLIFE', there are so many churches that stands with the 'no Make-over look', and moreover she might be a TRUE LovePeddler just to lure you into her Honey pot .... Women could change their characters in getting WHAT THEY WANT ... Do take note and don't forget Delilah in the bible .....
I will state here that a little abstinence from sex during pregnancy prevents you from the unnecessary HBP,GUILT and RESTLESSNESS ....

The first day I fell in love with Neo-Wild programmes about nature and wild animals , I how learnt to respect all animals irrespective of their size, colours and behaviours.
It taught me that I can't create a life neither should I harm any animals without a GOOD REASON, previously i had this backward mindset of witchcraft and wizards using ugly animals as a tool.
No wonder Ventiary Medicine thrives more after general Medicine in the advance world ,every household adopts a pet either wild or common animals in Europe and Asia ....
I plead that you let go of the animal, because no weapon fashioned against you shall prosper ...

grossintel:
So one of my clients wanted to transfer 100k to me for a subscription fee, for some reasons I didn't want him to send it to my main account so I told him I'll send him an account to send the money to.

My girlfriend was with me, so I asked if I could use her account and she agreed. (PS: I use her account number a lot and we've been dating for a long time so I trust her with such amount) . So I told her to send me her account number, but she was watching a movie and requested I check my bank app beneficiaries. I checked and reluctantly copied the account number without checking properly seeing the account name had her surname on it, I didn't check the rest.

My client transferred the money and almost 24hrs my girlfriend still didn't receive the money so I contacted him and he sent a screenshot of the transfer which I forwarded to her. Immediately she saw it she shouted! That's her dads account number, I know I used to send her money through he's account some years back so I saved he's account details. She quickly called him and that's when she heard the shocker.

He said he thought it was he's friend abroad, so they used the money to buy food stuff and what is left is 40k or less, her mom was even pleading if they can send the 40k. My GF has been crying and begging that I should give them time to raise the money or I should sell her phone. Her entire family members have been calling me and I refused to pick, I just want my money back complete.

How can you use money you didn't verify the source in less than 24hrs? Her Mom is a pastor and Father is an elder but this is stealing! Did you call your friend abroad to ask before using the money? Her dad is retired without pention so I know for sure they don't have a way of raising the money.

After much pleading I asked her to tell them to send the 40k and send the rest before the week runs out, that's when they told her they can't do transfer and it has to be on Tuesday. At this stage, I just concluded they spent all that money, I'm trying to stay calm but at the same time not be foolish. My friend is asking me to involve the police but this will certainly hurt my relationship. Please how should I follow this matter, I need mature advice please. 100k is not something I can dash anyone right now.

Inasmuch as you love your spouse and will like to elope her in the future, I understand how bad you need the money but don't forget in the future , ou will spend more than this ...
I will suggest let safe between your woman and inlaw ,they might reduce the

saintbillion:
Ladies If A Guy Approaches You, Where Will You Look At First?
Guys come and watch ooooooo.

A woman who know her worth without feeling oppressor by the opposite gender considers the following as requirements
His speech (well constructed with no errors )no telling his whole history in five mins and lies to gains the lady
His comportment ( humility and respect and how he receive calls )
His nails, his haircut..... his body fragrance not all sweaty with natural odour Cleanliness
Lastly his behaviour towards people within the environment where we are .....
I have nothing to do with his member for now until when we are compatible....

tonye33:
It's going to be a fun filled Easter for us after our trap surprised us with this Easter Antelope.. biggest I've ever seen

My heart bleed for this lovely creature , if it is not dead I will recommend that you breed it for personal and commercial use as a second source of financial income but if una no want am I will prefer it being eaten by humans than the big cat family in the forest ....
Anyway bring it to my private test lab for health recommendation and covid 19 test result oooo..

Steady259:
Share Your Experience; What Annoying Thing Has A Visitor Done In Your House

Well at one point or the other in our lives we have all been delighted to welcome new visitor or stranger into our own home. But some visitors tends to over-stay their welcome by doing bizzare and absurd things that you ultimately regret or you wish you never opened you door to them in the first place.

Let's learn from our experiences, what has a visitor ever done in your home that annoyed you or you find absurd.


Mods please do the needful.

Well , mine was a church member who visited based on evangelism outreach she use my restroom and bathroom with my soap and fragrance at once , come enter kitchen carry the last rice with the biscuit bone way dey inside pot dey knack the thing for my eyes.... after the enjoyment, she come talk say make me give am drink, to crown it all sleep carry this madam on top my mattress till 7pm ,after that she come dey beg for transport fee from my hand...

exsodus:
I honestly don't know where to start from, but all I can say is that I'm madly in love with my boss at the office. I always think of her any time I see her pass by.
Sometimes I think I should just walk up to her office and confess my love for her but I know this might cost me my job. Please advise me on how to get her attention and also convey m
y feelings to her

She is all yours, in the next few months don't come online wailing as a result of the after effect on your lust hunting ...